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12/27/2012 2:19:59 PM Out of your league...  
sparky3012
Tacoma, WA
36, joined Dec. 2012


You ever look at a profile and think to yourself they are out of my league. So you don't say anything because of the fear of rejection.




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12/27/2012 4:07:53 PM Out of your league...  
drtty_lilsecret
University Place, WA
45, joined Dec. 2012


All the time ..... Sadly

12/27/2012 5:09:42 PM Out of your league...  
whynot_1977
Puyallup, WA
39, joined Oct. 2012


I can relate

12/27/2012 5:23:39 PM Out of your league...  
aegishjalmer
Orting, WA
27, joined Sep. 2011


i Still try, i fail. i get up and try again. Out of my league or not, if they never give a chance to let my personality outshine my looks, then i guess its just their loss in the end.

At least thats the only way we can afford to look at it

12/27/2012 5:45:09 PM Out of your league...  

dameon82
McMinnville, OR
34, joined Dec. 2012


You'd be surprised how far confidence will get you, you should speak ANYWAYS. What's the worse that can happen, they say "no thanks" or don't respond? Oh well, this is all online

12/27/2012 6:52:02 PM Out of your league...  
candyloves84
Black Diamond, WA
32, joined Dec. 2012


If you fall down do you stay down? No you get back up. Rejection is completely normal. You never know unless you try. If there's something in their profile that catches your attention say so.

12/27/2012 8:43:26 PM Out of your league...  
sparky3012
Tacoma, WA
36, joined Dec. 2012


Yep try and try again. What have you got to lose.

12/27/2012 10:41:37 PM Out of your league...  
nutmeag333
Kent, WA
30, joined Aug. 2012


all the time! sometimes i message ppl, and end up with a harsh let down as a reply:-\

12/28/2012 12:37:55 AM Out of your league...  
fun4king
Tacoma, WA
48, joined Sep. 2011


All the time!

12/28/2012 3:21:47 AM Out of your league...  
sparky3012
Tacoma, WA
36, joined Dec. 2012


So for the new year lets stop doing that. It does feel crappy to get rejected. I got it a couple times and was like " what the hell" like I'm not good enough. But it wasn't too bad cause it is all online. Not like it's to your face.

12/28/2012 3:29:46 AM Out of your league...  

coineflatt
Over 2,000 Posts (2,990)
Tacoma, WA
48, joined Nov. 2012


Quote from dameon82:
You'd be surprised how far confidence will get you, you should speak ANYWAYS. What's the worse that can happen, they say "no thanks" or don't respond? Oh well, this is all online


Please take the kid out of the picture. Too many weirdos.

Yes, confidence.



12/31/2012 3:31:32 AM Out of your league...  

chris_t_gagnon
Auburn, WA
44, joined Dec. 2012


yay its another meat market where people judge you just like on the other sites.
I get so tired of being passed over .Im easy to talk to just message me and ask.
so many get passed up for SWAG Im like

12/31/2012 3:33:35 AM Out of your league...  

chris_t_gagnon
Auburn, WA
44, joined Dec. 2012


I get that allot too but mainly they don't date white guys.

12/31/2012 1:58:55 PM Out of your league...  
good_dr
Spokane, WA
53, joined Dec. 2011


I don't know about out of my league, but when it comes to miles between reality really bites. Now some that I see here that I have seen in other places I'll send a private hello too though, but that is by no means hitting on them.

I've just more or less given up on anything real come from the net anyways. I still send out a few hello's here and there, now and then. Mostly though, let them contact me if they have any interest.

Being a single parent 24/7 doesn't make dating easy. More like quality time visit to see if there is something that clicks. Not even sure what a date really is now days. Oh well.

Never the less as far as league goes. Is there really such a thing? If someone has their nose too high in the are it's their loss and not mine.

1/3/2013 12:26:56 PM Out of your league...  

chris_t_gagnon
Auburn, WA
44, joined Dec. 2012


Is it just me or do a lot of guys get hit on by women looking for instant daddys for there kids?

1/3/2013 2:36:36 PM Out of your league...  
aubryjenae420
Gig Harbor, WA
24, joined Aug. 2012


Quote from chris_t_gagnon:
Is it just me or do a lot of guys get hit on by women looking for instant daddys for there kids?


Yah because they are all desperate to have the fairy tale life that just doesn't exist.

1/5/2013 3:50:57 AM Out of your league...  

t0n1o
Prosser, WA
36, joined Dec. 2011


I get rejected alot.. the moment they either find out Im a full time single dad of three kids or that i want to take things slow an see how it goes they completly stop talkin with me.. as for those that are out of my league, i do message some but for the most part i dont..

