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1/27/2015 11:40:46 AM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  
ladynewyork23
White Plains, NY
26, joined Jan. 2012


I'm 26 and chatting with a guy my age from online. We are both looking for something serious but he is looking to get married this year. I'm not looking to get married not until in a couple years. I did tell him how I felt and whatnot and I worry that if I decide to get into a relationship with this guy he'll pressure for marriage. I'm not sure whether or not I should rule him as a potiential mate.

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1/27/2015 11:41:16 AM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  

kawkasian
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,653)
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014


Well have you met him? Edit: N/m I see you haven't.

Meet someone before making a decision.



[Edited 1/27/2015 11:41:52 AM ]

1/27/2015 11:41:50 AM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  

jlyinc
Over 2,000 Posts (3,826)
Chaska, MN
31, joined Nov. 2014


RUN.

You are most likely idealizing each other... which tends to happen until you meet a person and truly get to know them.

1/27/2015 11:43:47 AM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  

vagmasterflash
Over 2,000 Posts (3,157)
Durand, WI
49, joined Nov. 2014


3rd down, and 63 yards to go? I'd punt.



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1/27/2015 11:43:55 AM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  

bumblebee7
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (47,796)
Fort Payne, AL
60, joined Apr. 2011


I agree run.

when speaking of real love and possible marriage associated with it.

you can't put a time line on real love....or how long it takes to decide.

When I joined POF a few years back, Poof....I got two emails right way from women who stated within 6 months, they expect to be married.

I deleted those messages.



[Edited 1/27/2015 11:44:25 AM ]

1/27/2015 11:44:04 AM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  
extortionegos
Over 2,000 Posts (2,786)
Hayward, CA
37, joined Apr. 2014


Either he is rich or poor but for a man to want marriage he has to be a big time sinner

1/27/2015 11:47:20 AM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  

apokernut
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,319)
Elk Grove Village, IL
52, joined Jan. 2008
online now!


If you phone-boned him, marry him!!

1/27/2015 11:48:21 AM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  

playingindirt
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,930)
Eugene, OR
59, joined Mar. 2014


there is nothing wrong with wanting to get married but rushing into marriage is not wise.
i wouldn't run yet if you're into getting married at some point but if he asks you to marry him before meeting then run. if he asks you before you've had time to get to know each other run then too.

1/27/2015 11:48:49 AM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  

kawkasian
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,653)
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014


I dated a chick (real not cyber) who wanted to get married after 2 weeks....sex was great!...for the 2 weeks it lasted...

1/27/2015 11:49:21 AM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  

cosmicgem
Over 1,000 Posts (1,898)
Springfield, MO
58, joined Jun. 2011


Real Love takes time and in Person. If he is already speaking of it and not taking your feelings seriously Now. He Never will. RUN!!! FAST AND FAR!!!!!!!!

1/27/2015 11:51:00 AM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  

mssweettaste3
Youngstown, OH
42, joined Jan. 2015


He's a scammer. Run like hell!

1/27/2015 11:51:32 AM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  

apokernut
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,319)
Elk Grove Village, IL
52, joined Jan. 2008
online now!


Quote from cosmicgem:
Real Love takes time and in Person. If he is already speaking of it and not taking your feelings seriously Now. He Never will. RUN!!! FAST AND FAR!!!!!!!!


Come to me CosmicGem...............

1/27/2015 11:52:51 AM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  

kawkasian
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,653)
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014


Running before you even meet seems counterproductive...

1/27/2015 12:00:52 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  

txrose64
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (24,886)
Pearland, TX
51, joined Jan. 2013


I never understood that..I never made a "married by next June" kind of mark in my mental calendar.

I dated, if I found a guy worth keeping around then I'd get to know him even more to make sure..THEN start thinking about marriage.

only one has made that cut in the last 15 years..I've got nothing but time..and so do you.

if he's just "marriage minded" then that's great..so are you Mazel Tov!!

if it's a "I'll be married by next year, no matter who it is" kind of vibe or too much just over text..RUN Forrestette Run!!



