| 2/16/2014 9:23:36 PM |
I hate when guys pretend they wanna get to know u |
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carlee12345
Carlinville, IL
44, joined Dec. 2013
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When all they wanna do is use u.... not happening to this girl... Yea I know one too he's from my town claiming to be a decent guy but all he wants is a quick peice and then see ya... claims to have good intentions and claims to be honest and straight forward but can't even tell you his real intentions. A real man would not pretend they really want to get to know you then just stop talking.... A real man wouldn't play games... if they weren't interest they would just come out and tell you..... He's recently seperated... not divorced like he claims.... not happening to this girl... I'm better... at least I'm honest...
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| 2/17/2014 6:19:21 AM |
I hate when guys pretend they wanna get to know u |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
61, joined Apr. 2006
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Any man or woman seperated ,don't even go near.As for newly divorce,some tend to be bitter,hurt,and don't know what they want.As for pretending, you maybe right,sort of like a rat in a 5 gallon bucket tring to get out.
Neither are dateable,let alone a relationship.It would be like striking a match and getting burnt.
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| 2/17/2014 4:57:11 PM |
I hate when guys pretend they wanna get to know u |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
52, joined Jul. 2013
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I agree...
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| 2/17/2014 5:38:08 PM |
I hate when guys pretend they wanna get to know u |
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carlee12345
Carlinville, IL
44, joined Dec. 2013
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You are so right
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| 2/18/2014 9:34:49 AM |
I hate when guys pretend they wanna get to know u |
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playbyalphabet
Calabasas, CA
50, joined Sep. 2013
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Sucks having values and being compassionate - huh
Chaze 
...there is a grey area (your thoughtful post hints at it too!) And i KNOW it is a double standard but here goes;
I believe that there are a percentage of women who run by a code - i will not harm a married woman in her "marital" realm.
Every other realm is fair game, if she wants to box, but never ever will i allow myself to be the grass that looked greener from the otherside of the fence.
And in the real world, if i am dating or say i am dating someone and happy (which i have been known to fib about IF i cant get a clear read ona guys BASIC values) and his eyes narrow and voice drops and then he really pushes for a date harder after that point - i know he is the type of person who would never face my man But would believe he really accomplished something by getting to my man thru me.
Amazing how many times i have clearly identified a skanky boy.....in the guise of a man. But, that only works face to face.
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| 2/18/2014 12:45:35 PM |
I hate when guys pretend they wanna get to know u |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
61, joined Apr. 2006
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Cinn... I read your post,understand where you are caught between a hard rock, at the time being.My statement missed the word I,because I don't.I have met many woman and men,going threw something quite the same as yourself.And I like those people,for me I couldn't date them tho(men).But I can be friends with them.
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| 2/18/2014 8:34:45 PM |
I hate when guys pretend they wanna get to know u |
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safeamerica
Lexington, KY
52, joined Dec. 2013
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Many boy/men's curiosity get them into troubles in life.And they do not always consider the other person.Many are not pretending,when they are nosy,and then they find out what they want to know,if not he'll be back around.They will try,but we woman just have to protect our selves and keep our standards.
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| 2/18/2014 9:23:35 PM |
I hate when guys pretend they wanna get to know u |
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carlee12345
Carlinville, IL
44, joined Dec. 2013
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| 2/18/2014 9:27:03 PM |
I hate when guys pretend they wanna get to know u |
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carlee12345
Carlinville, IL
44, joined Dec. 2013
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 I agree with u on that too
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| 2/20/2014 10:22:27 PM |
I hate when guys pretend they wanna get to know u |
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luckylibragal
Mesa, AZ
50, joined Oct. 2011
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I avoid the never married men. Such high expectations when they're not all that themselves.
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| 2/21/2014 2:23:12 PM |
I hate when guys pretend they wanna get to know u |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
61, joined Apr. 2006
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I avoid the never married men. Such high expectations when they're not all that themselves.
