You can only sit in a restaurant so long. If she suggests going back to her house, does that mean she wants sex?

No, it doesn't necessarily mean you want sex, however, it may send conflicting signals to your date. You must also be careful of what additional signals you may unconciously send. If you meet someone in a public place and after spending some reasonable time with them you find them attractive, simply make another date and continue to get to know them. Moving to your home may in itself send a signal that you don't want to send.

Why does one thing have to mean another????If it does then obviously theres a lot to be desired,,,If i say one thing i dont mean something else...So if I invite you to my home I am not inviting you to have sex...I am simply inviting you into my home and offering hospitality and nothing more nothing less....If you want sex then go to the wh*rehouse...

Tell the truth!!
You can only sit in a restaurant so long. If she suggests going back to her house, does that mean she wants sex?

I was told an invitation meant sex by two guys who I had to beat off later-but it was my fault, they said, because I had invited them into the house.

TELL THE TRUTH, NOW!

It means sex to some guys, so be careful!!!
and another thing is, if you invite a guy to your house and end up not liking him, he still knows where you live and that can be a problem.

I think it would depend on the situation just before asking. If you were making out before hand (kissing, sensual touching, etc..) then I would take that to mean that you want to move us to a more private place. If that wasn't the situation then it would depend on how it was asked. "Would you care to come in for a nightcap?" is code for sex.

I was invited over to a dates apartment after we finished antique store browsing and there was no sexual connotation involved or I was oblivious to it and I behaved. Did I miss a cue? Maybe...

yes what you think she wants to read books or something

Sometimes it does mean sex, and if guys don't get the hint, they get labelled clueless and lame. Too much of dating is guessing games.

old school ,, ur kewl in my book. but from my experience,it'll come as no surprise when the need for more physical action is required. It should be a mutual feeling, if not,than it aint gonna happen. And if you push the envelope , you'll be labeled a jack-ass. But if it comes at you wide open, and you don't see the signs. Your gonna be labeled a loser. So it's always safe to be on your best behaviour and look for the obvious signs.

Old skool is just that,,old. I've been on dates where i've wined and dined the ladies. But when i get them back to their place it seems to lead to more than expected for a 1st date. And to tell you the truth , I was appalled. I mean , why should it lead to more than a date? It shouldn't. It should be a breaking point as to whether your interested in seeing that person again. Unless,,now here's another concept. I've been on a few dates w/this woman. Than we know each other and their is an attraction. Thus , the relationship has hit another plane.

Yeah, fair enuf, I'm old. Got what, 15 years on ya, "Sonny?"

But more importantly, my priorities are different than many people who are younger. I don't want to have sex with a relative stranger, even if she offers it up. I discount any initial physical attraction I might feel -- to me a stranger is more of a "thing" rather than a "person" when it comes to intimacy -- sex with someone like that would be little different than masturbating, except using someone else's body.

Now there is nothing wrong with two people "using" each other in that manner if they both consent to it, hence the term "consenting adults". But, that strikes me more as a business deal more than a romantic relationship.

Which, again, is still fine, for those that want it. I just don't.

My life is hell right now, with protracted litigation (that I'm winning, but the process is slow, and expensive, nevertheless), so I'm not "looking". But, that doesn't change the fact that I would like to meet someone kind, affectionate, and seeking a partner for a long term relationship that can, at some point, become intimate.

I do think that bullsnit has reached he age when he realizes that sex, freely offered, without a greater connection leaves one feeling that there's something "missing".