1/8/2013 9:59:13 PM Out of your league...  
aegishjalmer
Orting, WA
27, joined Sep. 2011


I was taught by the men at civil war re-enactments when i was a kid.

"Beautiful women usually think they're ugly because no one will come talk to them because no man thinks he's good enough for her"

So i don't let looks rule my choice on who to talk to. If i can handle rejection from this last one, i can take the rejection of a beauty queen, it's the same result either way. And if they're attractive, then they may get treated like shit since the only ones brave enough to approach them are players. It never hurts to go in and show who you are.

And a guy like me is so weird we stand out in a crowd of people, so i use it to my advantage

1/9/2013 1:51:56 PM Out of your league...  

t0n1o
Prosser, WA
36, joined Dec. 2011


Quote from aegishjalmer:
I was taught by the men at civil war re-enactments when i was a kid.

"Beautiful women usually think they're ugly because no one will come talk to them because no man thinks he's good enough for her"

So i don't let looks rule my choice on who to talk to. If i can handle rejection from this last one, i can take the rejection of a beauty queen, it's the same result either way. And if they're attractive, then they may get treated like shit since the only ones brave enough to approach them are players. It never hurts to go in and show who you are.


agrees with this ^^^

1/10/2013 4:02:20 AM Out of your league...  
hottieinnw12
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (29,290)
Bellingham, WA
28, joined Dec. 2012


All the time!

1/11/2013 5:21:28 AM Out of your league...  

slickfingers88
Tacoma, WA
28, joined Jan. 2013


I bet that girl would think differently when you show her your wallet, like boom! ... But that girl isnt wifey material keep that in mind, work hard play harder all day

1/11/2013 8:30:29 AM Out of your league...  
xobey88x
Centralia, WA
22, joined Oct. 2012


Ha No

1/11/2013 1:42:18 PM Out of your league...  

t0n1o
Prosser, WA
36, joined Dec. 2011


Quote from slickfingers88:
I bet that girl would think differently when you show her your wallet, like boom! ... But that girl isnt wifey material keep that in mind, work hard play harder all day


that may be true.. but the only problem with that is My wallet has nothin!!.. damn thing is prbbly worth more the wat little cash i got in it..

1/11/2013 4:36:38 PM Out of your league...  

islandia8
Over 2,000 Posts (3,326)
Tacoma, WA
52, joined Jan. 2013


Never

1/11/2013 4:46:43 PM Out of your league...  

slickfingers88
Tacoma, WA
28, joined Jan. 2013


You ladys are speaking for your selfs, witch is good there are some who keep it 100. but we both know about them gold diggers.

1/11/2013 8:06:30 PM Out of your league...  

islandia8
Over 2,000 Posts (3,326)
Tacoma, WA
52, joined Jan. 2013


Really military man? I'm glad u know the gold diggers ... I do too.

1/12/2013 2:34:42 AM Out of your league...  

slickfingers88
Tacoma, WA
28, joined Jan. 2013


Ouch.... Blue collar here, work my bunz off sweety

1/12/2013 8:36:15 AM Out of your league...  

islandia8
Over 2,000 Posts (3,326)
Tacoma, WA
52, joined Jan. 2013


@ slickfingers.... Don't work too hard, remember to have lots of fun.

1/12/2013 5:03:40 PM Out of your league...  

slickfingers88
Tacoma, WA
28, joined Jan. 2013


Got the "don't work to hard" part down, but having some trouble having the fun... Thanks though and same to you

1/13/2013 7:19:04 AM Out of your league...  

islandia8
Over 2,000 Posts (3,326)
Tacoma, WA
52, joined Jan. 2013


You're a cutie slickfingers!!!
Thanks for the

1/13/2013 2:15:15 PM Out of your league...  
taichilass
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (19,520)
Newtown, CT
43, joined Aug. 2012


Quote from aegishjalmer:
i Still try, i fail. i get up and try again. Out of my league or not, if they never give a chance to let my personality outshine my looks, then i guess its just their loss in the end.

At least thats the only way we can afford to look at it

This says it all

1/21/2013 8:30:47 PM Out of your league...  

oldmannewlove
Pasco, WA
66, joined Sep. 2011


yeah I still ask em if you don't ask you don't get anything, never can tell you might get lucky

1/24/2013 9:29:15 PM Out of your league...  

patson51
Marysville, WA
66, joined Nov. 2012


I'm glad someone thinks it's worth a try. I'm not so sure anymore. All I'm getting are guys whose English is not their primary language.

