| 1/6/2015 8:50:21 PM |
Does sex change the way you look at someone? |
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swish44
Jacksonville, FL
23, joined Dec. 2014
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I had a argument with one of my friends and I was telling him sex can sometimes change the way you look at a person but he disagreed I just want opinions please
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| 1/6/2015 8:54:10 PM |
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darthcapital
North York, ON
47, joined Apr. 2014
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I thought you were asking about a "sex change"
can sex as in having sex change the way you look at a person?
depends on the person, how you feel about the person, are you physically attracted or emotionally attracted to them
too many questions needs to be answered first man.
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| 1/6/2015 8:58:00 PM |
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rocky_dennis
Mechanicsburg, PA
38, joined Nov. 2013
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I look at a woman completely different,before and after I have sex with her. I know I look at men the same way reguardless and some women, useless because I never would or have sex with them.
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| 1/6/2015 9:01:05 PM |
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forsyth4
Fort Payne, AL
30, joined Nov. 2014
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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| 1/6/2015 9:09:38 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009
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Yes. I knew I wasn't going to be getting any whether we were making out or not. It's hard to please a girl who doesn't know what pleases her.
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| 1/6/2015 10:21:42 PM |
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don_johnson99
Janesville, WI
56, joined Nov. 2013
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Back a few years ago, I had kinky sex partners, some what kinky sex partners and kind of vanilla sex partners. I had three, one of each going at the same time. I had the best time with the kinky sex partner but I couldn't love her or have a relationship with her because she was basically a slut. She was attractive and smart, but she just liked to go to swinger's clubs and have sex. She was a lot of fun. We were just f**k buddies and enjoyed going to the clubs.
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| 1/6/2015 10:46:37 PM |
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twining
Anderson, SC
25, joined Jun. 2014
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It can. A guy wants to act like an alpha male, the sex better be earth shattering. If it's not, I can't promise ill be able to look at him the same way ever again.
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| 1/6/2015 10:56:45 PM |
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dances_in_woods
Henderson, TX
50, joined Mar. 2011
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It changes for me
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| 1/6/2015 11:24:48 PM |
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l380
Alabaster, AL
44, joined Sep. 2014
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Yes,it does for me.
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| 1/6/2015 11:24:49 PM |
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mattywhoa
Las Vegas, NV
31, joined Dec. 2013
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Depends on how good they are at sex.
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| 1/6/2015 11:34:08 PM |
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testsignup
Springfield, VA
63, joined Sep. 2009
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One thing is for sure, if it doesn't change things, that tells you something important about the person who doesn't notice the difference. It usually means that they don't think of sex as an additionally intimate experience with you. They think of it the same way they think of, oh, say, changing a tire on your car, or sweeping the floor.
On the other hand, if you put someone on the spot asking them that question in some situations, they're likely to say "no it doesn't," out of worry that that's what you want to hear.
And from the aspect of will sex make a failing situation get better, probably not. If I don't find you attractive or compatible, offering sex wont change that.
But yes of course, since most of us don't have sex with everyone we know or meet, then it does make a difference of some kind.
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| 1/6/2015 11:45:47 PM |
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hogaseman
Benátky nad Jizerou
Czech Republic
65, joined Jun. 2014
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Yes and no. Few yrs ago l helped a woman move.out of a very bad relationship. Abusive BF. Spent several nights at her place sleeping on couch. Didn't mind at all.
One night she came out of the shower and nodded to the bed room. Sex was great. Were still friends and talk and confide in one another. Shes my best friend. Male or female.
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| 1/7/2015 12:27:59 AM |
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pickygirl72
Pinon Hills, CA
46, joined Sep. 2011
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Yes because he now saw me naked
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| 1/7/2015 12:42:41 AM |
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maleagant
La Follette, TN
33, joined Dec. 2009
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Yes it does, I view sex as a Commitment to the relationship. If I am f**king a woman, I am with her, period, unless she specifically makes it clear that it is NSA only. And I tell every woman I date before hand that if we f**k, were dating, unless it is specifically agreed on that it's just for fun with No strings attached.
Maybe I am just old fashioned though.