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1/27/2015 12:02:28 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  

kawkasian
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,653)
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014


Umm I'd give them the benefit of the doubt and assume eagerness...excited people often say dumbass things.

Wont hurt to meet them before you dismiss them if everything else seemed ok.

1/27/2015 12:06:12 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  
ladynewyork23
White Plains, NY
26, joined Jan. 2012


Quote from kawkasian:
Umm I'd give them the benefit of the doubt and assume eagerness...excited people often say dumbass things.

Wont hurt to meet them before you dismiss them if everything else seemed ok.


I am thinking about meeting him.

1/27/2015 12:08:33 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  
ladynewyork23
White Plains, NY
26, joined Jan. 2012


Quote from txrose64:
I never understood that..I never made a "married by next June" kind of mark in my mental calendar.

I dated, if I found a guy worth keeping around then I'd get to know him even more to make sure..THEN start thinking about marriage.

only one has made that cut in the last 15 years..I've got nothing but time..and so do you.

if he's just "marriage minded" then that's great..so are you Mazel Tov!!

if it's a "I'll be married by next year, no matter who it is" kind of vibe or too much just over text..RUN Forrestette Run!!


I think it's great that he's looking to get married. I don't understand why he wants to run into it. I'm curious as to why.

1/27/2015 12:10:58 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  

plantkeeper
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,409)
Alexandria, VA
51, joined Apr. 2011


Recently I was chatting with a guy on another site, within one week he said " I love you" he was saying things like I miss you (we've never met), what is up with that? Now I won't speak to him ...I just thought he was about to run some BS...

1/27/2015 12:12:15 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  
ladynewyork23
White Plains, NY
26, joined Jan. 2012


Quote from playingindirt:
there is nothing wrong with wanting to get married but rushing into marriage is not wise.
i wouldn't run yet if you're into getting married at some point but if he asks you to marry him before meeting then run. if he asks you before you've had time to get to know each other run then too.


My gut is telling me to meet him in person before making any decision. I'm trying to think positive lol. It's always good to seek some advice about something like this

1/27/2015 12:14:16 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  
ladynewyork23
White Plains, NY
26, joined Jan. 2012


Quote from plantkeeper:
Recently I was chatting with a guy on another site, within one week he said " I love you" he was saying things like I miss you (we've never met), what is up with that? Now I won't speak to him ...I just thought he was about to run some BS...


I had sorta the same thing happen to meet when I was chatting with a different guy. It's kinda creepy too lol

1/27/2015 12:15:27 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  

kawkasian
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,653)
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014


My gut is telling me to meet him in person before making any decision. I'm trying to think positive lol. It's always good to seek some advice about something like this

Wont hurt as long as you meet in the much lauded public place. Try and get something to eat and drink out of it at least.

1/27/2015 12:16:43 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  
CuseGuyJ
Over 2,000 Posts (2,262)
Syracuse, NY
44, joined Nov. 2014


Sounds like he's honest and direct (and maybe desperate and confused).

I don't mind meeting women that say they wanna get married. It's not like just because they want to I'm going to have to.

If I were in your shoes and there weren't any other negative things about him, I would at least nee him first. Maybe hangout three times and then see if I could see myself marrying this person down the road.

Lastly, there's always compromise. He says one year, you say three, just split the middle and say if you can still stand each other in two years you'll set a date.

By the way, the average marrying age today for college educated white women is 30 years old. Just saying.

1/27/2015 12:16:59 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  

jlyinc
Over 2,000 Posts (3,826)
Chaska, MN
31, joined Nov. 2014


Quote from ladynewyork23:
My gut is telling me to meet him in person before making any decision. I'm trying to think positive lol. It's always good to seek some advice about something like this


Trust your gut, but go into it cautiously. I say run, but I can't commit so keep that in mind with who is giving you advice.

