| 7/19/2008 4:17:28 PM |
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mlk2008
Brimfield, MA
age: 89
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OK. It's good to know you got standards. However, there are things that men expect from you women as well.
1. Relax and enjoy yourself.
2. Go with the flow.
3. Allow things to take a natural course
4. Talk about anything that the two of you can relate to.
When I date, I am not just there to pay for her dinner. I am there to get acquainted with that individual. To she what she's about and what she has in store for a relationship, friendship, or whatever I am trying to develop with the girl.
Of course having a toungue down your throat may not be the best thing, but take is as, "hey, I'm really in to you. I think you're good peoples."
Any flirting they give shows interest. Unless you'd rather go out with someone who think you're not interesting and you ain't worth crap.
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| 7/21/2008 9:40:36 PM |
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kwietkptkatie
Las Vegas, NV
age: 39
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When they really just wanted to get off of their couch and come sit on yours!
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| 7/21/2008 10:49:10 PM |
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th6231
Point Pleasant Beach, NJ
age: 61 online now!
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I would think that a first few dates would be the insight to what a person is like. NO hints needed. If the discussions are not good--if the hands are getting grabby---then there should be no further need to date that person. There are just as many females with man hater stories--bad relationship stories---and whatever else could be bad in the early stages of a relationship. If both parties are mature and experienced in life--exercize some control and try to turn the bad into good--at least long enough to get thru the date. Then gracefully turn down subsequent requests. It is your right to say no.
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| 7/23/2008 9:52:27 AM |
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mrbigstuff617
Boston, MA
age: 32
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Do not talk about marriage, Do not talk about your ex, do not ask me to smoke pot with you, dont try jamming your tongue down my throat,  and definitely do not talk about sex sex sex.  Hey I love sex too but theres a time and a place. And most important do not talk about yourself too much.  I just feel like being a "dr phil" today. Just the mood IM in. Well I'm just speaking for myself,  and what turns me off. Just trying to give the guys a few tips. And If you have a few tips for me also. I would love to hear them. And please dont be mean, I'm just being honest. 
never be late on your first date, allow the man to take charge by doing all of the planning, and always try to make it a point to meet his mother, 'cause the way he treats his mother, will be a clear indication, of how he is going to treat you
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| 7/24/2008 1:11:19 PM |
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sparkpup
Scottsdale, AZ
age: 24
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body odor, uncaring about how you present yourself, too quiet, snobby, rudeness, the usual I guess.
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| 7/24/2008 1:15:09 PM |
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ydouask2dogs
Sherman, TX
age: 44
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talking about your ex, talking about your kids nonstop, never asking anything to even try to get to know me..bye bye
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| 7/30/2008 3:17:52 PM |
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trinasixx
Atlanta, GA
age: 29
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1. Stay at home with mom
2. Stuck on ex
3. Cell phones
4. Bad hygiene
5. No job
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| 7/30/2008 3:19:23 PM |
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pink_rose
Rockland, MA
age: 30
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talking about ex girlfriends and what they have done for them
cell phones
body odor
talking about themselves too much
burping and farting
drinking and smoking the herb too much
should I continue???? lol
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| 7/30/2008 6:59:02 PM |
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laurie0925
Albuquerque, NM
age: 46
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When your companion is unable to carry any type of conversion and their responses are all monotone. Geez, if the email and chat sessions were worth an in-person meet then please be prepared to have a conversation.
Chewing on your fingers isn't a good sign either, LOL.
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| 8/1/2008 6:01:46 AM |
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stringsvrs
Syracuse, NY
age: 52
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 Happy Friday Morning Everyone
I am not certain if I qualify to speak on this subject as I have not had many first dates in the regards of beginning a long term relationship, which I have only enjoyed 2 in my life-time thus far.
Turn Off's, hmmm, when she wants to play with my G-string  (JK)
Perhaps a turn off for me is If I do not feel compatible with the lady in the areas of Mutual Agreements, Interests and Physical Attraction. I believe these areas are in need of compatibility for a LTR.
I am not a person for a One Night Stand...I could get that from a lady of the night for a few bucks cheaper than a night on the town.
A serious date ender for me is if she drives inconsiderately and has road-rage qualities.
Thank you and Do have a Great Day
[Edited 8/1/2008 6:02:40 AM]
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| 8/1/2008 7:31:55 AM |
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purity_62508
Lubbock, TX
age: 19
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 dont tell me cheesy lines to up your odds of getting laid on the first or second date, dont try and be someone that your not in hopes of impressing me, dont lie to me about anything i will leave your a** hanging, dont order for me i cant do that on my own, dont bring up your ex-girlfriends or sex, dont go to fast we just met!!!!
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| 8/1/2008 7:40:53 AM |
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kenb5b01
Northport, WA
age: 44
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Happy Friday Morning Everyone
I am not certain if I qualify to speak on this subject as I have not had many first dates in the regards of beginning a long term relationship, which I have only enjoyed 2 in my life-time thus far.
Turn Off's, hmmm, when she wants to play with my G-string (JK)
Perhaps a turn off for me is If I do not feel compatible with the lady in the areas of Mutual Agreements, Interests and Physical Attraction. I believe these areas are in need of compatibility for a LTR.
I am not a person for a One Night Stand...I could get that from a lady of the night for a few bucks cheaper than a night on the town.
A serious date ender for me is if she drives inconsiderately and has road-rage qualities.
Thank you and Do have a Great Day
But "Road rage" turns me on.
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| 8/1/2008 7:51:20 AM |
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lust4love
Atco, NJ
age: 38
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I have a whole list of these.
1.No eye contact (sometimes indicates poor vision though).
2.Turning the radio up to unbearable volume level(makes it impossible to talk)
3.Talking about ex's or close friends of the opposite sex.(always a bummer even after the first date)
4.Too much Facial make-up to kiss. (lip proof barrier)
5.Cellphone drama (talking to friends for more than 5 minutes and making it seem important)
6.Racial or rude remarks towards others (everyone is entitled to there opinion but its best kept to yourself on the first date)
7.meeting parents( can bite you in the face like reality)
8.being unadaptable to changing enviroments( always too cold or too hot)
9.Snobbish behavior( complaining about the $1 value menu lol joking)
10. No kiss goodbye or goodnight ( bad sign usually means going back online and looking for someone new)
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| 8/1/2008 9:53:01 AM |
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lust4love
Atco, NJ
age: 38
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Sorry didnt mean to scare everyone off
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| 8/1/2008 6:44:26 PM |
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mlk2008
Brimfield, MA
age: 89
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Sorry didnt mean to scare everyone off
You ain't scare me off. Especially with that last part. If you get no hug or kiss goodbye, then it's time to start looking again.
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