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pookie185
Houston, TX
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Dated this girl for about a month n during which time developed a relationship with her two boys. They didn't have a video game so I brought them one. Not trying to be there father or anything just seen that they needed n bought it. How ever chick thought this was cool to but we went to a park one day all of us n came back to their place. She was decided to prepare something to eat n me n the boys were talking n living room about football. Chick stormed out the kitchen saying LOUD ( ur not gone do us like this, ur not gone play with our hearts) me n the boys were shocked!! I told her she was crazy!! N told her boys to go to their room because their mom had FLIPPED OUT!!! my question to u guys is, do u prefer that WE ( men) not interact with ur children or do we
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| 7/21/2014 2:07:48 PM |
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pike45
Omaha, NE
63, joined Feb. 2009
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Dont involve the kids, until you know for sure, that the relationship is going somewhere.
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| 7/21/2014 2:33:05 PM |
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pookie185
Houston, TX
47, joined Apr. 2013
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True! But if u do is it wrong to interact with them as I did? I mean I only took THEM (kids) out a few times n bought a video game because they didn't have one. Why would she act like she did?
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| 7/21/2014 6:10:58 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
51, joined Jul. 2013
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Maybe she thought about there dad, he must have played with there hearts and left so she figure she seeing it all over again, but she behave wrongly and u didn't do nothing wrong in my book, now if u hadn't interact with her kids then she would have wonder the reason why.so are u still with her?
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| 7/21/2014 6:13:54 PM |
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hurryme
Bloomingdale, GA
51, joined Mar. 2011
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Did you ask her before coming to this place called hell?
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| 7/21/2014 6:23:19 PM |
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inni_dreamz
Pasadena, CA
52, joined Nov. 2012
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If she introduced you to her children, you did nothing wrong (based on what you wrote) by interacting with them.
It was her call to bring you all together.
It sounds like she has issues, if you ask me.
Why would she flip out like that in front of her kids? If she had an issue with you hanging out with them, why invite you to?
None of that makes sense. 
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| 7/21/2014 6:40:17 PM |
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righttwix
Fort Garland, CO
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agree she sounds like she's a few bricks shy of a load, most women I know would live to find a guy that would accept them and their kids as a package deal
Only thing i could see wrong with what you said was maybe she figured you were trying to use the kids to get closer to her, sort of like she wasn't feeling it but was pressured to continue because the kids liked you, could also have been her ex was an ass, and made her do all the house work while he sat on his a** watching football so it caused a flashback
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| 7/21/2014 8:06:09 PM |
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pookie185
Houston, TX
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No I doubt seriously that it had anything to do with her past.I believe after all I had done and tried to continue with her n her kids she got scared. And she couldn't handle it.
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| 7/21/2014 8:12:50 PM |
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pookie185
Houston, TX
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Thanx for u guys input!! N no we're not together, that ended that day!! Lol
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| 7/21/2014 8:36:33 PM |
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toosweet611
Houston, TX
41, joined Mar. 2014
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Omg.....wht a nut.. I was wonderin was she drinkin??...
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| 7/21/2014 9:04:57 PM |
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chevy6620052
Houston, TX
57, joined May. 2013
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Find a bid, fat, ugly woman. They're the Best.
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| 7/21/2014 11:14:47 PM |
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ms_holland
Danville, AL
52, joined Mar. 2014
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Op her behavior was ridiculous!
I limit how much time my son interacts with any dates I may have.
As a matter of a fact he usually does not even meet them.
I keep my dating life and him seperate. It is better for the child to do so.
Now should I find someone to date and be with for long term that would be different.
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| 7/21/2014 11:15:40 PM |
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tjl503
Portland, OR
36, joined Dec. 2012
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Hi, pookie? Cute name. You're going to question if women want you to be nice to their kids based off one crazy b*tch. She's clearly not over what the last guy did to her. You were being a good guy bringing over her kids video games. You were thinking about them, when dating a woman with kids it's a package deal. Of course they want you to treat their children well.
