1/6/2015 2:39:32 AM |
How do you tell your best friend you think you're in love with him? |
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anteaterkthx
Chepachet, RI
24, joined Jul. 2012
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Guys...answer me this!!
do I tell this guy? Or do I just ride it out and wait for him to say something? Lol
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1/6/2015 2:46:52 AM |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
54, joined Jul. 2010
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Drop to your knees
he'll get the hint.
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1/6/2015 2:51:01 AM |
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anteaterkthx
Chepachet, RI
24, joined Jul. 2012
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Well Ya see..that's already happened. That's the weird part lol
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1/6/2015 3:03:03 AM |
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naturebiy
Mc Kenzie, TN
39, joined Jul. 2011
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All the guys that cry about the "friend zone"
Here you go.
Wait..did he put you in the friendzone or vice versa?
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1/6/2015 3:03:50 AM |
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hisbaby4ever13
Ramseur, NC
32, joined Jul. 2014
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You won't ever know how he feels if you don't ask.
Obviously it's a catch-22 because you run the risk of him not feeling the same way & you mind resent him or your friendship could change & it be awkward.
I am inclined to say just ask him/broach the topic...
Considering y'all have been intimate, that kinda adds some awkwardness already in my opinion.
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1/6/2015 3:06:55 AM |
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urealysucklol
San Benito, TX
42, joined Jul. 2014
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Bend over
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1/6/2015 3:19:49 AM |
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amicablyme
Wheeler, IN
57, joined Oct. 2014
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Just say, "I like you alot". The love word can scare you the crap out of some guys.
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1/6/2015 3:23:33 AM |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
54, joined Jul. 2010
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Sweet weepin' Hey-Zeus on the cross.
Pass him a note.
Do you like me?
Check yes for sex or yes indeed for sex w/me and my girlfriend.
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1/6/2015 3:43:28 AM |
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happylauren
Crown Point, IN
53, joined May. 2013
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If you were still in high school you would have a friend ask him how he feels.
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1/6/2015 4:57:35 AM |
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damsel876
Osceola, AR
29, joined Jul. 2013
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Waiting for him to say it? How long are you going to wait? The best hint is to actually tell him because men suck at mind reading.
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1/6/2015 5:03:05 AM |
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gamerman17
New York, NY
27, joined Apr. 2010
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Guys...answer me this!!
do I tell this guy? Or do I just ride it out and wait for him to say something? Lol
To answer the initial question, frankly it not whether you think you're in love with him, you have to KNOW that you're in love with him. Thinking only leads to speculation and it will be just that, speculation. You wouldn't be posting this question unless you are certain you're in love in him.
As for the post, my suggestion is to tell him how you feel. Nothing good comes out from waiting it out, especially if he has other women pursuing him that you will be nothing more than a friend. And this not to mention whether he even feels the same way about you in a sense or if he feels the same way about you but is just too scared. I would rather be proactive and take initiative rather than wait around.....gamer
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1/6/2015 5:56:51 AM |
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vagmasterflash
Durand, WI
49, joined Nov. 2014
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Guys...answer me this!!
do I tell this guy? Or do I just ride it out and wait for him to say something? Lol
...you tell him. And then cry when the friendship is over because of it?
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1/6/2015 8:01:43 AM |
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forumfriendly2
Norfolk, VA
38, joined Sep. 2013
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yikes ...better him than me
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1/6/2015 8:29:29 AM |
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brownsugg93
Milwaukee, WI
19, joined Jul. 2012
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uh oh ops gonna be that female friend a guy has that he pumps behind closed doors but is embarrassed to claim publicly. If hes not showing you signs etc op DONT DO IT youll only be used like they say the man should want you (not just physically) more than you want him and if you dropped to your knees and he hasnt said anything about being in a relationship youve already became this girl op congrats
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1/6/2015 8:33:05 AM |
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helmholtzwatson
Raleigh, NC
49, joined Jun. 2014
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Hun...if he felt that way too, he would have let you know.
Do yourself a huge favor & find somebody else for the romantic bit.
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1/6/2015 8:33:32 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
59, joined Apr. 2011
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Guys...answer me this!!
do I tell this guy? Or do I just ride it out and wait for him to say something? Lol
Why is it, I keep hearing this term Strong and Independent.
yet read questions that imply, the men should do everything.???
am I the only one that finds this contradicting?
