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moos_19
Houston, TX
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Some women hug a man sideways. Some women hug a man with full breast touching man's chest. Is there a "message" there??
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1/15/2013 4:09:41 PM |
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fuzy_wuzy

West Yellowstone, MT
62, joined Aug. 2011
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Tender nipples
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1/15/2013 4:09:43 PM |
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dorval

Danville, IL
97, joined May. 2009
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yes.
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1/15/2013 4:12:00 PM |
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horsedyck
Inglewood, CA
38, joined Jan. 2013
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Usually if a chick hugs you it means she's DTF. Otherwise she won't even look at you.
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1/15/2013 4:14:35 PM |
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fun2bchattin

Hedgesville, WV
49, joined Feb. 2011
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Her boobs itched? 
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1/15/2013 4:14:36 PM |
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sharonorahs2

Wilmington, NC
50, joined Jul. 2012
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maybe you have a big belly in the way
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1/15/2013 4:14:54 PM |
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moos_19
Houston, TX
33, joined Jan. 2013
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So if she hug me with full breast.....what is that telling me??
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1/15/2013 4:17:54 PM |
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moos_19
Houston, TX
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maybe you have a big belly in the way
Barely. Just beer-weight from occasional drinking.
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1/15/2013 4:17:54 PM |
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crazyme64
Lomira, WI
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Hug? Whats that? I don't even remember when I even had one. I am sure I've had one or two, but I don't remember when it was even.
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1/15/2013 4:21:16 PM |
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moos_19
Houston, TX
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Well, it ain't nothing. Here, in my dirty mind, I thought full-breast hugs meant: I'd f**k you if I knew you.
Sideway hugs: I'm being cordial, business-like and not interested in you.
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1/15/2013 4:23:11 PM |
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cococharms1976

Intercourse, PA
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So if she hug me with full breast.....what is that telling me??
She wants to do it chicken style
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1/15/2013 4:23:45 PM |
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dnic77034
Pasadena, TX
56, joined Jun. 2011
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Hell when she hugs you head on, slip your hands down and squeeze her butt.... You'll find out REAL QUICK!!!
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1/15/2013 4:25:54 PM |
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alishababy
Framingham, MA
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I'm going to say yes.
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1/15/2013 4:34:45 PM |
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moos_19
Houston, TX
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Hell when she hugs you head on, slip your hands down and squeeze her butt.... You'll find out REAL QUICK!!! 
.....and very succinctly. 
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1/15/2013 4:37:48 PM |
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mysteriouscyn

Syracuse, NY
45, joined Feb. 2012
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If a guy goes in for a hug and I'm not so interested, he's not gettin' full frontal....lol.
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1/15/2013 4:45:34 PM |
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browniwoman
Thompson, CT
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Personally the tell is in the chest to chest hug.... if it's it's off centered at all..... she is being polite...
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1/15/2013 4:49:37 PM |
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moos_19
Houston, TX
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Her boobs itched? 
Now, that would be something. Hug me and shake it on me to relieve an itch.

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1/15/2013 4:51:55 PM |
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cococharms1976

Intercourse, PA
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I have the odd reflex of kicking a guy in the nuts when he touches my boobs.
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1/15/2013 4:54:31 PM |
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aggiegirl11
Waco, TX
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If a guy goes in for a hug and I'm not so interested, he's not gettin' full frontal....lol.
^ this
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1/15/2013 4:56:45 PM |
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tjl503

Portland, OR
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The a** out hug while turning her face means don't kiss me. A full on hug doesn't mean shit, lean in for the kiss and that's when you will find out how she's really feeling.
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1/15/2013 4:58:18 PM |
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tgr65

Wildwood, NJ
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I have the odd reflex of kicking a guy in the nuts when he touches my boobs.
I'll be sure to go for the a** then...good lookin out!
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1/15/2013 4:58:29 PM |
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luceeve
West Memphis, AR
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@ moos
I hug family members, friends & those I am not interested in side ways.
Those that I see in a different light I hug full on & usually add a light kiss on the cheek or neck.
Hope that helps.....
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1/15/2013 4:59:13 PM |
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musicdesign

Moodus, CT
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The a** out hug while turning her face means don't kiss me. A full on hug doesn't mean shit, lean in for the kiss and that's when you will find out how she's really feeling.
Mostly agree, but sometimes you don't have time to turn your head and end up being kissed. I think if there are repeated kisses and plans to see each other again, that means more.
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1/15/2013 5:06:54 PM |
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moos_19
Houston, TX
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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1/15/2013 5:07:02 PM |
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sherri_

