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dixie_dancer
Kansas City, KS
28, joined Feb. 2013
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perhaps what YOU think are flaws, are actually something my guy values and treasures in me.
different strokes for different folks.
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pdforone
Litchfield, OH
65, joined Jul. 2010
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 My son, soon to be 26, and my ex wife's stepson, 26, live with me. Unlike you though, they have both had girlfriends, and seen the drama and demands involved. I have lived through them personally and want no more part of them, there is no pressure here, want to date? date, want to do something with the guys? go for it! It's your life, do what makes you happiest.
Their mothers and sisters on the other hand think it's weird, weird not to be needy or have a constant desire for drama? Weird not to want to hear? I'm bored, I'm not happy! We do our own thing at our own pace! It's man's land, no whining allowed! Here it's 3 men a dog, no babies allowed, cry and whine elsewhere.
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| 11/3/2014 10:13:38 PM |
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millyreturns
Suffolk, VA
28, joined Apr. 2014
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You don't know what he values at the moment. You live 500 miles away. That man is probably somewhere right now having a ball living a single life. Shit he don't even have a ring on it yet. Far as he's aware he's a single man basically.
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| 11/3/2014 10:28:24 PM |
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dixie_dancer
Kansas City, KS
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he's eating a two pound T-bone steak watching that 70s show in boxer briefs drinking beer after he played a men's league hockey game earlier this evening.
if he WAS cheating on me, it would seem weird to the "other woman" if he was taking about fifty snapchats of himself singing and dancing around while cooking and grilling, no?
actually, there IS a ring on it yet, it's just not official until he can go "get my parents'" blessings ... which he already has, but wants in person.
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millyreturns
Suffolk, VA
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he's eating a two pound T-bone steak watching that 70s show in boxer briefs drinking beer after he played a men's league hockey game earlier this evening.
if he WAS cheating on me, it would seem weird to the "other woman" if he was taking about fifty snapchats of himself singing and dancing around while cooking and grilling, no?
actually, there IS a ring on it yet, it's just not official until he can go "get my parents'" blessings ... which he already has, but wants in person.
So I'm guessing you're on cam with him 24/7. Well you shut me up then.
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| 11/3/2014 11:44:59 PM |
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pickygirl72
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011
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If you are not endangering your life than parents need to butt out. This comment goes for all.
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grizzlybear786
Florence, OR
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| 11/4/2014 12:04:05 AM |
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grizzlybear786
Florence, OR
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If you are not endangering your life than parents need to butt out. This comment goes for all.
Thank you.
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| 11/4/2014 12:20:29 AM |
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maggie__magpie
Santee, CA
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I don't understand parents who try to pressure their children into doing something that they aren't ready to do.
They have their own lives to live and are responsible for making themselves happy just as you are responsible for making yourself happy.
Let's say that you did find a girlfriend then what? Then they would be pressuring you to give them grandchildren.
Then they would be telling you how to raise them. Stop the nonsense now and step away from the table and say no more jello for me mom!
Damn straight. 
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| 11/4/2014 12:21:52 AM |
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grizzlybear786
Florence, OR
30, joined Jul. 2014
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Wake up Maggie, I think I've got something to say to you!
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| 11/4/2014 12:24:10 AM |
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maggie__magpie
Santee, CA
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| 11/4/2014 12:27:07 AM |
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grizzlybear786
Florence, OR
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More like 
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| 11/4/2014 12:35:19 AM |
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mccirrus
Indianapolis, IN
38, joined Nov. 2010
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Okay, this is Dad posting! Son, are you gonna finally get laid and make your Momma proud or do you want me to do it for ya, ffs?!
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| 11/4/2014 12:42:39 AM |
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lovebug1217
Syracuse, NY
20, joined Oct. 2013
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I really don't have a girlfriend. That's the truth. Do I look like the type of man who could attract a woman?
You know what? I honestly admire your honesty. If you aren't ready for a girlfriend Dont have one who cares what others say. Just do what you want , not what others what.
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| 11/4/2014 12:49:21 AM |
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naturebiy
Bangkok
Thailand
41, joined Jul. 2011
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On the flip side grizz..
I have dated and been with my fair share of women..
And I have no desire..
I have been through many unnecessary situations that was primarily caused by my ignorance and women..
I have 2 teenagers from a deadbeat..that could careless if I fall on my face or not trying to raise these boys..
I have no desire for the common woman, in which I will stay single till something extraordinary comes along ..and if not...oh well..
No need in dating 500 women to try and find the right one..
Its not hard to see what most women are about..
