| 12/26/2014 11:47:15 PM |
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mr_freds
Abilene, TX
38, joined Jul. 2014
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Is it a good idea?
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| 12/26/2014 11:55:01 PM |
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que_gacho
Cuquío
Mexico
40, joined Aug. 2014
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No, never a good idea. I've seen a few bad situations occur after the work relationship/romance is over.
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| 12/27/2014 12:16:39 AM |
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darthcapital
North York, ON
44, joined Apr. 2014
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its a bad idea, ever hear the phrase " never shit where you eat"?
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| 12/27/2014 1:03:23 AM |
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kartusch
Logan, UT
39, joined May. 2014
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Been there done that... Ended badly
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| 12/27/2014 1:07:18 AM |
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damsel876
Osceola, AR
29, joined Jul. 2013
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Never.
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| 12/27/2014 1:13:01 AM |
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playtime1010
Ypsilanti, MI
46, joined Jul. 2010
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Never get your honey where you make your money!
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| 12/27/2014 1:29:39 AM |
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blacklova
Chicago, IL
33, joined Sep. 2010
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Yep. It's cool actually.only problem is y'all always around each other at work at home if u in a relationship.if dating means f**king which is does in my book then as long as u keep your feelings in check and accept the type of relationship it is, all should be well.
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| 12/27/2014 2:07:07 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
55, joined Feb. 2010
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Is it a good idea?
Nope, it always ends badly for one of them.
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| 12/27/2014 2:28:36 AM |
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myhaloiscrooked
Lampasas, TX
29, joined Apr. 2013
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Depends on what ya do for a living. If you work at Mickey D's, well it doesn't get much lower, you might as well do something to make you happy in your life. 
If you have a career or job you actually give a shit about....then, no, Einstein, it's not a good idea...go figure.  
Jeez....
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| 12/27/2014 2:30:57 AM |
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dodge_ram_it04
Lewis Center, OH
35, joined Apr. 2014
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She's purdy.... Just sayin
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| 12/27/2014 3:32:25 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
59, joined Apr. 2011
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They say its a bad idea...and I think because it could effect the workplace environment...especially if they break up and still have to work together...or, if you give them special favors, if you are up the ladder, being unfair to others.
Effecting their jobs in the long run.
Personally if they can be adult about it....I don't see the harm.
hell you meet someone in all sorts of places, to me, this is just one of those.
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| 12/27/2014 4:37:25 AM |
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thomasclement77
Florence, OR
28, joined Nov. 2014
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No, it's not worth it. Keep it friends with benefits. Get a blowjob in the parking lot everyday before work. 
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| 12/27/2014 7:02:05 AM |
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testsignup
Springfield, VA
61, joined Sep. 2009
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For your particular species, it's probably okay.
But for humans it's wise to check the company policy about such things before taking the plunge. Some companies are strict, and will fire or reassign people who get involved like that, to different locations to avoid the appearance of conflicts of interest.
As with everything in life, find out what you are risking, if you can, before you act.
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| 12/27/2014 7:09:35 AM |
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extortionegos
Hayward, CA
37, joined Apr. 2014
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Just do it then you will come to your own conclusion
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| 12/27/2014 7:10:04 AM |
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icecreamsammich
Abilene, KS
49, joined May. 2014
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I worked in an office that was huge with isolated departments for different product lines.
I dated a woman in another dept for 2 years. It went fine. She was transferred to a different plant.
Things don't always end badly.
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| 12/27/2014 7:13:42 AM |
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letitridegirl
Covington, KY
38, joined Aug. 2014
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I worked in an office that was huge with isolated departments for different product lines.
I dated a woman in another dept for 2 years. It went fine. She was transferred to a different plant.
Things don't always end badly.
If not working side by side and a different compartment I don't see anything wrong with it but in same compartment no I could not
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| 12/27/2014 7:18:04 AM |
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icecreamsammich
Abilene, KS
49, joined May. 2014
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If not working side by side and a different compartment I don't see anything wrong with it but in same compartment no I could not
I need a little space in a relationship.
