7/21/2013 3:29:39 PM |
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fez214
Olathe, KS
25, joined Jul. 2013
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Who should start the conversation first the guy or the chick ,if the guy stars the conversation by sending the message is highly that the girl will just ignore the guy, wouldn't be easier if the girl started the conversation first she will have a better chance of having compatibility with the guy. Does this make sense?
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7/22/2013 2:14:42 AM |
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fez214
Olathe, KS
25, joined Jul. 2013
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Maybe It doesn't matter , but I can't help thinking that if a guy messages a girl she is going to think at the back of her head that this guy just wants to get laid. Girls do get hit on alot so they got a wider pool of suitors to choose from.
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7/23/2013 12:39:17 PM |
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fez214
Olathe, KS
25, joined Jul. 2013
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About timing? What do you mean by that. Oh also if things are going well who should ask for the number first?
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7/24/2013 8:51:25 PM |
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kansascuddler
Derby, KS
40, joined Jul. 2013
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I think it does not really matter, if someone is interesting message them.. does not matter if the man or the woman makes first contact.
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7/25/2013 7:57:21 PM |
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scrnprntr
Manhattan, KS
31, joined Jul. 2013
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Unless you're extremely attractive and the chic is shallow, or you're average and she's desperate, you're probably never gonna get a message first. Guys are gonna put more BS in their profile than a girl would, just to make them appear more "compatible". Meaning, girls have a lot more to choose from. So the chance of you getting randomly messaged by a girl that is genuinely interested in you, is slim.
Timing? If it "works out" because of timing, its because you're bored or don't really care.
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7/25/2013 10:13:11 PM |
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kansascuddler
Derby, KS
40, joined Jul. 2013
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why do you say that Ozzy?
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12/19/2013 6:57:39 PM |
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now_its_on
Clarksville, TN
40, joined Nov. 2013
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12/19/2013 7:10:46 PM |
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sweetgypsygurl
Wichita, KS
35, joined Apr. 2011
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Dammit.
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1/2/2014 8:40:27 AM |
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wheatfarmer1680
Downs, KS
57, joined Aug. 2012
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Wow such negativity.... I personally do email guys every so often because I think they said something witty in their profile or for a myriad of other reasons.
Im not a perfect 10, more of a 7.5 but I'm not desperate... Lol. Sometimes I go invisible just to stop the notes. It's hard to shop, when everyone is asking you what you want!
I even answer notes, at least the first one... .... Most of the time ...
I stay pretty busy in RL so hard to give DH a lot of attention sometimes.
PS- I'm going to go send scrnprntr a note!!!! LoL
That can't be true bludawn, If that was a true statement, THEN WHY IN THE HELL HAVEN'T YOU BEEN CONTACTING ME THEN! HUH!!! hahaha
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1/6/2014 11:35:21 PM |
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sunshinenbubble
McPherson, KS
38, joined May. 2011
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The person who is interested should message first. Gender is irrelevant.
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2/1/2014 10:19:23 PM |
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bigironm
Stafford, KS
54, joined Mar. 2013
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If it weren't for me sinding women sarcastic letters like tickle your a** with a feather
I wouldn't get any messages
its plane to see women on date sights are just looking for prince charming that lives no more than a mile away
understandable I wouldn't pack up and move for anyone
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3/11/2014 8:16:02 PM |
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sweetgypsygirl
Wichita, KS
40, joined Sep. 2013
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[Edited 3/11/2014 8:16:22 PM ]
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3/13/2014 8:56:54 PM |
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dreamweaver888
Wichita, KS
30, joined Sep. 2013
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Obviously the guy
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4/3/2014 12:57:44 AM |
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sweetgypsygurl
Wichita, KS
35, joined Apr. 2011
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I don't like being messaged so I would like to be the one sending them. If I see you and I find you attractive, I'll message.
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5/5/2014 3:40:42 AM |
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bigg5takkz_620
Elkhart, KS
32, joined Apr. 2014
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hi ther
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5/15/2014 2:33:38 PM |
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mwblack40
Wichita, KS
45, joined Aug. 2011
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i have found that very few messages ever get returned on here, women on here are looking for the next best thing not to settle with someone. if you really want to get replies you can lie and put on your profile that you are filthy rich, from dealing with women on tagged, meet me, ok cupid, and here if you got money they could give two cents about what you look like. if you don't want to mess with those type of women, be honest and maybe someone will notice your profile. good luck.
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5/24/2014 12:10:45 AM |
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sassybass1
Wichita, KS
44, joined Oct. 2013
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I say the guy. Just my opinion and yes I have been told I'm old fashioned.
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5/30/2014 3:58:41 PM |
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brady64
Great Bend, KS
52, joined May. 2013
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I can see you don't get many , hopefully not all men are desperate. put that in your pipe and smoke it.
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