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9/30/2014 12:53:07 AM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

agentmoney1
Irving, TX
32, joined Apr. 2014


Been on here for a while and would like to ask single moms "what's your purpose here or in any dating format?"

The reason I ask is because once you have a kid, you lose value. Personally, I don't have an issue dating a woman with one kid. But my thing is this. Instead of putting what YOU request, why don't you put what you OFFER? Im being truthful, as a man I'd like to know what YOU offer not what you WANT. Its like if I was blind but said "I'm looking for a good looking woman to do etc etc". Realistically that's laughable. If you don't bring anything to the table than your kid then what's your purpose? The only thing viable is a one night stand which is the first thing on your list that you don't want.

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9/30/2014 1:00:22 AM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

thekinghasrisen
Over 2,000 Posts (2,679)
San Diego, CA
30, joined Nov. 2013


Shots fired.

9/30/2014 1:05:39 AM Single moms whats your purpose here?  
brownsugg93
Over 2,000 Posts (2,390)
Milwaukee, WI
19, joined Jul. 2012


:o

9/30/2014 1:05:48 AM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

twining
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,614)
Anderson, SC
22, joined Jun. 2014


I'm not really looking for anybody here. If I find somebody, whatever. I bring my bright eyed, bushy tailed personality to the table. My experience and overwhelmingly cunning demeanor. My amazing ability to calculate market value on guys when I have conversations with them..........what are you offering? You made this thread talking about what do single mothers have to offer yet you haven't stated what you're bringing to the table.



[Edited 9/30/2014 1:06:26 AM ]

9/30/2014 1:51:35 AM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

bigdinv
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (18,338)
Houston, TX
34, joined Sep. 2011


Women with multiple baby daddy's that expect more out of you.

I'm sorry you're a ho.

9/30/2014 2:15:25 AM Single moms whats your purpose here?  
marinesrcool
Saint Louis, MO
37, joined Sep. 2014


9/10 of the dumb asses automatically poison my boner with their uber cliche bull shit..

My kids are my wooorrrlllddd.

Ugh...f**king puke.

F**king idiots

9/30/2014 2:55:50 AM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

naturebiy
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,524)
Mc Kenzie, TN
39, joined Jul. 2011


I love soccer moms

9/30/2014 2:58:54 AM Single moms whats your purpose here?  
soulfullaussie
Over 7,500 Posts!! (9,891)
Victoria
Australia
48, joined May. 2014


Op you are a complete and utter Idiot

9/30/2014 3:02:03 AM Single moms whats your purpose here?  
brockery
Over 2,000 Posts (2,357)
Louisville, KY
37, joined Jan. 2014


What she ^^^^ said

9/30/2014 5:41:08 AM Single moms whats your purpose here?  
stringopearls
Huron, SD
57, joined Jul. 2009


Op, how do you find the time to be on a dating site with all the real women throwing themselves at you?

9/30/2014 6:10:16 AM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

testsignup
Over 2,000 Posts (3,494)
Springfield, VA
61, joined Sep. 2009


Caustic self-involved curmudgeon assumes worst and insults people as a pathetic cry for attention. Actual news on any other channel.

9/30/2014 6:13:43 AM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

kushnalldat
Stone Mountain, GA
26, joined Aug. 2014


I don't have kids but op pls make yourself disappear yuck!

9/30/2014 6:39:12 AM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

bumblebee7
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (43,327)
Fort Payne, AL
59, joined Apr. 2011


Whats the real point in saying what your virtues is when it can't be validated???

What is validated is what people seek in a person.

and op....writing a profile like this is not limited to single moms.

Either way I think what we are seeing here is the eroding of a mind, as the person continues to strike out.

9/30/2014 7:40:18 AM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

standaman4487
Lithonia, GA
28, joined Feb. 2012


Op is right!

9/30/2014 8:32:52 AM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

agentmoney1
Irving, TX
32, joined Apr. 2014


Lol @ kids r my world! Every... damn... post

Is that line supposed to seduce us or something?