Erlanger, KY
55, joined Aug. 2009
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Hell when she hugs you head on, slip your hands down and squeeze her butt.... You'll find out REAL QUICK!!! 
Now you're just TRYIN' to get him hurt by one of us um...forthright...chicks.
OTOH, he might be the kind that likes that.
OP: I wouldn't do that to a fella I didn't know well or have that kind of relationship with. Not all fellas are wanting a woman to rub her boobs on him, ya ken? Just like not all women are okay with a fella using his chest to cop a chest-grope. Women shouldn't assume it's okay, just as fellas shouldn't.
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kearrabeautiful
Las Vegas, NV
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Usually if a chick hugs you it means she's DTF. Otherwise she won't even look at you.
So not true.
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1/15/2013 5:08:42 PM |
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sherri_

Erlanger, KY
55, joined Aug. 2009
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I have the odd reflex of kicking a guy in the nuts when he touches my boobs.
Use your hand; you have better control and it's a lot harder to block. Kicking is just an all around bad move.
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1/15/2013 5:09:01 PM |
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patordave

Potsdam, NY
34, joined Jul. 2012
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Thanks ladies..i had a gut feeling a full frontal hug ment something more than i side hug.
Huh..just learned something new today!
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1/15/2013 5:20:25 PM |
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moos_19
Houston, TX
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Now you're just TRYIN' to get him hurt by one of us um...forthright...chicks.
OTOH, he might be the kind that likes that.
OP: I wouldn't do that to a fella I didn't know well or have that kind of relationship with. Not all fellas are wanting a woman to rub her boobs on him, ya ken? Just like not all women are okay with a fella using his chest to cop a chest-grope. Women shouldn't assume it's okay, just as fellas shouldn't.
Oh, I'm very well mannered. Usually I don't do hugs with women because of the high potential of sexual harassment, assault etc. I watch their lead. If they leaning in for a hug, I'm always positioned to turn sideways and put my one of my arms behind their back and lean in slightly with a hug. That's it.
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1/15/2013 7:25:27 PM |
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drpgreendragon1
Bakersfield, CA
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I have no clue but it's possible that there's something about that maybe they are copping a feel or maybe they are just like that don't jump to conclusion that would be bad if you think theirs something there but it's not 
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1/15/2013 7:41:34 PM |
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kclady41

Kansas City, MO
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sideways means she is not interested in you and just being polite ( most of the time if its date#1)
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1/15/2013 7:44:55 PM |
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moos_19
Houston, TX
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sideways means she is not interested in you and just being polite ( most of the time if its date#1)
One of the few direct answers I got.

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1/15/2013 7:48:46 PM |
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kclady41

Kansas City, MO
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Well if i meet someone and i am not into it and want to get the helll out i do the side hug LOL 
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kclady41

Kansas City, MO
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She wants to do it chicken style
That made me snort my margrita
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1/15/2013 8:01:05 PM |
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turtledove4u

York, PA
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Personally the tell is in the chest to chest hug.... if it's it's off centered at all..... she is being polite...
I have given off centered hugs by mistake...came in from a bad angle or something. 
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1/15/2013 9:32:46 PM |
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kit101964

Wautoma, WI
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Well if i meet someone and i am not into it and want to get the helll out i do the side hug LOL 
If I met someone and wasn't into it, they didn't get a hug period. I'm picky about who I let into my space!
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1/15/2013 9:38:08 PM |
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sofetch12

Willingboro, NJ
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Not at all. I give out hugs to both guys and girls. No sideways hugs, thats just weird/awkward and is very impersonal (especially to those you are close with). I'm not implying anything more, all it means is that I appreciate them and am happy to see them or wish them the best as they leave.
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1/15/2013 9:57:05 PM |
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moos_19
Houston, TX
33, joined Jan. 2013
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@sofetch,
**bear hug with a tight grip to the chest**

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1/15/2013 10:00:00 PM |
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max811

Palmetto, FL
36, joined Aug. 2010
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Sideways she doesn't really want to hug you or you stink.
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1/15/2013 10:08:53 PM |
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dorval

Danville, IL
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So if she hug me with full breast.....what is that telling me??
if you are going to hug someone, make it a full body hug..........otherwise shake their hand.
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1/15/2013 10:13:23 PM |
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moos_19
Houston, TX
33, joined Jan. 2013
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@max....must have had a lot of experience to know that.