1/27/2015 12:18:49 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  

plantkeeper
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,409)
Alexandria, VA
51, joined Apr. 2011


Don't leave your food or drink unattended , if for some reason you begin to suddenly feel sick..... Make a huge scene...don't go anywhere alone with him.. Good luck....

1/27/2015 12:19:57 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  

txrose64
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (24,886)
Pearland, TX
51, joined Jan. 2013


Quote from ladynewyork23:
I think it's great that he's looking to get married. I don't understand why he wants to run into it. I'm curious as to why.


here's a thought..ask him.

1/27/2015 12:20:23 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  

kawkasian
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,653)
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014


Don't leave your food or drink unattended , if for some reason you begin to suddenly feel sick..... Make a huge scene...don't go anywhere alone with him.. Good luck....


Yes paranoia is always an option.



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1/27/2015 12:25:23 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  
CuseGuyJ
Over 2,000 Posts (2,262)
Syracuse, NY
44, joined Nov. 2014


Quote from plantkeeper:
Don't leave your food or drink unattended , if for some reason you begin to suddenly feel sick..... Make a huge scene...don't go anywhere alone with him.. Good luck....


Did Bill Cosby get you too?



1/27/2015 12:25:56 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  

plantkeeper
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,409)
Alexandria, VA
51, joined Apr. 2011


Quote from kawkasian:
Don't leave your food or drink unattended , if for some reason you begin to suddenly feel sick..... Make a huge scene...don't go anywhere alone with him.. Good luck....


Yes paranoia is always an option.




Call it what you want, shit happens.....all the time..

1/27/2015 12:27:21 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  

kawkasian
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,653)
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014


Call it what you want, shit happens.....all the time..

In the land of Paranoia...

1/27/2015 12:28:01 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  

lilod
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,177)
Rochelle, IL
48, joined Aug. 2012


Wanting to get married "this year" makes it sound more like an agenda item than actually looking for the right person. If you "hit it off," how are you going to know that he's chosen you for any reason other than that the clock is ticking? I'd run from anyone who had a date in mind to get married before he had a spouse in mind; seems like the timeline means more to him than the partner.

1/27/2015 12:28:04 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  

plantkeeper
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,409)
Alexandria, VA
51, joined Apr. 2011


Quote from CuseGuyJ:
Did Bill Cosby get you too?






1/27/2015 12:30:39 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  
teeheehee_
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,830)
Montreal, QC
33, joined Jun. 2014


Quote from lilod:
Wanting to get married "this year" makes it sound more like an agenda...


Yeah maybe for tax purposes?? Is it still a worthwhile tax break?

1/27/2015 12:30:50 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  
sagepopper72
Over 1,000 Posts (1,754)
Globe, AZ
42, joined Aug. 2014


Quote from lilod:
Wanting to get married "this year" makes it sound more like an agenda item than actually looking for the right person. If you "hit it off," how are you going to know that he's chosen you for any reason other than that the clock is ticking? I'd run from anyone who had a date in mind to get married before he had a spouse in mind; seems like the timeline means more to him than the partner.

This
It's never wise to rush into marriage!

1/27/2015 12:36:49 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  

playingindirt
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,930)
Eugene, OR
59, joined Mar. 2014


Quote from ladynewyork23:
My gut is telling me to meet him in person before making any decision. I'm trying to think positive lol. It's always good to seek some advice about something like this

thats good.
one thing at a time.

1/27/2015 12:36:51 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  
ladynewyork23
White Plains, NY
26, joined Jan. 2012


Quote from CuseGuyJ:
Sounds like he's honest and direct (and maybe desperate and confused).

I don't mind meeting women that say they wanna get married. It's not like just because they want to I'm going to have to.

If I were in your shoes and there weren't any other negative things about him, I would at least nee him first. Maybe hangout three times and then see if I could see myself marrying this person down the road.

Lastly, there's always compromise. He says one year, you say three, just split the middle and say if you can still stand each other in two years you'll set a date.

By the way, the average marrying age today for college educated white women is 30 years old. Just saying.


