| 9/15/2008 5:06:18 PM |
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jediman66
Darlington, IN
age: 42
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geting to drunk is a turn off. don,t judge till you read part of the book .
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| 9/16/2008 5:40:06 AM |
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theothergman
Michigan, ND
age: 47
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FArting. She can't roll over onto one cheek and let one rip. Doesn't make a good impression.
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| 9/20/2008 9:51:55 PM |
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ebonygal43
Chester, VA
age: 43
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OK this is too funny, I am laughing so hard.  
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| 9/24/2008 9:37:28 AM |
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danny86
Shelby, NC
age: 22
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No I ain't  
My point is that a date is far more interesting and enjoyable when there are no predetermined expectations.
Relax, have fun and let things flow naturally.
You might even get a kiss AND another date. 
yeah i agree and i dont date girls that get uptight about questions being asked.....so relax woman.....men are gonna talk about sex, if he doesnt bring it up hes putting on a show for you anyway.I guess I like my girls alittle on the trashy side lol thier way more fun
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| 9/24/2008 9:50:22 AM |
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danny86
Shelby, NC
age: 22
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ewwwwww.......nasty bastard! My worst experience was an online date....we met for a drink....(public place) I was wearing sandals....this sick bastard grabbed my foot and stuck my toes in his mouth.....true story.....how gross is that....of course that date ended rather abruptly! 
LMAO damn thats retarded and nasty
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| 9/25/2008 11:23:03 AM |
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luvisyou08
Pleasantville, NJ
age: 27
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Biggest turn off on a first date is constantly talkin about what you got and what you gonna get and the "oneuppers",you know,the people who can never just listen .instead they try to top every story you have or what you have .total turn off.
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| 9/27/2008 12:48:43 AM |
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forever4
Victoria
Australia
age: 47
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wants to jump your bones as soon as he gets in the door 
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| 9/29/2008 6:54:41 PM |
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tallboy69
Lancaster, PA
age: 25
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telling someone u love them right off the bat and being pushy
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| 9/30/2008 11:06:57 AM |
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rosk
Allegany, NY
age: 48
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Pictures that are 10 yrs. old.. DUH...You have 10 yrs. on you now...Dumb-Ass....Like I won't notice..
That's good! I dated a few that didn't look at all like their photo. Come on they didn't even have the same color hair!!!
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| 9/30/2008 11:17:33 AM |
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rosk
Allegany, NY
age: 48
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I have a whole list of these.
1.No eye contact (sometimes indicates poor vision though).
2.Turning the radio up to unbearable volume level(makes it impossible to talk)
3.Talking about ex's or close friends of the opposite sex.(always a bummer even after the first date)
4.Too much Facial make-up to kiss. (lip proof barrier)
5.Cellphone drama (talking to friends for more than 5 minutes and making it seem important)
6.Racial or rude remarks towards others (everyone is entitled to there opinion but its best kept to yourself on the first date)
7.meeting parents( can bite you in the face like reality)
8.being unadaptable to changing enviroments( always too cold or too hot)
9.Snobbish behavior( complaining about the $1 value menu lol joking)
10. No kiss goodbye or goodnight ( bad sign usually means going back online and looking for someone new)
Even if I really like the guy I usually don't kiss them on the first date! Maybe I should start!!!
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| 10/13/2008 6:27:48 PM |
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modern_english
Gurnee, IL
age: 40
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I like this topic.
Why any one would go on a first date and bring there past is beyond me. I think one of my biggest regrets is that first intial meeting. And I know that us guys are always considered liars. But I've been trapped a few times by women that not only didn't look like there picture, but I didn't recognize them at all. And now I'm trapped.
Internet dating can work if your honest. If your a few extra pounds tahn say that.
But showing up like a 300lb. cyndi lauper is darn right horrifying.
Today, I'll just leave. No sir, not sticking around.
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| 10/14/2008 4:56:01 PM |
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vic_redneck
Dodson, LA
age: 39
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you know ,i agree with whats been said mostly let me add,i cant stand it when they order what they want ... then want to eat mine...what the hell if u want what i have why didnt u order that ?
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| 10/24/2008 8:18:31 PM |
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eddie700
Clifton Park, NY
age: 38
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Wanting to know about all your personal lifeon your first date. how much time do you spend with your kidsYou can ask me want I do for a living, but dont ask me how much money I make No eye contact Bad breath and talking too much
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| 10/25/2008 9:49:41 AM |
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lorelaigilmore
Temple, TX
age: 30 online now!
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do not ask me to smoke pot with you -
this for me would be a turn off, as I always share mine
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| 10/27/2008 2:32:38 PM |
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iaminohio
Euclid, OH
age: 57
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I wouldn't mind if my date talks (a little bit) about his ex, that's the way to learn more about him, and for me to show my compassion. But have to be careful with it, because from compassion to passion there's one short step, well not always but sometimes. I would even ask him about his past dates/ex-marriages, etc., how it went and what went wrong. It's fascinating though that most guys will blame their ex's, it's never their fault. I bet women do, too.
I do not mind being "Dr. Phil" for a while, then move on to talking about other things, which will sure happen, c'mon, he can't be talking about his ex for a couple of hours.
The big turn off for me is when he attempts to go too fast too soon, and then treats me like a bad sport. The other thing is, when somewhere down the road we take the next step, we are in bed and he can't perform, and blames me for that. Oh that's a HUGE instant turn off. Been there, done that, don't want to be there again. Spare me.
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