You lost a part of yourself

1/28/2015 7:27:38 AM	You lost a part of yourself
klassy_klown Bakersfield, CA 46, joined Apr. 2010	I was watching a movie last night, and a man going through a divorce said with the breakup he lost a part of himself. Do you feel as though you've lost pieces of yourself? Do you think after many losses or even just a few losses you may have lost too much to put yourself back together again? Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
1/28/2015 7:29:59 AM	You lost a part of yourself
groo_wanderer Litchfield, CT 40, joined Dec. 2014	Yes, after a long relationship with a single mother that went sour, now I'm too afraid to ever date a single mother again. See, I grew very attached to her daughter....I was like a father to her. And now I have totally lost contact with that little girl. I have no kids of my own. My ex lied to me that she would have one more kid if we married. She lied to me so that she could entice me into a relationship with her. Now, here I am, single with no kid, and my step kid I can no longer see. So yes, I lost a large part of me in that last relationship.
1/28/2015 7:30:55 AM	You lost a part of yourself
groo_wanderer Litchfield, CT 40, joined Dec. 2014	I find that I am no longer trusting as I once was. And that I am very pessimistic now when it comes to dating and relationships. Don't know how this can be repaired......
1/28/2015 7:32:56 AM	You lost a part of yourself
chris_90352 Sykesville, MD 41, joined Sep. 2010	I've never been married, never been that close to other people, so I can't really relate to anyone who has that much of their identity tied up in other people. I'm monstrous that way.
1/28/2015 7:33:04 AM	You lost a part of yourself
patriottype Lubbock, TX 44, joined Jul. 2013	Quote from klassy_klown: I was watching a movie last night, and a man going through a divorce said with the breakup he lost a part of himself. Do you feel as though you've lost pieces of yourself? Do you think after many losses or even just a few losses you may have lost too much to put yourself back together again? He was talking about a part of his net worth.
1/28/2015 7:35:30 AM	You lost a part of yourself
patriottype Lubbock, TX 44, joined Jul. 2013	Quote from klassy_klown: I was watching a movie last night, and a man going through a divorce said with the breakup he lost a part of himself. Do you feel as though you've lost pieces of yourself? Do you think after many losses or even just a few losses you may have lost too much to put yourself back together again? It was just a movie real men don't have feelings we just eat,sleep,f**k,shit,work and die........
1/28/2015 7:39:26 AM	You lost a part of yourself
bumblebee7 Fort Payne, AL 59, joined Apr. 2011	Its a good question....but in a nutshell your asking some in a sense to admit that they are lost cause, nutcases in a sense. I'm not sure how many would be willing to broadcast that on a forum to where they are hoping to meet someone, and I think the answer lies in many of the threads and post we read on here. Sometimes the answer is better viewed from the outside from others, than a person trying to view how they are now from their own perspective. Of course any emotional trama takes a piece of us, but most can recover properly with the right attitude and enough time..but with the larger ones, there will be some scars. I don't view it as I've lost so many pieces of myself, but rather lost time that could have been better spent...in some cases.
1/28/2015 7:41:52 AM	You lost a part of yourself
walt_hallow Lexington, KY 58, joined Nov. 2014	Some people call it being jaded, I call it being cautious
1/28/2015 7:43:32 AM	You lost a part of yourself
kawkasian Houston, TX 47, joined Sep. 2014	No, maybe a temporary loss of the life/lifestyle you are used to be not a loss from the self.
1/28/2015 7:43:50 AM	You lost a part of yourself
yatame3 Buffalo, NY 20, joined Nov. 2014	Quote from groo_wanderer: I find that I am no longer trusting as I once was. And that I am very pessimistic now when it comes to dating and relationships. Don't know how this can be repaired...... Wow tony i had no idea you lived a full life .
1/28/2015 7:50:48 AM	You lost a part of yourself
miscbyproduct Cleveland, TX 54, joined Apr. 2012	Quote from klassy_klown: I was watching a movie last night, and a man going through a divorce said with the breakup he lost a part of himself. Do you feel as though you've lost pieces of yourself? Do you think after many losses or even just a few losses you may have lost too much to put yourself back together again? in any relationship, people give part of themself. thats the cost of getting part of someone else.