9/30/2014 8:40:02 AM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

agentmoney1
Irving, TX
32, joined Apr. 2014


Anybody can insult but its usually when we get to insulting the other party that we know they are right. I've made an observation on most profiles. Ex: the "my kids are my world" post from single moms. Maybe if I heard that once it would be like "oh that's cool she's different" but nah every single woman posts that. The whole point of alluring the opposite sex is to make yourself approachable.

9/30/2014 8:41:07 AM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

asiancawk
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,222)
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014


Quote from agentmoney1:
Been on here for a while and would like to ask single moms "what's your purpose here or in any dating format?"

The reason I ask is because once you have a kid, you lose value. Personally, I don't have an issue dating a woman with one kid. But my thing is this. Instead of putting what YOU request, why don't you put what you OFFER? Im being truthful, as a man I'd like to know what YOU offer not what you WANT. Its like if I was blind but said "I'm looking for a good looking woman to do etc etc". Realistically that's laughable. If you don't bring anything to the table than your kid then what's your purpose? The only thing viable is a one night stand which is the first thing on your list that you don't want.


Height: 5 ft. 8 in.

Little guys, what is your purpose here?...to be ridiculed? to be spurned in favor of a tall guy?..what?

9/30/2014 8:42:53 AM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

agentmoney1
Irving, TX
32, joined Apr. 2014


If you don't have kids what's yuck about my post? Maybe you don't have much to offer so you are also offended.

I'm saying if you got something to offer obviously you shouldn't get offended.

9/30/2014 8:47:40 AM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

agentmoney1
Irving, TX
32, joined Apr. 2014


@asiancawk haven't been ridiculed by any fems on my height but that's all I date bro. Women. Didn't know that the height of a man was a requirement for you. I'm not your type I suppose lol

9/30/2014 8:57:17 AM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

candmann73
Petersburg, VA
41, joined Apr. 2014


OP had a few points I sadly agree with. But his whole outlook on the kids or women with kids is not kool. I was a single father I raised my son alone. And he was my world. Now that he's grown and doing well makes me feel good to know I had apart in that happening

9/30/2014 9:22:14 AM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

lovethelake17
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (32,578)
Henderson, NV
56, joined May. 2009


Purpose? Really? What is your purpose? Why should anyone, especially one whose value is not one you deem high enough, have to answer to you as to their "purpose"?

Your foolish notion that once a woman has a child her value diminishes and she can no longer have requests, or look for a man who interests her, but instead must take whatever crumbs some man might wish to give her, providing she can convince him she has something for him, is what is laughable.

Here's the thing, any person; mother, father, childless, gets to determine for themselves what they want in a person, and they are fully within in their rights to say what that is. No matter what some small and arrested person thinks about those wants. While I agree that "my child(ren) are my world" is an overused and superfluous statement, it's akin to all those people who "love to laugh" and "live life to the fullest", it's just a profile cliche.

But here's the other thing. You can skip right over those profiles. No one has to convince you to contact them.

9/30/2014 9:31:10 AM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

agentmoney1
Irving, TX
32, joined Apr. 2014


Quote from candmann73:
OP had a few points I sadly agree with. But his whole outlook on the kids or women with kids is not kool. I was a single father I raised my son alone. And he was my world. Now that he's grown and doing well makes me feel good to know I had apart in that happening


That's not my point. It is difficult to raise kids on your own I'm sure. My point is on putting ones upside vs demands

9/30/2014 9:31:30 AM Single moms whats your purpose here?  
bruce_2014
Over 2,000 Posts (3,778)
Dothan, AL
59, joined Jan. 2014


(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)

9/30/2014 9:44:50 AM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

cosmicgem
Over 1,000 Posts (1,738)
Springfield, MO
58, joined Jun. 2011


Quote from twining:
I'm not really looking for anybody here. If I find somebody, whatever. I bring my bright eyed, bushy tailed personality to the table. My experience and overwhelmingly cunning demeanor. My amazing ability to calculate market value on guys when I have conversations with them..........what are you offering? You made this thread talking about what do single mothers have to offer yet you haven't stated what you're bringing to the table.

Just from looking at his profile, it would Appear that he drinks perhaps a lot, gambles, and is looking for sex. So... You decide what he would be bringing to the table of a relationship.

