| 5/5/2014 2:48:22 PM |
Been 5 years, still have a hard time dating |
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her_happiness
Chouteau, OK
29, joined Apr. 2014
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It never fails. Every time I try to date someone some pain comes back. I just hope it gets easier. Been single ever since.
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| 5/5/2014 10:16:07 PM |
Been 5 years, still have a hard time dating |
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pickygirl72
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011
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It never fails. Every time I try to date someone some pain comes back.
Than you're not ready to date. Maybe you need counseling to get over it for good. Its nice have good memories of the person, but you need to let go and move on or it will not get easier.
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| 5/5/2014 10:39:03 PM |
Been 5 years, still have a hard time dating |
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brandonjohn8627
Brenton, WV
30, joined Feb. 2014
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i agree with pinky on this one, it is tough to get over but you can't let it keep you down and out
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| 5/5/2014 10:45:58 PM |
Been 5 years, still have a hard time dating |
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her_happiness
Chouteau, OK
29, joined Apr. 2014
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I get what your saying. But I've never been much for counseling. Tried it. Didn't work. The only thing I need now is a girl that is not fake. Seems to be a lot of those nowadays.
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| 5/7/2014 7:05:09 AM |
Been 5 years, still have a hard time dating |
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jrbogie1949
Ventura, CA
68, joined Mar. 2009
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I get what your saying. But I've never been much for counseling. Tried it. Didn't work. The only thing I need now is a girl that is not fake. Seems to be a lot of those nowadays.
you're kidding right? please tell me you're kidding. how many women do you think are out there that want man who can't find happiness within himself first. if you're to be honest on your profile you should display in capitol letters "NEED TONS OF HELP FROM A GIRL TO GET RID OF TONS OF BAGGAGE."
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| 5/7/2014 11:12:19 AM |
Been 5 years, still have a hard time dating |
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her_happiness
Chouteau, OK
29, joined Apr. 2014
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How about this...you do it your way, and I'll to it my way. I didn't post this so jerks can tell me how screwed up I am. 
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| 5/7/2014 1:43:30 PM |
Been 5 years, still have a hard time dating |
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her_happiness
Chouteau, OK
29, joined Apr. 2014
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I put this on here for a little advice. Not for a hookup.
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| 5/8/2014 7:45:19 PM |
Been 5 years, still have a hard time dating |
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sacredx169
Tulsa, OK
27, joined Oct. 2011
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Well, it's true you should love yourself before anyone else (MARK 12:29-31 & Ex. 20:3) However, always put God first. I try to always use this JOY acronym:
1) Jesus
2) Others
3) You
Psalm 37:4 New International Version (NIV)
Take delight in the Lord,
and he will give you the desires of your heart.
Give all your worries and concerns to the Lord, and He will never lead you astray. I hope this helps.
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| 5/9/2014 9:42:59 PM |
Been 5 years, still have a hard time dating |
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zimzane2
High Point, NC
56, joined Jan. 2013
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So much life ahead of you.
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| 5/10/2014 8:44:16 AM |
Been 5 years, still have a hard time dating |
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her_happiness
Chouteau, OK
29, joined Apr. 2014
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^^^yup. That's why I'm taking my time. I believe the relationship thing will happen in it's own time. For now, I just need to worry about myself, and try not to miss it when it does happen lol.
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| 5/13/2014 2:30:01 AM |
Been 5 years, still have a hard time dating |
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lynnlillquist
Minneapolis, MN
50, joined Nov. 2011
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With me it has been 7 years and no dates yet why do some people have a easier time finding someone to love and I have a hard time I think some of these guy on here lie we're they are from they are in the army or they live in united kingdoms when I get to know guys on here reall good I give them my emai address then they tell me they are are in the army or they live in United Kingdom what is wrong with guys these day every time I get interested in a guy they are not from around here in Minnessota or any other state they are usual from they army are they live in United Kingdom I hurts me when I can not find a honest guy on here we're can I find a honest guy at I get fusterated when I can not find a guy   .
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| 6/5/2014 4:55:03 AM |
Been 5 years, still have a hard time dating |
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leowelch
Tucson, AZ
53, joined Apr. 2011
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Was in there for 20 years. Never know what to exspect.
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| 6/5/2014 11:27:27 AM |
Been 5 years, still have a hard time dating |
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robertcoleman89
Marshall, TX
27, joined Sep. 2013
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You know its so hard for u to date cuz ur a p*ssy if ur ex b*tch did u wrong dont mope and cry about it man the f**k up she did wrong shes gone not coming back grow a back bone get a better girl and rub it in her face like yea b*tch thank god u left this sorry mother f**ker cuz I got a better girl
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| 6/7/2014 11:56:48 AM |
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cosmicgem
Springfield, MO
61, joined Jun. 2011
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Obviously your Ex is still winning cause she is controlling your life. Even if she doesnt know she is or isnt trying to. You have given over your will. Perhaps you still love her. You can build her up by remembering only the good things you miss about her. Or.. You can take a realistic look at the reasons you broke up. It couldn't have all been good or you would still be together. Then ask yourself. Do you Really want that person back in your life the way it really was and not the way you Wanted it to have been. We can tear ourselves up with the Way things Should've been. But the reality is They Weren't the way they should have been. Loving someone does Not mean that the two of you were a good match. Now concentrate on Being a good match. And Your Right match will find you and you will find her.
Good luck
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