1/28/2015 7:52:35 AM	You lost a part of yourself
kawkasian Houston, TX 47, joined Sep. 2014	I only share my willy, I don't give it...even if there is plenty of it to go around.
1/28/2015 7:55:34 AM	You lost a part of yourself
sweetmama117 Bronx, NY 54, joined Aug. 2013	I lost my youth but gain wisdom. I may not be so trust worthy early in a relationship, I still believe in true love just going to take a while before letting it in won't be easy
1/28/2015 7:56:51 AM	You lost a part of yourself
kawkasian Houston, TX 47, joined Sep. 2014	Nothing is lost. You can't lose what you didn't have either...if your youth was spent married to someone, they you had your youth...with that someone...nothing was lost as nothing else happened except perhaps in a parallel universe. [Edited 1/28/2015 7:57:05 AM ]
1/28/2015 7:58:55 AM	You lost a part of yourself
stl1 Saint Louis, MO 60, joined Jun. 2007	Something new. A Humpty Dumpty thread!
1/28/2015 8:00:35 AM	You lost a part of yourself
helmholtzwatson Raleigh, NC 49, joined Jun. 2014	Just that one summer out on Leper Island...
1/28/2015 8:01:51 AM	You lost a part of yourself
stl1 Saint Louis, MO 60, joined Jun. 2007	What part fell off?
1/28/2015 8:02:26 AM	You lost a part of yourself
chris_90352 Sykesville, MD 41, joined Sep. 2010	Quote from helmholtzwatson: Just that one summer out on Leper Island... Everyone, let's give him a hand!
1/28/2015 8:08:01 AM	You lost a part of yourself
missgioia Natick, MA 51, joined May. 2014	I think it can certainly feel like you lost part of yourself. I identified strongly with the role of wife. I felt a little lost when that role went away, floundered around for a bit
1/28/2015 8:08:57 AM	You lost a part of yourself
kawkasian Houston, TX 47, joined Sep. 2014	Quote from missgioia: I think it can certainly feel like you lost part of yourself. I identified strongly with the role of wife. I felt a little lost when that role went away, floundered around for a bit But that's a loss of lifestyle, not a lost part of yourself...
1/28/2015 8:11:28 AM	You lost a part of yourself
sweetnsassy1957 Valparaiso, IN 57, joined Jun. 2014 online now!	Quote from klassy_klown: I was watching a movie last night, and a man going through a divorce said with the breakup he lost a part of himself. Do you feel as though you've lost pieces of yourself? Do you think after many losses or even just a few losses you may have lost too much to put yourself back together again? Humpty Dumpty Syndrome!
1/28/2015 8:12:05 AM	You lost a part of yourself
kawkasian Houston, TX 47, joined Sep. 2014	Why did humpty dumpty push his girlfriend off the wall? He wanted to see her crack.
1/28/2015 8:13:42 AM	You lost a part of yourself
blondie855 Keokuk, IA 59, joined Aug. 2014	Not so much of myself but more so personal belongings as he didn't want this or that, he wanted everything and got it. Money talks and his sure did. But I did get my sanity back!!!!
1/28/2015 8:14:17 AM	You lost a part of yourself
stl1 Saint Louis, MO 60, joined Jun. 2007	G- How much snow did you get?
1/28/2015 8:14:19 AM	You lost a part of yourself
stumppy Wind Gap, PA 69, joined Jan. 2008	I lost a part of a close relationship with my children.
1/28/2015 8:22:01 AM	You lost a part of yourself
settee_m Dallas, TX 61, joined Feb. 2013	Hello, kk... I think of it as a broken bone. When it knits back together over time, it's stronger than before. Or...here's another one. It's like childbirth, all that pain forgotten, and we do it all over again. I don't think we ever lose the capacity to love again and no, I don't think we lose ourselves. Eventually, we heal what's broken.
