| 4/17/2014 11:11:03 PM |
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purplerider1200
South Bend, IN
61, joined Aug. 2011
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I know with you that have kids, have to stay in contact with your ex. Me, on the otherhand, I don't. Right now, I could care less if I ever hear from mine again. Mine called me this morning, and I just ignored the call. I wish she'd just stay the h*ll away from me. Anyone else feel that way?
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| 4/17/2014 11:58:01 PM |
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ronleeseberg
Mauston, WI
50, joined Jan. 2012
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No more kid issues, no more ex in my life. 
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| 4/18/2014 1:13:06 AM |
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pickygirl72
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011
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There is really no reason to talk or see my ex husband anymore. But if I do see him for some reason we are pleasant to each other.
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| 4/18/2014 3:13:48 PM |
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idk500
Mankato, MN
52, joined Jun. 2013
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Agree, even the kids don't want contact with their father. Helps that he doesn't want to be contacted. We exist and he resents that.
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| 4/19/2014 6:26:41 PM |
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pdforone
Litchfield, OH
65, joined Jul. 2010
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My kids are all adults now, I don't see a valid reason for either of my ex wives to contact me. They weren't happy, I put them out to search for happiness, I didn't need them to provide it for me.
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| 4/20/2014 7:10:56 AM |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
60, joined Apr. 2006
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Haven't talked to my x almost 10 yrs.Wish him the best.We have a 28 yr old together but I talk to my son.And always ask if his fathers well.Just to be polite.I don't hate the man.
When I got divorced, the bitterness ended period!No way to have a fresh mental state.Not going to say it doesn't take time to heal and trust again.
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| 4/20/2014 11:47:37 AM |
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tucker342
Fort Worth, TX
60, joined Aug. 2011
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yes let her go there is a reason she is your ex.once you split never be same
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| 4/20/2014 5:04:11 PM |
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purplerider1200
South Bend, IN
61, joined Aug. 2011
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Haven't talked to my x almost 10 yrs.Wish him the best.We have a 28 yr old together but I talk to my son.And always ask if his fathers well.Just to be polite.I don't hate the man.
When I got divorced, the bitterness ended period!No way to have a fresh mental state.Not going to say it doesn't take time to heal and trust again.
I don't wish anything of mine. Except to stop calling. Go away, I'm through with you.
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| 4/27/2014 6:08:15 AM |
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risitaaazul
Plant City, FL
37, joined May. 2013
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Sometimes i feel the same way. I wish i wouldn't have to ever speak or see him again. With that said, my kids are more important to me then any resentment and hurt i might still feel for him. To them we are mom and dad. So i talk to him and even joke around and smile with him. The past is the past and we are now divorced. There is no reason why we should be hating on eachother anymore. Just trying to give the kids the best out of a not so ideal situation that they had no control over should be your main concern..... that's my opinion
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| 4/27/2014 6:10:39 AM |
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risitaaazul
Plant City, FL
37, joined May. 2013
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Sorry i thought you had kids. If you don't then no need for any contact what so ever.
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| 4/27/2014 10:53:19 PM |
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mysoul2ttake
Brilliant, OH
39, joined Apr. 2014
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I dont see any reason to keep in contact with an ex if there are no kids
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| 4/28/2014 4:35:27 AM |
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n3lly_n3l
Oklahoma City, OK
39, joined Jul. 2013
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The sex is much better now that I know she'll be leaving afterward 
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| 4/28/2014 7:00:55 AM |
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dawn1982311
Oklahoma City, OK
35, joined Dec. 2013
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| 4/29/2014 10:50:15 AM |
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zimzane2
High Point, NC
56, joined Jan. 2013
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Have nothing to say to her.
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| 5/1/2014 4:07:12 PM |
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cosmicgem
Springfield, MO
61, joined Jun. 2011
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Well she Could have a ligitimate reason for calling other than trying to get back with you. So... It doesnt hurt to find out. I mean you thought enough about her at one time to have put a ring on her finger. I would never go back to either of mine nor have sex with them but I still like to know they are ok. And I truly hope they are happy. Just because we couldnt make a go of it doesnt mean they are all bad. Good things were there at one time also or I wouldnt have been with them in the first place. Respect. Unless she turned out to be nothing more than a money grubbing user and that was all she cared about. Then I would understand your position. If there is nothing there then there shouldnt be any bitterness left either.
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| 5/1/2014 9:52:06 PM |
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purplerider1200
South Bend, IN
61, joined Aug. 2011
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Well she Could have a ligitimate reason for calling other than trying to get back with you. So... It doesnt hurt to find out. I mean you thought enough about her at one time to have put a ring on her finger. I would never go back to either of mine nor have sex with them but I still like to know they are ok. And I truly hope they are happy. Just because we couldnt make a go of it doesnt mean they are all bad. Good things were there at one time also or I wouldnt have been with them in the first place. Respect. Unless she turned out to be nothing more than a money grubbing user and that was all she cared about. Then I would understand your position. If there is nothing there then there shouldnt be any bitterness left either.
