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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
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Thought i'd try this topic but you can't use money or sex as a must.So take time and think whats important.
My 3 would be
1. Available time.I'd like to vest more the just weekend time.
2. Honesty
3. Communication
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| 6/13/2014 6:40:52 AM |
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janet5360
Pittsburgh, PA
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Single, no chemical addictions, healthy,
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| 6/13/2014 7:01:56 AM |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
61, joined Apr. 2006
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Janet I agree with all that you listed and was based the question on being single.
lol dummy me put it at 3 things,because some would have pages lists.
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| 6/13/2014 10:00:13 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
52, joined Jul. 2013
online now!
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Communication
Have time for me
Like kids
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| 6/15/2014 8:21:10 PM |
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renata9784
Glade Spring, VA
38, joined Feb. 2014
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Understanding
honesty
sparks
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| 6/16/2014 6:42:03 AM |
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texasgirl_1978
Grapevine, TX
39, joined Sep. 2013
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My 3 would be:
1. Communication
2. Trust/ Honesty
3. Understanding of my limitations due to having Dystonia.
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| 6/16/2014 12:03:18 PM |
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cinnamonnhaze
Minneapolis, MN
73, joined Apr. 2014
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Just 3??? How many times can I post???
- Honesty!
- Sense of humor.
- Kindness towards others (& I mean how he treats a waitress, or a homeless person, or animals. I swerve around frogs!)
Alady, I need way more than 3. After my ex, I'm going to be very very picky.
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| 6/16/2014 1:42:12 PM |
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pickygirl72
Picher, OK
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you can't use money or sex as a must.
2. Honesty
3. Communication
I think 2 and 3 should be included in the "can't use". I feel those two are what we all want. Heck I think for me its more important that $ and sex. Sure he has to have a job (I have a job).
So my top three would be...
1. Time, don't want a workaholic.
2. Affection (not sex), things like holding hands and cuddling. (My ex wasn't that affectionate).
3. Compatibilty, (same interests. Not all but enough to enjoy doing things together).
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| 6/21/2014 6:46:13 AM |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
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Picky love your view point and you have a great 3 list thanks.
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| 6/21/2014 12:56:25 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
52, joined Jul. 2013
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 ladies, have a great saturday. . 
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| 6/21/2014 1:42:35 PM |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
61, joined Apr. 2006
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waves to packer
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| 6/25/2014 1:35:51 PM |
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roses_tulips
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2014
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Must be single, nonsmoker, respectful
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| 6/25/2014 6:28:49 PM |
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vickie0621
Las Cruces, NM
37, joined May. 2014
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Quality time together: spending time with friends n families are good, but need just two of us times
Honesty (no lies, or lies by omission): I can take the truth even if it hurts... and I dont need empty compliments... I dont like the shock and pain of finding truth myself later
Listen to each other: not just by spoken words, behaviors or passing comments are just as important... theres two ppl involved in a relationship, need to take note of likes and dislikes of your partner... but most importantly, understand what is most important to your partner...
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| 6/27/2014 10:11:09 AM |
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smileforme001
Belle Glade, FL
52, joined Apr. 2014
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Communication
Communication
Communication
You don't have anything without the above.
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| 7/20/2014 9:02:08 PM |
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bubbles97
Waldorf, MD
43, joined Jun. 2014
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I think that my 3 things would have to be....
Communication
Independent
Single!!!!
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| 8/12/2014 6:49:37 PM |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
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I know I posted 3 as this is my thread.I took more time to think about this and have some different views.
A relationship is not just a few meetings casually,Knowing you both want a one on one relationship.That would be a must,and past woman are past.
Knowing you have to make time for each other,and travel might be involved.Plan in advance but be open for extended time spent.
Someone healthy and active is a must,which requires both need car facts on their health.
STD's, heart, etc...Don't want to kill ya if the relationship progress sexually...lol only thinking of you dear.
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| 8/13/2014 12:08:53 AM |
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imaceltic1
Eugene, OR
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Well I wouldn't be in a relationship with them if they weren't single so that one is out of the way so..........
1 sense of humor
2 good communication skills. they have make the effort to listen and understand just as I would for them
3 their has to be a "spark", I don't care how much money they have or what kind of car they drive or if they have a P.H.D. it means zip to me if I don't have any attraction to them
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| 8/13/2014 2:34:38 AM |
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yetskimama
Walterboro, SC
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Have not dated in 14 year's and i'm not looking just want to say HI
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| 8/13/2014 10:04:51 PM |
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taprd
Sterling Heights, MI
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1. Trust
2. Honesty
3. Communication
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| 8/16/2014 12:46:09 PM |
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brazzedbb
Atlanta, GA
27, joined Jun. 2014
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Time
Personality Attraction
Communication.
That's for me.