Great idea. I was thinking the exact same thing.

1/27/2015 12:38:11 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  
ladynewyork23
White Plains, NY
26, joined Jan. 2012


Quote from jlyinc:
Trust your gut, but go into it cautiously. I say run, but I can't commit so keep that in mind with who is giving you advice.


Lol true

1/27/2015 12:39:04 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  

kawkasian
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,653)
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014


Might want to wait till the snow clears a bit before meeting him.

1/27/2015 12:40:00 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  
ladynewyork23
White Plains, NY
26, joined Jan. 2012


Quote from txrose64:
here's a thought..ask him.


I will

1/27/2015 12:45:05 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  

playingindirt
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,930)
Eugene, OR
59, joined Mar. 2014


Quote from lilod:
Wanting to get married "this year" makes it sound more like an agenda item than actually looking for the right person. If you "hit it off," how are you going to know that he's chosen you for any reason other than that the clock is ticking? I'd run from anyone who had a date in mind to get married before he had a spouse in mind; seems like the timeline means more to him than the partner.

there are 11 months to go still in this year. maybe he has a job or a situation that will make getting married this year more convenient financially. It doesn't have to be for the wrong reasons but id certainly find out why he wants to do it this year.

1/27/2015 12:50:24 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  
mortara
Over 2,000 Posts (3,018)
Pittsburgh, PA
61, joined Feb. 2014


Quote from ladynewyork23:
I'm 26 and chatting with a guy my age from online. We are both looking for something serious but he is looking to get married this year. I'm not looking to get married not until in a couple years. I did tell him how I felt and whatnot and I worry that if I decide to get into a relationship with this guy he'll pressure for marriage. I'm not sure whether or not I should rule him as a potiential mate.


Usually people needing a green card will bring this up before meeting. They see nothing wrong with that nor do their families see anything wrong with that.

1/27/2015 12:53:57 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  

plantkeeper
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,409)
Alexandria, VA
51, joined Apr. 2011


Stay away from waffle houses...

1/27/2015 12:54:32 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  

renee398
Chilhowie, VA
36, joined Jan. 2015


If he's talking marriage that quick, make sure he lines up a good divorce lawyers also.

1/27/2015 1:01:37 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  

whalemstrsback
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,493)
Corning, CA
57, joined Oct. 2014









did i mention



1/27/2015 1:34:49 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  
ladynewyork23
White Plains, NY
26, joined Jan. 2012


Quote from sagepopper72:
This
It's never wise to rush into marriage!


Nope it isn't wise at all. I'm far from ready for that lol

1/27/2015 1:38:11 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  
ladynewyork23
White Plains, NY
26, joined Jan. 2012


Quote from mortara:
Usually people needing a green card will bring this up before meeting. They see nothing wrong with that nor do their families see anything wrong with that.


A friend of mines mentioned about the green card. It's something to be very concerned about. He hasn't been in the US for long. I think he's been here for a year at least that's what he told me maybe alittle more than a year.

1/27/2015 1:42:00 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  
amusicluvr
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,258)
Salem, OR
62, joined Nov. 2013


OP - If he is so intent upon getting married, and doing so this year, he is one to avoid...since he would probably marry anyone, just to remain on his timetable. If he is talking like:"we will get married, and this is where we will live" before you even meet, he is crazy. On the other hand, if he is talking like:"If we ever get married, I want our kids to go to a private school", or "if I ever marry, I want to do so in a church, rather than a Justice Of The Peace's office", or "Once I finally marry, I would like to honeymoon in Paris", that is not so crazy. The more you know about each other's preferences the better...but laying actual marriage plans so early is nuts.

1/27/2015 1:46:56 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  
amusicluvr
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,258)
Salem, OR
62, joined Nov. 2013


Yep. It sounds like he wants a green card, and then a citizenship, and you are his Sponsor To Be.

1/27/2015 1:51:27 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  

plantkeeper
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,409)
Alexandria, VA
51, joined Apr. 2011


I have a male friend who married a lady so she could get a green card. ..it's a mess...