1/28/2015 8:22:35 AM	You lost a part of yourself
gamerman17 New York, NY 27, joined Apr. 2010	Quote from klassy_klown: I was watching a movie last night, and a man going through a divorce said with the breakup he lost a part of himself. Do you feel as though you've lost pieces of yourself? Do you think after many losses or even just a few losses you may have lost too much to put yourself back together again? It can be argued that you do and don't. You can say that you lose a part of yourself through compromise and sacrifice of certain characteristics or traits that you are known for doing just for the betterment of the relationship to last. And all of those compromises and sacrifices gets lost in the wind after the breakup, possibly never to be remembered by the other party ever again. It can be argued that you don't lose a part of yourself under the situation that it is a mutual breakup and you still keep parts of your character, personality, sanity, and emotions in tact and that a breakup can be seen as a springboard for a deepened friendship going on mutual terms and wishing each other the best. It depends on the way and angle that individuals can take a breakup.....gamer
1/28/2015 8:25:33 AM	You lost a part of yourself
kawkasian Houston, TX 47, joined Sep. 2014	Again you don't lose, you share . If you are thinking of it in terms of loss you shouldn't be in a relationship to begin with [Edited 1/28/2015 8:25:43 AM ]
1/28/2015 8:25:37 AM	You lost a part of yourself
stl1 Saint Louis, MO 60, joined Jun. 2007	Quote from stumppy: I lost a part of a close relationship with my children. Men are evil and the woman should always have full legal as well as physical custody of the children, right, Stumppy? My divorce judge was the very first name on a billboard put up by a "Men Get the Shaft" type organization rating the most unfair judges to men. I still got better than usual visitation, but she had full custody and let me know it every chance she could. A lot of men (and their children) get damaged through divorce court decisions. My kids are all in their mid-twenties now and we have the best relationship we've ever had. Although there were some very rough years. Best wishes with you and your children, Stumppy.
1/28/2015 8:55:06 AM	You lost a part of yourself
stl1 Saint Louis, MO 60, joined Jun. 2007	KK- Sorry. I didn't mean to kill your thread.
1/28/2015 8:56:11 AM	You lost a part of yourself
kawkasian Houston, TX 47, joined Sep. 2014	It be honest I've always felt worse when I've lost my keys or wallet than a human [Edited 1/28/2015 8:56:21 AM ]
1/28/2015 8:57:34 AM	You lost a part of yourself
sweetsinglelife Waterford, CT 57, joined Jul. 2014	Quote from stl1: Men are evil and the woman should always have full legal as well as physical custody of the children, right, Stumppy? My divorce judge was the very first name on a billboard put up by a "Men Get the Shaft" type organization rating the most unfair judges to men. I still got better than usual visitation, but she had full custody and let me know it every chance she could. A lot of men (and their children) get damaged through divorce court decisions. My kids are all in their mid-twenties now and we have the best relationship we've ever had. Although there were some very rough years. Best wishes with you and your children, Stumppy. I believe this could be true. My ex didn't want our only underage child. He gave me full custody and said I "brain washed" the grown children against him. It was all in his head but he believed it. I told my oldest son to please go talk to him because he's sure I'm keeping you from him. My oldest son said, "Does he really believe you possess those kind of powers?" He made me laugh. Why any "person" thinks someone can turn someone away from them I'll never know. Almost everyone grows to form their own opinions. OT No, I think we lose an idea of what we wanted.
1/28/2015 9:02:11 AM	You lost a part of yourself
stumppy Wind Gap, PA 69, joined Jan. 2008	Ongoing bad memories being reawakened.
1/28/2015 9:05:48 AM	You lost a part of yourself
acdmv Scarsdale, NY 47, joined Aug. 2014	Not at all... If anything, I feel I've learned more about myself. What I like, dislike, what I respond to, like to hear, and most of all: the type of woman I'm a fit for...
1/28/2015 9:16:10 AM	You lost a part of yourself
icecreamsammich Tucker, GA 49, joined May. 2014	Breakups don't have to be flaming train wrecks. I get along with all but one of my ex girlfriends. I like communicating so there were none of those total surprise breakups. We both saw that clear truth we were not really compatible. It was never a cheating thing. I don't feel incapable of a great relationship at all. I look forward to it!
1/28/2015 9:17:21 AM	You lost a part of yourself
stumppy Wind Gap, PA 69, joined Jan. 2008	ac A lot of wisdom there.