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1/6/2015 8:42:08 AM |
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rescueranger245
Windsor, VA
61, joined Apr. 2011
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Guys...answer me this!!
do I tell this guy? Or do I just ride it out and wait for him to say something? Lol
This is really simple. So simple in fact that I thought of it.
Do this...
Next time you are alone with him...
Get naked. If he responds in a positive way, he likes you.
If he hurls...He's just not that into you.
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1/6/2015 9:48:31 AM |
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wildheart51
Sunset, SC
51, joined Dec. 2014
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Guys...answer me this!!
do I tell this guy? Or do I just ride it out and wait for him to say something? Lol
Just go ahead and get it over with. At least you'll know the result instead of wondering.
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1/6/2015 9:49:55 AM |
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forsyth4
Fort Payne, AL
28, joined Nov. 2014
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Get drunk and f**k him
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1/6/2015 11:43:01 AM |
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pdforone
Litchfield, OH
63, joined Jul. 2010
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I'm old, define "best friend" by today's standards? Are you sleeping with him? The answer could be almost as complex as the question, and not knowing the nature of the relationship makes it that much harder to give a qualified answer.
Just from my view? If a guy likes you and enjoys your company? He will probably stick around without too much effort on your part, take your time and have fun.
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1/6/2015 12:21:00 PM |
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jimtom125
Lancaster, CA
72, joined Jun. 2013
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Try this; put your hands on his shoulders to be sure you have his attention, look him straight in the eye and say..."I think I might be in love with you. Can you live with that?"
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1/6/2015 12:31:15 PM |
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kawkasian
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014
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Guys...answer me this!!
do I tell this guy? Or do I just ride it out and wait for him to say something? Lol
Directness is always the best course of action.
Pop your boobs out and say, wanna suck these?
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1/6/2015 12:33:10 PM |
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italianroyalty
London
United Kingdom
21, joined Jul. 2014
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Depends how close he is with you.. If anything sexual has happened and a relationship has still not started then theres a high chance nothing will happen.
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1/6/2015 12:33:57 PM |
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riflessivo
AlmafuerteStaffordshire
United Kingdom
40, joined Jan. 2014
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Hun...if he felt that way too, he would have let you know.
Do yourself a huge favor & find somebody else for the romantic bit.
This
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1/6/2015 1:05:10 PM |
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pickygirl72
Phelan, CA
44, joined Sep. 2011
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Odds are u are just in the friend zone.
You have to ask yourself some questions.
1. Has he made any attempts to let u know he likes you?
2. Does he make an effort to be with you?
3. Does he text/call u often?
4. Does he ditch his other friends to be with you?
Sometimes people get this fantasy thinking and that makes someone not see whats really standing in front of them.
Tread lightly OP. See whats standing in front of u before you leap.
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1/6/2015 1:36:01 PM |
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anteaterkthx
Chepachet, RI
24, joined Jul. 2012
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Odds are u are just in the friend zone.
You have to ask yourself some questions.
1. Has he made any attempts to let u know he likes you?
2. Does he make an effort to be with you?
3. Does he text/call u often?
4. Does he ditch his other friends to be with you?
Sometimes people get this fantasy thinking and that makes someone not see whats really standing in front of them.
Tread lightly OP. See whats standing in front of u before you leap.
To answer this one along with a lot of the other comments...pretty much yes to all those questions except #1....he hasn't told me directly but things he says and does really makes me think it's mutual. And yes, we have been intimate but it was before we really got close. Ughhh it's so complicated
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1/6/2015 1:40:45 PM |
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anteaterkthx
Chepachet, RI
24, joined Jul. 2012
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Guys...answer me this!!
do I tell this guy? Or do I just ride it out and wait for him to say something? Lol
Directness is always the best course of action.
Pop your boobs out and say, wanna suck these?
Lol I know for a fact he would love that... But that's not exactly what I'm trying to accomplish ha
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1/6/2015 1:53:02 PM |
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valley81
Rio Grande City, TX
33, joined Aug. 2014
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Just tell him how u feel don't wait... If he does not feel the same way well,,,, too bad but just tell him!!!!or just kiss him..
