| 12/16/2012 6:20:17 AM |
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lildleilani808
Kaneohe, HI
28, joined Oct. 2012
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On dating sites all you see is the positive but everyones got something they could do better in relationships! So what do you think are your flaws?
Mine? I either give too little effort or give my all! Need to work on balance.
Im too honest and apparently guys dont wanna hear the truth....?
Ur turn 
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| 12/16/2012 2:16:16 PM |
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poke2daypoi2mrw
Mililani, HI
28, joined Nov. 2012
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In a serious relation, there's nothing you'd rather hear than the truth. It all depends on how you present the truth. No body wants to hear, oh u fat try workout. Or you dress like a bum. There's a right way you can say it, for example: Honey boy, you got a nice face, a six pack would go good with that. Something like that.
My flaws.. I'm still figuring them out. I've only been in 3 real relationships. I've had lil something something's in between, but I wouldn't really consider them a relationship. During those 3(which each of them were over 3+ years) I've noticed that they've all eventually went crazy. It's not that I lie. I don't play mind games. But they always got really attached. It's not a bad thing, until all the accusations and assumptions. My relationships are like magic for the year or so. Then we could be at the mall one day and a girl would compliment my hair or say I have nice style or an old friend would see me and come say hi. Then it's all "whose that huh?" And if the person has a baby, "is that your baby?"... Auwe.. I mean I would introduce you as my girlfriend if you don't run off and start peeking through the clothes racks. "Why do you smell like perfume Hanan?" I gave my mom a hug, she wears perfume. I do my best to comfort them and explain, but they always end up just trying to get revenge over something that never happened. I mean I haven't been able to find a date in 10 months. I don't think I could cheat if I wanted to.
So what's my flaws? Judging by how hard it is for me to find a decent date, I must be bellow most girls standards. So the ones that do go for me must already have some major insecurities and it rubs off during the relationship. Either that or my loving is so amazing it makes them go crazy lol. I doubt that though. Perhaps I just need to figure out ways to let them know how serious I am about them. I would bring them around my family more, but my sisters are Divas!
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| 12/16/2012 10:11:51 PM |
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lildleilani808
Kaneohe, HI
28, joined Oct. 2012
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Im not sure what to say...sorry! Sounds like your gfs have given you alot of trouble! I have had my problematic relationships too! To be honest I have seen exs get crazy like that and ive given them no reason to be that way so I leave because I dont deserve it PS maybe ur lovin IS that amazing hahaha u should have asked
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| 12/29/2012 7:05:30 PM |
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rad_sin86
Kahuku, HI
31, joined Aug. 2010
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Same for me...but now I don't give a damn
[Edited 12/29/2012 7:07:50 PM ]
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| 2/24/2013 10:57:17 PM |
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acesface
Honolulu, HI
36, joined Feb. 2013
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Had a serious LTR 6years 30% wonderful 70% misery. we ended it. I stayed away from women for 1 year and just worked on self. started dating again and I feel everyone is rushing out of a relationship and into a new one with all the same unresolved issues from their last man. its 3 years later and still havent settled. Im glad I know my worth but my body defys logic. im in gear for velocity.
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| 4/6/2013 3:04:31 PM |
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alexa111
Springfield, OH
22, joined Feb. 2013
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Coz he won't message me back ):
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| 4/12/2013 1:35:03 PM |
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irene808
Honolulu, HI
46, joined Jan. 2013
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I have such bad luck in relationships. I don't know if it's because I work so much or you don't like a workaholic because I give you so much time to play the field. Or maybe simply you're not cut out for a strong woman.
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| 4/16/2013 4:10:23 AM |
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shaynehawk
Kaumakani, HI
24, joined Apr. 2013
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My ex-girlfriend cheated on me, when we were in a relationship. 
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| 4/20/2013 9:26:10 PM |
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jrupp0604
Stoughton, MA
68, joined May. 2011
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I think guys have to find us women. It is a long waiting game. 
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| 5/1/2013 6:17:45 AM |
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lildleilani808
Kaneohe, HI
28, joined Oct. 2012
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I have such bad luck in relationships. I don't know if it's because I work so much or you don't like a workaholic because I give you so much time to play the field. Or maybe simply you're not cut out for a strong woman.
Everyone in a relationship wants attention and time. It is one of the most important things you can give..well most people in a relationship..diamonds work apparently lol. I dont know about the guys you have dated but the ones I have dated probably wouldnt believe i was at work all the time...i dont know...maybe its just my ex boyfriends or all men who assume first that your cheating if you dont hound them....like women only harass men and stalk them 
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| 5/1/2013 6:24:34 AM |
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lildleilani808
Kaneohe, HI
28, joined Oct. 2012
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Same for me...but now I don't give a damn
You have a really pretty face and look like a cutesy type of person who smiles alot...so i doubt you dont give a damn. I still care. My relationships have all been rough but I have had a few good ones...I havent given up that there is someone who will make me smile when i only want to cry...so I am here in hopes that i wont die alone as a dog lady 
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| 6/18/2013 8:02:23 PM |
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rx7boi
Waianae, HI
32, joined Jun. 2013
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I work too much (6 days a week). On my day off I'm to lazy to try, It's so comfortable to stay home and sleep... I do get that lonely feeling once in a great while but meh whatevers...
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| 6/20/2013 5:00:54 AM |
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malino58
Pearl City, HI
43, joined Sep. 2012
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I used to plan for our future and didn't realize what was right there that needed to be fixed. Basically worked so much so I was just tired when I was off. As for now I don't plan ahead I just make sure my kids are provided for and taken cared of along with making the extra days with then once in awhile. Now days I really do stop to smell the roses and see the colors of the rainbow as some will say.
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