I was married 27 years to the second wife and if she walked in front of me nude yep I would jump her bones. It all depends on YOU.
Something to think about. You being 58 do you think you look like a 18 year old. Naaaaa far from it. Lets see most guys added pounds just like the ladies, and bald or going bald. So I say look at it from the ladies point too. If you were a lady would you want to have sex with you.

Another woman hater on here I see today.


Actually feel sorry for you op. When you really love someone, you desire them.

The interesting thing here is that you fail to recognize how you yourself have changed.

Aging is a natural progression for all of us. You are not excluded from that.

You put emphahsis in the wrong place. Not all about looks.

Sure we need to take care of ourselves, no doubt. But we are not going to be a perfect 10.

Seems to me op you are getting off the subject of your thread. In your thread, you only said about women that are no longer 18 and because of it you no longer desire them. At least you alluded to the fact that youth equates to beauty.

As for how I look. You have miserably failed in your assumptions. I do indeed take care of myself and eat right most of the time.

You are not going to be able to insult me here. I do not place value on your opinions at all. Your standards are not the same as mine. I am thankful they are not.

While it is true you do need to have a physcial attraction to a person, when you love them you accept them for who they are.

You sir, place to much empahisis on the physical beauty instead of the inner beauty.
That outter beauty will fade with years, I don't care who you are.

I heard something a woman friend said. "What husband could refuse to make love to his wife, that walked in front of him, nude". I can see that, with newly married young people. Put ten, or so years on that, and I don't see that happening anymore. I'm all for making a woman feel desirable, but come on now, get real. Unless you've made some life altering changes instantly, or just jumped into the fountain of youth, and came out with a bod of an 18 year old, I don't see that happening. Do women have that high opinion of themselves? I hate to break this to you, but the newness DOES wear off.

What's your opinion on this?

No, or at least not yet. You just managed to strike a nerve with me. "Funny that a man of your age hasn't figured that out yet."

Well guess what? Not every man is highly experenced with women. We are unaware of all the stupid little nuances and hints that women throw out. I'm sure that most women have some experence with men by the age of twenty. I had none, because I was painfully shy during my teen years. The only thing I really learned during those years, was that women cut you no slack. Rather than attempt to figure them out, I learned to find substitute, and make due with what was. Now there was a rare few that could see where I would come up short, took a chance, and got the reward of a guy that listened a great deal, and cared for them. Sooner or later however, they would get bored, or aggravated with me, and write off the whole experence as a bad deal. I've been told that women are compassionate, and patient. Sorry, I don't believe it. I've grown hard and cynical, and will weather any and all insults. I've seen plenty with this topic. You all get to read opinions rendered, I haven't trashed anyone's thoughts. Call me a product, an end result of the treatment I have received from women.

A dog can be kicked only so many times before he will turn on you, or pay you no mind.I gave up turning on you, so I pay you no mind.

I struck a nerve? Good, 'cause I meant to. You come across as a mommas boy. By your own words before you get all pissy.. If, as an adult man, you made the wrong choices, then blame your upbringing I guess. A domineering mother. Easy to fall back on that chit and cover your own p*ssy whipped and angry ass. Yep, you would be the end product as long as you didn't pass that chit on to a son.

Get over yourself.

Interesting how the majority of the answers address the looks or appearance. The majority also went to body weight when describing unfavorable sexual attractiveness

I was married for close to 25 years. I don't recall a single moment when I felt my wife 's physical appearance made an impact on my desire to engage in sexual activities. I do recall multiple moments when our attitude did.

Want to keep the sex you share rewarding for you both? Communicate , treat each other respectfully, and start the foreplay when you wake up /- Good morning sexy how did you sleep. keep at it till you go to bed at night. The kids were funny honey... Good night sweetcheeks... If you only communicate during sex. You won't be having a lot of if

Interesting how the majority of the answers address the looks or appearance. The majority also went to body weight when describing unfavorable sexual attractiveness

I was married for close to 25 years. I don't recall a single moment when I felt my wife 's physical appearance made an impact on my desire to engage in sexual activities. I do recall multiple moments when our attitude did.

Want to keep the sex you share rewarding for you both? Communicate , treat each other respectfully, and start the foreplay when you wake up /- Good morning sexy how did you sleep. keep at it till you go to bed at night. The kids were funny honey... Good night sweetcheeks... If you only communicate during sex. You won't be having a lot of if

I heard something a woman friend said. "What husband could refuse to make love to his wife, that walked in front of him, nude". I can see that, with newly married young people. Put ten, or so years on that, and I don't see that happening anymore. I'm all for making a woman feel desirable, but come on now, get real. Unless you've made some life altering changes instantly, or just jumped into the fountain of youth, and came out with a bod of an 18 year old, I don't see that happening. Do women have that high opinion of themselves? I hate to break this to you, but the newness DOES wear off.

What's your opinion on this?