8/21/2014 7:02:00 PM |
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hugsnlaughter
McKeesport, PA
57, joined Jul. 2007
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My mom passed away August 12, 2013. I thought I was working through it but I don't know. I don't remember feeling this kind of unending sadness when my Father passed away in 98. Maybe it's because mom lived with me for a year when she broke her hip. But when something bad happens I find myself wishing for her advice, concern, just her being there. When something good happens, it's doesn't seem as good as she is not here to share it with. Or maybe cause now, I have no parents which makes me the "old person". LOL Who knows...just ignore my rambling...just really missing her today and was told have to take on a whole other department at work cause one of our workers got another job and right now, things are rough so no openings are being filled.
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8/24/2014 8:53:36 AM |
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micheleisgreat
Pittsburgh, PA
54, joined Nov. 2013
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So sorry for your loss ..
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8/24/2014 11:03:23 AM |
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fannybly01
New Philadelphia, PA
83, joined Jul. 2014
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My mom passed away August 12, 2013. I thought I was working through it but I don't know. I don't remember feeling this kind of unending sadness when my Father passed away in 98. Maybe it's because mom lived with me for a year when she broke her hip. But when something bad happens I find myself wishing for her advice, concern, just her being there. When something good happens, it's doesn't seem as good as she is not here to share it with. Or maybe cause now, I have no parents which makes me the "old person". LOL Who knows...just ignore my rambling...just really missing her today and was told have to take on a whole other department at work cause one of our workers got another job and right now, things are rough so no openings are being filled.
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Sorry your Mom And are gone . Thinking about them is just like a visit .
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8/24/2014 12:23:47 PM |
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hugsnlaughter
McKeesport, PA
57, joined Jul. 2007
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Thanks, I really thought things were going better but seem to be missing her more than less and it's been over a year.
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8/24/2014 7:05:50 PM |
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1irving
Ruskin, FL
57, joined Mar. 2013
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The longer we live, the greater the loss. Family, friends and people we admire. Maybe it gives us wisdom, I know it gives us pain.
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8/25/2014 5:50:26 AM |
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love2bbq
Iowa City, IA
57, joined Mar. 2011
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im sure we can all help you get threw it the best we can
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8/26/2014 12:54:23 PM |
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mowboss54
Springdale, PA
70, joined Jun. 2009
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Grief is like the ocean - it comes on waves ebbing and flowing. Sometimes the water is calm, and sometimes it is overwhelming. All we can do is learn to swim.
I ran across this on facebook and it seemed so fitting for what you are feeling
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8/28/2014 10:13:11 PM |
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didymus56
Myerstown, PA
61, joined Feb. 2014
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It is my experience, hurt from a loss never goes away. It leaves a hole in your soul. For the pain to be easier, the hole must be filled, perhaps with friends, or a dog.
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8/30/2014 7:32:53 PM |
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hugsnlaughter
McKeesport, PA
57, joined Jul. 2007
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It is my experience, hurt from a loss never goes away. It leaves a hole in your soul. For the pain to be easier, the hole must be filled, perhaps with friends, or a dog.
Thanks, I have a lot of great friends and two cats and they do help but still my heart still cries for my mom at times.
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8/30/2014 7:34:16 PM |
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hugsnlaughter
McKeesport, PA
57, joined Jul. 2007
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Grief is like the ocean - it comes on waves ebbing and flowing. Sometimes the water is calm, and sometimes it is overwhelming. All we can do is learn to swim.
I ran across this on facebook and it seemed so fitting for what you are feeling
Thanks Mow, very true.
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9/1/2014 11:04:19 PM |
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didymus56
Myerstown, PA
61, joined Feb. 2014
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Thanks, I have a lot of great friends and two cats and they do help but still my heart still cries for my mom at times.
If you were close, that's normal.
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9/2/2014 7:38:35 PM |
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hugsnlaughter
McKeesport, PA
57, joined Jul. 2007
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Yes, I was very close to my mom, she moved in with me for about a year when she broke her hip as I have a ranch house and she couldn't do stairs. She had been back in her own house for a few years though when she passed away.
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9/2/2014 10:54:01 PM |
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didymus56
Myerstown, PA
61, joined Feb. 2014
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Yes, I was very close to my mom, she moved in with me for about a year when she broke her hip as I have a ranch house and she couldn't do stairs. She had been back in her own house for a few years though when she passed away.
Sorry to hear.
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9/6/2014 3:54:37 AM |
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still_believes
Smithfield, PA
53, joined Dec. 2009
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My father passed away 9 yrs ago..it hurts just as much today as it did back then.I can't think of him without crying..I wrote him a poem which is posted on my profile under my blogs & it helps when I read it.I write him letters when it hurts too bad. I know he can't be here to read them but it helps me vent the pain
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9/6/2014 8:30:50 PM |
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hugsnlaughter
McKeesport, PA
57, joined Jul. 2007
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My father passed away 9 yrs ago..it hurts just as much today as it did back then.I can't think of him without crying..I wrote him a poem which is posted on my profile under my blogs & it helps when I read it.I write him letters when it hurts too bad. I know he can't be here to read them but it helps me vent the pain
I understand it's hard. I write poetry also, wrote a few for my mom and wrote for an online site for a while, have written quite a bit. Great way of getting emotions out.
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