I know plenty of people who do that. Not just with deceased spouses but with others they've lost, too. I've done it, too. I think, especially, if there is a place to go that you can associate with the person, you do it.

I think it's healthy and normal and usual to go see, to go talk and have conversations of a sort. I think it can help you move through it and can help you crystallize whatever problem or issue or thought you're having that you've taken to him to talk about.

Most importantly, if it gives you comfort, then that's all it needs to do, and you should do it regardless of others' thoughts about it.

Not only do I still talk to my husband, I dream about him almost every time I sleep (even day naps)..
Is anyone else still dreaming about their spouse too?..

The dreams are bitter sweet..then when I wake, there's such a heavy sadness once reality sets in..I miss him so much..

I cared for my parents from 2005-2010 when my Dad passed. Mom had passed a year earlier and that was bad enough, as I still had Dad. When he passed, I totally lost it and slept 20 hours a day, 7 days a week for two months straight. Finally someone insisted I get counseling, which I then did. I thought I had overcome the depression, but in 2012, I felt it creeping back in.

I called the head grief counselor at Hospice who recommended I join their griever's support group which met one night a week for six weeks. I subsequently did so and after six weeks felt totally alive again. The week I finished the support group, I started dreaming about my parents seven nights a week and even in my afternoon naps. They are very vivid and we converse with each other, just as if they were still here. Twice I have heard Mom audibly call my name, waking me from a sound sleep. Occasionally, I get a whiff of Dad's after shave Aqua Velvet. It's like they are visiting me to keep me from further bouts of depression. So, if people want to call me crazy, I don't care. I am just grateful that I am blessed by my parents visiting me on a nightly basis.