2/4/2013 11:55:39 AM Out of your league...  
hellokittyjapan
Kaiserslautern
Germany
30, joined Jul. 2012


YES. I just wish that when I send someone a message that they would at least read the damn thing. LOL

2/4/2013 9:38:35 PM Out of your league...  
jondeanmike
Burlington, WA
63, joined Feb. 2013


Do be afraid to strike up a conversation. The worst they can say is "no" and it becomes their loss. A no won't kill ya. Just means they become a name to cross off your list, Nothing more.

2/5/2013 1:52:10 PM Out of your league...  

dollface2488
Over 2,000 Posts (3,053)
Houston, TX
29, joined Jul. 2012


Quote from dameon82:
You'd be surprised how far confidence will get you, you should speak ANYWAYS. What's the worse that can happen, they say "no thanks" or don't respond? Oh well, this is all online



This def

2/11/2013 12:25:44 AM Out of your league...  

americka31
Lakewood, WA
33, joined Feb. 2013


Out of my league? I don't believe that theory. No one is really "better" then anyone else. And if your focusing on appearance instead of content, the relationship wouldn't work.

2/13/2013 3:17:57 PM Out of your league...  
muahyourface
Spokane, WA
32, joined Jan. 2013


i think if you look past a person's looks you will find something inside them that you can bond with but as a species it's almost programmed in us to be attracted to the person first before we want to connect on a higher level..it'd be better if people gave other people a chance not based on their looks but then such things as "love at first sight" wouldn't exist..which is pretty much lust anyway lol

3/1/2013 11:29:29 PM Out of your league...  
lorenec79
Port Angeles, WA
56, joined Apr. 2012


Why in the world would anybody think that another human being is "out of their league". If you think that, then are you saying that you feel your not good enough? Please!!!! We're all THE SAME!!! I don't care where you came from, how you were brought up, how you live your life right now, whether or not you have a job that pays minimum wage or one that pays a million dollars an hour, whether or not you drive a Pinto or a BMW. Is that what defines someone? Are any of you going to say that someone isn't good enough for you because of money or what kind of job they have? If you are, then you need to build up your self esteem, your better than those thoughts. "Stuff" doesn't make us who we are, you make who you are, and every single person who thinks someone is "out of their league", believe me, their not.

4/7/2013 9:35:14 PM Out of your league...  
bryun75
Port Angeles, WA
42, joined Mar. 2013


You are Totally out of my league Lore n who the hell meets in person, and then talks on a dating site... LOL.. I gotta get back in there!

4/8/2013 10:50:34 PM Out of your league...  
noteasy1
Spanaway, WA
76, joined Apr. 2011


probably being the oldest one in on this conversation
all i can say is......GO FOR IT !
chances you are going to be surprized at the outcome......dont give up .

4/10/2013 8:16:05 PM Out of your league...  
buckyisback
Sunnyside, WA
41, joined Aug. 2012


Quote from sparky3012:
You ever look at a profile and think to yourself they are out of my league. So you don't say anything because of the fear of rejection.




I think just about everybody does that.

4/10/2013 9:09:55 PM Out of your league...  
good_dr
Spokane, WA
53, joined Dec. 2011


Maybe I've said this before, but I'll say it again. No sugar coating. If that is what they think. It's their loss....... Next

5/22/2013 12:57:59 AM Out of your league...  
kat7711
Spanaway, WA
39, joined Dec. 2012


Lol that is funny why would you think that ever? People are people no matter what. I would be worried about talking to someone like you to do your Self esteem issues! Not sexy come on!

5/22/2013 6:08:54 AM Out of your league...  
mysteriouscyn
Over 4,000 Posts! (7,007)
Syracuse, NY
46, joined Feb. 2012


That mostly sounds a bit depressing.

I have stayed out of here because, the few times I've checked, there was nobody posting.

Hello everyone.

5/22/2013 11:46:06 AM Out of your league...  
mtnhomewoody
Walla Walla, WA
43, joined May. 2013


Confidence is the key to opportunity.

5/22/2013 1:19:28 PM Out of your league...  

honeybadger206
Port Orchard, WA
34, joined Nov. 2012


Never ! Not online everybody fair game lol but i think sometime people should know if they have a realistic chance or not with a person, from there real life experinces . From this website i sure get a lit of overweight moms trying to holla , not really my cup of tea but , i know in real lifei dont ever see em in the club trying to holla lol only online but it all good i.guess

5/26/2013 11:14:19 PM Out of your league...  
oldlady4oldman
Tacoma, WA
98, joined Jun. 2012


Yes, I have definitely encountered people whom I felt were "out of my league" but that is not from any lack of self confidence or self-esteem. It is from MATURITY, EXPERIENCE and the knowledge that comes from education and acknowledging REALITY and the differences in values, culture and social circles and their concurrent expectations, responsibilities, and priorities that are RADICALLY different among different groups. It DOES NOT all have to do with how much money you have!!