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1/6/2015 1:53:43 PM |
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sagepopper72
Globe, AZ
42, joined Aug. 2014
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Just bust on out and ask him how he feels about you and what his intentions are. Wait until you are alone with him and be direct. Maybe he's thick headed or shy? If he knows you're on here, show him this thread. Whatever the outcome, anything is better than wondering.
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1/6/2015 1:54:46 PM |
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anteaterkthx
Chepachet, RI
24, joined Jul. 2012
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Just bust on out and ask him how he feels about you and what his intentions are. Wait until you are alone with him and be direct. Maybe he's thick headed or shy? If he knows you're on here, show him this thread. Whatever the outcome, anything is better than wondering.
Ya he's super thick headed and stubborn.
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1/6/2015 4:06:46 PM |
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jenny669
Chester, VA
57, joined Mar. 2014
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Why don't you just ask him how he feels about you. Guys are not very communicative about their feelings usually.
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1/6/2015 8:07:46 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
62, joined Oct. 2009
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You tell him. You babes always BOAST about being the greatest communicators.
He dumps you when you want commitment.
You cry til he takes you back and you give him a blowjob and meal.
Six months later you repeat the whole process.
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1/6/2015 8:12:01 PM |
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amusicluvr
Salem, OR
62, joined Nov. 2013
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Op - Sit down near him, smile sweetly, and say: "I have something to show you."
Then, remove your blouse, and bra, lean towards him, and shake your tits in his face. Then tell him:"you can play with them, if you want to."
As he starts to fondle your tits, / suck your nipples, you should moan, and say: "God! I think I love you!"
If that doesn't give him a clue, nothing else will.
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1/6/2015 8:13:34 PM |
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amusicluvr
Salem, OR
62, joined Nov. 2013
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Ya he's super thick headed and stubborn.
So...what is the attraction?
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1/7/2015 2:57:01 AM |
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robbyrob26
North Scituate, RI
26, joined Apr. 2014
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Give me his number. I'll tell him.
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1/7/2015 3:22:27 AM |
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lilod
Rochelle, IL
48, joined Aug. 2012
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Yes, tell him...if you're prepared for it not to go well. I say that not to discourage you--I really think that you should tell him--but because if you do, you have to be prepared for any result. He could reject you as a girlfriend but want to stay friends, or he could decide he's not comfortable hanging out with you anymore. Be realistic with yourself before you make the decision.
Then, discuss it with him, but don't jump to "I think I may be in love with you." Lead in gently and give him a chance to react before you take it to that level.
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1/7/2015 3:41:24 PM |
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browcottoncandy
Nottingham, MD
39, joined Dec. 2014
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Tell him so you can see if he feels the same way or
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1/7/2015 8:58:44 PM |
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anteaterkthx
Chepachet, RI
24, joined Jul. 2012
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Obviously I'm not gonna say "hey I'm in love with you" but I really just don't know how to word it or bring it up. It's funny cuz we can't talk about any weird, embarrassing, personal story but this is stumping me. :/
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1/7/2015 9:09:16 PM |
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luxorus
Pachacamac
Peru
36, joined Apr. 2014
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he's a friend? how dare you
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1/7/2015 9:15:07 PM |
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amusicluvr
Salem, OR
62, joined Nov. 2013
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Obviously I'm not gonna say "hey I'm in love with you" but I really just don't know how to word it or bring it up. It's funny cuz we can't talk about any weird, embarrassing, personal story but this is stumping me. :/
I told you how to do it. If you won't do that, then you don't really feel what you think you feel.
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1/7/2015 9:16:37 PM |
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lilod
Rochelle, IL
48, joined Aug. 2012
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I told you how to do it. If you won't do that, then you don't really feel what you think you feel.
She already explained that they've been there done that.
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1/7/2015 9:53:44 PM |
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anteaterkthx
Chepachet, RI
24, joined Jul. 2012
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to correct my earlier reply: we CAN talk about anything but this is stumping me.