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| 1/7/2015 6:29:42 AM |
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happylauren
Crown Point, IN
55, joined May. 2013
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How can it not?
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| 1/7/2015 7:08:13 AM |
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mr_1234m
Louisville, KY
51, joined Apr. 2014
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If it doesn't, you are doing it wrong.
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| 1/7/2015 8:41:27 AM |
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mistermister81
Opa Locka, FL
36, joined Jan. 2014
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I had a argument with one of my friends and I was telling him sex can sometimes change the way you look at a person but he disagreed I just want opinions please
Not so much and depends on the person and actions.
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| 1/7/2015 8:41:52 AM |
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kawkasian
Beverly Hills, CA
36, joined Sep. 2014
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I had a argument with one of my friends and I was telling him sex can sometimes change the way you look at a person but he disagreed I just want opinions please
Maybe you should f**k him and see if either of your opinions change?
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| 1/7/2015 8:50:43 AM |
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
55, joined Apr. 2014
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Yes.
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| 1/7/2015 8:52:35 AM |
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seanedrac72
Sandston, VA
45, joined Sep. 2014
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To answer that question yes it does.
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| 1/7/2015 9:00:40 AM |
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woman_4_woman
Omaha, NE
29, joined Jun. 2014
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Yes
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| 1/7/2015 3:24:36 PM |
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icecreamsammich
Tucker, GA
66, joined May. 2014
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Absolutely.
i would be amazed at a woman that said it didn't.
And I would run far and fast.
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| 1/7/2015 3:26:12 PM |
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browcottoncandy
Nottingham, MD
41, joined Dec. 2014
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It changes for me in a good way  
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| 1/7/2015 3:34:03 PM |
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numbersor_only
Austin, TX
57, joined Nov. 2014
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I had a argument with one of my friends and I was telling him sex can sometimes change the way you look at a person but he disagreed I just want opinions please
It changes the angle I look at them from.
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| 1/7/2015 4:40:02 PM |
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24milkduds
San Francisco, CA
57, joined Mar. 2012
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It can
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| 1/7/2015 5:59:39 PM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
48, joined Jan. 2012
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Of course it changes things.
What I hate is when I have sex with a man and it's not all that and I don't care to even have sex on a regular basis, only when I'm hard up for it or really horny and I have to actually make myself do it when he wants to or he may start wondering why we've gone weeks or months without doing it.  
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| 1/7/2015 6:05:44 PM |
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oppsiidazi
Orr, MN
47, joined Oct. 2014
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It changes the angle I look at them from.
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| 1/7/2015 6:07:32 PM |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
59, joined Jul. 2010
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I'm still eyeballin' 'em w/same beady eyes.
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| 1/7/2015 7:04:29 PM |
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cosmicgem
Springfield, MO
60, joined Jun. 2011
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Yes.
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| 1/7/2015 7:18:22 PM |
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luxorus
Peoria, IL
38, joined Apr. 2014
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possible
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| 1/7/2015 7:32:14 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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I have always been attracted to the male of the species .... Or do you mean after having physical sex would one look at their partner differently?
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| 1/7/2015 7:35:15 PM |
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iheartidiots
Grove City, OH
39, joined Feb. 2012
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Yes. Depending upon whether its fantastic, I'll want it again and again.
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| 1/8/2015 4:24:43 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
52, joined Jul. 2013
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Sure can
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| 1/8/2015 4:27:23 PM |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
59, joined Jul. 2010
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Lack of sex
can have me looking at them cross-eyed.
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| 1/8/2015 4:28:13 PM |
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riflessivo
AlmafuerteStaffordshire
United Kingdom
43, joined Jan. 2014
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Yes usually I see stars after 
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| 1/8/2015 5:36:09 PM |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
59, joined Jul. 2010
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Starry, starry night.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oxHnRfhDmrk
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| 1/8/2015 11:02:23 PM |
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evajoy
Reston, VA
60, joined May. 2012
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yes, because i will want more
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| 1/9/2015 5:07:07 AM |
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riflessivo
AlmafuerteStaffordshire
United Kingdom
43, joined Jan. 2014
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Starry, starry night.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oxHnRfhDmrk
 thank you darlin
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| 1/9/2015 11:50:37 AM |
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latinleprekahn
South San Francisco, CA
47, joined Sep. 2014
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Definitely
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| 1/9/2015 12:35:54 PM |
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wildfir
Albany, IN
45, joined Sep. 2013
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Sex can be good or bad. Depending on who the person is. Sex has never changed me it feels hella good but it didn't change me. But sex it can change some people for the best or the worse.