If she really wanted to protect them from guys coming in and out of their life she wouldn't have introduced you to them so soon. I don't think women should be bringing their kids around until you earned her trust. She obviously didn't trust your a** yet.
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| 7/22/2014 7:43:40 AM |
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pookie185
Houston, TX
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As a matter of fact we had, little we had just come back from a day at the park.
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| 7/22/2014 3:47:56 PM |
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dream82007
Cheyenne, WY
35, joined Aug. 2013
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I ask this question, to myself a lot I once thought I knew the answer but really I am lost I know that I want tobe Happy in life and there are times that I have felt it many times before but almost seems as if it was all just a dream!
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| 7/23/2014 6:02:14 PM |
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uhatethathuh
Stone Mountain, GA
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Lmao!
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| 7/23/2014 6:03:48 PM |
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uhatethathuh
Stone Mountain, GA
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agree she sounds like she's a few bricks shy of a load,
lmao! # dead
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| 7/24/2014 8:28:09 AM |
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my2sunshine
Pulaski, NY
50, joined Apr. 2013
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I don't know any woman who would walk into a conversation and flip out like that for no reason.
So OP what did you say to her during the day that made her think ...
Did you have a conversation on being exclusive and not dating others that you could not agree to?
Sounds to me like she was annoyed that you were building a relationship with the children but your relationship with her was not building or came with rules she did not like.
Worthless 2 cents!
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| 7/24/2014 7:03:45 PM |
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bsn1
Marrero, LA
56, joined Apr. 2014
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Get to know the woman before you interact with the kids. Make sure she's not crazy and deranged. It takes time to really get to know somebody she is damaged.
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| 7/25/2014 2:27:58 PM |
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larena40
Lemon Grove, CA
44, joined Jan. 2014
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If you gotta ask you'll never know.
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| 8/10/2014 10:45:57 AM |
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fearless8841
North Pole, AK
43, joined Jan. 2012
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Dated this girl for about a month n during which time developed a relationship with her two boys. They didn't have a video game so I brought them one. Not trying to be there father or anything just seen that they needed n bought it. How ever chick thought this was cool to but we went to a park one day all of us n came back to their place. She was decided to prepare something to eat n me n the boys were talking n living room about football. Chick stormed out the kitchen saying LOUD ( ur not gone do us like this, ur not gone play with our hearts) me n the boys were shocked!! I told her she was crazy!! N told her boys to go to their room because their mom had FLIPPED OUT!!! my question to u guys is, do u prefer that WE ( men) not interact with ur children or do we
YES! I don't even introduce my kids until I'm sure there's something there.
Honestly, I know your intentions were in the right place but maybe she's embarrassed because she didn't have the money to buy it and here you are .... or maybe she has a thing against video games in general (yes, there are wierdos out there who think video games make serial killers down the line).
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| 8/13/2014 5:36:29 PM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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If someone has kids they should not be introducing them to someone they just started dating.
Relationships take time and effort and kids shouldn't be in the middle of a brand new relationship. They (the kids) need to be on the sidelines until the time is right, like 6 month down the road and than slowly introduced to the new bf or gf.
OP sounds like your mate seems a bit frustrated with your presence. Maybe she is still stuck on her ex and thinks you will do what ever he did. I'd move on.
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| 11/26/2014 9:42:07 PM |
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kingslayer99
Arlington, TN
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rom inni_dreamz: If she introduced you to her children, you did nothing wrong (based on what you wrote) by interacting with them.
It was her call to bring you all together.
It sounds like she has issues, if you ask me.
Why would she flip out like that in front of her kids? If she had an issue with you hanging out with them, why invite you to?
None of that makes sense.
Omfg you can't figure out how to get your profile pic on this site but can one of your phone?
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| 11/28/2014 12:34:57 AM |
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jjlopez19
El Monte, CA
36, joined Aug. 2014
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Women want what us guys want...to be happy...we just have an easier way to relay the message...they...seem to not find the correct words or right time to tell us what they truly want...so we keep guessing...and they keep getting frustrated....