9/30/2014 9:49:49 AM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

cosmicgem
Over 1,000 Posts (1,738)
Springfield, MO
58, joined Jun. 2011


Quote from bigdinv:
Women with multiple baby daddy's that expect more out of you.

I'm sorry you're a ho.

If they have babies by more than one man, they are labeled a 'ho' If they don't put out by the Third date or so they are a 'Prude'. Hmmm. Something Wrong with this Double Standard thing. Lots of Man Ho around too. JMO

9/30/2014 9:59:26 AM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

agentmoney1
Irving, TX
32, joined Apr. 2014


Quote from cosmicgem:
Just from looking at his profile, it would Appear that he drinks perhaps a lot, gambles, and is looking for sex. So... You decide what he would be bringing to the table of a relationship.


I know you are but what am I? Is a line used by children when they have no logical comeback. So attacking me on what my likes are doesn't warrant a disclosure. For ex: yes I like sex...who doesn't? Yes I like drinking me a fine bourbon/scotch (life is good) yes I go to Vegas and nearby casinos a few times a year but that's not how I make my money. Again, it's only the people that have little to offer that are the most hurt from my post. Is it too hard to change a profile from requests to qualities?

9/30/2014 9:59:54 AM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

moonbeams73
Over 1,000 Posts (1,489)
Grand Rapids, MN
59, joined Sep. 2009


I lost value because of my 5 kids? I wonder what those 5 kids would think of that?

9/30/2014 10:02:48 AM Single moms whats your purpose here?  
bruce_2014
Over 2,000 Posts (3,778)
Dothan, AL
59, joined Jan. 2014


Baby Mamma DRAMA....

What single man needs that in his life?

9/30/2014 11:02:39 AM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

baileybug32
Over 1,000 Posts (1,053)
Sacramento, CA
34, joined Mar. 2013


You're a dumbass!

9/30/2014 11:32:32 AM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

agentmoney1
Irving, TX
32, joined Apr. 2014


Quote from moonbeams73:
I lost value because of my 5 kids? I wonder what those 5 kids would think of that?


They probably love you but in the social and sexual marketplace your value drops once you have a kid so dating for long term is almost out of question. The only men that accept that are the ones willing to settle to be 2nd place to someone else's kid always. The way I see it, you get one life to live. Why live for someone else?

9/30/2014 11:33:44 AM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

asiancawk
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,222)
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014


@asiancawk haven't been ridiculed by any fems on my height but that's all I date bro.

Sure you have, they probably just were kind enough to do it behind your back

Didn't know that the height of a man was a requirement for you. I'm not your type I suppose lol

I didn't mention my sexuality...it's interesting that you are thinking about it...



[Edited 9/30/2014 11:33:53 AM ]

9/30/2014 11:35:33 AM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

agentmoney1
Irving, TX
32, joined Apr. 2014


Quote from standaman4487:
Op is right!


Thank you sir! But phuck me for wanting single moms to put qualities they have vs a list of request a man must meet in order to have her?

9/30/2014 11:48:54 AM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

agentmoney1
Irving, TX
32, joined Apr. 2014


Quote from asiancawk:
@asiancawk haven't been ridiculed by any fems on my height but that's all I date bro.

Sure you have, they probably just were kind enough to do it behind your back

Didn't know that the height of a man was a requirement for you. I'm not your type I suppose lol

I didn't mention my sexuality...it's interesting that you are thinking about it...


Cheesy comeback but you're the one that posted on my height as if its some sort of requirement for you maybe? Otherwise what you're doing is called "white knighting". Its when u project yourself as some sort of hero for female attention. Serious if my height is a problem I'm cool with that for FOR FEMALES. We all have our likes, why my height is YOUR concern opens the door to interpretations.

9/30/2014 11:54:50 AM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

pickygirl72
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (13,153)
Phelan, CA
44, joined Sep. 2011


Single fathers are praised and called wonderful and sweet for taking care of their children.

Single mothers get sh!t on and called names especially if they are young. There is no praise and its 'their' fault for getting knocked up in the first place.

Heck being a single parent is difficult enough and it shouldn't DEVALUE a person or make them any less worthy than the next person.

OP I suggest that you not date and you really shouldn't be in a relationship with anyone until you figure out how to value a person.

