What do you bring to the table?

10/27/2014 5:50:05 PM	What do you bring to the table?
soflwill West Palm Beach, FL 54, joined Jan. 2012	It seems to me that for a relationship to work it needs to be mutually beneficial. If person feels like they are not getting a good return on what they put in it is more than likely that at some point the will pack up and move on. So if we are finding it hard to establish a long lasting relationship perhaps we should ask ourselves what we are bringing to the table. Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
10/27/2014 6:13:28 PM	What do you bring to the table?
killingmesoft1y Memphis, TN 36, joined Jan. 2014	That's such a clinical approach.
10/27/2014 6:18:53 PM	What do you bring to the table?
b2cold Bark River, MI 22, joined Mar. 2014	A lot
10/27/2014 6:20:15 PM	What do you bring to the table?
icecreamsammich Abilene, KS 53, joined May. 2014	An appetite
10/27/2014 6:26:21 PM	What do you bring to the table?
killingmesoft1y Memphis, TN 36, joined Jan. 2014	Alright then, I'm cooking. But you get your beer from the fridge yourself.
10/27/2014 6:28:09 PM	What do you bring to the table?
mrhankchinaski Sayville, NY 53, joined Aug. 2014	To much to even begin to mention.
10/27/2014 6:29:03 PM	What do you bring to the table?
packersbabe920 Green Bay, WI 49, joined Jul. 2013 online now!	Team work
10/27/2014 6:35:05 PM	What do you bring to the table?
jimmco Monroe, NY 52, joined Sep. 2014	Quote from soflwill: It seems to me that for a relationship to work it needs to be mutually beneficial. If person feels like they are not getting a good return on what they put in it is more than likely that at some point the will pack up and move on. So if we are finding it hard to establish a long lasting relationship perhaps we should ask ourselves what we are bringing to the table. The deal is also this ladies.....be smart about it. Especially in the very beginning of getting to know stage...don't bring more to the table than what he does...that's foolish. If he brings more that's cool. It means he's really into you...let him SHOW you. If he doesn't he probably is not the one. You'll see...
10/27/2014 6:35:47 PM	What do you bring to the table?
frappeyes Houston, TX 66, joined Nov. 2011 online now!	Op, you are a 54 year old ballroom dancer. I can't figure why you are on a dating site. Have you seen the movie "Out to Sea"? Become a dance host and you won't need a dating site.
10/27/2014 6:40:01 PM	What do you bring to the table?
bigdinv Victoria, TX 34, joined Sep. 2011	I bring an eager tongue.
10/27/2014 6:44:18 PM	What do you bring to the table?
mylegsarecold Green Bay, WI 52, joined May. 2011	$300.00
10/27/2014 6:45:39 PM	What do you bring to the table?
soflwill West Palm Beach, FL 54, joined Jan. 2012	Quote from frappeyes: Op, you are a 54 year old ballroom dancer. I can't figure why you are on a dating site. Have you seen the movie "Out to Sea"? Become a dance host and you won't need a dating site. Yea I tried that but I was really uncomfortable with it, and well over half of the women turned out to be married and their husbands developed rather large attitudes. But being a high level dancer is one of the things I bring to the table.
10/27/2014 6:57:08 PM	What do you bring to the table?
missamicable Hurst, TX 55, joined Jul. 2014	That's the problem today OP. Too many people want MATERIALISTIC things and can't appreciate another human for who she/he is.............. Too many threads about "WHY I CAN'T FIND A GOOD MAN/WOMAN."
10/27/2014 6:58:20 PM	What do you bring to the table?
soulflight Dayton, OH 52, joined Apr. 2014	Quote from soflwill: Yea I tried that but I was really uncomfortable with it, and well over half of the women turned out to be married and their husbands developed rather large attitudes. But being a high level dancer is one of the things I bring to the table. What level are you? I haven't danced in years but used to teach. I was advanced silver entry gold instructor [Edited 10/27/2014 6:58:39 PM ]
10/27/2014 6:59:14 PM	What do you bring to the table?
soulflight Dayton, OH 52, joined Apr. 2014	Quote from mylegsarecold: $300.00 I got a cookie jar.
