| 8/1/2008 9:01:40 PM |
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lust4love
Atco, NJ
age: 38
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hell yeah a kiss is just a kiss
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| 8/2/2008 3:56:35 AM |
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bjk123
Layton, UT
age: 51
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I have a whole list of these.
1.No eye contact (sometimes indicates poor vision though).
2.Turning the radio up to unbearable volume level(makes it impossible to talk)
3.Talking about ex's or close friends of the opposite sex.(always a bummer even after the first date)
4.Too much Facial make-up to kiss. (lip proof barrier)
5.Cellphone drama (talking to friends for more than 5 minutes and making it seem important)
6.Racial or rude remarks towards others (everyone is entitled to there opinion but its best kept to yourself on the first date)
7.meeting parents( can bite you in the face like reality)
8.being unadaptable to changing enviroments( always too cold or too hot)
9.Snobbish behavior( complaining about the $1 value menu lol joking)
10. No kiss goodbye or goodnight ( bad sign usually means going back online and looking for someone new)
Thanks for the insight-when I begin to date I will keep your advice in mind
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| 8/2/2008 9:43:44 PM |
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joy617
Pisgah, AL
age: 45
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worst for me is he has a chew of tobacco when he arrives and then thinks he is going to KISS me??? Gross!!!
I agree with you Atime on all accounts. I don't care for dead beat dads either! I hate to hear how your ex is getting all of your money for those kids of HERS! It takes two to parent. Please, just tatoo on your forehead, "I'm a terrible father!" Hearing, "I hope you don't have kids at home. I don't want a women with baggage." doesn't make him a winner, either!
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| 8/3/2008 9:43:58 PM |
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xlibra75x
Gateway, AR
age: 33
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...went on a date(last year) & the chick was sittin' there textin' on her damn cell phone while we were tryin' to eat.
I was about to dump the that friggin' phone in her glass a water.
Which did happen eventually, but not by me, cuz she was tryin' to text & drive at the same time & sat her phone in a full glass a tea that was in the cupholder in her car.
Damn....I got a good laugh outta that!
[Edited 8/3/2008 9:48:35 PM]
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| 8/4/2008 10:08:48 PM |
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jajasun
Denton, TX
age: 42
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Don't want to hear about ex boyfriends or your money problems !!
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| 8/5/2008 6:23:49 AM |
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casanovaforu3
Simpsonville, SC
age: 34
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cell phone sugically attached , table manners, digging through my car !
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| 8/6/2008 6:47:54 AM |
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lolana6
Chantilly, VA
age: 44
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 ha ha ha,
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| 8/7/2008 11:34:47 PM |
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arisingmercury
Brandon, FL
age: 47
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Talking about their ex's - especially negatively, that is a total turn off. Really, at all talking about the ex's on a first date. 
I totally agree,its total turn off. Fellas please dont do this. Those guys dont realize how full of sh*t they are even when you tell them, after all, he picked her so what does that say about his decision making skills...& I think OMG...Im next??? No way. Bad mouthing an ex creates a false sense of intimacy & thats a fact...let the games begin.
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| 8/8/2008 11:56:57 PM |
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mrmildmannered
Lowell, MA
age: 18
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1.Crappy music on my radio... nah, crappy music in general
2.not finishing the damn $15 steak because she "isnt hungry".
3.cell phones. period.<--another period. I have the decency of turning mine off, dont talk to your friends during the meal, and especially during the movies 
4.Do not under any circumstances tell me about your ex's.
5.Please please PLEASE never talk about how I should change, and our future together, once that is brought up, there is no future.
6.Finally, don't bring up politics, there is never a good conversation about politics on a first date, believe me.
Other than that, your good to go ladies
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| 8/10/2008 8:14:34 AM |
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nastygurlzrock
Portage, IN
age: 49
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talkin with the guy and him saying that he doesnt drink he picks u up and he smells like hes drank a 6 pack and chewing gum ta cover up the stank for him drinking and then acting all f**king innocent
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| 8/10/2008 8:59:14 AM |
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cris251
Southfield, MI
age: 40
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on a first date?
showing up at my door with a beer already in hand.... 
Why cause he didn't bring you one
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| 8/10/2008 11:25:37 AM |
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shari1955
Butler, KY
age: 53
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Men that talk about how many woman they have been with.. Or how good they are in the sack. Or there penis size..Or how long they can perform...The whole subject..
Then talking about hot subjects like abortion, gun control, racial issues,unwed mothers, etc..
All this stuff comes with time. I am not saying to ever talk about it just not on the first date lol.
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| 8/10/2008 7:11:49 PM |
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kitise
Greenwood, SC
age: 30 online now!
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on a first date?
showing up at my door with a beer already in hand....
Why cause he didn't bring you one
nice one
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| 8/10/2008 7:56:45 PM |
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refinedprincess
Westland, MI
age: 34
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I have many but numero uno.... is showing up extremely late where everything is about closed. then taking me to meet his mom at a super late hour
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| 8/11/2008 6:44:24 AM |
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roadrisingup
Waldo, OH
age: 39
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poor conversation
inapropriate clothing (dont wear your tractor pull t-shirt )
bad breath
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