How long did it take?

5/4/2014 7:59:48 PM	How long did it take?
shutupstupid Flagstaff, AZ 36, joined Mar. 2013	Hello everyone .. I'm new to this group and just wondering how long did it take you to accept that your spouse was gone..like really accept it without lying you yourself? Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
5/4/2014 9:22:12 PM	How long did it take?
purplerider1200 South Bend, IN 61, joined Aug. 2011	Good question. I started telling myself that she was gone from the start. But that little nagging thought that she might come back, stuck with me for several months. It's the writing on the wall that says it wouldn't work out even if she did, got me to accept that. And more evidence of infidelity was showing up too, so I didn't want her back.
5/4/2014 11:23:20 PM	How long did it take?
shutupstupid Flagstaff, AZ 36, joined Mar. 2013	Oh wow.. I'm sorry, that sounds rough
5/5/2014 8:43:57 AM	How long did it take?
jess_is_back Jefferson City, MO 30, joined Mar. 2013	We knew it was over before we split.. It was very much mutual, too many deployments and too much changed. It didn't take long to adjust.
5/5/2014 2:08:37 PM	How long did it take?
her_happiness Chouteau, OK 29, joined Apr. 2014	Quote from shutupstupid: Hello everyone .. I'm new to this group and just wondering how long did it take you to accept that your spouse was gone..like really accept it without lying you yourself? it took me over a year to accept it. The hardest thing I ever did was watch her walk out and not stop her. But I'm better now because I did.
5/5/2014 7:02:29 PM	How long did it take?
purplerider1200 South Bend, IN 61, joined Aug. 2011	Wasn't so bad. Actually, I found out later on she broke up another marriage, then married the guy! Whatta slut!
5/5/2014 8:19:14 PM	How long did it take?
pickygirl72 Pinon Hills, CA 46, joined Sep. 2011	Everybody will have a different time line. So all you can do is accept it and move on with your life. Stay busy, get counseling if you need it, find something you really enjoy doing, cry and get mad if you need to, don't burden or overwhlem your friends/family with your "poor me" sh!t and just try to relax. Oh and stop lying to yourself that he will walk back into your life. And don't jump out into another relationship just because you're lonely...big mistake. Good luck.
5/5/2014 8:39:14 PM	How long did it take?
tyler74171 Mauldin, SC 43, joined Jul. 2013	10 years with, 6.5 yrs of that married. Last 2 years were miserable. But still took 18 months to clear the depression of togetherness. Not yearning for get but rather lost in finding my individual self. It's a process, don't shy from it.
5/5/2014 9:41:16 PM	How long did it take?
her_happiness Chouteau, OK 29, joined Apr. 2014	Quote from pickygirl72: Everybody will have a different time line. So all you can do is accept it and move on with your life. Stay busy, get counseling if you need it, find something you really enjoy doing, cry and get mad if you need to, don't burden or overwhlem your friends/family with your "poor me" sh!t and just try to relax. Oh and stop lying to yourself that he will walk back into your life. And don't jump out into another relationship just because you're lonely...big mistake. Good luck. couldnt agree more.
5/6/2014 8:59:16 AM	How long did it take?
lynyrd80 Wood River, NE 55, joined Jan. 2014	When I was served divorce papers.
5/8/2014 7:25:38 PM	How long did it take?
jennieomalley Cuyahoga Falls, OH 40, joined Jun. 2013	He left me mentally before he left me physically. Once he was physically gone, It was really rough at first. I was numb after a while and then I felt like I had moved on. I anticipated it being finalized for a long time (call it seeking closure, I guess). Our divorce was granted over a year later. I got home from the court house, cried like a baby for a bit, talked to a couple of my sisters and I've been fine ever since. I like to remember all the good times we had, because he was a wonderful husband, and I chose to forgive the bad at the very end.