I can adore a woman, but I still need space and hope she has a life and requires her own time and space. I like to play golf with my guy friends. It isn't a bring your girlfriend thing. And I don't want to go shoe shopping with her or to some baby shower!
I understand you there.
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| 12/27/2014 8:03:41 AM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
49, joined Jul. 2014
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shesgota purdy mouth,
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| 12/27/2014 8:18:23 AM |
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come2lee
Grand Blanc, MI
54, joined Mar. 2012
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What you "pick up at work"
Leave at work... unwrap it .. eat it... play with it
LEAVE it where you found it
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| 12/27/2014 5:23:34 PM |
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sarahgoldsmith
New Haven, CT
44, joined Jan. 2014
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Just becareful of dating a co worker or your boss. Some of them are out to get money. They might accuse u of sexual harassment. Or the boss might fired you if he/she doesn't want to see your face anymore when he/she breaks up with u. It's not worth the risks.
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| 12/27/2014 5:28:40 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
49, joined Jul. 2013
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Never get your honey where you make your money!
Agree
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| 12/27/2014 8:02:12 PM |
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mr_freds
Abilene, TX
38, joined Jul. 2014
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We both are CNAs at a local retirement facility. He is inviting me out to eat, saying he wants a relationship then saying he wants FWB. He gives scenarios about how he would treat me in either situation.
My brother married a girl he worked with. WHen company decided to ship the work overseas they were both out of a job.
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| 12/27/2014 8:21:23 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
48, joined Jun. 2014
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There's only less than a 3% chance that it'll work. Part of it does depend on where you work. Flipping burgers? Well thats usually for young ppl who's just learning the ropes about relationships anyway.
But someone older, more established and have a job that is extremely important shouldn't do it. Too many reasons to fail.
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| 12/27/2014 8:28:30 PM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
46, joined Jan. 2012
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OP it's only a bad thing if you really care about this job for the long term. If it's just a way to make money then don't worry about it but if this is your career for long time then don't do it.
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| 12/27/2014 8:46:31 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
48, joined Jun. 2014
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Top 5 reasons why you shouldn't.....
1. All relationships need time apart. When you go to work and live apart you can get that time to miss them and have your alone time. Dating your coworker can make shit old very quick.
2. Too much potential for jealousy. Either one in the relationship making the other jealous by talking, smiling and being flirtatious with other coworkers. Or other coworkers doing spiteful shit to piss off one bcuz they are jealous of them.
3. Too many who might have dirt on you have too much access to your partner and too many reasons to do it. Most of those reasons being work related.
4. Having problems at home will ALWAYS spill over at work which can effect your job. And..
5. If it don't work recovering from the breakup is impossible unless one of you quit or get fired. Its not good to keep looking someone in the face after you breakup especially if you feel cheated.
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| 12/27/2014 9:10:48 PM |
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longdriver60
Lenoir, NC
55, joined Jan. 2013
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Dont dip your meat where you butter your bread
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| 12/27/2014 9:14:18 PM |
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zimzane2
High Point, NC
54, joined Jan. 2013
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No, never a good idea. I've seen a few bad situations occur after the work relationship/romance is over.
Contrary to this thinking I've seen it work well in others.
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| 12/27/2014 9:39:29 PM |
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badasscouple33
Douglas, AZ
34, joined Aug. 2014
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That's one of my rules to never date a co worker. I stick to that rule always. Never dated a co worker and never will
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| 12/27/2014 9:47:24 PM |
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dreamz1961
Punta Gorda, FL
53, joined Jul. 2013
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Been there, done that, but would never do it again. I'm just happy he doesn't work there any more.
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| 12/27/2014 10:16:25 PM |
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purdiibirdi
Nice
France
40, joined Aug. 2014
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Is it a good idea?
NO. One shouldn't honey their money.
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| 12/27/2014 11:22:24 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
48, joined Jun. 2014
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You should wait tell one of you get fired. lol This way getting fired would at least have an up side to it. 
