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bbwfreak22
Waco, TX
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So I have a question I have been seeing a guy for 1year who is currently in a unhappy relationship, so knowing this we have a cool relationship full of passion and its fun and drama free. I don't mind being is side chick due to the fact I can have my cake and eat it to. The crazy part is he won't let me have a side dude. Why? I asked he says he don't share his p*ssy.
I would like to know your true feelings on this. 
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| 11/16/2014 10:50:55 AM |
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stamina1975
Madison Heights, VA
39, joined Apr. 2012
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You done got yourself in a quandary now haven't you! Why people do these things to themselves I don't know...
Just be grateful you had that much cake so far. LOL
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| 11/16/2014 11:01:55 AM |
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bbwfreak22
Waco, TX
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Lol idk I liked the thrill of it plus iI getthe perks of a relationship without as much BS
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| 11/16/2014 11:06:11 AM |
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theloser2123
Radford, VA
23, joined Apr. 2014
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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| 11/16/2014 11:14:20 AM |
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iheartidiots
Grove City, OH
37, joined Feb. 2012
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He's controlling you. Do you want to continue being controlled by a part-time lover who dips his stick freely?
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| 11/16/2014 11:18:43 AM |
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bbwfreak22
Waco, TX
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Good point
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| 11/16/2014 11:23:52 AM |
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stamina1975
Madison Heights, VA
39, joined Apr. 2012
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Lol idk I liked the thrill of it plus iI getthe perks of a relationship without as much BS
Perks, just sex? I'm guessing.
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| 11/16/2014 11:26:37 AM |
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bbwfreak22
Waco, TX
29, joined Oct. 2014
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Perks, just sex? I'm guessing.
No we go out have fun he chills stays he night. If i needed anything he would help
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| 11/16/2014 11:36:16 AM |
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stamina1975
Madison Heights, VA
39, joined Apr. 2012
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Sounds like FWB on your side. But from his point of you, he's getting the cake whenever he pleases.
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| 11/16/2014 12:28:12 PM |
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cubcougar
Lucerne, CA
61, joined Oct. 2010
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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| 11/16/2014 12:46:39 PM |
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pickygirl72
Phelan, CA
44, joined Sep. 2011
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Why? I asked he says he don't share his p*ssy.
But he is sharing p*ssy. You and his wife. Really how do u know its an unhappy marriage? Just because he said so? I wouldn't trust that. He just wants to cheat. Did u ever think of that?
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| 11/16/2014 12:55:37 PM |
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dorval
Millville, PA
95, joined May. 2009
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He is a married man who screws around........and you are an easy woman with no morals........kick his a** to the curb and have some respect for yourself....not as easy task for some.
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| 11/16/2014 12:59:15 PM |
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bbwfreak22
Waco, TX
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He is a married man who screws around........and you are an easy woman with no morals........kick his a** to the curb and have some respect for yourself....not as easy task for some.
Thank you for your honesty.
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| 11/16/2014 1:01:03 PM |
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bbwfreak22
Waco, TX
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But he is sharing p*ssy. You and his wife. Really how do u know its an unhappy marriage? Just because he said so? I wouldn't trust that. He just wants to cheat. Did u ever think of that?
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| 11/16/2014 1:06:18 PM |
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testsignup
Springfield, VA
61, joined Sep. 2009
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So I have a question I have been seeing a guy for 1year who is currently in a unhappy relationship, so knowing this we have a cool relationship full of passion and its fun and drama free. I don't mind being is side chick due to the fact I can have my cake and eat it to. The crazy part is he won't let me have a side dude. Why? I asked he says he don't share his p*ssy.
I would like to know your true feelings on this.
Why are you even remotely confused?
You are in the most common of all other-woman situations: you think you have the fantasy situation you wanted, NSA with a guy who is always happy to see you because he only sees you when he's in the mood, and she has to deal with him when he's sick or needy.
But really, you are just a car he bought for fun. Why are you surprised that he wants you to sit quietly in the garage while he's driving his other car to work?
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| 11/16/2014 1:06:40 PM |
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purdiibirdi
Nice
France
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So I have a question I have been seeing a guy for 1year who is currently in a unhappy relationship, so knowing this we have a cool relationship full of passion and its fun and drama free. I don't mind being is side chick due to the fact I can have my cake and eat it to. The crazy part is he won't let me have a side dude. Why? I asked he says he don't share his p*ssy.