Men that are in my age range ,never been married.Fine for casual friend at arms length.Seem all they do is shoe shop,try ons.
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| 2/24/2014 8:22:25 AM |
I hate when guys pretend they wanna get to know u |
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jrupp0604
Stoughton, MA
68, joined May. 2011
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No guys want to take the time to get to know you, they are on to next. Little do they know they just passed up the best women. Oh well their loss.  
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| 2/25/2014 11:06:15 AM |
I hate when guys pretend they wanna get to know u |
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rose1206
Gilbert, AZ
36, joined Jul. 2012
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I have always been a firm believer in married is married not matter the living situation
My thoughts exactly!
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| 3/8/2014 7:55:34 AM |
I hate when guys pretend they wanna get to know u |
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jrupp0604
Stoughton, MA
68, joined May. 2011
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No men do not want to take the time to get to know a women. They are only thinking who will be next
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| 3/8/2014 11:10:46 AM |
I hate when guys pretend they wanna get to know u |
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cabanaariefedd
Norcross, GA
28, joined Dec. 2012
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I don't trust them, problem solved for me.they will tell you anything..
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| 5/30/2014 7:49:22 AM |
I hate when guys pretend they wanna get to know u |
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mercy62080
Fort Worth, TX
37, joined Mar. 2014
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This happened to me.
 I don’t remember his ID on here, but his name is Henry Lowery aka Bubba 38, from Mineral Wells, TX (he is a hunting guide). Please watch your heart with him. I have major trust issues with men. But he romanced me, and loved, me so I gave him my heart. I have never felt cherished ever by a man. I actually loved him or believed that I did. I have never allowed any man to get close to me, but for some reason, I allowed him into my life. Anyway 2 days ago, he ripped my heart out tore it into pieces and then stomped on every single piece of my heart. I have never experienced a broken heart before, but I have been crying and depressed for 2 days.
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| 5/30/2014 12:26:30 PM |
I hate when guys pretend they wanna get to know u |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
61, joined Apr. 2006
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"Attention">>>>Mercy
Come on posting on 5 peoples threads??? same copy and paste??
Please one would of been enough.
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| 5/30/2014 1:45:50 PM |
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cinnamonnhaze
Minneapolis, MN
53, joined Apr. 2014
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"Attention">>>>Mercy
Come on posting on 5 peoples threads??? same copy and paste??
Please one would of been enough.
Agree. We all face the idiots on here. Just take it as a learning experience & move on.
If I posted all the men I've spoken to, only to find out they had a wife, gf, fiancé, all I'd be doing is crying in my coffee. Too many to list. Didn't know them well enough to care.
Sometimes you just have to "let it go".....that's a pun about that over played song of the spring.
Don't worry, be happy!!!
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| 5/31/2014 7:57:22 AM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
64, joined Aug. 2008
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This happened to me.
I don’t remember his ID on here, but his name is Henry Lowery aka Bubba 38, from Mineral Wells, TX (he is a hunting guide). Please watch your heart with him. I have major trust issues with men. But he romanced me, and loved, me so I gave him my heart. I have never felt cherished ever by a man. I actually loved him or believed that I did. I have never allowed any man to get close to me, but for some reason, I allowed him into my life. Anyway 2 days ago, he ripped my heart out tore it into pieces and then stomped on every single piece of my heart. I have never experienced a broken heart before, but I have been crying and depressed for 2 days.
Did you ever meet him face to face...or it was "an electronic romance"?
BTW, he broke your heart...and I am sure you have broken a man's heart in the past. Is life.
