| 3/31/2014 12:50:06 PM |
Is central PA "color blind"? |
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mrvandetta
San Diego, CA
29, joined Dec. 2013
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Do women there care about your race? Is there any common perceptions about men like me and would a women date a guy like me? Ladies and gentlemen, let me know how it is before I relocate there. Thanks.
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| 3/31/2014 3:35:24 PM |
Is central PA "color blind"? |
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1irving
Ruskin, FL
57, joined Mar. 2013
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There are some back wood country folk. If you have a still, they will like you.
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| 3/31/2014 3:40:54 PM |
Is central PA "color blind"? |
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mrvandetta
San Diego, CA
29, joined Dec. 2013
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There are some back wood country folk. If you have a still, they will like you.
Thanks for the feedback, what do you mean "a still"?
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| 3/31/2014 4:07:07 PM |
Is central PA "color blind"? |
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podpro
Cleveland, OH
59, joined Nov. 2013
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People are the same anywhere you go. Some more open minded than others. Doesn't matter where you move to.. Its basically what you make it.. Good luck
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| 3/31/2014 4:12:23 PM |
Is central PA "color blind"? |
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mrvandetta
San Diego, CA
29, joined Dec. 2013
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People are the same anywhere you go. Some more open minded than others. Doesn't matter where you move to.. Its basically what you make it.. Good luck
I won't argue with you about that one. My curiosity sparked from what I've been old from a colleague. Ultimately, I'll adapt and overcome. At the same time, I need that piece of mind. THanks.
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| 3/31/2014 4:52:21 PM |
Is central PA "color blind"? |
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cassanda_girl
Canonsburg, PA
45, joined Nov. 2013
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Do women there care about your race? Is there any common perceptions about men like me and would a women date a guy like me? Ladies and gentlemen, let me know how it is before I relocate there. Thanks.
Why is it that every none white person wants to make every thing a race issue?  Just because I wont date out side my race does not make me any less then the person I am. And by your post. Your looking to find a white woman and not date with in your own race. So if you don't want to date a black person. Then why should you be made that I wont do it? 
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| 3/31/2014 5:23:16 PM |
Is central PA "color blind"? |
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mrvandetta
San Diego, CA
29, joined Dec. 2013
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Why is it that every none white person wants to make every thing a race issue? Just because I wont date out side my race does not make me any less then the person I am. And by your post. Your looking to find a white woman and not date with in your own race. So if you don't want to date a black person. Then why should you be made that I wont do it?
Very good point. Because my perception is I'm a minority in state college, not like here in southern California. Maybe I'm making a huge deal about something so minimal? If the majority of state college were black then I would ask the same. I don't see you or anyone less of a person, for not dating outside of race. That definitely was not the message I was implying. But I'm sure you understand interracial dating is no common in central pa due to up bringing and cultural differences.
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| 3/31/2014 7:17:01 PM |
Is central PA "color blind"? |
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pghnycchef
Pittsburgh, PA
41, joined Oct. 2013
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I'm trying to figure out why you're on a dating/hookup site and you're so ridiculously negative about everything. This post, and the milf post I read earlier. You're white and excepted in way more places than black people. Quit f**king whining if a black person judges you for not dating outside your race. And the milf post, I think you're mad because the woman got a ton of positive feedback saying she was a milf and it's a guarantee that if you made a post like that you wouldn't get that kind of response.
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| 3/31/2014 8:10:49 PM |
Is central PA "color blind"? |
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mrvandetta
San Diego, CA
29, joined Dec. 2013
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I'm trying to figure out why you're on a dating/hookup site and you're so ridiculously negative about everything. This post, and the milf post I read earlier. You're white and excepted in way more places than black people. Quit f**king whining if a black person judges you for not dating outside your race. And the milf post, I think you're mad because the woman got a ton of positive feedback saying she was a milf and it's a guarantee that if you made a post like that you wouldn't get that kind of response.
You lost me there, I don't see any milfs on this post. I'm not whining either nor am I negative.
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| 4/1/2014 5:22:34 AM |
Is central PA "color blind"? |
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mowboss54
Springdale, PA
70, joined Jun. 2009
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People are the same anywhere you go. Some more open minded than others. Doesn't matter where you move to.. Its basically what you make it.. Good luck
What she ^^^^^^ said
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| 4/1/2014 8:46:31 AM |
Is central PA "color blind"? |
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eddies_back
Kane, PA
48, joined Sep. 2013
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Thanks for the feedback, what do you mean "a still"?