1/28/2015 9:21:37 AM	You lost a part of yourself
nothingneeded Johnston, IA 46, joined Sep. 2014	Quote from klassy_klown: I was watching a movie last night, and a man going through a divorce said with the breakup he lost a part of himself. Do you feel as though you've lost pieces of yourself? Do you think after many losses or even just a few losses you may have lost too much to put yourself back together again? I agree with this somewhat. However I'm not sure about loosing self though. I had one marriage.... Over 20 years..... It was not a surprise to me because it was leading up to that for a few years.... Split a couple times....then the real seperation came. I think that if a person is not aware of what's going on in the home..... And relationship they can feel lost after the break. Being strong....is a factor...being aware also, therefor your prepare yourself. When I moved back to my other house with my kids.... We both knew it was over..... We prepared ourselfs and our kids.... It just disn't happen all of a sudden.
1/28/2015 9:24:21 AM	You lost a part of yourself
nothingneeded Johnston, IA 46, joined Sep. 2014	Quote from acdmv: Not at all... If anything, I feel I've learned more about myself. What I like, dislike, what I respond to, like to hear, and most of all: the type of woman I'm a fit for... I agree.... I had a good husband and father to all four of our kids. This is why I don't date.... I'm not looking for someone like him.... But I don't find very many good qualities in men anymore.
1/28/2015 9:26:58 AM	You lost a part of yourself
baldhead1va Richmond, VA 49, joined Jan. 2014	I lost a ton of money; however, the GOOD NEWS is I also lost 125 lbs!
1/28/2015 9:28:07 AM	You lost a part of yourself
pdforone Litchfield, OH 63, joined Jul. 2010	I lost a lot of sperm on the way to happy endings, others weren't as happy! I don't want them back though! If you decide you aren't happy, or insist on making things difficult for me and I have to hit the eject button? I never view it as a loss, it is a personal gain.
1/28/2015 9:32:29 AM	You lost a part of yourself
lookin4him2012 Boone, NC 46, joined Jan. 2012	Quote from klassy_klown: I was watching a movie last night, and a man going through a divorce said with the breakup he lost a part of himself. Do you feel as though you've lost pieces of yourself? Do you think after many losses or even just a few losses you may have lost too much to put yourself back together again? Good question! I think we definitely lose a little part of ourselves with each person we give OF ourselves to in a relationship, no doubt. It's how we deal with it after we break up that determines how we will deal with it and how we will be in the future.
1/28/2015 9:35:11 AM	You lost a part of yourself
lookin4him2012 Boone, NC 46, joined Jan. 2012	Quote from kawkasian: It be honest I've always felt worse when I've lost my keys or wallet than a human I dated a guy a few years ago that was always depressed and sad and complained that everyone around him made HIS life what it was. He wasn't responsible for his bad life of course. And he threatened to kill himself like every other week, especially if I had to cancel a date or couldn't see him for some reason. Funny thing is, I never cared. I hung the phone up on him many times during his little moments. He'd get pissed that I didn't chase after him and try to stop him and the wake up the next day like he didn't even remember it happening. Nut job.
1/28/2015 9:42:20 AM	You lost a part of yourself
missgioia Natick, MA 51, joined May. 2014	Quote from kawkasian: But that's a loss of lifestyle, not a lost part of yourself... Well, it's not as if I underwent a surgical removal of my "Wifeness" Maybe it's just semantics, but I feel that losing a role you consider one of the biggest parts of your identity goes deeper than lifestyle
1/28/2015 9:44:26 AM	You lost a part of yourself
missgioia Natick, MA 51, joined May. 2014	Quote from stl1: G- How much snow did you get? About 3 feet
1/28/2015 9:45:04 AM	You lost a part of yourself
dasnixter Jessieville, AR 54, joined Jul. 2010	You've lost that lovin' feelin' Whoa, that lovin' feelin' You've lost that lovin' feelin' Now it's gone...gone...gone...woah
1/28/2015 9:46:55 AM	You lost a part of yourself
whalemstrsback Corning, CA 57, joined Oct. 2014	"...Do you think after many losses you may have lost too much to put yourself back together again?..." yep
1/28/2015 9:46:59 AM	You lost a part of yourself
widow59 Twinsburg, OH 65, joined Mar. 2008	I lost part of myself the day my husband passed away!
1/28/2015 9:49:42 AM	You lost a part of yourself
eyesofmedusa San Antonio, TX 50, joined Jun. 2012	Yes.... Some give too much.