9/30/2014 11:55:54 AM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

inni_dreamz
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,234)
Pasadena, CA
50, joined Nov. 2012


Quote from agentmoney1:
Been on here for a while and would like to ask single moms "what's your purpose here or in any dating format?"

The reason I ask is because once you have a kid, you lose value. Personally, I don't have an issue dating a woman with one kid. But my thing is this. Instead of putting what YOU request, why don't you put what you OFFER? Im being truthful, as a man I'd like to know what YOU offer not what you WANT. Its like if I was blind but said "I'm looking for a good looking woman to do etc etc". Realistically that's laughable. If you don't bring anything to the table than your kid then what's your purpose? The only thing viable is a one night stand which is the first thing on your list that you don't want.




F**K OFF

9/30/2014 12:33:01 PM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

lor2
Elgin, IL
49, joined Mar. 2013


If you kept your tools contained there may not be as many single moms. You may want to proclaim that you want to just get laid to begin with. Where I come from its called your wedding tackle.
I hope anyone in your future plans reads this first.

9/30/2014 12:36:11 PM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

asiancawk
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,222)
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014


Cheesy comeback but you're the one that posted on my height as if its some sort of requirement for you maybe?

I posted on your height ridiculing it...it's quite a jump you are making to assume I have sexual interest in you and quite revealing of your mindset...

Otherwise what you're doing is called "white knighting".

Ridiculing you has nothing to do with white knighting..

Its when u project yourself as some sort of hero for female attention.

Moot, see above.

Serious if my height is a problem I'm cool with that for FOR FEMALES. We all have our likes, why my height is YOUR concern opens the door to interpretations.

Hey, whatever gets you through the day little fella



[Edited 9/30/2014 12:37:59 PM ]

9/30/2014 1:04:17 PM Single moms whats your purpose here?  
kissmyattitude1
Over 2,000 Posts (3,465)
Baby
Brazil
32, joined Jul. 2014


Op what do you bring to the table other than a d*ck? Nothing you're an idiot plain and simple.

9/30/2014 1:06:13 PM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

inni_dreamz
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,234)
Pasadena, CA
50, joined Nov. 2012


Quote from kissmyattitude1:
Op what do you bring to the table other than a d*ck? Nothing you're an idiot plain and simple.


and OBVIOUSLY a small one, at that

9/30/2014 1:07:18 PM Single moms whats your purpose here?  
kissmyattitude1
Over 2,000 Posts (3,465)
Baby
Brazil
32, joined Jul. 2014


That's obvious his attitude equals tiny d*ck syndrome.



[Edited 9/30/2014 1:07:30 PM ]

9/30/2014 1:25:43 PM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

inni_dreamz
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,234)
Pasadena, CA
50, joined Nov. 2012


When someone takes a simple preference and turns it into an insult, they are just being a troll, hoping to stir something up.




If you don't want to date a single parent, don't. It's so easy an idiot could figure it out.

9/30/2014 1:29:41 PM Single moms whats your purpose here?  
bruce_2014
Over 2,000 Posts (3,778)
Dothan, AL
59, joined Jan. 2014


Quote from kissmyattitude1:
That's obvious his attitude equals tiny d*ck syndrome.


NO OP is a grown man who has standards. Meaning he is not interested in single moms especially if they are looking for some fairy tale man to come to their rescue an pay for everything. And often risking getting her pregnant.

screw That.

Why cant single mom just be interested in fun, sex, dinner, etc? No they paint a long picture of demands before they even meet a guy. Then they think because they may look good they do not have to say a thing in their profile.

Are single moms on dating sites really that stupid?

Show me a single mom who is financially stable, raises her kids well, and will show you women that do not do the online dating sites.



[Edited 9/30/2014 1:30:38 PM ]

9/30/2014 1:33:46 PM Single moms whats your purpose here?  
bruce_2014
Over 2,000 Posts (3,778)
Dothan, AL
59, joined Jan. 2014


Single parents are in a bad position online, since most members tend to default browsing members without children. That said, if you are a single parent, you’re sort of a package deal! Whoever dates/marries you is also dating/marrying your kids. Yes, you should be up front about your package deal.