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| 11/30/2014 6:35:36 PM |
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forumfriendly2
Norfolk, VA
39, joined Sep. 2013
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to annoy you till you cheat
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| 11/30/2014 6:39:10 PM |
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biglarryomatic
Palmer, AK
21, joined Jun. 2014
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I would put my in finger in her b##hole 
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| 11/30/2014 8:52:43 PM |
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badasscouple33
Douglas, AZ
35, joined Aug. 2014
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Bottom line...women are crazy
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| 11/30/2014 9:46:29 PM |
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b2cold
Elk Grove Village, IL
36, joined Mar. 2014
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I know what u mean op. What I went though was similar
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| 12/2/2014 7:51:02 AM |
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brandon311417
Colorado Springs, CO
33, joined Nov. 2014
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Dated this girl for about a month n during which time developed a relationship with her two boys. They didn't have a video game so I brought them one. Not trying to be there father or anything just seen that they needed n bought it. How ever chick thought this was cool to but we went to a park one day all of us n came back to their place. She was decided to prepare something to eat n me n the boys were talking n living room about football. Chick stormed out the kitchen saying LOUD ( ur not gone do us like this, ur not gone play with our hearts) me n the boys were shocked!! I told her she was crazy!! N told her boys to go to their room because their mom had FLIPPED OUT!!! my question to u guys is, do u prefer that WE ( men) not interact with ur children or do we
Sounds like she had a PTSD flashback
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| 12/2/2014 1:40:47 PM |
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pike45
Omaha, NE
63, joined Feb. 2009
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Bottom line...women are crazy
QFT
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| 12/2/2014 7:55:56 PM |
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vagmasterflash
Durand, WI
50, joined Nov. 2014
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Correction...bat shit crazy. The correct philosophical term is bat shit crazy.
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| 12/3/2014 11:41:24 AM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
48, joined Jan. 2012
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Dated this girl for about a month n during which time developed a relationship with her two boys. They didn't have a video game so I brought them one. Not trying to be there father or anything just seen that they needed n bought it. How ever chick thought this was cool to but we went to a park one day all of us n came back to their place. She was decided to prepare something to eat n me n the boys were talking n living room about football. Chick stormed out the kitchen saying LOUD ( ur not gone do us like this, ur not gone play with our hearts) me n the boys were shocked!! I told her she was crazy!! N told her boys to go to their room because their mom had FLIPPED OUT!!! my question to u guys is, do u prefer that WE ( men) not interact with ur children or do we
uhhhh it sounds like she is a psycho, nut job IMO. Be glad you dodged that bullet. If the
information you are giving is really true you did nothing wrong. And I now see why so many
black women are single with kids from different daddies. 
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| 12/3/2014 11:42:33 AM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
48, joined Jan. 2012
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Bottom line...women are crazy
h8ll I'm a woman and I can be crazy! But to go off on someone - ANYONE for absolutely no
reason is freaking absolutely psychotic and needs to be locked up in a mental facility.
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| 12/7/2014 7:47:08 PM |
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wolfen911
Winston Salem, NC
21, joined Nov. 2014
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It depends if your a good guy and if my kids like u
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| 12/27/2014 10:32:49 PM |
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hunter12gauge
Bellaire, OH
53, joined Apr. 2008
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Maybe she's off her meds?
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| 12/27/2014 10:38:45 PM |
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verginmenot
Saint Cloud, MN
41, joined Aug. 2014
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Love ... really hot kinky sex with said love...