I would like to know your true feelings on this.
just exactly how are you getting your cake and eating it too? you just said he won't let you have a side dude... this sounds like he's controlling your life. the only person in this relationship who's getting "relationship p*ssy" and "strange p*ssy on the side" is the dude. you're just as "kept" as his gfriend is, but just too stupid to see the situation for what it i really is.
my true feelings? I feel sorry for the g/f if she doesn't know. I think you're a true "C*NT" for f**king someone else's man "knowingly," and he's just a plain "f**k-stain." 
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| 11/16/2014 1:47:32 PM |
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get2knowuwell3
Fort Worth, TX
45, joined Jun. 2013
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^^^ sed the "C" werd 
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| 11/16/2014 1:55:22 PM |
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heartoflove69
New York, NY
54, joined Oct. 2014
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Wow. U have settled for less and convinced your self it is what u want. Do better and most importantly, it is not up to him to allow u to have another man. He knows if u find another man his chances to keep u close is shattered.
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| 11/16/2014 1:58:30 PM |
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mustangwriter
Boerne, TX
54, joined Nov. 2009
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Do you really need his permission for a side dude?
Just tell him...He IS the side dude.
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| 11/16/2014 2:00:15 PM |
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ladiebugg55
Redding, CA
58, joined Jun. 2012
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Being in a part time relationship wouldn't work for me..it's all of him or nothing..having sex with a man knowing he has sex elsewhere seems dirty and risky..ick..good luck!..
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| 11/16/2014 2:12:04 PM |
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cubcougar
Lucerne, CA
61, joined Oct. 2010
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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| 11/16/2014 2:22:11 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
49, joined Jul. 2013
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op u can't be serious, saying u
happy and don't mind being a side
line chick, u gone always remain on
the side, wifey not going anywhere
he's laughing at u cause you're doing
exactly what, he wants u to do
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| 11/16/2014 2:47:01 PM |
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amusicluvr
Salem, OR
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OP - You are willing to share him, because you like him enough that having him-even only part time-is fine by you.
He is NOT willing to share you because he does NOT like you enough that having you-part time-is fine by him.
Also, he is a control freak, and a misogynist, and feels that he owns you, but you do not own him.
If that is all good for you, then take it, and like it, and STFU.
If that is NOT all good for you, get some self respect, and dump his ass, and find someone who believes in equality enough to either be equally monogamous with you, or to be in an equally open relationship / FWB thing with you.
You asked. I answered.
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| 11/16/2014 2:51:05 PM |
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love2kiss8
Columbus, OH
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You are just a doormat continue not like you will change wasting your years with a guy who calls you his exclusive side "pu$$y" while he has his wife. He is probably feeling all set he can cheat and you don't mind. I wonder how his wife feels do you?
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| 11/16/2014 3:00:24 PM |
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lostlove8322
Shelton, CT
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Op I'm not trying to sound judgmental here but alot of ladies said kick him to the curb. I agree, have more self worth and self respect for yourself hun! Once your done with his cheating ways you'll see your not some side chick and a good wonderful respectful gentlemen will be there to show you that your a good woman. Dont ever let someone control you sweetheart that is a form of abuse. You have the right to pursue happiness. Pick your head up beautiful and stand tall and dont take this because you deserve so much more.
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| 11/16/2014 3:04:42 PM |
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bbwfreak22
Waco, TX
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Thank you for your thought on this..I have decided to leave him alone because I wouldn't want that to be me
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| 11/16/2014 3:08:22 PM |
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eyes4unow
Pomfret, CT
45, joined Dec. 2013
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Are you not getting it(attention, desire, relationship fulfillment, sex) enough that you want a side guy to the side guy? Maybe that in itself is telling you what you have with him is not enough anymore?
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| 11/16/2014 3:10:02 PM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
55, joined May. 2009
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What are you getting out of this relationship? Do you get to see him on Christmas? Do you get to go out together on New Year's? Does he bring you chicken noodle soup or ginger ale when you're sick? Do you get to meet his family and friends, standing beside him as if you're the one he chose?