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| 12/27/2014 11:25:24 PM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
56, joined May. 2009
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Considering you spend a great deal of your life working, it's another place at which to meet someone. If you are adults and mature, why is it any different than dating someone you've met anywhere else?
If you cannot conduct yourselves with grace and poise at work how can you anywhere else? Not all relationships end with slashed tires, police interventions and lawsuits. Most of my long term relationships were with men I met at work. Jobs are a place at which you tend to meet many people. Those relationships that did not work out in the long run, but with men with whom I still worked were no more fraught with problems than any other ended relationship. Which is to say, no problems. We were all adults who knew how to conduct ourselves.
It should be noted that I didn't have to work right next to the guys. They were in different areas, and in different buildings. That may make it a little easier to see them afterwards because they're not there everyday all day.
OP, if you like the person, try it. Work out some ground rules in the event it doesn't work out.
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| 12/27/2014 11:36:19 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
62, joined Oct. 2009
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I'd avoid it. Seems like a bad move especially if one of you gets canned or transferred.
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| 12/28/2014 12:09:06 AM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
48, joined Jun. 2014
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Quote from lovethelake17:
Considering you spend a great deal of your life working, it's another place at which to meet someone. If you are adults and mature, why is it any different than dating someone you've met anywhere else?
Bcuz everyone ASSUMES they're adult enough until that shit goes wrong.
Even if its not you. You can't vouch for how adult someone else is in a relstionship until you experience it.
Question is are willing to go through all that, be unhappy looking at someone you don't want anymore everyday and risking your job to find out?
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| 12/28/2014 12:33:59 AM |
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icecreamsammich
Abilene, KS
49, joined May. 2014
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At work you get to see how people handle pressure, you get to see how they treat coworkers or subordinates.
There is something to be said for that.
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| 12/28/2014 2:43:56 AM |
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pickygirl72
Phelan, CA
44, joined Sep. 2011
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Nope. Enough said.
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| 12/28/2014 3:12:38 AM |
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nicoli7
Louisville, KY
31, joined Jul. 2014
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I wouldn't know.
I've never dated a coworker.
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| 12/28/2014 10:20:10 AM |
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a4umposter
San Antonio, TX
47, joined Dec. 2014
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Is it a good idea?
I don't think it is.
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| 12/28/2014 10:22:52 AM |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
54, joined Jul. 2010
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About Me
Newly divorced.
Now or then in July?
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Someone could end up fired or transferred.
Especially twixt management & staff.
[Edited 12/28/2014 10:25:49 AM ]
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| 12/28/2014 10:33:00 AM |
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readyed60
Louisville, KY
54, joined Nov. 2013
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Don't dip your pen in the company ink. 
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| 12/28/2014 12:02:48 PM |
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lynntime65
Buffalo, NY
48, joined Mar. 2014
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I agree with that statement… It's hard enough to go to work, you don't need that added problem.... I worked in an office for 13 years and never dated anybody that I worked with...
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| 12/28/2014 1:22:29 PM |
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maya_code
Brownsville, TX
43, joined Jul. 2013
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Negative... Nope... Baaaad idea.
Unless... That's a temporary job 
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| 12/28/2014 1:29:43 PM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
56, joined May. 2009
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I've known many who dated and/or married a coworker. No problems. I've also known many who worked with someone they divorced. Again, no problems.
I've also known those whose date/mate who didn't work there with them who came into the workplace and wrecked havoc.
It's about the person, not the place. Like I said, not every relationship is with someone who is off their rocker. If you're going to cut off over half of your possibilities because it might go wrong or be awkward, you might as well cut off all of them, no matter where they work, for the same reason.
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| 12/28/2014 8:21:07 PM |
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clyde222
Minooka, IL
50, joined Dec. 2012
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No.... If it goes badly it can be awkward
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| 12/29/2014 9:56:54 AM |
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dezweather
Phoenix, AZ
53, joined Oct. 2014
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F**k rules.
I don't live scared. If I want to, I do.