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| 8/18/2014 8:59:52 PM |
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justbewondered
New Raymer, CO
64, joined May. 2012
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Get to know the person in all areas, trust, and sort out promises that are made to the point of are they going to be kept or just promises to catch your interest
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| 8/19/2014 9:52:38 AM |
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smplelife
Taylorville, IL
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1) free time. Being able to be spontaneous.
2) honest/sincere communication
3)fitness.
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| 8/20/2014 10:44:56 PM |
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mizzangeleyezo4
Tujunga, CA
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Honesty, communication and sense of humor
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| 9/19/2014 3:42:29 AM |
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shayla585
Rochester, NY
32, joined Nov. 2012
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1. Respect
2. Mature
3. Communication
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| 9/19/2014 6:28:19 AM |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
61, joined Apr. 2006
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Viewing the response looks like there is 2 factors woman look for.
Communication and Honesty.Always
Hopefully the males who view this thread take notice.If they are looking for a relationship.
I'm sure there are some males can understand with out asking their penis.
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| 9/22/2014 8:47:49 PM |
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friendsfirst82
Puyallup, WA
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Communication
Truth
Loyalty
[Edited 9/22/2014 8:48:12 PM ]
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| 9/25/2014 9:37:10 AM |
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sweetnshy181
Roanoke, VA
36, joined Mar. 2011
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1. Trust & honesty
2. Maturity
3. No games
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| 10/13/2014 9:58:11 PM |
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julie24000
Dublin, GA
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1. Honesty.2. Trust.3. Communication. And trying to understand my seizures.
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| 10/16/2014 6:58:28 AM |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
61, joined Apr. 2006
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must be a man
must be a man
must be a man
Not sure what's going on but ladies i'm not gay.But wish you the best in your search.
Now since that's clear>>>>.Honesty,Communication,Trust
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| 10/18/2014 6:13:25 AM |
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sunnydaythree
Grand Blanc, MI
33, joined Mar. 2014
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Communicate
Caring
Good smile
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| 10/20/2014 9:15:21 PM |
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starr_so_happy
Perry, IA
33, joined Jun. 2014
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I agree
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| 10/21/2014 11:40:45 AM |
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darlinjessica
Claremont, CA
31, joined Nov. 2013
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Trust
Respect
Sex
It's quite simple
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| 10/21/2014 12:59:50 PM |
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life_is_gooood
Lawrenceville, GA
44, joined Sep. 2014
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1. Job (not as in $ as mentioned by OP but responsibility)
2. Home/Car (independent, not living in Mom's basement unless she's sick and he's her caretaker)
3. Nice teeth/hygiene
Then we'll move onto phase 2.
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| 11/4/2014 2:53:11 AM |
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_beautifulwreck
Demotte, IN
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I 100% agree with those three but where do you find it lol
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| 11/4/2014 2:54:13 AM |
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_beautifulwreck
Demotte, IN
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My bad:
Honesty
Time
Communication
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| 11/4/2014 6:27:09 AM |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
61, joined Apr. 2006
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I 100% agree with those three but where do you find it lol
Being the 3 things you look for 100%.Some people have a past that may show threw even in their search.Takes years of mending yourself.Taking hold of 100% of your convictions.Never demand your expectations.
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| 11/4/2014 6:38:26 PM |
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mtrctylady
Canton, MI
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@aladytoo. I just love this topic. Sorry for posting late. Tried to come up with just 3 (OMG!! ) I want 1) affection (Not just affection, but PDA as well. Show me and everyone else that you're into me.) 2) compatibility (I love music, sports, and reading. He should love at least one of those.), and 3) a great sense of humor. I agree with the lady above who said he didn't need a PhD. As a matter of fact, that is a big turn-off. He should at least have graduated from high school.
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| 1/5/2015 9:25:46 AM |
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midnightblue222
Canton, MI
52, joined Nov. 2014
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Mine are
1 honest
2 spend time with me not your job
3 commucate
4 trust I'm starting to trust again I'm working on that one
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| 1/5/2015 9:30:46 PM |
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mizzangeleyezo4
Tujunga, CA
41, joined Jan. 2013
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1. Single
2. Age
3. Maturity
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| 1/8/2015 1:59:58 AM |
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wildheart51
Sunset, SC
98, joined Dec. 2014
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Integrity
Self Respect
Affectionate
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| 1/8/2015 5:26:51 AM |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
61, joined Apr. 2006
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Since I started this post,would love to ask a question in regards to the answers many have posted.
The 3 you have posted are you 100% sure you offer the same back.Something to ponder on.
We all have good intent,but we all could use buffing up ourself.
wax on wax off
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| 1/8/2015 5:32:38 AM |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
61, joined Apr. 2006
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Just 3??? How many times can I post???
- Honesty!
- Sense of humor.
- Kindness towards others (& I mean how he treats a waitress, or a homeless person, or animals. I swerve around frogs!)
Alady, I need way more than 3. After my ex, I'm going to be very very picky.
