6/8/2014 2:55:25 PM |
Divorce is finalizing, it's been tough to start over |
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mooret14
Sarasota, FL
39, joined May. 2014
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Hi going through this divorce has been draining, the packing, moving, the disrespectful friends and family (her side) and just the starting over. Emotionally I am ok just ready to start over and break free. Any suggestions?
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6/9/2014 1:18:32 AM |
Divorce is finalizing, it's been tough to start over |
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pickygirl72
Pinon Hills, CA
47, joined Sep. 2011
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Don't jump into a new relationship.
Take time for yourself. Get yourself in a good daily routine in your new surroundings.
Find a hobby. Join a club, like gardening club (just an exapmle).
Contact old friends and go hang out.
Go find yourself. Get your old self back.
Relax. Travel (even by yourself). Enjoy life.
Get counseling if you need it.
And again don't jump into another relationship. Take time. Recover.
Good luck.
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6/9/2014 10:17:58 PM |
Divorce is finalizing, it's been tough to start over |
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ronleeseberg
Mauston, WI
51, joined Jan. 2012
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I went back and finished High school, made some friends, and started having fun again. Just do things to keep busy and have fun.
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6/10/2014 7:48:29 AM |
Divorce is finalizing, it's been tough to start over |
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jrbogie1949
Ventura, CA
68, joined Mar. 2009
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best to stay away from dating sites until you've gone through what you're going through. women have their own baggage to deal with and aren't ready to take on yours. just sayin'.
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6/12/2014 7:24:26 PM |
Divorce is finalizing, it's been tough to start over |
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hfradio
Pearland, TX
74, joined Jun. 2011
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Hi going through this divorce has been draining, the packing, moving, the disrespectful friends and family (her side) and just the starting over. Emotionally I am ok just ready to start over and break free. Any suggestions?
have learned anything about yourself ---
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6/18/2014 8:38:59 PM |
Divorce is finalizing, it's been tough to start over |
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sprockettvonc
Erlanger, KY
56, joined Dec. 2013
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Emotionally I am ok just ready to start over and break free.
Any suggestions?
Take time for yourself - get back into old hobbies or interests, or pick up some new ones.
But most importantly, you need to let the dust settle before jumping back in.
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7/20/2014 6:53:28 AM |
Divorce is finalizing, it's been tough to start over |
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stone_jones
Agawam, MA
48, joined May. 2014
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I feel for you baby...its better you are patient before enagaging ones again..am single too and hoping to be engaged someday
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7/24/2014 3:59:29 PM |
Divorce is finalizing, it's been tough to start over |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
49, joined Jan. 2012
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Hi going through this divorce has been draining, the packing, moving, the disrespectful friends and family (her side) and just the starting over. Emotionally I am ok just ready to start over and break free. Any suggestions?
Go out and find you a chick to have sex with and have a great time and soon you will be moving on and forgetting about the past. Take some time for yourself and then later on try to get in to something more serious.
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7/25/2014 9:49:05 PM |
Divorce is finalizing, it's been tough to start over |
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areyoumyking
Madison Heights, VA
44, joined Jun. 2014
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First of all make sure you are not blaming yourself for the failed marriage. It takes 2 people to make the relationship work.
I myself have recently went through a divorce. Has it been easy? Of course it hasn't. I blamed myself for the divorce for the longest time. I've had to deal with that as I took the time to heal my broken heart.
I knew that I did what I needed to do in the marriage to make it work. You ask yourself why did this happen, what did I do wrong, how could I have made it work? You will eventually realize that you are strong enough to get past the hurt.
Take the time for "you" to find yourself again. To let the hurt go away.
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