You may think you would be happy but I know I WOULD NOT BE HAPPY in a social circle that had MUCH, MUCH different ideas of what was vitally important and whose priorities for conduct were radically different than those I was raised to conform to. I would also not be comfortable around people whose education in what they considered important made me look stupid compared to them. I am NOT stupid, generally or in the social circles in which I choose to move. I do not wish to CHANGE MY VALUES, PRIORITIES or standards in order to either move UP OR TO MOVE DOWN the social ladder.

So, NO I have no interest in people I deem "out of my league" (I am NOT a social climber) and I ALSO will not compromise my standards to move DOWN the social scale.

6/14/2013 1:00:49 AM Out of your league...  
maya_angelou
Kent, WA
33, joined Jun. 2013


I totally believe that... I always think of it like the dude from King of the Hill that everyone think is a ladies man.. Boomhower I think.. until Bobby found out his trick. He asked a tons of girl until one says yes then he would bring her home and voila. For me no one is out of my league... I have class, smart, funny, laid back, totally understanding. My flaw just happens to be in plain sight... I need to lose a few pounds to which I am working on. I have pulled plenty of 10's because I always speak my mind and those who are worth it.. yeah they reply

6/14/2013 9:18:04 PM Out of your league...  
careno
Lakewood, WA
28, joined Jul. 2011


Quote from sparky3012:
You ever look at a profile and think to yourself they are out of my league. So you don't say anything because of the fear of rejection.


Never. My choice to contact a woman is almost purely based on the text in there profile.
If there is no indication of at least some shared interest or an IQ above 60 then why bother.

I enjoy chatting, but every message I send always ends up being someone not interested in me enough to carry a conversation... you know, the 1 line replies. BLAH.

Don't know why I bother with these dating sites -.-

6/20/2013 3:38:05 PM Out of your league...  
downtowntacoma
Tacoma, WA
48, joined Apr. 2013


Not so much as out of my league but Oh boy she looks good but what a lot of effort for that. Way too high maint. or hoighty toighty airs to them and ones that come across as full of themselves.

What can I say it's the working class neanderthal in me.

7/21/2013 2:28:07 AM Out of your league...  

madridwlove
Lacey, WA
34, joined Jun. 2013


What's really frustrating is when I see that guy that I could've sworn would've been out of My league married to someone who Isn't even in the same league as me. And then realizing it's probably cuz that female had the balls to go after him because of the confidence in herself.
Which then just drives the point home that sad and lonely is my life. Fml.

7/24/2013 12:20:22 AM Out of your league...  
harleyko19
Tacoma, WA
27, joined Jan. 2013


Nope! You never know. What's the worst that could happen? ... they don't respond! Lol

7/24/2013 10:00:48 PM Out of your league...  
mpg6378
Lacey, WA
38, joined Jan. 2013


Quote from dollface2488:
This def


That's easy for you to say, your fine! Not all the ladies on here as pretty

8/17/2013 7:48:43 AM Out of your league...  

jfox509
Shelton, WA
36, joined Aug. 2013


If you want it badly enough you will get it that's how I see it!!

8/17/2013 7:50:53 AM Out of your league...  

jfox509
Shelton, WA
36, joined Aug. 2013


You know what if a women wants attention and gets on a site like this at least put a pic of yourself up. You never know who is watching or looking it could be the one!!

8/17/2013 12:52:20 PM Out of your league...  
deathpunchchick
Seattle, WA
28, joined Aug. 2013


It's all about confidence. I think lots of people lack it and if you get over that first step, other opportunities would be easier.

8/18/2013 12:31:17 AM Out of your league...  
daisymaple82
Bremerton, WA
35, joined Aug. 2013


I used to....but now I know that what I lack physically I more than make up for in personality...I'm awesome and any man would be lucky to have me

8/21/2013 10:24:14 AM Out of your league...  
islandia8_2
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,219)
Tacoma, WA
51, joined Jun. 2013


Quote from kat7711:
Lol that is funny why would you think that ever? People are people no matter what. I would be worried about talking to someone like you to do your Self esteem issues! Not sexy come on!


I agree with you. It's all about the self esteem. I couldn't care less is a busboy or a CEO of a company hit on me, I am always attracted to whoever has the self esteem and chemistry (or spark in their their eyes).

8/22/2013 5:07:04 PM Out of your league...  
marriedncheatin
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (14,804)
Twin Falls, ID
50, joined Jul. 2012


Quote from sparky3012:
You ever look at a profile and think to yourself they are out of my league. So you don't say anything because of the fear of rejection.
no woman is outta my league..I don't care if she's lava hot or average it just doesn't matter to me...I'll still talk to her..why not..I mean most women like the personality more than looks