All those nights you don't get to see him, what do you do? I mean, he won't "allow" you to go out with someone else because you're his toy and only he gets to play. How is it he gets so much say over you when you get no say over him?
You assume that he'd dump you if you started seeing someone else...why? Why wouldn't you be doing the dumping so you can spend more time with someone else?
If you are really and truly happy with only having half a relationship, and some people are, then accept his terms and stop trying to find a fuller one with someone else. You don't need a side dude, right? He gives you all you need since you're having your cake and eating it, too. He evidently is not, with either you or his wife, hence his needing a side piece.
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| 11/16/2014 3:37:33 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
59, joined Apr. 2011
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I guess you don't mind being co conspirator to breaking someones heart.
I think I said enough.
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| 11/16/2014 4:41:49 PM |
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lostlove8322
Shelton, CT
31, joined Jul. 2014
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ok I highly doubt the op was seeking being put down. She asked for positive advice on what she should do. Her response if some of of the people here would read and follow was that she is going to let this cheating man go. I just don't understand why people would be cruel,rude towards others when posting. Op honestly keep your head up beautiful.
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| 11/16/2014 5:13:03 PM |
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pickygirl72
Phelan, CA
44, joined Sep. 2011
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Maybe the truth hurts a little?
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| 11/16/2014 5:17:02 PM |
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4uijack
New Port Richey, FL
29, joined Aug. 2013
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So I have a question I have been seeing a guy for 1year who is currently in a unhappy relationship, so knowing this we have a cool relationship full of passion and its fun and drama free. I don't mind being is side chick due to the fact I can have my cake and eat it to. The crazy part is he won't let me have a side dude. Why? I asked he says he don't share his p*ssy.
I would like to know your true feelings on this.
Haven't you read the fine print in the SIDE B*TCH CONTRACT?
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| 11/16/2014 7:31:23 PM |
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hisbaby4ever13
Ramseur, NC
32, joined Jul. 2014
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He is a married man who screws around........and you are an easy woman with no morals........kick his a** to the curb and have some respect for yourself....not as easy task for some.
This.
OP, your piss poor existence of a "man" is a f**ktarded manwh*re.
There's NO TELLING HOW MANY OTHER females he's f**king, mentally and physically, aside from you and his wife.
: smfh :
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| 11/16/2014 8:06:11 PM |
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bbwfreak22
Waco, TX
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Ok I understand that what iI was doing was wrong and I ended it with him so yes I have turned a new leaf I would say thank you for your honest opinions sometimes the truth hurts but what matters is it the truth andim done with living in lies. 
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| 11/16/2014 8:47:24 PM |
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stregaleonora
Atlanta, GA
39, joined Jun. 2014
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I am intelligent enough of no being judmental of your choices, anyway the guy is using a double standard, and all jerks love to do it!
Yes, he got two pussies, well you are entitled to have two....
...wathever....
Why did u ever ask him??
Are u sure arent you try to "get more" from him by playing this card??
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| 11/16/2014 8:54:52 PM |
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stregaleonora
Atlanta, GA
39, joined Jun. 2014
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She has to ... she MUST ... lick that taco sauce off the swartzn**ger ... got it from her Duck Disease.
 Hey Cubcougar!
Why you always talking about the taco sauce?
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| 11/16/2014 9:03:25 PM |
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mrhankchinaski
Sayville, NY
53, joined Aug. 2014
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So I have a question I have been seeing a guy for 1year who is currently in a unhappy relationship, so knowing this we have a cool relationship full of passion and its fun and drama free. I don't mind being is side chick due to the fact I can have my cake and eat it to. The crazy part is he won't let me have a side dude. Why? I asked he says he don't share his p*ssy.
I would like to know your true feelings on this.
I'm thinking doormat, low self esteem, stuff like that.
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| 11/16/2014 9:12:17 PM |
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ronleeseberg
Mauston, WI
48, joined Jan. 2012
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It is your choice, do what you want.
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| 11/16/2014 9:12:39 PM |
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nothingneeded
Johnston, IA
46, joined Sep. 2014
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So The crazy part is he won't let me have a side dude. Why? I asked he says he don't share his p*ssy.
