12/20/2014 9:42:33 PM |
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bunnyfastard
Henderson, CO
59, joined Jun. 2008
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12/21/2014 8:44:22 AM |
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purplerider1200
South Bend, IN
62, joined Aug. 2011
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I got handed mine. I started my road to recovery three days after mine left me. Life is too short to let that sort of grief hold you back.
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12/23/2014 8:20:26 AM |
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darlinjessica
Claremont, CA
31, joined Nov. 2013
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I been divorced for 2 years now and everyday it gets easier. I honestly think it just depends on the person how long the recovery time is. It's difficult but if you keep busy and find a hobby it will keep your mind off this person. I wish you the best in this difficult Time.
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12/23/2014 8:15:02 PM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
49, joined Jan. 2012
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I've been divorced going on 4 years. I was dating again within a month of him leaving me back in 2010. I moved on fast. No since in sitting around mourning someone who didn't give a sh8t about my feelings.
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12/23/2014 11:09:37 PM |
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mboots31
Albion, NE
35, joined Jun. 2014
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I didn't want my divorce and fought against it. It didn't matter what I did she forced me to give up. the fight inside to save it did more damage as I had a never give up attitude.
I have gone ahead and sorted out and remodeled my house to help with the healing.
I don't think there is a time limit on this in my case I am not fully recovered and it has been a year and a half.
Mostly my issue is the feeling of being burned the way I was and not wanting that to happen again.
I have dated but that ended in a similar way.
I want to trust again I guess in the end when you have less fear than potential in someone, if you are able to know who you are and your desires in someone else, and can read another person's personality besides just looking for someone to hold your shoulder up or just for the night then you are starting on the right track.
I know I am getting better as time goes on as I am rediscovering myself and how I came to be married in the first place.
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12/24/2014 10:15:02 PM |
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pickygirl72
Pinon Hills, CA
47, joined Sep. 2011
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About one year to fully get over it. The lose of a 20 yr marriage was a big adjustment. Do not rush things, let you emotional being recover.
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12/25/2014 3:08:50 AM |
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2talluc
Alto, MI
56, joined May. 2014
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A very long time
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12/27/2014 8:07:45 PM |
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sipes84
Halethorpe, MD
33, joined Nov. 2014
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I been divorce for 2 months an tried to b friends but she is fake as hell I just want to meet a nice woman
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1/1/2015 7:58:19 AM |
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a4umposter
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Dec. 2014
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It's a different time period for different people.
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1/1/2015 10:12:38 AM |
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stargazzer
Creighton, NE
69, joined Feb. 2007
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6 years for most even them that look like it's over much much earlyer it's not
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1/2/2015 12:09:25 AM |
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love_language
Speedwell, TN
44, joined Sep. 2014
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I'm told it's one year for every five years of marriage.
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1/2/2015 5:12:19 AM |
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imlookin4sum1
El Cajon, CA
54, joined Mar. 2012
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About one year to fully get over it. The lose of a 20 yr marriage was a big adjustment. Do not rush things, let you emotional being recover.
Can I Ask You a Few Questions About Your Response??
In My OPINION:
And Remember Opinion R Like Ass Holes.....Everyone Has One
My Response is one on the Last Posts at Approx. 3:am in the morning
Do I Know What I'm Talking about
Some May Think So
Other will Say I Am Full Of Shit
Do I CARE
Hell NO
But I Do care about what my Friends Think of Me
And The Other Non Believers Can Suck My Doctor ........Pepper
Yes I Do like To Joke
But I Like To Be Serious When I Have To
Some Do Think I;m an Azz
Some Think I'm Funny
Some Just Don't Know
What Do You Think??
Do I Really Care
Yes I Do if You are My Friend
If You're not Should I Not Care & Hate YOU
Hate is a STRONG WORD
Think about it??
I Don't Hate my Ex
I Dislike My Ex VERY VERY MUCK
WHY??
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1/2/2015 5:39:53 AM |
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cinnamonnhaze
Minneapolis, MN
73, joined Apr. 2014
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Yesterday was my anniversary & I didn't even remember until about 2pm. lol. I'm not divorced yet but I've been separated for just over 2 years.
Being that I didn't even remember my anniversary (on January 1st!!!) I'm going to say I think I'm over it!
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1/2/2015 8:55:13 AM |
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bier95
Clara City, MN
66, joined May. 2011
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Some people get over it pretty quick others dewell on it and takes them along time. Really depends on you. For me after a 29 year took me about 2 years. There was this what if I had done, In the end it would not of made a differance. Best thing is find your friends, and something to do and move on.
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3/4/2015 9:43:39 AM |
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lynnlillquist
Minneapolis, MN
50, joined Nov. 2011
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to find the right guy i have been divorce for 8 years and have not found my soul mate yet what i'm i doing wrong
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3/7/2015 7:14:26 AM |
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greeleybro
Denver, CO
50, joined Oct. 2013
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By the time we split up I was.pretty much over it. But I would say after 6 months I was completely over her...
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