Good luck
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blue3rose
Saint Louis, MO
41, joined Jun. 2013
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All though well intended your parents should let you be since you're a grown man now.
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| 11/4/2014 1:20:43 AM |
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lostinmorton
Onalaska, WA
51, joined Sep. 2014
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When my kids moved out it was none of my business what they did or who they were with. As long as they weren't hurting themselves or other's and happy its all good.
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| 11/4/2014 1:50:07 AM |
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tjl503
Portland, OR
37, joined Dec. 2012
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I'm sure they're tired of hearing you jacking off in their basement. Look, you know and I know that you're a clueless f**k but when people try to give advice you're combative with them on here.
You have 16 selfies on your profile with a shit grin and you posted the same thing in your about me section as you posted here. Remove those and start over, women are nexting you left and right checking your profile.
It sounds like you're still on your mamas titty, tell her to mind her own business when it comes to you finding a girlfriend or boyfriend. She's just trying to help you though, you're 28 years old and have never had a woman who you could call your own and drop your d*ck on. That's sad, you really need to get laid dude. It's crucial to your existence, you're in full LOP mode! Lack of p*ssy.
Before you get mad and try to come up with a witty response and say I don't have pics or a profile I say b*tch I don't need one, I have a girlfriend. Delete your f*ggy pics and your p*ssy repelling about me section and start over. You're welcome!
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| 11/4/2014 3:53:10 AM |
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grizzlybear786
Florence, OR
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I'm sensing hostility. Did you expect that answer? Right now I have that same grin on my face.
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| 11/4/2014 8:18:49 AM |
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grizzlybear786
Florence, OR
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| 11/5/2014 3:39:52 AM |
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mjw6230
Louisville, KY
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I'm turning 28 November 7th and my parents are starting to pressure me. My dad is worried because I've never had a girlfriend. My mom wants me to get a girlfriend too. I want them to let me be. What is the need to get a girlfriend? Why does society deem it normal to be in a relationship? I DON'T NEED A GIRLFRIEND!!!
Your parents secretly think you may be gay. That simple. A straight man doesn't need to be pressured to get some draws. He's always looking.
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| 11/5/2014 8:28:43 PM |
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dan121782
San Jose, CA
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Hahahaha. Tell that b*tch
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| 11/5/2014 8:31:39 PM |
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grizzlybear786
Florence, OR
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Believe me. I tried. Maybe I went about dating the wrong way but I've given up. I don't have what it takes so I have to be happy with what I do have.
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| 11/5/2014 8:34:09 PM |
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teeheehee_
Montreal, QC
35, joined Jun. 2014
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I'm sure they're tired of hearing you jacking off in their basement. Look, you know and I know that you're a clueless f**k but when people try to give advice you're combative with them on here.
You have 16 selfies on your profile with a shit grin and you posted the same thing in your about me section as you posted here. Remove those and start over, women are nexting you left and right checking your profile.
It sounds like you're still on your mamas titty, tell her to mind her own business when it comes to you finding a girlfriend or boyfriend. She's just trying to help you though, you're 28 years old and have never had a woman who you could call your own and drop your d*ck on. That's sad, you really need to get laid dude. It's crucial to your existence, you're in full LOP mode! Lack of p*ssy.
Before you get mad and try to come up with a witty response and say I don't have pics or a profile I say b*tch I don't need one, I have a girlfriend. Delete your f*ggy pics and your p*ssy repelling about me section and start over. You're welcome!
Listen to him!!!! It's written in a little more...ummm, direct way than what I would have but that's the gist of it.
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grizzlybear786
Florence, OR
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Listening isn't going to do me any good either. I don't know how to approach women. My best bet is to let a woman pick me, however long that takes.
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| 11/6/2014 12:29:47 AM |
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ermgotticity
Saint Louis, MO
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Dude don't worry, I'm 22 and never had a longterm gf (3+months) or a serious relationship for that matter. I believe you'll find someone for you when its meant to be and she'll respect you more because you ain't f**k the city. I know mines out there somewhere maybe even 1000 miles away
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| 11/6/2014 12:33:14 AM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009
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I'm telling you you're better off single and never having a date than to be involved with some nasty feminist. My mother never wanted me to have a girlfriend when I was young. I should have moved to the E coast, got a job and got married out there.
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| 11/6/2014 12:33:58 AM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009
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Dude don't worry, I'm 22 and never had a longterm gf (3+months) or a serious relationship for that matter. I believe you'll find someone for you when its meant to be and she'll respect you more because you ain't f**k the city. I know mines out there somewhere maybe even 1000 miles away
I think that's BS but you're certainly entitled to your opinion.
