| 10/30/2014 8:00:17 PM |
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calloused_heart
Romulus, MI
37, joined Sep. 2014
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...For not allowing my 16 year old spend the night at his girlfriend's house?
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| 10/30/2014 8:58:57 PM |
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areyoumyking
Madison Heights, VA
44, joined Jun. 2014
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Absolutely not! I've been in that situatuon, however with my now 19 year old daughter. She always asked to stay with her boyfriend, my answer was always NO. To be rebellious she did it anyways by lying saying she was staying with a friend and ended up pregnant her senior year of school. Not happy about the decision she made, however I would lay down my life for my grandson.
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| 10/30/2014 8:59:11 PM |
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ladymelody71
Land O Lakes, FL
45, joined Sep. 2014
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I have a 16 yr old boy and no way would I allow this. I don't want to be a grandma yet 
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| 10/30/2014 9:23:29 PM |
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ladymelody71
Land O Lakes, FL
45, joined Sep. 2014
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Silly site I couldn't edit my post. I also meant to say I don't think you're a bad father, I don't judge on things like that.
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| 10/30/2014 11:58:17 PM |
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hornygorny63
Largo, FL
53, joined Sep. 2014
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I don't think that makes you a bad parent at all but rather a caring one
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| 10/31/2014 1:30:15 AM |
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ladymelody71
Land O Lakes, FL
45, joined Sep. 2014
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I don't think that makes you a bad parent at all but rather a caring one
Totally agree
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| 10/31/2014 2:01:09 AM |
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slicc28221
Hope, AR
25, joined Oct. 2014
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Explain 2 him Why not. Gotta think about it he 16. Time for that talk.
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| 10/31/2014 2:48:19 PM |
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0vertherainb0w
Intercourse, PA
33, joined Sep. 2014
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Not at all, lol.
May try to make you feel that way, but just remember what you are keeping from happening by doing so.
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| 10/31/2014 6:40:26 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
52, joined Jul. 2013
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No you're not, but u should
have a man to man talk with
him before u have grandkids
seems like the girl mom, is
ok with it, which she should
have explain to your son that
he can't spend the night
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| 10/31/2014 11:05:17 PM |
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mayflylady
Conyers, GA
55, joined Jun. 2012
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Her parents would allow that?! Keep a close watch if her parents are that lenient
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| 11/4/2014 9:47:39 AM |
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rose1206
Gilbert, AZ
35, joined Jul. 2012
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Of course not, you're doing the right thing by saying no. Don't let anyone tell you different.
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| 11/15/2014 9:08:49 AM |
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notlikeurex
Lincolnton, NC
40, joined Aug. 2012
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Good call dad!
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| 11/15/2014 2:55:45 PM |
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dt8675309
Plano, TX
39, joined Dec. 2013
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I'm gonna chime in from the man's point of view since I will be dealing with this same issue in about 13 years too. If her parents are ok with it then you may want to consider letting him stay over there and here's why:
1. If teenagers are gonna have sex... they're gonna have sex whether it be at a house, in a car or at a park.
2. Having condoms is important to prevent teen pregnancy and it is a safer bet that they're are some at the house.
3. If they are at her house, you know where they are.
But that is just my two cents.
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| 11/17/2014 8:32:01 PM |
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tiredlogger
Booneville, MS
46, joined May. 2008
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I'm gonna chime in from the man's point of view since I will be dealing with this same issue in about 13 years too. If her parents are ok with it then you may want to consider letting him stay over there and here's why:
1. If teenagers are gonna have sex... they're gonna have sex whether it be at a house, in a car or at a park.
2. Having condoms is important to prevent teen pregnancy and it is a safer bet that they're are some at the house.
3. If they are at her house, you know where they are.
But that is just my two cents.
I totally agree with this@ the same time your showing you trust him and his decisions time to have the talk and carry him shoppin
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| 11/18/2014 12:19:33 PM |
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ayemie
Granite Bay, CA
46, joined Jul. 2010
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My opinion is his girlfriend has bad parents. What parent would let their teenager have their bf/gf spend the night.
Unless they don't know cause they are out of town.
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| 11/20/2014 9:34:41 PM |
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miss277volts
Lakeland, FL
47, joined Mar. 2013
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...For not allowing my 16 year old spend the night at his girlfriend's house?
Absolutely not, YOU are being a good father !! It is your job to look out for your son because you do know's up.. Your son doesn't have to like it and will get mad at you, and one day when he is a man he will thank you for looking out for him....
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| 11/29/2014 11:07:57 AM |
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calloused_heart
Romulus, MI
37, joined Sep. 2014
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He sure knows how to make me feel like the bad guy. Her Grandparents are raising her. Not sure if they were going along with their plans, I just know I'm not.
