| 12/27/2012 2:19:59 PM |
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sparky3012
Tacoma, WA
36, joined Dec. 2012
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You ever look at a profile and think to yourself they are out of my league. So you don't say anything because of the fear of rejection.
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| 12/27/2012 4:07:53 PM |
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drtty_lilsecret
University Place, WA
45, joined Dec. 2012
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All the time ..... Sadly
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| 12/27/2012 5:09:42 PM |
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whynot_1977
Puyallup, WA
39, joined Oct. 2012
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I can relate
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| 12/27/2012 5:23:39 PM |
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aegishjalmer
Orting, WA
27, joined Sep. 2011
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i Still try, i fail. i get up and try again. Out of my league or not, if they never give a chance to let my personality outshine my looks, then i guess its just their loss in the end.
At least thats the only way we can afford to look at it 
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| 12/27/2012 5:45:09 PM |
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dameon82
McMinnville, OR
34, joined Dec. 2012
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You'd be surprised how far confidence will get you, you should speak ANYWAYS. What's the worse that can happen, they say "no thanks" or don't respond? Oh well, this is all online
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| 12/27/2012 6:52:02 PM |
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candyloves84
Black Diamond, WA
32, joined Dec. 2012
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If you fall down do you stay down? No you get back up. Rejection is completely normal. You never know unless you try. If there's something in their profile that catches your attention say so. 
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| 12/27/2012 8:43:26 PM |
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sparky3012
Tacoma, WA
36, joined Dec. 2012
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Yep try and try again. What have you got to lose.
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| 12/27/2012 10:41:37 PM |
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nutmeag333
Kent, WA
30, joined Aug. 2012
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all the time! sometimes i message ppl, and end up with a harsh let down as a reply:-\
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| 12/28/2012 12:37:55 AM |
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fun4king
Tacoma, WA
48, joined Sep. 2011
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All the time!
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| 12/28/2012 3:21:47 AM |
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sparky3012
Tacoma, WA
36, joined Dec. 2012
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So for the new year lets stop doing that. It does feel crappy to get rejected. I got it a couple times and was like " what the hell" like I'm not good enough. But it wasn't too bad cause it is all online. Not like it's to your face.
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| 12/28/2012 3:29:46 AM |
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coineflatt
Tacoma, WA
48, joined Nov. 2012
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You'd be surprised how far confidence will get you, you should speak ANYWAYS. What's the worse that can happen, they say "no thanks" or don't respond? Oh well, this is all online
Please take the kid out of the picture. Too many weirdos. 
Yes, confidence. 
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| 12/31/2012 3:31:32 AM |
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chris_t_gagnon
Auburn, WA
44, joined Dec. 2012
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yay its another meat market where people judge you just like on the other sites.
I get so tired of being passed over .Im easy to talk to just message me and ask.
so many get passed up for SWAG Im like
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| 12/31/2012 3:33:35 AM |
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chris_t_gagnon
Auburn, WA
44, joined Dec. 2012
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I get that allot too but mainly they don't date white guys.
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| 12/31/2012 1:58:55 PM |
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good_dr
Spokane, WA
53, joined Dec. 2011
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I don't know about out of my league, but when it comes to miles between reality really bites. Now some that I see here that I have seen in other places I'll send a private hello too though, but that is by no means hitting on them.
I've just more or less given up on anything real come from the net anyways. I still send out a few hello's here and there, now and then. Mostly though, let them contact me if they have any interest.
Being a single parent 24/7 doesn't make dating easy. More like quality time visit to see if there is something that clicks. Not even sure what a date really is now days. Oh well.
Never the less as far as league goes. Is there really such a thing? If someone has their nose too high in the are it's their loss and not mine.
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| 1/3/2013 12:26:56 PM |
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chris_t_gagnon
Auburn, WA
44, joined Dec. 2012
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Is it just me or do a lot of guys get hit on by women looking for instant daddys for there kids?
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| 1/3/2013 2:36:36 PM |
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aubryjenae420
Gig Harbor, WA
24, joined Aug. 2012
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Is it just me or do a lot of guys get hit on by women looking for instant daddys for there kids?
Yah because they are all desperate to have the fairy tale life that just doesn't exist.
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| 1/5/2013 3:50:57 AM |
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t0n1o
Prosser, WA
36, joined Dec. 2011
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I get rejected alot.. the moment they either find out Im a full time single dad of three kids or that i want to take things slow an see how it goes they completly stop talkin with me.. as for those that are out of my league, i do message some but for the most part i dont..