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| 5/31/2014 11:04:14 AM |
I hate when guys pretend they wanna get to know u |
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renata9784
Glade Spring, VA
38, joined Feb. 2014
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If men r on here its to play to kill time or mayb really just checking but think about it girls if they r looking for a partner in life 99%of the time it wont be off a place like here. we call them pervs,crazies,and sometimes worse but at the same time they r on the othr side doing almost the same thing if they score their good if not they move on to the next.men say some of the sweetest things but its to see who falls for it nobody shows who they really r in a place like this man or woman.honestly think about it
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| 6/1/2014 6:38:13 PM |
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mercy62080
Fort Worth, TX
37, joined Mar. 2014
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I think that Ive me and loved a catfish on here. His profile ID is jacobs79 (has been deleted). He told me that his real name is Jacobs Alonzo Waterhouse. He said that he is 34, divorced father of 2 kids. I believe that he is a catfish and scammer based on the following conservation. He never wanted to talk via message on here, only via facebook.
Here is the conservation that leads me to believe what I b3elieve:
Thursday 9:31pm
Hi
Friday 12:29am
How u doing pretty?
Friday 6:58am
Hello babe
Friday 10:55am
Hey
hi
Friday 1:17pm
hey
So how are you doing today?
I'm good n u?
I'm doing better.
Okay good
What you doing?
just playing around online
Okay
Be careful online we got alot of scammers
2 hours ago - June 1, 2014
Hey! How are you doing today. I'm sorry my phone was still on silent from yesterday. I just got your text message after waking up from my Sunday afternoon nap. I dont know why, but Sunday afternoon naps are the best. I very rarely nap during the week, but on Sundays, I always nap after Sunday lunch
Ok
Have you thought of any more questions for me?
No
ok
You have 2 beautiful kids! How old are they?
I can not wait to meet you in person.
Really?
Yes. I cant wait to talk to you in person.
I'm sad right now babe
Why?
Why are you sad?
I'm travelling to canada tomorrow
For work?
Yea but I have an on going investment in Mn
And will need ya physical support
What do you mean by physical support?
Good... I want u to please be in charge of my checks n accounts
I dont even know you. I cant be.
Ok
I'm sorry.
Lol
Just wondering why you are laughing about this? Why would you want someone that you don't even know to be in charge of your money?
The truth is u a God fearing woman and that's y I trust u with my Money
I don't want to be responsible for someone else's money.
I'm very sorry, but I don't feel comfortable with it.
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| 6/1/2014 6:39:56 PM |
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mercy62080
Fort Worth, TX
37, joined Mar. 2014
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no, it was only electronic (via text) romance.
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| 6/1/2014 7:09:24 PM |
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renata9784
Glade Spring, VA
38, joined Feb. 2014
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Hell yeah hes a scammer prob. from south africa no shit they r on here and what kinda man is gonna trust a woman with his money. next time them for their personal info and tell them you need to check them out first they run away fast.
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| 6/1/2014 11:30:05 PM |
I hate when guys pretend they wanna get to know u |
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samoablack24
Cleveland, OH
33, joined Jan. 2014
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Yes, This Happen to me. Their was a guy on here i met, he made it seem like we were friends, But in the back of his head, all he wanted was sex. Thank God i never seen him in person . To make matters worse he was creating all type blogs about me. It was So immature. When ppl try Degrade other ppl and put them down, deep down inside they feel that way about themselves.
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| 6/2/2014 1:05:11 PM |
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woodsmamma
Babbitt, MN
64, joined Feb. 2009
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That's why we can't suck in too fast girls , cuz they will eventually want honey on the biscuit!!! 
Come to think of it so will I!!!!
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| 6/2/2014 7:35:42 PM |
I hate when guys pretend they wanna get to know u |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
64, joined Aug. 2008
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no, it was only electronic (via text) romance.
Dear, grow up.
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| 6/3/2014 6:21:34 PM |
I hate when guys pretend they wanna get to know u |
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renata9784
Glade Spring, VA
38, joined Feb. 2014
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It wasnt love u felt i would say it was more like leting yourself get caught up on this site sometimes we think we r in love when the truth is its in heat
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| 6/4/2014 8:06:40 PM |
I hate when guys pretend they wanna get to know u |
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2muchnotenuff
Los Angeles, CA
43, joined Jan. 2014
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I hate it too. It's insulting and manipulative.
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