You should also devote a paragraph in your profile describing the relationship you have with your kids. You essentially want to meet someone who’s cool with you being a single parent. They’ll understand that your priorities are different, and those are the dates that usually fare for more appreciation of your schedule and energy.

Don't expect on dating sites some guy is going to come along who wants to help with kids, be a daddy, pay most of the bills while a woman lays around doing nothing all day. Be honest in your profile and include it in a paragraph. looks alone is stupid thinking that is all you need to lure a guy in.

9/30/2014 1:47:13 PM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

sweetmama117
Over 1,000 Posts (1,273)
Bronx, NY
54, joined Aug. 2013


Quote from pickygirl72:
Single fathers are praised and called wonderful and sweet for taking care of their children.

Single mothers get sh!t on and called names especially if they are young. There is no praise and its 'their' fault for getting knocked up in the first place.

Heck being a single parent is difficult enough and it shouldn't DEVALUE a person or make them any less worthy than the next person.

OP I suggest that you not date and you really shouldn't be in a relationship with anyone until you figure out how to value a person.


^^^^This^^^

9/30/2014 1:47:33 PM Single moms whats your purpose here?  
kissmyattitude1
Over 2,000 Posts (3,465)
Baby
Brazil
32, joined Jul. 2014


If you don't want to date a single mom that's your preference but to come in here and attack people for being single parents that's what I have a problem with.

9/30/2014 1:51:38 PM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

agentmoney1
Irving, TX
32, joined Apr. 2014


Quote from asiancawk:
Cheesy comeback but you're the one that posted on my height as if its some sort of requirement for you maybe?

I posted on your height ridiculing it...it's quite a jump you are making to assume I have sexual interest in you and quite revealing of your mindset...

Otherwise what you're doing is called "white knighting".

Ridiculing you has nothing to do with white knighting..

Its when u project yourself as some sort of hero for female attention.

Moot, see above.

Serious if my height is a problem I'm cool with that for FOR FEMALES. We all have our likes, why my height is YOUR concern opens the door to interpretations.

So you got on here to ridicule my height? All this just because YOU don't like my height? Ha!

9/30/2014 1:53:24 PM Single moms whats your purpose here?  
kissmyattitude1
Over 2,000 Posts (3,465)
Baby
Brazil
32, joined Jul. 2014


Quote from lor2:
If you kept your tools contained there may not be as many single moms. You may want to proclaim that you want to just get laid to begin with. Where I come from its called your wedding tackle.
I hope anyone in your future plans reads this first.
These "men" on this site like to f**k and dump and then complain about single moms if these "men" wouldn't sleep with women they don't plan to be in a relationship with there wouldn't be as many single moms.

9/30/2014 1:56:02 PM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

smplelife
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,203)
Taylorville, IL
31, joined Jul. 2014


If you don't want to date a single parent then don't. Its that simple! No need to get up in their business so just jog on dude, jog on!



[Edited 9/30/2014 1:56:20 PM ]

9/30/2014 1:56:39 PM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

agentmoney1
Irving, TX
32, joined Apr. 2014


Quote from pickygirl72:
Single fathers are praised and called wonderful and sweet for taking care of their children.

Single mothers get sh!t on and called names especially if they are young. There is no praise and its 'their' fault for getting knocked up in the first place.

Heck being a single parent is difficult enough and it shouldn't DEVALUE a person or make them any less worthy than the next person.

OP I suggest that you not date and you really shouldn't be in a relationship with anyone until you figure out how to value a person.




I have to agree with you on men being praised more because in order to become single father's they would've had to overcome the biased court system that favors women. So when a man gets custody its almost hard to root against him because he fought the biased legal system and won. Is it fair on the single mom? No but its also not fair that in sexual relations BOTH participate but the woman has the final say if the pregnancy carries on or not

9/30/2014 2:01:39 PM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

agentmoney1
Irving, TX
32, joined Apr. 2014


Quote from smplelife:
If you don't want to date a single parent then don't. Its that simple! No need to get up in their business so just jog on dude, jog on!