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| 1/9/2015 3:38:38 PM |
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motokid120
Keene, NH
36, joined Jul. 2014
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Yes it can. I don't expect the shy, quiet, petite girl with glasses. To be a little tiger in the sack. Where did that confidence and sexuality come from?
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| 1/9/2015 7:15:38 PM |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
59, joined Jul. 2010
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thank you darlin
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| 1/9/2015 7:18:59 PM |
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mixmunchiez
Katy, TX
28, joined Jun. 2013
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Sure do smh
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| 1/9/2015 7:23:18 PM |
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whalemstrsback
Corning, CA
59, joined Oct. 2014
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of
course...
have
to
wait
for
everything to refocus afterwards...
eyes roll back in head - takes awhile to unroll...
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| 1/11/2015 3:18:16 AM |
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maleagant
La Follette, TN
33, joined Dec. 2009
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Of course it changes things.
What I hate is when I have sex with a man and it's not all that and I don't care to even have sex on a regular basis, only when I'm hard up for it or really horny and I have to actually make myself do it when he wants to or he may start wondering why we've gone weeks or months without doing it.
Then you should talk to your man and explain to him what hes doing wrong, and what he could do to please you, If he is too insecure to listen to you, then find someone who will.
Personally, I continually ask anyone I date (if were f**king), about things they like to do, what feels good, what makes them cum, etc. Because I get pleasure from the woman moaning in pleasure. If she's not enjoying it, neither am I, and I wont be f**king her.
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| 1/11/2015 2:44:43 PM |
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debyduh
Hamburg, PA
53, joined May. 2014
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If a person had a sex change it would change the way I look at them.
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| 1/11/2015 3:55:35 PM |
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boyinneed
Miami, FL
52, joined Aug. 2011
online now!
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With or without clothes...?
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| 1/11/2015 5:40:47 PM |
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justforamoment
Dublin, OH
68, joined Dec. 2009
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SEX???!! SEX???!!!
I don't need no Stinking SEX!!!!
And then there is that, I feel Better
Thank you and
Have a Soft Day
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| 1/11/2015 5:48:25 PM |
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riflessivo
AlmafuerteStaffordshire
United Kingdom
43, joined Jan. 2014
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Then you should talk to your man and explain to him what hes doing wrong, and what he could do to please you, If he is too insecure to listen to you, then find someone who will.
Personally, I continually ask anyone I date (if were f**king), about things they like to do, what feels good, what makes them cum, etc. Because I get pleasure from the woman moaning in pleasure. If she's not enjoying it, neither am I, and I wont be f**king her.
On a side note as a woman to talk to a man about his sexual performance can be a difficult task. As I recognise how important and sensitive it can be for a man.
Whilst you can attempt to guide it can also be misunderstood as a complaint or a failure on his behalf rather than her trying to improve their sex life.
Something I believe that can only come (excuse the pun) in time, trust and honesty.
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| 1/11/2015 6:22:36 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
50, joined Jun. 2014
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Of course! The sex makes the difference in itself. Plus it opens other doors as well.
When someone falls head over heels in live with someone sex usually have something to do with it.
Having sex allows you see a person in a way you never seen before period.
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| 1/11/2015 6:27:42 PM |
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vagmasterflash
Durand, WI
51, joined Nov. 2014
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No. I usually look at them differently before I don't have sex with them. I imagine them at their very worst b*tching like an insane person, and with a lawyer at her side explaining how she gets half of everything because I f**ked her.
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| 1/11/2015 6:36:10 PM |
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carguytexas
Princeton, TX
44, joined Jan. 2012
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Yes it does for the better
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| 1/12/2015 1:11:30 AM |
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hunter12gauge
Bellaire, OH
54, joined Apr. 2008
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Of course it changes things.