It's a "redneck thing"You would't understand..
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| 4/1/2014 9:00:39 AM |
Is central PA "color blind"? |
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mrvandetta
San Diego, CA
29, joined Dec. 2013
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It's a "redneck thing"You would't understand..
Of course rednecks are quite complex... ? 
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| 4/1/2014 9:28:22 AM |
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1irving
Ruskin, FL
57, joined Mar. 2013
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A 'Still' is used to 'distill' alcohol. There a very few people of color. Two black children in my son's school of 1000. They are treated with respect and love. I've lived in housing projects where I was a minority. There is always someone you'd like to have a beer with.
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| 4/1/2014 10:21:09 AM |
Is central PA "color blind"? |
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mrvandetta
San Diego, CA
29, joined Dec. 2013
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A 'Still' is used to 'distill' alcohol. There a very few people of color. Two black children in my son's school of 1000. They are treated with respect and love. I've lived in housing projects where I was a minority. There is always someone you'd like to have a beer with.
Great thanks for clarifying that. Worse case scenario, I'll invest in a still!
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| 4/1/2014 12:10:32 PM |
Is central PA "color blind"? |
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mowboss54
Springdale, PA
70, joined Jun. 2009
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I wouldnt advise investing in a still.  Its a source of making illegal whiskey like they did back in the early 1900's. They used to make it in the backwoods so the revenuers couldnt find it. If they did they smashed the thing to smitherenes so it couldnt be used again
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| 4/1/2014 12:26:52 PM |
Is central PA "color blind"? |
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mrvandetta
San Diego, CA
29, joined Dec. 2013
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I wouldnt advise investing in a still. Its a source of making illegal whiskey like they did back in the early 1900's. They used to make it in the backwoods so the revenuers couldnt find it. If they did they smashed the thing to smitherenes so it couldnt be used again
Lol. I wasn't serious but I'm glad you told me.
What about Central Pa. Will I have problems with men or women there?
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| 4/1/2014 2:17:49 PM |
Is central PA "color blind"? |
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1irving
Ruskin, FL
57, joined Mar. 2013
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Mow? such a prude! loosen up some. Besides, he'd be even MORE popular growing weed.
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| 4/1/2014 3:47:55 PM |
Is central PA "color blind"? |
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mrvandetta
San Diego, CA
29, joined Dec. 2013
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Mow? such a prude! loosen up some. Besides, he'd be even MORE popular growing weed.
Are you popular already? LOL
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| 4/1/2014 4:24:47 PM |
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rails2trails
Sharon, PA
48, joined Feb. 2013
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Very good point. Because my perception is I'm a minority in state college, not like here in southern California. Maybe I'm making a huge deal about something so minimal? If the majority of state college were black then I would ask the same. I don't see you or anyone less of a person, for not dating outside of race. That definitely was not the message I was implying. But I'm sure you understand interracial dating is no common in central pa due to up bringing and cultural differences.
Why does it have to be culture or upbringing? Maybe it's as simple as attraction. Maybe someone just isn't physically attracted to them.
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| 4/1/2014 4:41:22 PM |
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mrvandetta
San Diego, CA
29, joined Dec. 2013
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Why does it have to be culture or upbringing? Maybe it's as simple as attraction. Maybe someone just isn't physically attracted to them.
That's very possible too. Of course many things come to factor. I had a lady friend from pa, I asked her have you dated a black man, she said no way my dad would kill me. I asked her why, at the end she couldn't narrow down as to why, without sounding racist or ignorant. Lol
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| 4/1/2014 4:52:02 PM |
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rails2trails
Sharon, PA
48, joined Feb. 2013
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Well, maybe she isn't racist but her dad is. I think it's important for your family to like who you're with. You shouldn't have to give up your family to be with someone. Hey, let's face it, there's always something. Nobody, nor their family is perfect.
As for being prejudice, we all have something we don't like. Maybe it's Chinese, Vietnamese, Russians, Mexicans, Amish, Democrats, Republicans, Comunists, tattoos, bikers, rich, white trash, Nazis, and so on.