That's what I've been doing however being brutally honest there are some single moms (with one kid) that look damn good and the idea of dating them is considered up until they post demands as if they are on the A side. Once they open their mouths the looks don't even work anymore

9/30/2014 2:12:10 PM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

smplelife
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,203)
Taylorville, IL
31, joined Jul. 2014


In my opinion single parents need to be very picky. If I had kids I'd be demanding like you've never seen.

9/30/2014 2:13:40 PM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

photoartistguy
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (68,224)
Minneapolis, MN
25, joined Dec. 2007


A lot of single dads here too

9/30/2014 2:14:32 PM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

ayemie
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,870)
Granite Bay, CA
43, joined Jul. 2010


Quote from agentmoney1:
Anybody can insult but its usually when we get to insulting the other party that we know they are right. I've made an observation on most profiles. Ex: the "my kids are my world" post from single moms. Maybe if I heard that once it would be like "oh that's cool she's different" but nah every single woman posts that. The whole point of alluring the opposite sex is to make yourself approachable.
i didn't post " my kids are my world" and I have them. So you are wrong not everyone posts this.

9/30/2014 2:16:09 PM Single moms whats your purpose here?  
kissmyattitude1
Over 2,000 Posts (3,465)
Baby
Brazil
32, joined Jul. 2014


Quote from smplelife:
In my opinion single parents need to be very picky. If I had kids I'd be demanding like you've never seen.
The way I see it anybody in my life would be an influence in my kid's lives as well so I agree single parents need to be picky who they bring in their life.

9/30/2014 2:18:26 PM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

def_diff
Over 2,000 Posts (3,451)
Marietta, GA
49, joined Dec. 2011


"The reason I ask is because once you have a kid, you lose value."

Really? I did not know this. Kinda like how a car loses value the minute you drive it off the lot?

Speaking as a single dad I can tell you I have bypassed many women who have never had kids because I know they will never be able to understand the relationship I have with mine. There are always exceptions, of course, but this is what my experiences have taught me.

9/30/2014 2:20:50 PM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

smplelife
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,203)
Taylorville, IL
31, joined Jul. 2014


Quote from kissmyattitude1:
The way I see it anybody in my life would be an influence in my kid's lives as well so I agree single parents need to be picky who they bring in their life.


I couldn't agree more.

9/30/2014 2:25:12 PM Single moms whats your purpose here?  

easyeyz69
Cincinnati, OH
39, joined Oct. 2013


Damn.. That's kinda a slippery slope men have kids and multiple baby mamas too ... So what u sayin dude? I don't expect a woman to be better to my kids than their moms ..

9/30/2014 2:26:06 PM Single moms whats your purpose here?  
sarahgoldsmith
Over 2,000 Posts (3,233)
New Haven, CT
44, joined Jan. 2014


OP, if u love the other person, u should love their kids too. Their kids are a part of them. I don't have kids, but don't mind being with a man that has kids. I don't mind being with a man that has kids. If I love the man, I will love his kids too. I have a big heart.

If I love that man & he has kids, I will think wow, these kids will be as beautiful as he is. If I love the man, I will love his kids too. I will treat his kids as if they were my kids but I won't try to take the place of their mothers. Loving is understanding, is expressing your warmth & kindness to your partner.

9/30/2014 2:34:44 PM Single moms whats your purpose here?  
sarahgoldsmith
Over 2,000 Posts (3,233)
New Haven, CT
44, joined Jan. 2014


OP: "Once u have kids, u lose value."

OP, u shouldn't look at it that way. U shouldn't look at children as if they are a burden. I look at it as, I love this beautiful man, & his kids are a part of him. I will love his children too. I will love his children as if they are my own kids. I will not try to take the place of their mothers. I will acknowledge that they have a mom, & will them as much emotional & financial support to him & his kids. I will be a helping hand as much as I possibly can. Don't look at your partner's children as a burden, OP. Look at your partner's children as a blessing from God, & as something that belong to the beautiful person that u love. If u look at life in a positive way, things will not seem so bad. I don't mind being with a man that has kids. If I love him, I will love his kids too. They are a part of this beautiful man that I love.

9/30/2014 2:42:23 PM Single moms whats your purpose here?  
kissmyattitude1
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Baby
Brazil
32, joined Jul. 2014


This just shows q lack of maturity on op's part.