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1/15/2013 10:16:23 PM |
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max811

Palmetto, FL
36, joined Aug. 2010
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@max....must have had a lot of experience to know that.
 No just common sense.
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1/15/2013 10:19:02 PM |
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fiery_beauty

Antioch, TN
58, joined Nov. 2010
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Some women hug a man sideways. Some women hug a man with full breast touching man's chest. Is there a "message" there??
Well, for me it means either the boobs touch you or else we're at arm's length. Just sayin'....
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1/15/2013 10:20:09 PM |
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mikeinrancho

San Diego, CA
39, joined Aug. 2010
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I don't think I have had a women hug me sideways
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1/15/2013 10:23:31 PM |
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allwillbefine
Edmond, OK
48, joined Dec. 2012
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Maybe you just had something on your shirt and she wasn't thrilled about putting her nose into it?
I think you may be trying to read to much into things. If you are just meeting a person and they give you a hug at all consider yourself lucky. Not all women want to hug someone that they are just meeting. Others are willing to give a simple friendship type hug (or the side hug) because maybe they are unsure of where the whole thing might lead. The answer is...it all depends on that ONE person and how they view the style of hug.
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1/16/2013 12:01:56 AM |
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wedrose
Garden Grove, CA
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A sideway hugs to me seems to send a message that you do not care for the person because you are barely touching them.
A full frontal hug gives the impression that you are happy to see the person and not hesitant to show affection towards them.
That's my opinion though it can be something different for someone else
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1/16/2013 12:43:09 AM |
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dramafreedoinme
Lake Elsinore, CA
33, joined Dec. 2011
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A sideway hugs to me seems to send a message that you do not care for the person because you are barely touching them.
A full frontal hug gives the impression that you are happy to see the person and not hesitant to show affection towards them.
That's my opinion though it can be something different for someone else
Do women see it the same way when men give them hugs?
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1/16/2013 1:12:41 AM |
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wedrose
Garden Grove, CA
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Guys tend to give both type of hugs
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sinnofmen
Hackensack, NJ
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no message...its just a personal preference i believe...
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1/16/2013 2:23:56 AM |
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moos_19
Houston, TX
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Well I do admit, I learn something about hugging. To some women, it means something the way they hug you or let men hug them.
What I can conclude, there is no general consensus if a woman hug you frontal or sideways, to mean anything concrete.
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1/16/2013 2:29:10 AM |
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mysteriouscyn

Syracuse, NY
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If I like the guy and am attracted, I'll hug. Sometimes they'll pull you in, so I slide to the side if I can.
I am not one of those people that touch everyone all the time. I am very physical, just not with casual acquaintances or strangers.
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1/16/2013 2:30:30 AM |
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whoshotjohn12

Cameron, OK
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If I like the guy and am attracted, I'll hug. Sometimes they'll pull you in, so I slide to the side if I can.
I am not one of those people that touch everyone all the time. I am very physical, just not with casual acquaintances or strangers.
slide to the side? Are you afraid of boners?
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1/16/2013 2:31:32 AM |
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amargosa

Riddle, OR
58, joined Aug. 2011
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They are conscious about their boobs touching you. It is a silly thing for them to worry about.
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1/16/2013 2:35:10 AM |
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mysteriouscyn

Syracuse, NY
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No, usually if he drags you in, he gropes or squeezes the hell out of you...lol. Although, that does happen, Whoshot...lol
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1/16/2013 2:36:53 AM |
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whoshotjohn12

Cameron, OK
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Oh. I usually lean forward at the waist and hug necks so my boner does not touch anyone when I hug.
ETA....boners do scare some women.
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mysteriouscyn

Syracuse, NY
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1/16/2013 5:56:53 AM |
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get2knowme67

Universal City, TX
49, joined Dec. 2012
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Many women hug a man a certain way when she is only friends with him or does not know him well yet,& that is the hug that is a friendly one, NOT a full-embrace hug. When a woman knows a man better or is dating him or interested in him for dating, then she may give the kind of hug that is an embracing kind of hug.
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1/16/2013 6:04:31 AM |
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isawyou2

New York, NY
55, joined Jun. 2011
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Hell when she hugs you head on, slip your hands down and squeeze her butt.... You'll find out REAL QUICK!!! 
Christian ways? 
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1/16/2013 6:12:24 AM |
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th6231

Point Pleasant Beach, NJ
68, joined Jul. 2007
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HUGGING--has disappeared in this area. the lovey dovey types that hug and pick lint off of people--have been warned a million times--DON'T VIOLATE PEOPLES PERSONAL SPACE---I can remember DON'T TOUCH ME--and SWINGING ARMS SAYING --YOU ARE IN MY SPACE..!! Screw it--just shake hands or wink or something other than hugging.
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1/16/2013 2:48:40 PM |
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sunsuri

Gainesville, FL
50, joined Jul. 2012
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I actually never payed attention to that. I will next time.
I would guess if she hugs you touching the chest its more personal.
Side ways could mean she is not a hugger and needs practice. 
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