| 1/19/2015 9:34:42 PM |
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tashafearce1
Bronx, NY
34, joined May. 2013
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Guys you CANNOT say this to a woman after being in a "relationship" for 6 months. Doesn't work like that! #FML
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| 1/19/2015 9:44:38 PM |
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jlyinc
Chaska, MN
30, joined Nov. 2014
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What they mean is... "With you"
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| 1/19/2015 10:04:43 PM |
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im7
Chapel Hill, NC
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I think that is a good time to ask if you are the other girlfriend.
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| 1/20/2015 1:04:54 AM |
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pickygirl72
Phelan, CA
44, joined Sep. 2011
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Some people like to play games.
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| 1/20/2015 1:08:59 AM |
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amicablyme
Wheeler, IN
57, joined Oct. 2014
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It does work like that.
They just tried it for 6 months and it failed. Sometimes, you have to take a step back and look at what's wrong with the picture.
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| 1/20/2015 1:51:27 AM |
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bigdinv
Houston, TX
34, joined Sep. 2011
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I'm not ready for a relationship.
I can't stand the banality of starting over.
Christ, I'm bitter. 
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| 1/20/2015 2:32:45 AM |
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lucky_1million
Pewaukee, WI
48, joined Jun. 2013
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Maybe he sees what you two have as going in the direction of FWB.
There can be some component parts of a relationship in these types of arrangements.
There is sex and there is dating...sometimes even a level of commitment...
...but usually not.
He probably wants to date other people.
I call the first two years of dating someone as an "attempt" at a relationship. If you are not working towards building a future together... what type of relationship do you really have?
Maybe it's a more casual relationship.
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| 1/20/2015 6:31:55 AM |
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kaosny
Inwood, NY
33, joined May. 2014
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Yes we can, being honest is the best policy. You don't want to be years into it and then realize it doest work.
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| 1/20/2015 6:49:33 AM |
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testsignup
Springfield, VA
61, joined Sep. 2009
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Besides, some times it takes that long to figure out that they aren't ready.
But I take it your real complaint is, that you want higher quality dump lines? You want more aggressive ones, more angry ones, more esoteric ones, more intellectual ones, what?
While I'm always hurt and disappointed to be given up on by someone I had hopes about, I don't really care how the bad news comes, as long as it isn't coy.
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| 1/20/2015 7:27:09 AM |
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riderdragon8
Phoenix, AZ
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Yes we can, being honest is the best policy. You don't want to be years into it and then realize it doest work.
True then you get a million questions as to why and what they can do... How about be thankful the guy was honest and is parting ways instead of dragn it on and using you as a side fwb.
It takes a good 6 months to a year to really get to know someone. Takes time for people to be themselfs instead of what they portray to others.
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| 1/20/2015 7:56:06 AM |
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kawkasian
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014
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OP, I am ready for your nudity in my in box.
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| 1/20/2015 8:27:39 AM |
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kawkasian
Houston, TX
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Guys you CANNOT say this to a woman after being in a "relationship" for 6 months. Doesn't work like that! #FML
Just respond with, "I'm not ready for rejection"...then inform him he's going with you to visit your mother at the weekend.
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| 1/20/2015 8:53:45 AM |
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vagmasterflash
Durand, WI
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Guys you CANNOT say this to a woman after being in a "relationship" for 6 months. Doesn't work like that! #FML
...did "he" know that "he" was in a relationship? Did you have those boundary talks? Or did you just assume you were in a relationship with him, and he was just supposed to read your mind, and follow along with your neuroses, and insecurities? At what point did you determine you were in a relationship with him? Was it when the voices in your head told you? Or was it on a whim over an action, or consequence? Or was it when someone joked about it, a rumor started, or just plain innuendo?
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| 1/20/2015 8:59:18 AM |
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ctr916v2
Roseville, CA
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Guys you CANNOT say this to a woman after being in a "relationship" for 6 months. Doesn't work like that! #FML
What it may mean is, we really don't feel you are serious enough and you haven't gotten your girl friends involved to expedite the process so you can call dibs on any serious relationship we put out.
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| 1/20/2015 6:22:15 PM |
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toxictears1970
Marrero, LA
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I brake his face 
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| 1/20/2015 6:26:10 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
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Sounds like that person was led on
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| 1/20/2015 6:27:17 PM |
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ms_marie_21
Lindale, TX
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what he means is....
its been a great 6 months
but I've found better p*ssy.
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| 1/20/2015 6:35:54 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
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| 1/20/2015 6:39:25 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
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Lighten up! It's like when a woman says she wants to be "just friends". You have no problem with that! There must be a million unemployed black studs in the Bronx to make your new bf.