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| 12/29/2014 10:35:01 AM |
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iheartidiots
Grove City, OH
37, joined Feb. 2012
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I married one of my coworkers.
Were divorced so whats that tell ya?
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| 12/29/2014 4:36:20 PM |
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icecreamsammich
Abilene, KS
49, joined May. 2014
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I married one of my coworkers.
Were divorced so whats that tell ya?
Going home caused the divorce?
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| 12/29/2014 7:07:58 PM |
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rainydaze26
Columbus, OH
50, joined Nov. 2013
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Only if you want to find a new job!
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| 12/29/2014 8:26:33 PM |
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scottytwo
Euless, TX
34, joined Dec. 2014
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just do it. have fun.
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| 12/29/2014 11:11:31 PM |
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b2cold
Bark River, MI
22, joined Mar. 2014
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Hmm maybe a quicky during workjk naw op not a good idea.
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| 12/29/2014 11:22:58 PM |
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thomasclement77
Florence, OR
28, joined Nov. 2014
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Been there done that... Ended badly
Was the sex good though? 
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| 12/29/2014 11:26:32 PM |
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inventtis2
South Haven, MI
36, joined Nov. 2012
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A lot of people meet at work, I have avoided it, could have gotten laid more, but the b*tches got crazy even though I never did anything. Can't imagine what would have happened if I had dated them and then dumped them.
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| 12/30/2014 1:33:59 AM |
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sarahgoldsmith
New Haven, CT
44, joined Jan. 2014
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It's not a good idea to date your boss. He has the power to fired u. It's not worth it. It's your words against his. And he is the one with all power & all the money. Unless u think that your skill are so valuable that u will be able to find another job right away if u got fired.
Co-workers are not good either. If u break up with them, u still have to see them everyday. It's so awkward. My co-workers are ugly.
And the women are fat & ugly. So the men in my office wouldn't date them or go after them.
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| 12/30/2014 3:29:40 AM |
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happylauren
Crown Point, IN
53, joined May. 2013
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When I first started selling Real Estate I was in a traditional office. The guys in the office asked me out. An older woman pulled me aside and gave me advice. The way she said it was gross but so true.
She told me;
Never ever shit in your own back yard because eventually you will be forced to walk in it. I listened to her and did not date anyone I worked with.
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| 12/30/2014 3:44:26 PM |
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freejshanei27
Warrenton, MO
44, joined Dec. 2011
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Like any other relationship it can go either way...if it works it can be fantastic...if not...a mistake...only one way to know for sure?
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| 12/30/2014 6:09:39 PM |
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rose1206
Gilbert, AZ
33, joined Jul. 2012
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I wouldn't date someone I still worked with, that's too close for comfort!
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| 12/30/2014 6:14:45 PM |
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forsyth4
Fort Payne, AL
28, joined Nov. 2014
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A guy has to f**k his coworkers it's guy code
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| 12/30/2014 6:16:18 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
48, joined Jun. 2014
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Now if its the boss, on the other hand, it can be very beneficial for you. It can have all kinds of perks.
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| 12/30/2014 7:09:34 PM |
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Karmakicked
Rocky Mount, VA
37, joined Oct. 2014
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I did date a coworker years ago. Then when I decided it was over it was like way easy for him to stalk me!
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| 12/30/2014 9:11:28 PM |
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gamerman17
New York, NY
27, joined Apr. 2010
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Is it a good idea?
Depends. More specifically, it depends on their work dynamic, work environment, and overall maturity situation.
On one hand, you can make the argument that dating a coworker can be effective that you can truly get to know that individual in and out through conversation and find out his true character. In other words, you don't have to lay the waiting game in deciding whether he is the one or not because you're around him to find out for yourself.
On the other hand, conversely, if you have to ask the question whether it is a good idea given your surrounding and the way you question yourself handling the situation, then possibly it isn't. I often hear the saying that you should mix business with pleasure especially if you know you cant handle the ramifications of such.
It comes down to which perspective you are looking at this....gamer
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