I would like to know your true feelings on this.
Are you that naive?
Yeah....she is.
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| 11/16/2014 9:19:56 PM |
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carmelcb
Leonia, NJ
24, joined May. 2012
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you can do better, don't let this dude use you. if he's so unhappy he would have left
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| 11/16/2014 10:08:20 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
62, joined Oct. 2009
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I'd dump the main squeeze if she's that obnoxious and since you don't want to be faithful I'd dump you too.
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| 11/16/2014 10:35:06 PM |
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latinleprekahn
South San Francisco, CA
45, joined Sep. 2014
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Ok I understand that what iI was doing was wrong and I ended it with him so yes I have turned a new leaf I would say thank you for your honest opinions sometimes the truth hurts but what matters is it the truth andim done with living in lies.
Good for you!
Never get involved with an attached man. Any woman with an ounce of respect for herself and her fellow woman never does to another what she wouldn't want done to herself!!!
With that said, stay strong and away from him and find an honest single man!!!
Good luck!!! 
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| 11/16/2014 10:40:20 PM |
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grneyesrme
Sacramento, CA
46, joined Aug. 2013
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Ugh!
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| 11/17/2014 12:48:06 AM |
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missamicable
Hurst, TX
55, joined Jul. 2014
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Respect another woman's marriage. Don't be a home recker.
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| 11/17/2014 2:55:00 AM |
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naturebiy
Mc Kenzie, TN
39, joined Jul. 2011
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Op..
If you enjoy playing second best..
And allow it.
Than there should be no complaints.
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| 11/17/2014 3:39:48 AM |
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ahleah4mriris
Fort Worth, TX
44, joined Jul. 2014
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:OP, I feel so deeply for you in this situation. A few years back I met a man that I occasionally saw thru work/business. I was convinced that he was brought into my life by Fate. He and I were destined to be together.
And then one day I decided to check & see if he had a facebook. He didn't, but thru clever 'ways', I discovered......guess who? His WIFE.
I was shattered. My whole world seemed 'pointless'
I waited 40 years to finally find the right person....and only to discover he's married.
It's the biggest 'let-down' feeling I ever felt.
Again, this spring I get involved (internet only) with a guy on my Facebook. His status said he was 'single'. Well, he lied. One day his wife is suddenly on pointing fingers accusingly (like I knew)
Now, I'm just gonna remain on my own. Tired of this married thing.
This apparently goes on quite often. It's a sticky situation, indeed. Sad, and frustrating.
Why do people marry if they think there's some chance they will cheat ?
People shouldn't marry if they are that tempted by the fruits of another. Just don't marry!
OP...trust your own judgment. Only YOU will know what you really really need to do in this sort of relationship. Good luck to you 
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| 11/17/2014 6:44:42 AM |
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twining
Anderson, SC
22, joined Jun. 2014
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All I can say is from personal experience with a guy like him, you're not the only side dish. Just leave him.
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| 11/17/2014 7:20:24 AM |
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cubcougar
Lucerne, CA
61, joined Oct. 2010
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All I can say is from personal experience with a guy like him, you're not the only side dish. Just leave him.
An addict is an addict ...
emphasis on the d*ck part.
D*ck Chenny ... D*ck Nixon ... D*ck Lugar ...
Women get daddies d*ck up their a** like OP does in Mayberry ... not a good sign.
She keeps d*cks around as friends ... and wonders why she is getting d*ck around.
ahhhhh ... she be an addict .. maybe ???
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| 11/17/2014 9:29:22 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
59, joined Apr. 2011
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He is a married man who screws around........and you are an easy woman with no morals........kick his a** to the curb and have some respect for yourself....not as easy task for some.
um....who's going to kick her a** to the curb for being a partner to this and knowing full well, if he gets caught it will ruin a marriage and break the wife's heart.????
you women need to quit sticking up for women who do wrong and laying the blame on men.
Like "she" stated..she likes the thrill of it.
she knows exactly what she got into...and has no care for his family.
She's just a bad.
So stop this one sided bullshit....it just makes YOU look bad too.