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| 1/20/2015 7:59:02 PM |
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theringhand
Kalamazoo, MI
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That rule needs to go both ways.
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| 1/20/2015 9:37:04 PM |
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mistermister81
Opa Locka, FL
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Guys you CANNOT say this to a woman after being in a "relationship" for 6 months. Doesn't work like that! #FML
Buyers remorse perhaps
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| 1/21/2015 1:17:34 AM |
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pornstar7907
Rockaway, NJ
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No always maybe he just not over his x.I been talking to some but I still have in my mind all the time.and all I want to do is mend the past and start over.just like woman say let's be friends.
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| 1/21/2015 1:45:09 AM |
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im2thexy
Belleville, ON
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Would you rather him be dishonest and stay and cheat instead because he isnt into you?...
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| 1/21/2015 1:49:52 AM |
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iamoneonly
San Diego, CA
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Would you rather him be dishonest and stay and cheat instead because he isnt into you?...
Oh yeah I was just gonna say something like that.
More like suffer and be unhappy.
I didn't think about lying.
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| 1/21/2015 1:51:08 AM |
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im2thexy
Belleville, ON
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Welll hey...ya can't think of everything....
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| 1/21/2015 1:39:02 PM |
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dezweather
Phoenix, AZ
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what he means is....
its been a great 6 months
but I've found better p*ssy.
You speak from experience; don't you?
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| 1/21/2015 5:40:32 PM |
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grneyesrme
Sacramento, CA
46, joined Aug. 2013
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What they mean is it's not working out.
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| 1/21/2015 7:03:31 PM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
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The way I see it is it's just 6 months. It could have been longer. I was married for much longer. Now divorce, that really sucks!
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| 1/21/2015 7:21:28 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
62, joined Oct. 2009
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If a woman tells a guy she wants to be JUST FRIENDS after 6 months that works so why not the other way around? OHHHHHHHHHHH! Because YOU'RE the one who's hurt. If you're hurting the guy's feelings then it really isn't relevant.
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| 1/22/2015 9:16:19 AM |
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ms_marie_21
Lindale, TX
23, joined Dec. 2012
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You speak from experience; don't you?
no.
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| 1/22/2015 9:24:32 AM |
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rose1206
Gilbert, AZ
33, joined Jul. 2012
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That could mean all kinds of things, but usually the guy just isn't into you or had a change of heart. It happens, forget about anyone who won't reciprocate...not worth it!
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| 1/22/2015 9:27:21 AM |
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archer513
Cincinnati, OH
40, joined Dec. 2014
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What he means is...I like bangin you sometimes and sometimes I like bangin other people. I'll keep bangin you though,until I'm bangin someone else,or my bangin card is full and you don't make the cut.
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| 1/22/2015 9:41:47 AM |
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artist820
Tehachapi, CA
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True then you get a million questions as to why and what they can do... How about be thankful the guy was honest and is parting ways instead of dragn it on and using you as a side fwb.
It takes a good 6 months to a year to really get to know someone. Takes time for people to be themselfs instead of what they portray to others.
Be glad he didn't "text dump" you while you were driving and your kid's girlfriend had to read it to you. 
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| 1/22/2015 9:43:30 AM |
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artist820
Tehachapi, CA
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What he means is...I like bangin you sometimes and sometimes I like bangin other people. I'll keep bangin you though,until I'm bangin someone else,or my bangin card is full and you don't make the cut.
oh that's how it works. It's crystal clear now. 
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| 1/22/2015 9:53:15 AM |
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ctr916v2
Roseville, CA
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what he means is....
its been a great 6 months
but I've found better p*ssy.
i don't dump girl friends for better p*ssy; what kind of a boy friend do you think i am?
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| 1/22/2015 9:57:21 AM |
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a4umposter
San Antonio, TX
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Guys you CANNOT say this to a woman after being in a "relationship" for 6 months. Doesn't work like that! #FML
If that's what they do, they're playing games.
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| 1/22/2015 10:16:04 AM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
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At 6 months it was probably turning pretty serious. He may have been seeing it as just casual until about then, and he realized it was more than he wanted or could do.
But it would hurt hearing it. Especially since you probably weren't seeing it as casual.
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| 1/22/2015 10:32:26 AM |
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ctr916v2
Roseville, CA
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i think you chics are making it too hard on yourselves. just get your girl friends involved who you can trust to respect your dibs on any serious relationship we put out.
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| 1/22/2015 11:07:25 AM |
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phil406
Pueblo, CO
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Guys you CANNOT say this to a woman after being in a "relationship" for 6 months. Doesn't work like that! #FML
True in a big city maybe but if you happen to have an experience together good or bad then it changes the Perspective of the Relationship also!
