11/2/2014 8:45:23 PM |
Long distance relationship. yay or nay? |
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srn790
Minneapolis, MN
38, joined Dec. 2010
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I just started talking to this guy in Pennsylvania that shares a lot of same stuff I do. Unsure if I want to get to know him more based on distance. Even though it doesn't bother him.
Advice appreciated...
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11/2/2014 8:51:22 PM |
Long distance relationship. yay or nay? |
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dh_hoor_13
Ridgeland, MS
31, joined Jan. 2014
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Been there done that hardly works
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11/2/2014 9:14:33 PM |
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jenly
Chaska, MN
98, joined Jan. 2014
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My last serious relationship was with a man from Idaho. My advice is, if you have the means to meet, do so, and do so frequently. Both need to put in the effort. Communication (not just phone and text, but letters, sending little gifts or notes or cards, etc) is important, and one of you has to be willing to relocate sooner rather than later.
I wouldn't want to do it again.
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11/2/2014 11:57:04 PM |
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comicbookfan97
Minneapolis, MN
39, joined Aug. 2010
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i have yet to try a long distance relationship so maybe it might work
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11/9/2014 7:06:17 AM |
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srn790
Minneapolis, MN
38, joined Dec. 2010
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So I took a chance on this long distance relationship. We have only been talking for a week. I have been looking for a Christian man in my life. He has all the qualities I need in a man and can't find in Minnesota. Am I crazy for long distance?
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11/9/2014 11:32:01 AM |
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rufftreasure
Fairmont, MN
61, joined Jun. 2014
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If you are , then I am.
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11/10/2014 12:56:04 AM |
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silent_admirerr
Ballycastle
Ireland
43, joined May. 2014
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So I took a chance on this long distance relationship. We have only been talking for a week. I have been looking for a Christian man in my life. He has all the qualities I need in a man and can't find in Minnesota. Am I crazy for long distance?
Nope. As long as you're both willing to make an effort to keep getting to know each other better and you're both open and honest.
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11/10/2014 7:24:26 AM |
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rufftreasure
Fairmont, MN
61, joined Jun. 2014
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I have known my man for 4 years, we were apart for one year, the first year I knew him I wanted him ,but he kept disappearing, and we really didn't have anything goin.
Then we got together for a year, skipped a year and now will be enjoying love and success, after a hell of a quest. It's entirely worth the effort. I would do anything for the right man, who BTW is 1000 miles away. But not for long. I will be with him in 2 weeks!!!
You are young , and have more energy than me, I use my energy efficiently. But all the effort and time spent is worth the love received!!!!
Good luck!!
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11/10/2014 11:02:42 PM |
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srn790
Minneapolis, MN
38, joined Dec. 2010
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Thanks for the advice. I am going to take a chance on this guy. He possesses all the qualities I am looking for. We have text every day for a week now. I want to continue to get to know him. Any advice to keep long distance strong. He is a single parent to a 5 yr old daughter and says he will move for the right person. Thats a big step because I have a four yr old son. But we are still in the get to know you stage.
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11/10/2014 11:05:06 PM |
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srn790
Minneapolis, MN
38, joined Dec. 2010
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Any specific questions I should be asking this guy
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11/10/2014 11:15:58 PM |
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verginmenot
Saint Cloud, MN
42, joined Aug. 2014
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I couldn't ... no way
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11/10/2014 11:41:02 PM |
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srn790
Minneapolis, MN
38, joined Dec. 2010
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It will be a lot of work, dedication and trust.
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11/10/2014 11:42:39 PM |
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srn790
Minneapolis, MN
38, joined Dec. 2010
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The first thing I asked him was how he found me and he said he didn't find me. Gods spirit brought us together.
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11/11/2014 3:09:48 PM |
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rufftreasure
Fairmont, MN
61, joined Jun. 2014
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You should ask anything and everything that comes to mind
Better to communicate about it now, and take your time, communication is the key!!!
We are in it for the long haul, we will roll through the punches, one day at a time, cuz it's for always.
You must talk about building a united front for the kids. You must always be fair concerning your children. You must stand firm to show your partnership. Children may try to play both sides outta the middle when there is a step family.
I've seen it and lived it. All of our children are grown with families of their own.
So we aren't facing the child thing.
You have to be painfully fair with the kids
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11/11/2014 7:35:27 PM |
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srn790
Minneapolis, MN
38, joined Dec. 2010
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Thanks for the advice. I appreciate it.
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11/12/2014 9:55:15 AM |
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rufftreasure
Fairmont, MN
61, joined Jun. 2014
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@ SRN
I would never try to tell you what to do without wisdom that has come from experience.
The one thing I know is that it's all energy and it's all relative.
Also that we must love one another
And never, ever give up!!
[Edited 11/12/2014 9:55:48 AM ]
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11/12/2014 7:23:21 PM |
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srn790
Minneapolis, MN
38, joined Dec. 2010
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Thanks for your help.
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11/12/2014 10:17:04 PM |
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srn790
Minneapolis, MN
38, joined Dec. 2010
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Rufftreasure...thanks for all the advice..I need to explain something about this guy to someone. Can you please private message me.
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1/25/2015 7:27:17 PM |
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ladelove1234
Excelsior, MN
57, joined Oct. 2013
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I don't know it is hard are they really who they say they are start asking them to call you send pic like them holding something u pick u never can be too careful I have found too many scams out there
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