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| 1/8/2013 9:59:13 PM |
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aegishjalmer
Orting, WA
27, joined Sep. 2011
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I was taught by the men at civil war re-enactments when i was a kid.
"Beautiful women usually think they're ugly because no one will come talk to them because no man thinks he's good enough for her"
So i don't let looks rule my choice on who to talk to. If i can handle rejection from this last one, i can take the rejection of a beauty queen, it's the same result either way. And if they're attractive, then they may get treated like shit since the only ones brave enough to approach them are players. It never hurts to go in and show who you are.
And a guy like me is so weird we stand out in a crowd of people, so i use it to my advantage 
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| 1/9/2013 1:51:56 PM |
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t0n1o
Prosser, WA
36, joined Dec. 2011
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I was taught by the men at civil war re-enactments when i was a kid.
"Beautiful women usually think they're ugly because no one will come talk to them because no man thinks he's good enough for her"
So i don't let looks rule my choice on who to talk to. If i can handle rejection from this last one, i can take the rejection of a beauty queen, it's the same result either way. And if they're attractive, then they may get treated like shit since the only ones brave enough to approach them are players. It never hurts to go in and show who you are.
agrees with this ^^^
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| 1/10/2013 4:02:20 AM |
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hottieinnw12
Bellingham, WA
28, joined Dec. 2012
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All the time!
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| 1/11/2013 5:21:28 AM |
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slickfingers88
Tacoma, WA
28, joined Jan. 2013
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I bet that girl would think differently when you show her your wallet, like boom! ... But that girl isnt wifey material keep that in mind, work hard play harder all day 
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| 1/11/2013 8:30:29 AM |
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xobey88x
Centralia, WA
22, joined Oct. 2012
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Ha No 
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| 1/11/2013 1:42:18 PM |
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t0n1o
Prosser, WA
36, joined Dec. 2011
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I bet that girl would think differently when you show her your wallet, like boom! ... But that girl isnt wifey material keep that in mind, work hard play harder all day
that may be true.. but the only problem with that is My wallet has nothin!!.. damn thing is prbbly worth more the wat little cash i got in it..  
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| 1/11/2013 4:36:38 PM |
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islandia8
Tacoma, WA
52, joined Jan. 2013
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Never
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| 1/11/2013 4:46:43 PM |
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slickfingers88
Tacoma, WA
28, joined Jan. 2013
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You ladys are speaking for your selfs, witch is good there are some who keep it 100. but we both know about them gold diggers.
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| 1/11/2013 8:06:30 PM |
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islandia8
Tacoma, WA
52, joined Jan. 2013
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Really military man? I'm glad u know the gold diggers ... I do too.
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| 1/12/2013 2:34:42 AM |
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slickfingers88
Tacoma, WA
28, joined Jan. 2013
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Ouch.... Blue collar here, work my bunz off sweety
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| 1/12/2013 8:36:15 AM |
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islandia8
Tacoma, WA
52, joined Jan. 2013
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@ slickfingers.... Don't work too hard, remember to have lots of fun.
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| 1/12/2013 5:03:40 PM |
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slickfingers88
Tacoma, WA
28, joined Jan. 2013
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Got the "don't work to hard" part down, but having some trouble having the fun... Thanks though and same to you
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| 1/13/2013 7:19:04 AM |
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islandia8
Tacoma, WA
52, joined Jan. 2013
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You're a cutie slickfingers!!!
Thanks for the
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| 1/13/2013 2:15:15 PM |
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taichilass
Newtown, CT
43, joined Aug. 2012
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i Still try, i fail. i get up and try again. Out of my league or not, if they never give a chance to let my personality outshine my looks, then i guess its just their loss in the end.
At least thats the only way we can afford to look at it
This says it all
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| 1/21/2013 8:30:47 PM |
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oldmannewlove
Pasco, WA
66, joined Sep. 2011
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yeah I still ask em if you don't ask you don't get anything, never can tell you might get lucky
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| 1/24/2013 9:29:15 PM |
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patson51
Marysville, WA
66, joined Nov. 2012
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I'm glad someone thinks it's worth a try. I'm not so sure anymore. All I'm getting are guys whose English is not their primary language. 
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| 2/4/2013 11:55:39 AM |
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hellokittyjapan
Kaiserslautern
Germany
30, joined Jul. 2012
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YES. I just wish that when I send someone a message that they would at least read the damn thing. LOL
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| 2/4/2013 9:38:35 PM |
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jondeanmike
Burlington, WA
63, joined Feb. 2013
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Do be afraid to strike up a conversation. The worst they can say is "no" and it becomes their loss. A no won't kill ya. Just means they become a name to cross off your list, Nothing more.