1/27/2015 1:57:25 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  

notdeadyet60
Dixon, IL
54, joined Feb. 2013


Quote from ladynewyork23:
I'm 26 and chatting with a guy my age from online. We are both looking for something serious but he is looking to get married this year. I'm not looking to get married not until in a couple years. I did tell him how I felt and whatnot and I worry that if I decide to get into a relationship with this guy he'll pressure for marriage. I'm not sure whether or not I should rule him as a potiential mate.


I would say hell NO. In fact, why even bother with marriage at all?

1/27/2015 1:59:06 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  

kawkasian
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,653)
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014


A friend of mines mentioned about the green card. It's something to be very concerned about. He hasn't been in the US for long. I think he's been here for a year at least that's what he told me maybe alittle more than a year.

If he's been here a year he either has a visa already or is an illegal. But don't worry, simply meeting for coffee isn't a lifetime commitment and contrary to what every American thinks...all foreigners are not all after green cards

I wasn't when I came here, in fact me coming here was Plan B...



[Edited 1/27/2015 1:59:46 PM ]

1/27/2015 2:01:30 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  

stl1
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,597)
Saint Louis, MO
61, joined Jun. 2007


Too bad Plan A didn't work out, Beanz!



1/27/2015 2:05:10 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  
amusicluvr
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,258)
Salem, OR
62, joined Nov. 2013


OP - If he is just after a green card, and you marry him knowing that, YOU become a criminal, and can end up in prison. Even if you don't go to prison, and it is never proven that you committed fraud by marrying him just to get him a green card, it can be assumed that you did, and you can be barred from certain government jobs...even at the City level.

1/27/2015 2:05:32 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  

kawkasian
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,653)
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014


Too bad Plan A didn't work out, Beanz!



Tell me about it...

1/27/2015 2:21:58 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  
ladynewyork23
White Plains, NY
26, joined Jan. 2012


Quote from amusicluvr:
OP - If he is just after a green card, and you marry him knowing that, YOU become a criminal, and can end up in prison. Even if you don't go to prison, and it is never proven that you committed fraud by marrying him just to get him a green card, it can be assumed that you did, and you can be barred from certain government jobs...even at the City level.


Wow. I didn't even know that you learn something new everyday.

1/27/2015 2:22:45 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  
ladynewyork23
White Plains, NY
26, joined Jan. 2012


Quote from kawkasian:
A friend of mines mentioned about the green card. It's something to be very concerned about. He hasn't been in the US for long. I think he's been here for a year at least that's what he told me maybe alittle more than a year.

If he's been here a year he either has a visa already or is an illegal. But don't worry, simply meeting for coffee isn't a lifetime commitment and contrary to what every American thinks...all foreigners are not all after green cards

I wasn't when I came here, in fact me coming here was Plan B...


I like to keep an opened mind and don't want to jump into conclusions.

1/27/2015 2:22:56 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  

dorval
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,661)
Danville, IL
95, joined May. 2009


Nothing wrong with knowing when to run........and real fast.

1/27/2015 2:24:24 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  

kawkasian
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,653)
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014


I like to keep an opened mind and don't want to jump into conclusions.

Good, that separates you from the mostly idiot masses who think simply because you take a chance and meet someone you are obliged to spend the rest of their life with them



1/27/2015 2:25:13 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  
1sirens
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,320)
Champaign, IL
31, joined Aug. 2014


It is VERY important. ..you meet who you're marrying

1/27/2015 2:32:29 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  

kawkasian
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,653)
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014


It is VERY important. ..you meet who you're marrying

So Skype Marriages don't count?

1/27/2015 2:33:23 PM We haven't met yet and he's talking about marriage. Run?  
groo_wanderer
Over 1,000 Posts (1,579)
Litchfield, CT
40, joined Dec. 2014


Lady, I think it sounds like the guy is looking for a green card...a green card marriage!