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| 4/1/2014 4:58:50 PM |
Is central PA "color blind"? |
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mrvandetta
San Diego, CA
29, joined Dec. 2013
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Well, maybe she isn't racist but her dad is. I think it's important for your family to like who you're with. You shouldn't have to give up your family to be with someone. Hey, let's face it, there's always something. Nobody, nor their family is perfect.
As for being prejudice, we all have something we don't like. Maybe it's Chinese, Vietnamese, Russians, Mexicans, Amish, Democrats, Republicans, Comunists, tattoos, bikers, rich, white trash, Nazis, and so on.
We're on the same page. Now I'm just trying to get those to express their personal opinions on this forum. 
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| 4/1/2014 5:11:51 PM |
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rails2trails
Sharon, PA
48, joined Feb. 2013
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I haven't had good conversation for a long time in this place.
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| 4/1/2014 5:21:21 PM |
Is central PA "color blind"? |
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1irving
Ruskin, FL
57, joined Mar. 2013
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Be nice, pay your bills. There is enough love to go around.
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| 4/1/2014 5:38:22 PM |
Is central PA "color blind"? |
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rails2trails
Sharon, PA
48, joined Feb. 2013
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I will admit, there are a lot of black people I don't like. It's not because of their race. It's their attitude. That "the world owes me" and "you don't like me because you're racist" attitude. Maybe it's different out there. Maybe because we might have more racists which drives more attitude. I don't know.
Oh, and I use black rather than African American because I never liked that. It's racist in itself because we're all just Americans. I'm Irish, French, English, German, and Native American. What do you call me? White!
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| 4/1/2014 7:36:28 PM |
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mowboss54
Springdale, PA
70, joined Jun. 2009
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Mow? such a prude! loosen up some. Besides, he'd be even MORE popular growing weed.
Irv Im not a prude, just done want the poor guy coming out here with ideas of grandeur and wind up in jail before he knows what hit him.
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| 4/2/2014 7:37:17 AM |
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1irving
Ruskin, FL
57, joined Mar. 2013
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Yeh, I'm sure he's going to operate a still....
On topic, I was not 'allowed' to date black people, Jews, protestants or girls who lived in housing projects.
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| 4/2/2014 8:34:14 AM |
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mrvandetta
San Diego, CA
29, joined Dec. 2013
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Yeh, I'm sure he's going to operate a still....
On topic, I was not 'allowed' to date black people, Jews, protestants or girls who lived in housing projects.
That's interesting..
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| 4/2/2014 9:05:02 AM |
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1irving
Ruskin, FL
57, joined Mar. 2013
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Mom did not like Janis Colman. Mom called her Janet Cohen. That's the way it was after WWII. I don't really understand all that crap. The smartest thing I heard growing up was from a Hell's Angel, "You have to learn to hate everyone, one person at a time."
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| 4/7/2014 9:04:32 PM |
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bad_1
Brackney, PA
59, joined Oct. 2013
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Black, brown or white...right is right.
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| 4/7/2014 11:05:30 PM |
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mrvandetta
San Diego, CA
29, joined Dec. 2013
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Black, brown or white...right is right.
Can you elaborate?
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| 4/8/2014 8:23:57 PM |
Is central PA "color blind"? |
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eddies_back
Kane, PA
48, joined Sep. 2013
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I'm down with brown..
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| 4/11/2014 3:23:22 PM |
Is central PA "color blind"? |
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mrvandetta
San Diego, CA
29, joined Dec. 2013
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Anyone currently lives or have lived in state college?
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| 4/12/2014 1:44:39 AM |
Is central PA "color blind"? |
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mrvandetta
San Diego, CA
29, joined Dec. 2013
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No, Not where I live. mix and match 
Thanks.
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| 4/12/2014 1:45:22 AM |
Is central PA "color blind"? |
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mrvandetta
San Diego, CA
29, joined Dec. 2013
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I don't see problems with race. We're all black when the lights go out. My brother in law is from Barbados and the guy I'm seeing is Columbian. Some people don't care too mix. It's just a preference like any other in seeking a potential mate. Don't make it more than that. Keep it simple. If a lady doesn't like you for whatever reason, then stick with those that do. Forget about why. If you're hung up on race then you become the one making it an issue. Not them.
Thanks.
I think its time to close this thread.
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