| 8/15/2014 6:43:01 AM |
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dikinyotonsils
Houston, TX
38, joined Jun. 2013
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We have kids together.
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| 8/16/2014 7:00:55 PM |
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stamina1975
Madison Heights, VA
97, joined Apr. 2012
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Sometimes you just have to forgive. But probably the most important thing when it comes to an ex is to just forget them.
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| 8/16/2014 7:18:08 PM |
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barrydalmi
Baltimore, MD
52, joined Dec. 2007
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Money (period)
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| 8/16/2014 11:04:33 PM |
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wedontgiveaf
Vancouver, WA
28, joined Dec. 2013
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| 8/20/2014 6:58:00 PM |
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stamina1975
Madison Heights, VA
97, joined Apr. 2012
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lol
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| 8/22/2014 3:15:04 PM |
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mizzangeleyezo4
San Pedro, CA
39, joined Jan. 2013
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Because we have a child in common
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| 9/28/2014 11:02:00 AM |
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stamina1975
Madison Heights, VA
97, joined Apr. 2012
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I really wish they never did.
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| 10/12/2014 5:19:18 PM |
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nickadamsii
Smithville, MO
50, joined Jun. 2014
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This forum is just depressing the hell out of me. One the other hand, I can probably turn some of your responses into a hit country song.
Like this one a lot!
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| 10/13/2014 2:31:35 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
56, joined Feb. 2010
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What reasons do you know of or think an ex might have to contact you from time to time?
If you are an ex, what are your most interesting reasons/ulterior motives?
The only time my ex ever reaches out to me is to ask for more alimony.
I never contact any of my exes. They became exes for a reason.
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| 10/13/2014 3:42:08 AM |
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carolina_chic51
Salem, SC
52, joined Sep. 2014
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Im trying to get over a break up... i called quits... but im soooooooooooooo tempted to call him, go see him, get him back... i just miss him... i miss his scent... i miss his smiles... i just miss him... the insane urges may be a reason some ppl reach out to their ex's...
Im sooooooo close from calling... thus so many hours spent here...
Oh how I know what you're going through. That's how I found this site and became addicted to it. That was 3 years ago. Hang in there. It gets easier.
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| 10/14/2014 5:28:16 PM |
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nickadamsii
Smithville, MO
50, joined Jun. 2014
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I feel for the original poster. I found someone that I thought I was going to marry (and I have never been married -- wonder why?). We moved to a new city together and bought a house. After a year and half or so (6 months after we bought the house) she cheated on me. Of course that ended it for me. Hate kept me going for the first six months after we broke up.
Her new relationship folded in about a month. She started making nice saying that she just needed some time be alone. After that there was about a year where I alternately yelled at her and begged her to come back. Although truth be told if she hadn't showed up on the front door I wouldn't have taken her back without a lot of talking. No one I know believes that. (I've spent to long in therapy, I can't tie my shoes without talking about it.) The cheating and the breakup completely blindsided me. I recognize that it takes two people, but for the life of me I don't know what I missed although I did go through a lengthy illness. I'm still not entirely sure why we broke up. For about the first six months or so she'd contact me for money (Hell No!) and for the first two years after we broke up she would ask for free legal help. (Uh, No!) Of course she didn't contact me at all after that and every couple of months I'd contact her to take her temperature. I missed her so much and it hurt for such a long time; it hurts now. I have gone a few dates since we broke up I haven't had any interest in anyone else. I could make some sweeping generalizations about love, relationships, her or how my life is better off without her. When is it pursuing someone you love until they love you and when is it beating a dead horse. Whatever she has said to me, she really has not looked back from the day we broke up. When I was looking hope she was vague enough to keep me going. If I could change one thing about all of this, that would be it. Over time, considering her serious relationships, about a year and half is all that anyone gets. Makes me wonder if I could have done anything to really save this relationship. Thank you.
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| 10/14/2014 5:33:30 PM |
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dixie_dancer
Kansas City, KS
27, joined Feb. 2013
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they're drunk. they're lonely. the girl they replaced you with ended up not being any "grass is greener on the other side". who knows. who cares. ignore that call. if you haven't already blocked his number.
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| 10/14/2014 5:44:22 PM |
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secretgem81
Erie, PA
34, joined Oct. 2013
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They want to see if the door is still open
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| 10/14/2014 5:50:16 PM |
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stamina1975
Madison Heights, VA
97, joined Apr. 2012
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They thought about you missed ur company
I've got that before, unfortunately I could never really trust that particular lady just looking back on some red flags I turned a blind eye to. Good thing when she did decide to drop that text on me about missing my company I was with another heart-breaker.
I haven't been contacted by any ex's since the beginning of August.
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| 10/14/2014 7:08:26 PM |
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toshort2waste
Diboll, TX
58, joined Mar. 2012
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I can add broke to that list
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| 10/14/2014 8:16:31 PM |
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badasscouple33
Douglas, AZ
35, joined Aug. 2014
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For sex and only sex probably
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| 10/14/2014 9:36:51 PM |
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verginmenot
Saint Cloud, MN
41, joined Aug. 2014
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SEX
Same 
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| 10/24/2014 3:30:09 AM |
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stamina1975
Madison Heights, VA
97, joined Apr. 2012
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It never seems to be just plain old friendship...
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| 10/24/2014 4:51:05 AM |
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marriedncheatin
Twin Falls, ID
49, joined Jul. 2012
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What reasons do you know of or think an ex might have to contact you from time to time?
If you are an ex, what are your most interesting reasons/ulterior motives?
Well my past lovers text me once in awhile.. many are still friends but I seriously think they miss the sex I have them
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