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| 11/17/2014 9:31:31 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
59, joined Apr. 2011
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He's controlling you. Do you want to continue being controlled by a part-time lover who dips his stick freely?
nope....read her post: Lol idk I liked the thrill of it plus iI getthe perks of a relationship without as much BS
There you go.....he's not controlling anything.
she knows the score and did from the get go.
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| 11/17/2014 9:36:53 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
59, joined Apr. 2011
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Men do wrong....they are bad.
Women do wrong...excuses.
thats a wrong notion.
she should know right from wrong.
She knows its cheating and what it can do to a family.
She admitted the thrill of it.
that means the thrill of knowing its wrong and possibly getting caught.
no excuses, its not the guys fault....he didn't deceive her.
She did wrong and thats all there is to it.
Women quit defending women who do wrong, unless you willing to defend some men who do wrong.
When we men see this...it just cements how unjust some of you can be.
and that you will never admit guilt...when your wrong.
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| 11/17/2014 11:36:16 AM |
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chevylady47
Flint, MI
50, joined Jul. 2012
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One day soon you will be getting a visit and a beat down from the other woman.
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| 11/17/2014 7:39:17 PM |
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lookin4him2012
Blue Diamond, NV
45, joined Jan. 2012
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Why on earth would you care what this man wants you to do? Do what you want. I'd be dating and looking for someone meaningful if I were you. This guy you are with is using you for fun and won't ever leave the woman he is with unless she catches him and dumps his sorry butt. Why allow a man to use you in such a way? And for over a year?! And he tells YOU who to date?
So I have a question I have been seeing a guy for 1year who is currently in a unhappy relationship, so knowing this we have a cool relationship full of passion and its fun and drama free. I don't mind being is side chick due to the fact I can have my cake and eat it to. The crazy part is he won't let me have a side dude. Why? I asked he says he don't share his p*ssy.
I would like to know your true feelings on this.
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| 11/17/2014 7:41:20 PM |
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lookin4him2012
Blue Diamond, NV
45, joined Jan. 2012
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All I can say is from personal experience with a guy like him, you're not the only side dish. Just leave him.
Yep, men like that are always looking for more side chicks. They are already cheating on a wife/girlfriend so why not look around and find better and more a$$ if he already knows he can do it. Men like that are pathetic.
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| 11/17/2014 7:43:26 PM |
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dddddc
Billings, MT
31, joined Aug. 2012
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| 11/17/2014 7:45:37 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
62, joined Oct. 2009
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I'll never be the other woman. NEVER!
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| 11/17/2014 11:35:00 PM |
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julie24000
Dublin, GA
37, joined Sep. 2014
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Op, you are a beautiful young woman that any man would be happy to have. Leave him and find somebody that will treat you the way you should be treated. And you said he stays at your place? You might want to think about changing the door locks so he can't get in if he goes there to spend the night. Just something to think about. Go and be happy.
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| 11/17/2014 11:36:59 PM |
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e_zone
Los Angeles, CA
36, joined Oct. 2014
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My true feeling might offend you. So I am only going to say that you are an adult and know what what you are doing. Right?
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| 11/18/2014 12:01:34 AM |
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eaglesight
Bronx, NY
27, joined Nov. 2013
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So I have a question I have been seeing a guy for 1year who is currently in a unhappy relationship, so knowing this we have a cool relationship full of passion and its fun and drama free. I don't mind being is side chick due to the fact I can have my cake and eat it to. The crazy part is he won't let me have a side dude. Why? I asked he says he don't share his p*ssy.
I would like to know your true feelings on this.
Wow.. i'm speechless. Literally......this world is f**ked... just remember karma is REAL and soon or later will bback bite you in the a** HARD .
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| 11/18/2014 12:19:43 AM |
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lezah
Indianapolis, IN
44, joined Mar. 2008
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just exactly how are you getting your cake and eating it too? you just said he won't let you have a side dude... this sounds like he's controlling your life. the only person in this relationship who's getting "relationship p*ssy" and "strange p*ssy on the side" is the dude. you're just as "kept" as his gfriend is, but just too stupid to see the situation for what it i really is.
my true feelings? I feel sorry for the g/f if she doesn't know. I think you're a true "C*NT" for f**king someone else's man "knowingly," and he's just a plain "f**k-stain."  Hate when women f**k other womens bf..  what a scanky ho..ugh
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