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| 1/22/2015 11:11:30 AM |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
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"Guys you CANNOT say this to a woman after being in a "relationship" for 6 months. Doesn't work like that!"
Pardon?
I can say anything I wish.
There are no conditions I must uphold after some imaginary time line.
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| 1/22/2015 11:12:46 AM |
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ctr916v2
Roseville, CA
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hey chics, i really am a really really serious relationship waiting to happen, but you chics won't fornicate it out of me. how really really serious can you chics really really be?
[Edited 1/22/2015 11:13:21 AM ]
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| 1/22/2015 11:14:22 AM |
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twining
Anderson, SC
22, joined Jun. 2014
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Get tested and if you've caught anything from him, file charges.
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| 1/22/2015 11:19:21 AM |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
54, joined Jul. 2010
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I'n too dumb
to test positive.
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| 1/22/2015 12:10:38 PM |
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oppsiidazi
Orr, MN
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Guys you CANNOT say this to a woman after being in a "relationship" for 6 months. Doesn't work like that! #FML
Sure it does.
Sometimes I feel like ^that after a couple of weeks.  
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| 1/22/2015 12:19:16 PM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
46, joined Jan. 2012
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What he means is...I like bangin you sometimes and sometimes I like bangin other people. I'll keep bangin you though,until I'm bangin someone else,or my bangin card is full and you don't make the cut.
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| 1/22/2015 12:59:09 PM |
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dorval
Danville, IL
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if he tell you he is not ready for a relationship, best to listen with both ears and let him go..........six months is when you are really getting to know him/her.
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| 1/22/2015 2:17:17 PM |
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vagmasterflash
Durand, WI
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I'm not ready for a relationship.
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| 1/22/2015 2:17:44 PM |
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vagmasterflash
Durand, WI
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Get off of me.
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| 1/22/2015 2:50:58 PM |
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playingindirt
Eugene, OR
59, joined Mar. 2014
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actually sometimes some people don't realize that they don't belong in a relationship until they're in one but it doesn't usually happen that way.
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| 1/22/2015 3:34:12 PM |
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boyinneed
Miami, FL
50, joined Aug. 2011
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Listen...Maybe he just needs a little...
Side Dish, Free Play, Pressure Release, Safety Net, Back Up, Void Filler, and...
What could be wrong with that...?
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| 1/22/2015 3:54:17 PM |
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themadhater
Tucson, AZ
36, joined Apr. 2013
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Can't do it ! Just can't
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| 1/23/2015 10:32:24 AM |
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ctr916v2
Roseville, CA
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i think i need some free samples, first. :-p
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| 1/23/2015 10:42:27 AM |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
54, joined Jul. 2010
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It took almost a year for me to realize.
It's not you it's me.
I'm not the right guy, the good guy, the bad boy, the astute listener, the consoling caretaker, the life of the party, the strong silent type, the loving companion, the rock of Gibraltar, the always there for you, knight in shining armour or the great provider.
'ell I ain't even bonafide.
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| 1/24/2015 4:58:48 PM |
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finalprofile
Homewood, IL
49, joined Dec. 2014
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Yep, "It's not you it's me". Just another breakup cliché.
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| 1/24/2015 7:34:55 PM |
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rainydaze26
Columbus, OH
50, joined Nov. 2013
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Good clue that it's not really a relationship & maybe time to move on
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| 1/26/2015 11:02:21 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
59, joined Apr. 2011
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Guys you CANNOT say this to a woman after being in a "relationship" for 6 months. Doesn't work like that! #FML
Lets just say...
...what the real meaning is or was.
...is they are not ready for a relationship with YOU.
When someone says this....basically, that's what it means....a nice way of saying, they don't dig you enough to continue on.
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| 1/26/2015 4:29:01 PM |
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bluecougareyes
Chelan, WA
70, joined Nov. 2008
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What they mean is... "With you"
So true... after 6 months, reality hits them right in the face... and its a NO !
Both can now move on for a nice NEW beginning !...
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| 1/26/2015 4:37:03 PM |
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bluecougareyes
Chelan, WA
70, joined Nov. 2008
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actually sometimes some people don't realize that they don't belong in a relationship until they're in one but it doesn't usually happen that way.
That could be true..... .......
Some people can have fun together, love one another and make love with each other, (sex)
BUT they just can't live together or have a committed relationship.
FREEDOM in deep friendship, can make it last better then a commitment or
a marriage that can put obligations and stress on one or both their lives.
" If you love some one.. Set them FREE !
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| 1/26/2015 4:45:42 PM |
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evajoy
Reston, VA
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yeah, they can...that is WHY they arent in one
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| 1/26/2015 10:02:40 PM |
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larena40
Lemon Grove, CA
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Ok what's the problem.
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