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| 11/6/2014 12:36:57 AM |
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ermgotticity
Saint Louis, MO
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Ayye I'm not mad at the man! Being single is great..... until your 45 and lonely....... time is ticking though
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| 11/7/2014 12:21:34 PM |
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mistermister81
Opa Locka, FL
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I'm turning 28 November 7th and my parents are starting to pressure me. My dad is worried because I've never had a girlfriend. My mom wants me to get a girlfriend too. I want them to let me be. What is the need to get a girlfriend? Why does society deem it normal to be in a relationship? I DON'T NEED A GIRLFRIEND!!!
You have had sex with a woman right? If not they're probably hoping their son either isn't a loser, gay, and/or want grand children. It could be that you're socially inept, lack confidence, and the only way you can communicate with women is behind a screen. I'm willing to bet you don't have the nerve to ask a woman out on a date let alone find a girlfriend. At this stage in life you should have at least known how to socialize with the female gender.
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| 11/7/2014 12:32:36 PM |
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mistermister81
Opa Locka, FL
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Listening isn't going to do me any good either. I don't know how to approach women. My best bet is to let a woman pick me, however long that takes.
Not gonna happen unless she feels no man wants to approach her. As much shit as you talk I would think you would know how to interact with women. I'll help you out as much as I could since your late in the game. Don't go trying to approach every woman you see that you find attractive (that don't mean all the pretty girls) because you aren't equipped to handle rejection. Be around women that are interested in the same things you like. So if you'e into the comic book scene be around women that are. Show confidence while at the same time showing that you aren't a stick in the mud. Let things progress naturally and see where it goes. For you it's going to take more patience then most men who have been doing it already.
Hope you got something and it helps lead you in the right direction.
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| 11/7/2014 1:37:59 PM |
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dezweather
Phoenix, AZ
44, joined Oct. 2014
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Perhaps you'd be better suited with a boyfriend?
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| 11/7/2014 1:43:55 PM |
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jimmco
Monroe, NY
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When you're ready, you will.
You're young so...your parents just have to be patient.
By the way: Happy Birthday!!  
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| 11/7/2014 1:55:01 PM |
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mistermister81
Opa Locka, FL
36, joined Jan. 2014
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When you're ready, you will.
You're young so...your parents just have to be patient.
By the way: Happy Birthday!!
Young wtf the muthafuka damn near 30 don't say shit to make him feel good we all know he's lacking social skills and that's something he should have picked up earlier in life. Shit my 6 year old know how to interact with girls so why wouldn't a damn near 30 year old man shouldn't. Young my ass. No need to pamper a grown man.
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| 11/7/2014 3:27:38 PM |
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brywithayfromca
Long Beach, CA
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Just come out of the closet already 
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| 11/7/2014 10:07:08 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
52, joined Jul. 2013
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Maybe u should talk to a
therapist
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| 11/7/2014 10:29:13 PM |
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love2kiss8
Columbus, OH
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I would recommend having a fake gf or you can man up and tell your parents how you really feel and how it's your life and you don't want a gf at this time. People will Try to control your life or tell you what to do as long as you let them 
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newworldman4
Trenton, MI
52, joined Jan. 2012
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may be so you quite being over at there house
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| 11/8/2014 3:08:46 AM |
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bigdinv
Houston, TX
36, joined Sep. 2011
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may be so you quite being over at there house
This doesn't make sense.
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| 11/8/2014 3:10:19 AM |
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grizzlybear786
Florence, OR
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I would recommend having a fake gf or you can man up and tell your parents how you really feel and how it's your life and you don't want a gf at this time. People will Try to control your life or tell you what to do as long as you let them
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| 11/8/2014 8:42:45 AM |
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love2kiss8
Columbus, OH
25, joined May. 2013
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Do I get to have sex with my fake girlfriend? Or is it fake sex?
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Neither you will have a long distance relationship with your hand
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| 11/8/2014 8:51:14 AM |
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mrfckinpetey
Orlando, FL
32, joined Jun. 2014
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Sounds like your parents just want to have grandkids to play with, or still believe in this old horseshit ideal of keeping the line going. Just tell them to f**k off.
If you stay single you'll live like a king, especially in your younger years.
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grizzlybear786
Florence, OR
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Sounds like your parents just want to have grandkids to play with, or still believe in this old horseshit ideal of keeping the line going. Just tell them to f**k off.
If you stay single you'll live like a king, especially in your younger years.
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1lastime2014
Marana, AZ
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Neither you will have a long distance relationship with your hand
OMG LMFAO 
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| 11/8/2014 11:54:06 AM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
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I would be willing to but every woman they set me up with wants to be rescued. They are usually single mothers who just got out of a bad relationship.