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| 2/5/2013 1:52:10 PM |
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dollface2488
Houston, TX
29, joined Jul. 2012
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You'd be surprised how far confidence will get you, you should speak ANYWAYS. What's the worse that can happen, they say "no thanks" or don't respond? Oh well, this is all online
This def
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| 2/11/2013 12:25:44 AM |
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americka31
Lakewood, WA
33, joined Feb. 2013
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Out of my league? I don't believe that theory. No one is really "better" then anyone else. And if your focusing on appearance instead of content, the relationship wouldn't work.
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| 2/13/2013 3:17:57 PM |
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muahyourface
Spokane, WA
32, joined Jan. 2013
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i think if you look past a person's looks you will find something inside them that you can bond with but as a species it's almost programmed in us to be attracted to the person first before we want to connect on a higher level..it'd be better if people gave other people a chance not based on their looks but then such things as "love at first sight" wouldn't exist..which is pretty much lust anyway lol
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| 3/1/2013 11:29:29 PM |
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lorenec79
Port Angeles, WA
56, joined Apr. 2012
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Why in the world would anybody think that another human being is "out of their league". If you think that, then are you saying that you feel your not good enough? Please!!!! We're all THE SAME!!! I don't care where you came from, how you were brought up, how you live your life right now, whether or not you have a job that pays minimum wage or one that pays a million dollars an hour, whether or not you drive a Pinto or a BMW. Is that what defines someone? Are any of you going to say that someone isn't good enough for you because of money or what kind of job they have? If you are, then you need to build up your self esteem, your better than those thoughts. "Stuff" doesn't make us who we are, you make who you are, and every single person who thinks someone is "out of their league", believe me, their not. 
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| 4/7/2013 9:35:14 PM |
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bryun75
Port Angeles, WA
42, joined Mar. 2013
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You are Totally out of my league Lore n who the hell meets in person, and then talks on a dating site... LOL.. I gotta get back in there!
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| 4/8/2013 10:50:34 PM |
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noteasy1
Spanaway, WA
76, joined Apr. 2011
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probably being the oldest one in on this conversation
all i can say is......GO FOR IT !
chances you are going to be surprized at the outcome......dont give up .
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| 4/10/2013 8:16:05 PM |
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buckyisback
Sunnyside, WA
41, joined Aug. 2012
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You ever look at a profile and think to yourself they are out of my league. So you don't say anything because of the fear of rejection.
I think just about everybody does that.
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| 4/10/2013 9:09:55 PM |
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good_dr
Spokane, WA
53, joined Dec. 2011
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Maybe I've said this before, but I'll say it again. No sugar coating. If that is what they think. It's their loss....... Next
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| 5/22/2013 12:57:59 AM |
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kat7711
Spanaway, WA
39, joined Dec. 2012
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Lol that is funny why would you think that ever? People are people no matter what. I would be worried about talking to someone like you to do your Self esteem issues! Not sexy come on!
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| 5/22/2013 6:08:54 AM |
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mysteriouscyn
Syracuse, NY
46, joined Feb. 2012
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That mostly sounds a bit depressing.
I have stayed out of here because, the few times I've checked, there was nobody posting.
Hello everyone.
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| 5/22/2013 11:46:06 AM |
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mtnhomewoody
Walla Walla, WA
43, joined May. 2013
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Confidence is the key to opportunity.
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| 5/22/2013 1:19:28 PM |
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honeybadger206
Port Orchard, WA
34, joined Nov. 2012
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Never ! Not online everybody fair game lol but i think sometime people should know if they have a realistic chance or not with a person, from there real life experinces . From this website i sure get a lit of overweight moms trying to holla , not really my cup of tea but , i know in real lifei dont ever see em in the club trying to holla lol only online but it all good i.guess
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| 5/26/2013 11:14:19 PM |
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oldlady4oldman
Tacoma, WA
98, joined Jun. 2012
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Yes, I have definitely encountered people whom I felt were "out of my league" but that is not from any lack of self confidence or self-esteem. It is from MATURITY, EXPERIENCE and the knowledge that comes from education and acknowledging REALITY and the differences in values, culture and social circles and their concurrent expectations, responsibilities, and priorities that are RADICALLY different among different groups. It DOES NOT all have to do with how much money you have!!