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1/7/2015 9:55:47 PM |
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luxorus
Pachacamac
Peru
36, joined Apr. 2014
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if you're bashful, then tell him to close his eyes, and then kiss him
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1/7/2015 10:15:06 PM |
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keyboardkat
Oklahoma City, OK
39, joined Feb. 2011
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Waiting for him to say it? How long are you going to wait? The best hint is to actually tell him because men suck at mind reading.
This .So much this.
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1/7/2015 11:18:49 PM |
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sagepopper72
Globe, AZ
42, joined Aug. 2014
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Obviously I'm not gonna say "hey I'm in love with you" but I really just don't know how to word it or bring it up. It's funny cuz we can't talk about any weird, embarrassing, personal story but this is stumping me. :/
OK, you're shy; I get that. Yeah I understand that it's easier to solicit advice from faceless, random people on the web...but it still took maybe a little courage didn't it?
So...how about this:
I know you don't want to just blurt out "So where're we goin' with this?" What about planning an evening alone with him, perhaps prepare a nice romantic dinner or rent a sappy couple's movie. During a quiet moment, start by dropping little hints. Tell him how much you enjoy being with him. Touch his arm or hand while you're talking to him. Maintain eye contact....
If there's a connection there and he isn't hinting that he's feeling it..(like you said...he's thick headed, plus as the above guy said; men really do suck at mind reading!) summon up the same courage it took to ask us here in DH Land just how he feels. Build up to it I mean.
That's all I know to tell you. I hope it helps.
Good luck!
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1/7/2015 11:44:12 PM |
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anteaterkthx
Chepachet, RI
24, joined Jul. 2012
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I gotta just muster up the courage. I almost did last night, but it just didn't feel like the right moment! And about the planning a night alone...we hang out alone all the time..I'm just a wimp! Lol
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1/8/2015 7:41:53 PM |
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theringhand
Kalamazoo, MI
35, joined Jul. 2014
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Well Ya see..that's already happened. That's the weird part lol
Whoever gave you advice has apparently blocked me, so trust me when I tell you, whatever she told you, whoever it is, it must be horrible advice. I can't see her because I must have already called her out on her bullshit and she can't handle it. Don't let her sabotage your life.
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1/8/2015 7:49:49 PM |
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vagmasterflash
Durand, WI
49, joined Nov. 2014
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...you tell him. And then cry when the friendship is over because of it?
....best advice ever.
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1/8/2015 7:52:20 PM |
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luxorus
Pachacamac
Peru
36, joined Apr. 2014
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I gotta just muster up the courage. I almost did last night, but it just didn't feel like the right moment! And about the planning a night alone...we hang out alone all the time..I'm just a wimp! Lol
give him a blowjob and swallow
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1/8/2015 7:55:54 PM |
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jlyinc
Chaska, MN
30, joined Nov. 2014
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You just say it. It'll either make things really awkward and the friendship will be over or it will be the start to something that could potentially be really great. Sure there are other options there but those are the two most likely. But you won't know unless you do something. I did. It was the best and worst decision ever.
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1/8/2015 8:36:34 PM |
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pk0357
Eastlake, OH
38, joined Jan. 2010
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A blow job say a lot without saying anything...
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1/8/2015 8:48:29 PM |
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luxorus
Pachacamac
Peru
36, joined Apr. 2014
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she'll end up gargling somehow
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1/8/2015 8:49:33 PM |
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luxorus
Pachacamac
Peru
36, joined Apr. 2014
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in hindsight, excuse me op, my response was rude and callous
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1/9/2015 11:53:01 AM |
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latinleprekahn
South San Francisco, CA
45, joined Sep. 2014
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Just tell him!!!
Good luck!
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1/9/2015 12:45:38 PM |
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wildfir
Albany, IN
43, joined Sep. 2013
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Im not a guy but ill give my advice. Ok if u and this guy have been friends say since high school k and over time u have gotten different feeling for him but he hasent shown the same. Well I wouldn't risk messing up a good friendship to be his GF. Ok one of 3 things can happen 1. U tell him u have feelings and he says he has the same. U 2 date for say 3 months and it goes south and u 2 leave on bad terms.2.U tell him u have feelings for him and he says I don't see u just as like a sister. or 3.u just see where it goes and say nothing and not risk losing a good friend. Take this to heart and do what u feel is right op k.
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