What I hate is when I have sex with a man and it's not all that and I don't care to even have sex on a regular basis, only when I'm hard up for it or really horny and I have to actually make myself do it when he wants to or he may start wondering why we've gone weeks or months without doing it.
Weeks or months?????? Damn YOU MUST be a FINE piece of a** for him to wait around that long. 
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| 1/12/2015 2:23:03 AM |
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maleagant
La Follette, TN
33, joined Dec. 2009
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On a side note as a woman to talk to a man about his sexual performance can be a difficult task. As I recognise how important and sensitive it can be for a man.
Whilst you can attempt to guide it can also be misunderstood as a complaint or a failure on his behalf rather than her trying to improve their sex life.
Something I believe that can only come (excuse the pun) in time, trust and honesty.
I guess my ego is not as fragile as other mens in that case, because I could give a shit less, I am not insecure, and anything a woman tells me is only going to give me more power over her in the bedroom.
Being able to make a woman scream and her toes curl is power, and for a dom like me, any information which helps me reach that goal is information I desire.
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| 1/12/2015 2:26:41 AM |
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naturebiy
Bangkok
Thailand
41, joined Jul. 2011
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As far as how I look at a person for who they truly are..no
Sex does not define a person and anyone that thinks it does needs to go back to the jungle with the apes.
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| 1/12/2015 2:37:59 AM |
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wildfir
Albany, IN
45, joined Sep. 2013
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Any damn person can have sex with another. Sex dosent make a relationship work. If u base your relationship just on sex alone it wont last. Yes sex is part of being human and it does feel good. But half the people on here have sex and its just that sex nothing else. There are no feelings involed just to get off and feel good till u hook up with someone different 3 nights later. Those people are called male wh*res and sluts. People today have no clue what true love really is. Its a damn shaim I think.
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| 1/12/2015 4:30:12 AM |
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riflessivo
AlmafuerteStaffordshire
United Kingdom
43, joined Jan. 2014
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I guess my ego is not as fragile as other mens in that case, because I could give a shit less, I am not insecure, and anything a woman tells me is only going to give me more power over her in the bedroom.
Being able to make a woman scream and her toes curl is power, and for a dom like me, any information which helps me reach that goal is information I desire.
I perhaps don't see it the way you do. I consider how my partner may feel when conveying that message to them.
But I take on board that you perceive the open conversation. Which I agree with but I still think it takes time.
Not everyone is made up the same though and to me to establish anything more than a one night stand you have to invest that consideration slowly. I also expect that just because I am prepared to take my time to be understand why and how not everyone will.
If you consider that not every woman's objective is to find a sex God. But a partner, a lover. Being the woman I am as well I am not overly dominate when it comes to sex. Although I have my moments.
I'm more inclined to see a man differently when I have feelings for him when having sex. Like he has an aura attached to him I simply find too hard to leave. But how he makes me feel is more important to me than his performance. Because in the grand scheme of things that can always be changed for the better.
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| 1/12/2015 6:09:17 AM |
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amicablyme
Wheeler, IN
60, joined Oct. 2014
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Yes, I close my eyes oftentimes during sex!
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| 1/12/2015 6:24:10 AM |
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nettyblue
Okeechobee, FL
57, joined Oct. 2014
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It depends on how long you have been in a relationship with them. How connected or compatible you are with one another before you go down that road. If you wait and think everything is great until you get there and they are horrible, I myself think of it as a challenge and am a good teacher..lol. but if they retreat to the same dull, 2 minute love session it's hard to connect with them after that. Things usually go down hill to "nowhereville".  
If they are attentive, romantic, exciting, sexually enticing, affectionate, and pleasing...even better! It can only make the relationship stronger. 
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| 1/12/2015 6:47:48 AM |
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oppsiidazi
Orr, MN
47, joined Oct. 2014
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Possibly, yes.
Especially, if our sexual appetites doesn't mesh, if I've gotten sexually bored, or it can take away from the allure one once had for someone. You know the always WANTING what I can't or shouldn't have.
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