You may think you would be happy but I know I WOULD NOT BE HAPPY in a social circle that had MUCH, MUCH different ideas of what was vitally important and whose priorities for conduct were radically different than those I was raised to conform to. I would also not be comfortable around people whose education in what they considered important made me look stupid compared to them. I am NOT stupid, generally or in the social circles in which I choose to move. I do not wish to CHANGE MY VALUES, PRIORITIES or standards in order to either move UP OR TO MOVE DOWN the social ladder.
So, NO I have no interest in people I deem "out of my league" (I am NOT a social climber) and I ALSO will not compromise my standards to move DOWN the social scale.
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| 6/14/2013 1:00:49 AM |
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maya_angelou
Kent, WA
33, joined Jun. 2013
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I totally believe that... I always think of it like the dude from King of the Hill that everyone think is a ladies man.. Boomhower I think.. until Bobby found out his trick. He asked a tons of girl until one says yes then he would bring her home and voila. For me no one is out of my league... I have class, smart, funny, laid back, totally understanding. My flaw just happens to be in plain sight... I need to lose a few pounds to which I am working on. I have pulled plenty of 10's because I always speak my mind and those who are worth it.. yeah they reply
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| 6/14/2013 9:18:04 PM |
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careno
Lakewood, WA
28, joined Jul. 2011
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You ever look at a profile and think to yourself they are out of my league. So you don't say anything because of the fear of rejection.
Never. My choice to contact a woman is almost purely based on the text in there profile.
If there is no indication of at least some shared interest or an IQ above 60 then why bother.
I enjoy chatting, but every message I send always ends up being someone not interested in me enough to carry a conversation... you know, the 1 line replies. BLAH.
Don't know why I bother with these dating sites -.-
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| 6/20/2013 3:38:05 PM |
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downtowntacoma
Tacoma, WA
48, joined Apr. 2013
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Not so much as out of my league but Oh boy she looks good but what a lot of effort for that. Way too high maint. or hoighty toighty airs to them and ones that come across as full of themselves.
What can I say it's the working class neanderthal in me.
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| 7/21/2013 2:28:07 AM |
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madridwlove
Lacey, WA
34, joined Jun. 2013
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What's really frustrating is when I see that guy that I could've sworn would've been out of My league married to someone who Isn't even in the same league as me. And then realizing it's probably cuz that female had the balls to go after him because of the confidence in herself.
Which then just drives the point home that sad and lonely is my life. Fml.
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| 7/24/2013 12:20:22 AM |
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harleyko19
Tacoma, WA
27, joined Jan. 2013
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Nope! You never know. What's the worst that could happen? ... they don't respond! Lol
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| 7/24/2013 10:00:48 PM |
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mpg6378
Lacey, WA
38, joined Jan. 2013
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This def
That's easy for you to say, your fine! Not all the ladies on here as pretty
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| 8/17/2013 7:48:43 AM |
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jfox509
Shelton, WA
36, joined Aug. 2013
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If you want it badly enough you will get it that's how I see it!!
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| 8/17/2013 7:50:53 AM |
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jfox509
Shelton, WA
36, joined Aug. 2013
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You know what if a women wants attention and gets on a site like this at least put a pic of yourself up. You never know who is watching or looking it could be the one!!
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| 8/17/2013 12:52:20 PM |
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deathpunchchick
Seattle, WA
28, joined Aug. 2013
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It's all about confidence. I think lots of people lack it and if you get over that first step, other opportunities would be easier.
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| 8/18/2013 12:31:17 AM |
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daisymaple82
Bremerton, WA
35, joined Aug. 2013
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I used to....but now I know that what I lack physically I more than make up for in personality...I'm awesome and any man would be lucky to have me
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| 8/21/2013 10:24:14 AM |
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islandia8_2
Tacoma, WA
51, joined Jun. 2013
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Lol that is funny why would you think that ever? People are people no matter what. I would be worried about talking to someone like you to do your Self esteem issues! Not sexy come on!
I agree with you. It's all about the self esteem. I couldn't care less is a busboy or a CEO of a company hit on me, I am always attracted to whoever has the self esteem and chemistry (or spark in their their eyes).
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| 8/22/2013 5:07:04 PM |
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marriedncheatin
Twin Falls, ID
50, joined Jul. 2012
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You ever look at a profile and think to yourself they are out of my league. So you don't say anything because of the fear of rejection.
no woman is outta my league..I don't care if she's lava hot or average it just doesn't matter to me...I'll still talk to her..why not..I mean most women like the personality more than looks
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