10/27/2014 7:49:11 PM	What do you bring to the table?
mylegsarecold Green Bay, WI 52, joined May. 2011	Quote from soulflight: I got a cookie jar. That's good thinking because leaving it on the table can expose it to theft.
10/27/2014 7:58:56 PM	What do you bring to the table?
24milkduds San Francisco, CA 55, joined Mar. 2012	Quote from missamicable: That's the problem today OP. Too many people want MATERIALISTIC things and can't appreciate another human for who she/he is.............. Too many threads about "WHY I CAN'T FIND A GOOD MAN/WOMAN." ^^^this Is truth!
10/27/2014 8:05:32 PM	What do you bring to the table?
j_b53 Lincoln City, OR 65, joined Jun. 2014 online now!	I have the slit. What's your best bid to lap up the left overs?
10/27/2014 8:09:33 PM	What do you bring to the table?
soulflight Dayton, OH 52, joined Apr. 2014	Quote from mylegsarecold: That's good thinking because leaving it on the table can expose it to theft. great minds!
10/27/2014 9:41:03 PM	What do you bring to the table?
mylegsarecold Green Bay, WI 52, joined May. 2011	If you spread your table I could put my expansion board in between it. We could both be more satisfied together sharing the extra space.
10/27/2014 9:43:01 PM	What do you bring to the table?
mylegsarecold Green Bay, WI 52, joined May. 2011	Quote from j_b53: I have the slit. What's your best bid to lap up the left overs? Look, if you have to shit that's not something we all need to know.
10/27/2014 9:43:54 PM	What do you bring to the table?
nothingneeded Johnston, IA 45, joined Sep. 2014	What do you bring to the table? Me...nothing more, nothing less, if we can't be equal...then go on with the mess...
10/27/2014 11:10:11 PM	What do you bring to the table?
pickygirl72 Phelan, CA 43, joined Sep. 2011	Agreed.
10/28/2014 2:30:09 AM	What do you bring to the table?
cavie59 Enid, OK 55, joined Feb. 2010	Let me put it this way, I know what I could bring to the table if given a chance. However I have yet to find a woman that wants what I have to offer.
10/28/2014 2:45:43 AM	What do you bring to the table?
naturebiy Chicago, IL 39, joined Jul. 2011	I have huge hands
10/28/2014 3:30:47 AM	What do you bring to the table?
cj1755 York, PA 42, joined Jun. 2013	Quote from bigdinv: I bring an eager tongue. And his healthy appetite lol
10/28/2014 4:45:23 AM	What do you bring to the table?
cj1755 York, PA 42, joined Jun. 2013	Quote from soulflight: I got a cookie jar. I got some cookies. Homemade.
10/28/2014 4:50:03 AM	What do you bring to the table?
muffin_top Sichuan China 43, joined Jun. 2014	I am an absolute delight.
10/28/2014 5:10:12 AM	What do you bring to the table?
bumblebee7 Fort Payne, AL 59, joined Apr. 2011	A knife, fork and spoon.
10/28/2014 5:19:48 AM	What do you bring to the table?
anygivenday21 El Paso, TX 36, joined Sep. 2014	My dinner tray
10/28/2014 5:22:20 AM	What do you bring to the table?
napoleon787 Torrington, CT 40, joined Oct. 2014	I bring my massage skills to the table.
10/28/2014 12:37:18 PM	What do you bring to the table?
dixie_dancer Kansas City, KS 26, joined Feb. 2013	Ribeye. Medium rare.
10/28/2014 1:08:11 PM	What do you bring to the table?
bluecougareyes Chelan, WA 70, joined Nov. 2008	Quote from dixie_dancer: Ribeye. Medium rare. Ribeye...... < I think that's a 24/7 for you...