Mine has re-married, with a not-so-understanding husband, (from what I've been told) and I really have no respect for her. She never gave me honest answers to why she wanted out, and I firmly beleve that she cheated on me. Now, everyone seems to want closure in life, me being no exception. I didn't get any. I was promised certain things, and I recieved none. So, I no longer want any contact with her. I got thrown under the bus,I'm just returning the favor.
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| 5/3/2014 1:30:33 PM |
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cosmicgem
Springfield, MO
61, joined Jun. 2011
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I understand. And of course you know the whole story. Not I. But finding out what she wanted is different than complying with her wishes. Unless you feel you would be tempted to help her if she asked you to. But you said she hung you out to dry so.... I understand.
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| 5/3/2014 8:41:55 PM |
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butterflyfreeto
Ocala, FL
57, joined Apr. 2014
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I think that it's hard to do if U really feel that way but if you have kids together it's important to be able to talk . but if your not going to get along and disrespect each other then it's best not to answer the phone .
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| 5/3/2014 10:01:59 PM |
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larena40
Phoenix, AZ
45, joined Jan. 2014
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Yes I feel that way. But no luck.
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| 5/4/2014 7:53:56 PM |
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shutupstupid
Flagstaff, AZ
36, joined Mar. 2013
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*sigh* Oh God I miss my ex  .. These feelings of defeat are just starting to set in 
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| 5/5/2014 12:51:37 PM |
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mistalee400
Yuma, AZ
32, joined Apr. 2013
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People are strange when it comes to relationships. My ex wife and I left on.......fair terms. She was a dirty cheating wh*re, smoked dope, wrecked 5 cars and spent every dime i made in Afghanistan. Eh... so now shes my ex. Shes also my daughters mother. When she first left we did the fwb thing too, until i started dating someone and then she was jealous. (She also at one point while married suggested an open relationship) She broke into my house to meet who was replacing her. Then i got to deal with the new fiancee and her jealousy issues, as well as the ex wifes replacement husband's issues. People need to figure out that if i still wanted her, ida god damn kept her. I talk to her on a civil level all the time now. Last night when i took my daughter home me and the ex stood in the yard and chatted for about an hour. In that hour i could see her husband look out the door/ windiw about 15 times. When someone is over the other person, you can be civil to each other and contact really isnt a big deal.
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| 5/22/2014 8:12:54 AM |
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sassypants760
San Marcos, CA
42, joined Feb. 2014
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No...he fixes my vehicles 
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| 5/23/2014 10:48:58 PM |
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tyler74171
Mauldin, SC
43, joined Jul. 2013
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My Ex refuses to call me, even for the kids
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| 5/23/2014 11:30:42 PM |
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sassypants760
San Marcos, CA
42, joined Feb. 2014
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My Ex refuses to call me, even for the kids
That's not okay.
Well, I don't know your whole history and all...but it doesn't seem okay. Seems immature and not good mothering if you can't put aside your differences for the sake of your children.
Any court orders for phone calls?
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| 5/24/2014 8:17:59 AM |
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tyler74171
Mauldin, SC
43, joined Jul. 2013
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I've called for years on Mondays but when I moved closer to the kids, suddenly they didn't want to talk or were unavailable a lot.
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| 5/24/2014 9:51:57 AM |
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ladybugg76
Columbus, GA
40, joined Apr. 2014
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I get along with my ex, but we've been divorceed for a decade and have 3 kids. He is currently visiting for our son's high school grad. He's not a bad guy, just not the guy for me and visa versa. We did have some awesome kids together and that's all that matters.
His new wife has major trust issues and is crazy jealous. But that is their problem and not mine. My drama with him is long over.
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| 5/24/2014 7:16:24 PM |
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purplerider1200
South Bend, IN
61, joined Aug. 2011
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You'd have to be civil, just because of the kids. We had none, so I can treat mine like the rotten wh*re that she is.
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| 5/27/2014 5:13:58 PM |
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whitl42
Beaver Dam, KY
46, joined Feb. 2014
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I have no problems with the ex or his wife..
What really pisses me off is when a new man in my life questions the situation with my ex... We do still have minor children together.. But we are adults and get along just fine
Doesn't mean I'm fukn him!
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| 6/1/2014 12:19:35 PM |
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zimzane2
High Point, NC
56, joined Jan. 2013
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Not if I can help not being in contact.
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| 6/5/2014 10:32:05 PM |
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sunnydaythree
Grand Blanc, MI
32, joined Mar. 2014
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My ex and I have to be nice to each other cause we a special needed daughter. She goes to many places Monday-Satursday like P.T., O.T., doctors, w different schools, Speech therapy, etc. she is very hands full.
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