I had posted how I found the one, but he turned out to be a scammer. He was very convincing, sending me all kinds of photos, of himself, in different scenarios, but he eventually, after several months, many emails and phone calls, he finally asked me for a large amount of money. Especially since he had said all along, how wealthy he was. So, I said, "goodbye," to him and am moving on.

Am I discouraged? No, don't you be either. For there are wonderful people on these sites, too. We all just have to be patient and go through the numbers. I will continue to hope and pray the right man will come along, for me. He won't be sorry, for it is my nature to love so much. Having scammers write to me, is just another learning lesson in life. Each time I get one, I learn a new trick of theirs. So, thanks to them, I can recognize them pretty quickly now. If you are in contact with someone, whom you aren't sure about, use the "Google" image search, (the little camera on the search window), if he/she is one, chances are they will be on the search, listed in scam reporting sites. Sometimes their photo does not show up, however, not til much later, after they've tried to scam more people. So, stay alert, they will either mess up, after writing so many messages/phone calls, saying something different from before. Or, they will ask you for money.

The wonderful people I've met here, won't ever ask for a dime, no matter how bad their circumstance is. Never. If nothing else, you will get many nice friends. I am so fortunate to have found some. Yet, they are only friends, for we are still looking for our true loves. So, don't give up, be patient and most of all, be totally honest, with your profiles, your photos and yourself. You will find the right person for you. These sites are really a better way to find your love, making friends first.

Good luck to everyone, I wish you all the very best... Truly!