10/28/2014 4:51:37 PM	What do you bring to the table?
soflwill West Palm Beach, FL 54, joined Jan. 2012	Quote from soulflight: What level are you? I haven't danced in years but used to teach. I was advanced silver entry gold instructor just finished silver in American and International, don't know if I'll go any higher it's a lot of different styles and dances to keep straight.
10/28/2014 4:57:51 PM	What do you bring to the table?
soulflight Dayton, OH 52, joined Apr. 2014	Quote from soflwill: just finished silver in American and International, don't know if I'll go any higher it's a lot of different styles and dances to keep straight. I'm out of touch with the community..don't know how much the syllabi have changed but really...gold was just longer patterns...a little more syncopation... I always preferred international. rather do smooth but I'm built for latin.shrug
10/28/2014 5:29:34 PM	What do you bring to the table?
playingindirt Eugene, OR 59, joined Mar. 2014	all I am and have is all there is. If that's not enough then to bad.
10/28/2014 5:36:56 PM	What do you bring to the table?
lookin4him2012 Blue Diamond, NV 45, joined Jan. 2012	Quote from soflwill: It seems to me that for a relationship to work it needs to be mutually beneficial. If person feels like they are not getting a good return on what they put in it is more than likely that at some point the will pack up and move on. So if we are finding it hard to establish a long lasting relationship perhaps we should ask ourselves what we are bringing to the table. Why not just enjoy dating the person and stop putting so much thought in to what they are doing for YOU.
10/28/2014 5:41:01 PM	What do you bring to the table?
pickygirl72 Phelan, CA 43, joined Sep. 2011	It takes a lot of work, effort and understanding to make a relationship last. It always seems lopsided. Usually being taken for granted and resentments sets in, boredom cause lack of compatibility happens and then bitterness, anger and jealousy usually kill it. Sad story in most relationships.
10/28/2014 5:53:20 PM	What do you bring to the table?
carmelcb Leonia, NJ 24, joined May. 2012	condiments
10/28/2014 6:26:38 PM	What do you bring to the table?
soflwill West Palm Beach, FL 54, joined Jan. 2012	Quote from lookin4him2012: Why not just enjoy dating the person and stop putting so much thought in to what they are doing for YOU. Because I run into a lot of women that ask for everything and give nothing in return. As a dancer one of the biggest turn offs is women thinking I should give them free dance lesson because they want them. My best relationships are based on being mutually beneficial, we each walk away feeling like we've gained something, not feeling like we've been used. You know there are guys just looking to get laid and women just looking to get free entertainment, they take without giving anything back. So maybe you think it's rude to ask what are you doing for me, but when they keep asking and never giving I think it is valid.
10/28/2014 6:29:39 PM	What do you bring to the table?
dixie_dancer Kansas City, KS 26, joined Feb. 2013	Quote from bluecougareyes: Ribeye...... < I think that's a 24/7 for you... pretty much. that, and the only time at eat AT THE TABLE is on the nights i cook a full steak dinner. the rest of the time my coffee table is my dinner table.
10/28/2014 6:34:09 PM	What do you bring to the table?
sobe111 Miami Beach, FL 39, joined Oct. 2013	My milkshake. ...
10/28/2014 6:43:58 PM	What do you bring to the table?
dixie_dancer Kansas City, KS 26, joined Feb. 2013	is your milkshake ... strawberry?
10/28/2014 6:47:25 PM	What do you bring to the table?
testsignup Springfield, VA 61, joined Sep. 2009 online now!	Quote from soflwill: It seems to me that for a relationship to work it needs to be mutually beneficial. If person feels like they are not getting a good return on what they put in it is more than likely that at some point the will pack up and move on. So if we are finding it hard to establish a long lasting relationship perhaps we should ask ourselves what we are bringing to the table. I think this sounds too much like guilt-tripping yourself, or almost as bad, trying to do the other person's thinking, feeling and assessing for them. Yes of COURSE relationships are best when mutually beneficial. Where too many people go wrong, though, is thinking they've figured out what the other person is SUPPOSED to be looking for, and then pretending to be that. The next step from there, is complaining because they "did everything right, but still didn't get what they paid for." Another way to put it is, it's not what you "bring to the table" that matters, it's what the other person WANTS of what you "brought."