5/9/2014 1:24:07 AM	How long did it take?
ronleeseberg Mauston, WI 50, joined Jan. 2012	As soon as I filed for divorce I knew I was done with her. If I had thought things could be worked out I would have tried. Once someone cheats the trust is gone and it is over.
5/9/2014 9:26:01 AM	How long did it take?
lynyrd80 Wood River, NE 55, joined Jan. 2014	Quote from ronleeseberg: As soon as I filed for divorce I knew I was done with her. If I had thought things could be worked out I would have tried. Once someone cheats the trust is gone and it is over.
5/9/2014 9:42:30 PM	How long did it take?
zimzane2 High Point, NC 56, joined Jan. 2013	Quote from shutupstupid: Hello everyone .. I'm new to this group and just wondering how long did it take you to accept that your spouse was gone..like really accept it without lying you yourself? The moment it was over with. For real.
5/10/2014 11:42:53 AM	How long did it take?
wsprs0nthewind Powell, TN 52, joined Mar. 2009	Everyone is different in the healing process.
5/10/2014 12:10:10 PM	How long did it take?
her_happiness Chouteau, OK 29, joined Apr. 2014	Quote from wsprs0nthewind: Everyone is different in the healing process. so true. No 2 people cope the same way. Find a way that works best for you. Not what worked best for your friend. Cause you won't see the same results. [Edited 5/10/2014 12:10:50 PM ]
5/12/2014 10:09:30 PM	How long did it take?
mudrat63 Farmer, OH 54, joined Feb. 2014	It took me about five seconds. when i come home and catch her in bed with another guy. after 11 yrs of marriage i walk in on this. . but i got my revenge. i walked them both out of the house at gunpoint with just a blanket around them and locked the doors.
5/14/2014 6:49:00 PM	How long did it take?
pdforone Litchfield, OH 65, joined Jul. 2010	I threw both of mine out with their last mistakes, living with out them in my life made life a lot easier for me.
5/14/2014 7:00:29 PM	How long did it take?
purplerider1200 South Bend, IN 61, joined Aug. 2011	Quote from mudrat63: It took me about five seconds. when i come home and catch her in bed with another guy. after 11 yrs of marriage i walk in on this. . but i got my revenge. i walked them both out of the house at gunpoint with just a blanket around them and locked the doors. Oh GOOD ONE!
5/16/2014 6:23:42 PM	How long did it take?
carmenrlicorice Rancho Cucamonga, CA 54, joined Mar. 2014	This goes out to mudrat63: lol.... Thanks for the laugh!!!
5/18/2014 12:10:19 PM	How long did it take?
countryboy4279 Brighton, CO 38, joined Oct. 2013	Our relationship was going downhill for a while, so it wasn't that much of a surprise when she said that she wanted a divorce. That being said, I admit that it hurt like hell, and I'm still a mess from it a year and a half later, but things are starting to look up for me. Of coarse, everyone is a little different. Good luck to you. It'll get easier eventually.
5/18/2014 12:50:35 PM	How long did it take?
miss_toni84 Greeley, CO 32, joined Dec. 2013	It took me a year and a half and I really didn't sink in tell I seen him again and I was thankful that it was over
5/18/2014 4:15:38 PM	How long did it take?
tyler74171 Mauldin, SC 43, joined Jul. 2013	Quote from jennieomalley: He left me mentally before he left me physically. Once he was physically gone, It was really rough at first. I was numb after a while and then I felt like I had moved on. I anticipated it being finalized for a long time (call it seeking closure, I guess). Our divorce was granted over a year later. I got home from the court house, cried like a baby for a bit, talked to a couple of my sisters and I've been fine ever since. I like to remember all the good times we had, because he was a wonderful husband, and I chose to forgive the bad at the very end. not many like you. Forgiving is about YOU. If we can't do that, the pain becomes self inflicted!
5/19/2014 10:18:47 AM	How long did it take?
zimzane2 High Point, NC 56, joined Jan. 2013	The minute it was over. Relieved.

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