If you're 27-28 yrs old and never been with a women, not only do you NOT need to call yourself grizzlybear but you're not exactly in a position to be picky.
So what if they're single moms. In tbeir eyes you're not exactly Brad Pitt or Val Kilmer yourself. And at 27 witb your parents setting you up bcuz you CAN'T set yourself up is exactly why you can't be picky.
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| 11/8/2014 12:01:00 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
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What ever it is, my parents need to mind their own business. When I am ready, I will find a girlfriend.
If you 're not ready in 27 yrs, another 27 and you won't be able to get a hard on.
You need to get some fast before your nuts explode and KILL some damn body. You d*ck should be on the "most wanted terrorists" list with pictures of it posted in every post office.
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| 11/8/2014 12:06:25 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
50, joined Jun. 2014
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Money can't buy love.
No but you can!
If you go out and some then maybe you'll understand tbese responses and your parents.
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| 11/8/2014 12:12:36 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
50, joined Jun. 2014
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I try to be happy with what I have.
And whats that? Sex toys and porn? Look tneres nothing wrong with some good porn but sex toys are not for men.
Put them down and get yourself some my friend.
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| 11/8/2014 12:19:49 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
50, joined Jun. 2014
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i guess that's just a chance one takes in dating, no?
That is a chance we all take when dating BUT we don't purposely choose situation where it would "MORE THAN LIKELY" happen. We try and "reduce" those chances with our decisions.
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| 11/8/2014 12:30:11 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
50, joined Jun. 2014
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Trust me. I'm not gay. I'd date you.
So. why would you date her but not someone in your own town? Whats the difference? Is it bcuz shes blk?
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| 11/8/2014 12:41:45 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
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If you are not endangering your life than parents need to butt out. This comment goes for all.
No "REAL MAN" wants to consider that his son might be gay. Women may not give a shit one way or the other bcuz they are more accepting of homosexuality.
But could NEVER understand what that does to a "man" when it comes to his son. Frankly most women don't give a shit or respect how men really feel about it.
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| 11/8/2014 12:48:03 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
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I don't understand parents who try to pressure their children into doing something that they aren't ready to do.
Its called having standards and cherishing family values. But todays society want parents to not give a F**K how tbeir kids turn out or what they do.
How can you call yourself a good parent if you think that way? Huh?
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| 11/8/2014 1:03:50 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
50, joined Jun. 2014
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Listening isn't going to do me any good either. I don't know how to approach women. My best bet is to let a woman pick me, however long that takes.
Watch some movies, listen to some love songs, something!
You have to develope a style that works for you. Even if you have to mimic someone else's style or a combination of other guys styles until you fine tune and develop your own.
Do you think all guys are born into the world KNOWING what to say to get women when they go through puberty? Seriously?
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| 11/8/2014 11:05:38 PM |
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viper1e
Jeannette, PA
59, joined Dec. 2013
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I'm turning 28 November 7th and my parents are starting to pressure me. My dad is worried because I've never had a girlfriend. My mom wants me to get a girlfriend too. I want them to let me be. What is the need to get a girlfriend? Why does society deem it normal to be in a relationship? I DON'T NEED A GIRLFRIEND!!!
Bring Chad home to Thanksgiving dinner and give them both heart attacks.
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| 11/8/2014 11:50:35 PM |
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yatame1
Buffalo, NY
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hey grizzly all the help you need in 6 minutes .
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2iGk87bug2s
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| 11/9/2014 2:37:01 PM |
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tooflyforawhguy
Oshkosh, WI
25, joined Oct. 2014
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I'm not gay but I am a virgin. Unfortunately.
I thought you had that woman that used for sex
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| 11/9/2014 3:42:23 PM |
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kungfu_candy
Alsónémedi
Hungary
28, joined Aug. 2013
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Tell them to give you lots of money and a nice car.
They want you to have one so bad tell them do their part.
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| 11/9/2014 4:19:42 PM |
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4uijack
New Port Richey, FL
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I'll meet her there. It's a small town. I can walk to my sisters room.
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| 11/9/2014 9:36:23 PM |
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larena40
Phoenix, AZ
44, joined Jan. 2014
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Is it because they think your gay. Not that any things. Wrong with being gay.
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| 11/9/2014 10:19:56 PM |
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grizzlybear786
Florence, OR
30, joined Jul. 2014
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Maybe they do. Being gay isn't wrong, but I'm not gay. I just don't have a girlfriend to prove them wrong.
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