I found out his Mom was pregnant with him when I was only 17. Had to grow up really fast having sole custody of him when he was 6 months old, and I was only 18.
You can call me a hypocrite if you want to. I'm good with that. I just want better for my Son.
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| 12/2/2014 5:54:31 PM |
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sorpstar
Wayne, NJ
64, joined Oct. 2009
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Tell him it's ok but you have the right to be there too...tell him stories of when you were his age but exaggerate. ..also when he has a kid one day himself how would he handle the question. Of course he won't agree but tell him what if your kid made his gf pregnant, then what...
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| 12/2/2014 6:07:45 PM |
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hodag
Grise Fiord, NU
64, joined Nov. 2007
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I'm gonna chime in from the man's point of view since I will be dealing with this same issue in about 13 years too. If her parents are ok with it then you may want to consider letting him stay over there and here's why:
1. If teenagers are gonna have sex... they're gonna have sex whether it be at a house, in a car or at a park.
2. Having condoms is important to prevent teen pregnancy and it is a safer bet that they're are some at the house.
3. If they are at her house, you know where they are.
But that is just my two cents.
Certainly!
And if he wants to start smoking, GO FOR IT!
Drugs? Sure! Why not?
Why not take junior into a liquor store, let him pick out anything he wants, and YOU pay for it!
Maybe in two years, you can encourage him to get involved in the porn industry! Good money, fame, and all the girls he wants!
By all means, do NOT teach him about right and wrong, morality, character, responsibility or virtue, THAT might inhibit him! Besides, all that stuff is OLD FASHIONED!
And if he ends up in prison, hey! You'll know where he is!
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| 12/2/2014 6:48:55 PM |
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tileman1814
Kalispell, MT
66, joined Nov. 2007
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Certainly!
And if he wants to start smoking, GO FOR IT!
Drugs? Sure! Why not?
Why not take junior into a liquor store, let him pick out anything he wants, and YOU pay for it!
Maybe in two years, you can encourage him to get involved in the porn industry! Good money, fame, and all the girls he wants!
By all means, do NOT teach him about right and wrong, morality, character, responsibility or virtue, THAT might inhibit him! Besides, all that stuff is OLD FASHIONED!
And if he ends up in prison, hey! You'll know where he is!
Semper Fi !!!
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| 12/4/2014 9:02:43 AM |
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sweetkiss4him
Houghton, MI
75, joined Dec. 2010
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No This is what i have told parents for years i"m 73 and this all that i have found that works most every time check your schools some have baby dolls that the kids the teen has to care for a couple of weeks day and night, it is their responsibility for a couple of weeks Christmas brake is coming that is a perfect time to do this ,it knocks their fun out and most all wake up to what it will cost them for a few minutes of sex . you have nothing to lose and every thing to gain . good luck
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| 1/3/2015 7:33:50 PM |
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my2sunshine
Pulaski, NY
51, joined Apr. 2013
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My friends son was 17 when he moved in with his girlfriend and her Mom against his parents wishes.
Within a year he was arrested and had a record for having sex with a minor. He is now a convicted and registered sex offender because he had sex with a minor...she was 2 years younger.
Protect your son.
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| 1/4/2015 2:51:12 AM |
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chrissyboomania
Teaneck, NJ
24, joined Jul. 2013
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I have a 17 year old girl that lives with me, and I would never allow her to spend the night with a boy, especially with the fact that she already has one kid.. So OP you are not a bad dad
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| 1/28/2015 10:11:43 PM |
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cole_tanner
Fort Pierre, SD
35, joined Dec. 2012
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Stand strong man and if need be put him on lock down at 16 they don't need to be doing that stuff hell if my daughter asked me that I think I would have a hart attack plus if a boy thought it was a good idea and showed up to spend the night with my daughter I think I would have to.shoot him
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| 1/29/2015 6:10:01 AM |
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northken
Nikiski, AK
38, joined Apr. 2013
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Keeping your kid out of a high risk situation is never bad parenting...
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| 2/2/2015 2:22:29 PM |
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cjsassy72
Berthoud, CO
44, joined Sep. 2014
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No you are not a bad father, you are doing your job
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| 3/10/2015 2:11:07 AM |
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badboystu
Victoria
Australia
47, joined Feb. 2015
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Any younger girls want to play 
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| 3/15/2015 12:01:56 PM |
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reginao1
Marietta, GA
53, joined Apr. 2014
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You are not a bad Dad, you are a caring and responsible father. You have made the right decision. Your son may not see it now, but will know it in the future.
Good luck.
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