10/28/2014 11:24:28 PM	What do you bring to the table?
artist820 Tehachapi, CA 58, joined Jan. 2013 online now!	Quote from pickygirl72: It takes a lot of work, effort and understanding to make a relationship last. It always seems lopsided. Usually being taken for granted and resentments sets in, boredom cause lack of compatibility happens and then bitterness, anger and jealousy usually kill it. Sad story in most relationships. true. What do you think can stop it from spiraling? How long does it usually take to happen?
10/28/2014 11:27:00 PM	What do you bring to the table?
artist820 Tehachapi, CA 58, joined Jan. 2013 online now!	Quote from testsignup: I think this sounds too much like guilt-tripping yourself, or almost as bad, trying to do the other person's thinking, feeling and assessing for them. Yes of COURSE relationships are best when mutually beneficial. Where too many people go wrong, though, is thinking they've figured out what the other person is SUPPOSED to be looking for, and then pretending to be that. The next step from there, is complaining because they "did everything right, but still didn't get what they paid for." Another way to put it is, it's not what you "bring to the table" that matters, it's what the other person WANTS of what you "brought." I have to read it later when I can see. My eyes are hurting.
10/29/2014 12:10:45 AM	What do you bring to the table?
driver406 Saint Paul, MN 62, joined Oct. 2009	Nothing brings me to the table but dinner, that's it. I'm far too cynical about relationships to think there is anyone out there for me.
10/29/2014 12:57:58 AM	What do you bring to the table?
pickygirl72 Phelan, CA 43, joined Sep. 2011	Quote from artist820: true. What do you think can stop it from spiraling? How long does it usually take to happen? it took 20 years for that to happen To me. I need someone who is compatible and truly understands the situation. I think most couples marriages end this way.
10/29/2014 1:33:06 AM	What do you bring to the table?
mylegsarecold Green Bay, WI 52, joined May. 2011	Quote from muffin_top: I am an absolute delight. So is Sunny.
10/29/2014 3:48:43 AM	What do you bring to the table?
kungfu_candy Los Angeles, CA 26, joined Aug. 2013	Do men ever ask themselves these questions? I see a lot of DH men here who think the fact that they graduate highschool is enough collateral for the perfect woman.
10/29/2014 4:44:02 AM	What do you bring to the table?
cavie59 Enid, OK 55, joined Feb. 2010	Quote from kungfu_candy: Do men ever ask themselves these questions? I see a lot of DH men here who think the fact that they graduate highschool is enough collateral for the perfect woman. Well, I hate to break the news to you, there is no such thing as the "Perfect Woman". Then again, some of the riches people in the world are high school drop-outs.
10/29/2014 4:52:02 AM	What do you bring to the table?
inventtis2 Kendallville, IN 36, joined Nov. 2012	Bacon wrapped bacon
10/29/2014 4:58:09 AM	What do you bring to the table?
kungfu_candy Los Angeles, CA 26, joined Aug. 2013	Quote from cavie59: Well, I hate to break the news to you, there is no such thing as the "Perfect Woman". Then again, some of the riches people in the world are high school drop-outs. There is a such a thing as what those believe to be their perfect 'man/woman'. Yeah and those people aren't going around bragging when they actually have the right too.
10/29/2014 9:28:19 AM	What do you bring to the table?
soflwill West Palm Beach, FL 54, joined Jan. 2012	Quote from kungfu_candy: Do men ever ask themselves these questions? I see a lot of DH men here who think the fact that they graduate highschool is enough collateral for the perfect woman. Of course men ask the question, the point of the question was for introspection. For example I'm collage educated, have a good job, nice car, a condo, and I'm a pretty darn good ballroom dancer.

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