Yep, that's a tough one. I could be wrong, but women usually like plenty of attention from their man. If he's too busy working, it might not work so well
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cooltroy78
Salt Lake City, UT
39, joined Jan. 2014
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Iv found if I try to flirt or crack a flirty joke people get bent outta shape over it,
Is it me or is the younger generation really standoffish to flirting?
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| 5/5/2014 11:46:01 PM |
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barb32bbw
Sandy, UT
37, joined Mar. 2012
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I think openly flirting is great in person. On the other hand openly flirting on here seems to be taken the wrong way most of the time.
I think its because it can be taken so many ways and people can't hear the inflection in your voice and not quite sure how to take it.
I know a lot of the girls get so many unsolicited junk shots and are bombarded with things such as what the guy on the other end of the computer screen would like to do with your body. So a lot of women on here are jaded. (Not all but a lot of them)
I think flirting is very much a part of starting something between to people but its much more fun in person. Mostly because you get to see how your flirting is affecting the other person.
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| 5/6/2014 12:21:05 AM |
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cooltroy78
Salt Lake City, UT
39, joined Jan. 2014
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I'm still shocked that any man would send a picture of his junk to a woman he hasn't asked permition from first, junk shots are not my idea of flirting, it's right down rude and I can imagin how it makes a lady feel when she is degraded to some thing such as a junk pic,
What would a safe flirt line be?
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| 5/6/2014 5:09:48 AM |
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forthehordekt
Roy, UT
34, joined Jan. 2013
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Haha for real, sounds like dudes are just straight sending in mugshots of their shit. Blows my mind over the audacity of it. I see a few very rare amount of those little status posts of chicks who are just looking to get laid on here, one was even bragging that she sleeps around and then goes back to her boyfriend at home one day. I think those few girls are helping that kind of stupidity to keep on, although it sounds common enough that I'm sure it would have continued regardless. I like sex as much as the next person, but I'd rather get to that point with someone I connect well with and feel more than just lust for. I think Barb hit the nail on the head, most people are too jaded by all that dumb crap that they probably immediately jump to the conclusion that that's all flirters are looking for.
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| 5/6/2014 9:06:11 AM |
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barb32bbw
Sandy, UT
37, joined Mar. 2012
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I'm still shocked that any man would send a picture of his junk to a woman he hasn't asked permition from first, junk shots are not my idea of flirting, it's right down rude and I can imagin how it makes a lady feel when she is degraded to some thing such as a junk pic,
What would a safe flirt line be?
I wish I could tell you a safe flirt line. The only problem is one line could work with one woman but offend another.
I like to meet rather quickly instead of doing long drawn out messages. Because you really don't know someone until you meet in person and then I say bring on the flirting. 
That's just how I feel though.
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| 5/6/2014 10:03:59 AM |
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cooltroy78
Salt Lake City, UT
39, joined Jan. 2014
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Your both right!
I guess I'll stick to what iv been doing cause it's worked so fare, anyways as for a flirt line or a come on line the timing would be wrong, I think my biggest problem is really that I work to much, 6 days a week and most of those outta town doesn't leave alota time for dating,
Lol how could I butter up the fact that i work to much  works great and all but I do think it scares away alot of dates!!??
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| 5/6/2014 10:20:14 PM |
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lovelylilacutah
Orem, UT
49, joined May. 2013
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Lol how could I butter up the fact that i work to much works great and all but I do think it scares away alot of dates!!?? |
| 5/7/2014 12:16:01 AM |
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rick0123
Salt Lake City, UT
31, joined Jan. 2012
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Lol how could I butter up the fact that i work to much works great and all but I do think it scares away alot of dates!!??
Yep, that's a tough one. I could be wrong, but women usually like plenty of attention from their man. If he's too busy working, it might not work so well 
I work a lot and it's mostly out of town. I just got back to Houston from working ten days straight in Alaska but I still made time to txt and call my girlfriend and let her know that I'm thinking about her. It's true that not all women can handle it but I'm lucky to have a supportive girlfriend.
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| 5/7/2014 4:50:32 AM |
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forthehordekt
Roy, UT
34, joined Jan. 2013
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Yup, I feel that frustration. I had an ex who was both pissed I didn't make enough money to have the kind of fun she wanted, and then when I turned around and picked up a second job she got pissed that I worked too much.  Couldn't win with that one.
I find myself working two jobs again. I don't doubt for a second that's going to be a hurdle when it comes to seeing someone.
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| 5/7/2014 8:38:54 PM |
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cooltroy78
Salt Lake City, UT
39, joined Jan. 2014
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Dammit brother, I'm sorry to hear your ex old lady pulled that card on you, iv had that exact same story feed to me and it really burns me bad when they pull that shit,
Again I'm sorry bro,
I can't tell you any advice other than her telling you she wanted more money was a cheap shot and deffanently below the belt,
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| 5/7/2014 9:41:58 PM |
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dreamofangels
West Jordan, UT
53, joined Jul. 2013
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I work a lot and it's mostly out of town. I just got back to Houston from working ten days straight in Alaska but I still made time to txt and call my girlfriend and let her know that I'm thinking about her. It's true that not all women can handle it but I'm lucky to have a supportive girlfriend.
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| 5/8/2014 10:24:25 AM |
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cooltroy78
Salt Lake City, UT
39, joined Jan. 2014
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When I'm outta town I'm only gone over night, I do 3 over night runs a week and am home on the weekend, I think I'm home enoff,
Lol I'm probably just dating the wrong women,
I like high matinance so Im sure my relationship troubles are most likely self induced injures 
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| 5/8/2014 11:32:06 AM |
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rick0123
Salt Lake City, UT
31, joined Jan. 2012
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When I'm outta town I'm only gone over night, I do 3 over night runs a week and am home on the weekend, I think I'm home enoff,
Lol I'm probably just dating the wrong women,
I like high matinance so Im sure my relationship troubles are most likely self induced injures
Yeah. That could be it.
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| 6/26/2014 2:21:16 PM |
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dreamofangels
West Jordan, UT
53, joined Jul. 2013
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I have flirted with my boyfriend but honestly I'm so bad at it I don't think he got that I was flirting 
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| 6/30/2014 12:26:45 AM |
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davidsr77
Sandy, UT
40, joined Aug. 2013
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People flirt all the time. You just have to go to the right forums. But most important... is to step out of your comfort zone a little. Don't wait for someone else to start something.
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| 7/22/2014 3:14:47 AM |
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bellakie
Salt Lake City, UT
26, joined Jul. 2014
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Love open flirting keeps things interesting but sending picks of your d!ck and more without even knowing the person is just distasteful. Not even when you know the person.
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| 7/22/2014 8:00:30 AM |
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topendstuff
Eden, UT
61, joined May. 2007
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Peoples way of flirting varies. To show your "stuff" might be that is all they have to offer? IE Don't matter the gender but too much skin kind of puts it out there that is all you want and get a rather shallow n short relationship.
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| 8/20/2014 4:11:05 PM |
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j1dgf76
Sandy, UT
25, joined Dec. 2012
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I think flirting is a bit of a lost art. It sucks that the rest of society has decided that its totally normal to skip the "courting" and just make it a stop or go decision on just jumping into bed at the drop of a hat.
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