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| 12/28/2014 6:54:50 PM |
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midnightblue222
Canton, MI
51, joined Nov. 2014
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Bottom line...women are crazy
It's you men put us there that why lol
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| 12/28/2014 8:30:45 PM |
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forumfriendly2
Norfolk, VA
39, joined Sep. 2013
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women all do the same crap, fall in love with a series of losers they chose ,squirt out a couple kids by 20 and get habitually dumped then fat....that's when they come here looking for mr wonderful because mr wonderful loves used up women and not women with class and restraint , .that's when they become broken and jaded and it's every mans fault on DateHookup.dating
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| 12/29/2014 7:07:08 PM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
48, joined Jan. 2012
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Quote from forumfriendly2:
women all do the same crap, fall in love with a series of losers they chose ,squirt out a couple kids by 20 and get habitually dumped then fat....that's when they come here looking for mr wonderful because mr wonderful loves used up women and not women with class and restraint , .that's when they become broken and jaded and it's every mans fault on DateHookup.dating
I had children in my 30's after getting married first. A lot of women I know did it that way. I don't really know anyone that had a child before the age of 20. So I'm not sure who you are hanging around but you must hang around some low-life women in order to know so "many" of them that are leading that lifestyle.
And you always sound bitter IMO for needing to put down women in every single thread you post in.  You remind me of my first boyfriend in high school. He was obsessed with 80 lb 14-16 yr old girls. He's an old man now like you are and still prefers the tiny hinies. It's nasty when you get old and shriveled up.
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| 12/29/2014 10:46:03 PM |
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b2cold
Elk Grove Village, IL
36, joined Mar. 2014
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The ones I've dated so far. Money time money.
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| 1/2/2015 2:31:33 PM |
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forumfriendly2
Norfolk, VA
39, joined Sep. 2013
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Quote from forumfriendly2:
women all do the same crap, fall in love with a series of losers they chose ,squirt out a couple kids by 20 and get habitually dumped then fat....that's when they come here looking for mr wonderful because mr wonderful loves used up women and not women with class and restraint , .that's when they become broken and jaded and it's every mans fault on DateHookup.dating
I had children in my 30's after getting married first. A lot of women I know did it that way. I don't really know anyone that had a child before the age of 20. So I'm not sure who you are hanging around but you must hang around some low-life women in order to know so "many" of them that are leading that lifestyle.
And you always sound bitter IMO for needing to put down women in every single thread you post in. You remind me of my first boyfriend in high school. He was obsessed with 80 lb 14-16 yr old girls. He's an old man now like you are and still prefers the tiny hinies. It's nasty when you get old and shriveled up.
idk what your talking about but you have a lot of stupid advise to give everybody...i don't value your opinions enough to care  your a single broken bitter mom now aren't ya!? ms I had kids in my 30s but 38 is old and wrinkly
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| 1/2/2015 11:15:34 PM |
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browcottoncandy
Nottingham, MD
40, joined Dec. 2014
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I agree with pike.
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| 1/9/2015 10:56:02 AM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014
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im sorry but he,s mostly right an you,ll hated me for this,most women want someone they can suck nf**k n cum inthere mouth like a wild animal desire forst thing,an now i see theres another one or two,nymphos on here,sure we all want sex,,but not blurt it out in fromt of god an everyone every single nornin.. so sad an sickning, posed to be done kinda personal like, sure id want the samething, but have alittle control in fron t of people... the girls 21 an up flirt insane like this every little breath, cant help it i guess resureton of sodom an gomorah or sometin... cum in there mouth an good sex an maybe a back dude with3white b*tches hagin on his arm,an he aint got near what i do just a big mouth,most want attention sex,,mostly is sexan thenmoney etc,sadly..an the forum reporter guy has em all pegged pretty much,,not 100 per cent but close enogh to make one sick.
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| 1/9/2015 1:37:22 PM |
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a4umposter
San Antonio, TX
49, joined Dec. 2014
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Dont involve the kids, until you know for sure, that the relationship is going somewhere.
This
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| 1/11/2015 10:22:33 PM |
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evajoy
Reston, VA
59, joined May. 2012
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i dont see what u did wrong
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| 1/12/2015 8:12:57 AM |
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2hot2eat
Desert Hot Springs, CA
42, joined Jun. 2014
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Men! Stop trying to b daddy if they not yours! Just b u! That's the best gift
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