Cinn with the 3 you posted the others will fall in place,with a good foundation.
Your x is only one man,and he's a past,totally clear past.
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| 1/8/2015 10:41:06 AM |
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waki_1
Suwanee, GA
51, joined Sep. 2014
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In stating a new relationship
1..Chemistry..which starts with good phone calls that entail finding things you like about each other..with you both able to speak freely...
2. Physical attraction..and I dont mean looks only but things like a nice smile, great mannerisms, clean hygiene, how he dresses and how he reacts to other people.
3. An active member in society...works, socially active and just gets out and about and doesnt just lay around the house...
That would be a great start...
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| 1/11/2015 8:22:41 PM |
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50sweetdee
Elizabethtown, KY
54, joined Dec. 2013
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1. Integrity
2. honest communication
3. Some Energy lol most have to have power naps?? I haven't met many who has the stamina as I, job, home, family.
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| 1/11/2015 10:31:02 PM |
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1mantis
Louisville, KY
51, joined Apr. 2010
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Pick three...
1) Respects my space and privacy.
2) His moral compass points in the same direction as mine.
3) Sense of humor.
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| 1/12/2015 12:20:14 AM |
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lifeplanner
Fort Worth, TX
45, joined Nov. 2013
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1.He must have a relationship with Jesus. Which is very different from just knowing him.
2. He must pay tithe, and that means before taxes are taken out.
3. Have a heart to serve.
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| 1/12/2015 5:46:53 AM |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
61, joined Apr. 2006
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Pick three...
1) Respects my space and privacy.
2) His moral compass points in the same direction as mine.
3) Sense of humor.
Best 3 answers that make sense,if your considering a relationship.
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| 1/14/2015 10:47:23 PM |
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pickygirl72
Picher, OK
47, joined Sep. 2011
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So my top three would be...
1. Time, don't want a workaholic.
2. Affection (not sex), things like holding hands and cuddling. (My ex wasn't that affectionate).
3. Compatibilty, (same interests. Not all but enough to enjoy doing things together).
but I really need to have a guy have a sense of humor/witty banter, very important.
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| 1/17/2015 5:07:54 PM |
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smthgabouther
Baltimore, MD
36, joined Dec. 2012
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Trust, communication, and loyalty.
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| 1/21/2015 12:48:51 AM |
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gab8888
Albany, NY
45, joined Aug. 2014
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1.COMMUNICATION 2.RESPECT....::  3.HIGH LIBIDO ..
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| 1/28/2015 3:10:33 AM |
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ninjafacepierat
Metairie, LA
29, joined Apr. 2013
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A peanus, a sexy face and the know how to please a woman.
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| 1/29/2015 8:38:17 AM |
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sagepopper72
Globe, AZ
45, joined Aug. 2014
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i know we're supposed to only name 3 things, but I really need more than that before I'll even consider committing myself to another relationship.
I guess the 3 main ones would be:
Compatibility
Communication
Honesty
In addition to these, I feel trust is a biggie. If one or the other has trust issues, there's always going to be problems.
Another is location. My "me time"...time away from work, school, other obligations...is limited so I don't want to spend it traveling or waiting around. I would prefer someone in my immediate area.
I guess it goes without saying they must also be single
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| 1/31/2015 7:03:55 PM |
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001snatch
Marysville, WA
57, joined Aug. 2013
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Attractive, honest, caring.
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| 1/31/2015 10:25:24 PM |
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sweetacting
Granite Falls, NC
56, joined Dec. 2014
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In stating a new relationship
1..Chemistry..which starts with good phone calls that entail finding things you like about each other..with you both able to speak freely...
2. Physical attraction..and I dont mean looks only but things like a nice smile, great mannerisms, clean hygiene, how he dresses and how he reacts to other people.
3. An active member in society...works, socially active and just gets out and about and doesnt just lay around the house...
That would be a great start...
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| 1/31/2015 10:27:11 PM |
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sweetacting
Granite Falls, NC
56, joined Dec. 2014
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A peanus, a sexy face and the know how to please a woman.
did u know u spelled penis wrong lol
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| 2/1/2015 2:03:46 AM |
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roseanne1
Trenton, MI
43, joined Feb. 2013
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to answer the ph or text , commication,love
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| 2/1/2015 5:17:16 AM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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Communication
Compatibility
Acceptance
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| 2/5/2015 5:37:53 AM |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
61, joined Apr. 2006
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Even tho most have given 3 logical answers,which guessing we feel can form a bond.But seems odd men have a different 3 answers.
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| 2/17/2015 9:40:37 PM |
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whynotme455
Canton, MI
52, joined Jan. 2015
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1 trust
2 communication
3 no secrets from each other
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| 2/19/2015 10:07:02 AM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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Significant other
Unconditional acceptance
Similar passions (heart, mind, body, & spirit)
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