1/28/2015 9:54:57 AM	You lost a part of yourself
rightguyforu72 Naperville, IL 32, joined Nov. 2014	this question is really gay and weak....I'm much too strong of a man to answer this pathetic weak question.... this question is for the b*tches only... [Edited 1/28/2015 9:55:11 AM ]
1/28/2015 9:58:48 AM	You lost a part of yourself
eyesofmedusa San Antonio, TX 50, joined Jun. 2012	Quote from rightguyforu72: this question is really gay and weak....I'm much too strong of a man to answer this pathetic weak question.... this question is for the b*tches only... Strong speak with actions....not words... You just failed....
1/28/2015 10:04:20 AM	You lost a part of yourself
stanleyzee Dayton, OH 30, joined Dec. 2012 online now!	Next!!!
1/28/2015 10:04:32 AM	You lost a part of yourself
widow59 Twinsburg, OH 65, joined Mar. 2008	I lost a part of myself the day my best friend and husband passed away!
1/28/2015 10:05:26 AM	You lost a part of yourself
pdforone Litchfield, OH 63, joined Jul. 2010	Quote from widow59: I lost part of myself the day my husband passed away! Sorry for your loss, it has to be a completely different issue than most of us deal with.
1/28/2015 10:10:27 AM	You lost a part of yourself
txrose64 Pearland, TX 50, joined Jan. 2013	Quote from eyesofmedusa: Yes.... Some give too much. absolutely. I learned to save some for me if you get my drift. And apparently that's healthy and good..imagine that. I've looked in the mirror and didn't recognize me..but left some of "me" behind, not so much, found "me" again after leaving him...absolutely. Oh yeah and I gained wisdom in trade for youth.
1/28/2015 10:28:11 AM	You lost a part of yourself
widow59 Twinsburg, OH 65, joined Mar. 2008	Quote from pdforone: Sorry for your loss, it has to be a completely different issue than most of us deal with. Thank you it is!
1/28/2015 10:31:56 AM	You lost a part of yourself
eyesofmedusa San Antonio, TX 50, joined Jun. 2012	Widow...I hv done.both...it is a wicked path I wldnt wish on anyone... I am.sorry darlin Rose...a buddy told.me the same thing.... Prob now is ...fear. Pure unadulterated...fear. And..I hv come quite accustomed to drama free...no one pulling on.me...etc.
1/28/2015 10:58:26 AM	You lost a part of yourself
widow59 Twinsburg, OH 65, joined Mar. 2008	Quote from eyesofmedusa: Widow...I hv done.both...it is a wicked path I wldnt wish on anyone... I am.sorry darlin Rose...a buddy told.me the same thing.... Prob now is ...fear. Pure unadulterated...fear. And..I hv come quite accustomed to drama free...no one pulling on.me...etc. Thanks for ur words of wisdom I appreciate it so much!
1/28/2015 11:04:13 AM	You lost a part of yourself
eyesofmedusa San Antonio, TX 50, joined Jun. 2012	Quote from widow59: Thanks for ur words of wisdom I appreciate it so much! Widow...take ur time...think about what u really want.... What is acceptable...what isn't. Do.you want a mate...or a companion.... I looked ur pics...you seem to hv a full life...so what is it that you need.or want frm a relationship? Once you are clear on that ? Go get it luv....it isn't coming to you...
1/28/2015 11:12:33 AM	You lost a part of yourself
rocky_dennis Delaware City, DE 34, joined Nov. 2013	I rather have lost and keep losing, than losing without attempting. I tend to look at what I have gained, than what I have lost. I wouldnt have known better or worse, without those that I have lost. [Edited 1/28/2015 11:13:09 AM ]
1/28/2015 11:20:44 AM	You lost a part of yourself
klassy_klown Bakersfield, CA 46, joined Apr. 2010	Quote from settee_m: Hello, kk... I think of it as a broken bone. When it knits back together over time, it's stronger than before. Or...here's another one. It's like childbirth, all that pain forgotten, and we do it all over again. I don't think we ever lose the capacity to love again and no, I don't think we lose ourselves. Eventually, we heal what's broken. I guess you and kawkasian are kind of saying we gain something from those who come into our lives even if they don't stay.

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