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2/11/2015 10:14:45 PM |
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NerdsR2Cute
Victorville, CA
45, joined Oct. 2014
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Just in case some of you are not aware of music from the 1980's This song is by Billy Joel on the album of the same name. It is written as a narration of a man who says he is sorry that a woman has been mistreated, but do not take it out on him since he did not hurt her because he is "An Innocent Man". I would say go to You Tube and really listen to the song and the words they really sum it up well to describe the frustration a lot of men on here and in general feel cause they are paying the price of some a**hole the woman dated or divorced from. I get it. When I heard that song, I wondered how many women did understand or "Get it". It is no easier/harder for either gender, we all have our vulnerabilities within us. I see it as wisdom, only if you learned from the situation to make you a better person and NOT BITTER because you feel like you have been wronged somehow. I have been with my boyfriend for pretty close to 3 years and I have never made him have to prove to me that he is different. I just decided to treat every relationship as a blank slate. Nobody has to prove to me that they are different. Now do not think I had this epiphany on my own. I had help for a couple of years from a therapist to get me to a better understanding.
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2/12/2015 5:13:01 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
52, joined Jul. 2013
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I listen to the song, i can definitely say i truly enjoyed it op cause i know many have been mistreated and take it out on someone else, who didn't do anything
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2/12/2015 10:59:49 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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2/13/2015 8:17:52 AM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
64, joined Aug. 2008
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I listen to the song, i can definitely say i truly enjoyed it op cause i know many have been mistreated and take it out on someone else, who didn't do anything
Somebody should, also, compose "Innocent woman".
Yes, I heard the song, OP. A great one.
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2/13/2015 5:59:20 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
52, joined Jul. 2013
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Yes they should duchess
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2/14/2015 11:12:15 AM |
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dreamz1961
Punta Gorda, FL
56, joined Jul. 2013
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awesome song! When I started dating after I divorced several years ago the man I was seeing said I should listen to this song...it really hit home.
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2/14/2015 3:44:41 PM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
64, joined Aug. 2008
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"An Innocent Man"
Some people stay far away from the door
If there's a chance of it opening up
They hear a voice in the hall outside
And hope that it just passes by
Some people live with the fear of a touch
And the anger of having been a fool
They will not listen to anyone
So nobody tells them a lie
I know you're only protecting yourself
I know you're thinking of somebody else
Someone who hurt you
But I'm not above
Making up for the love
You've been denying you could ever feel
I'm not above doing anything
To restore your faith if I can
Some people see through the eyes of the old
Before they ever get a look at the young
I'm only willing to hear you cry
Because I am an innocent man
Oh yes I am
Some people say they will never believe
Another promise they hear in the dark
Because they only remember too well
They heard somebody tell them before
Some people sleep all alone every night
Instead of taking a lover to bed
Some people find that's it's easier to hate
Than to wait anymore
I know you don't want to hear what I say
I know you're gonna keep turning away
But I've been there and if I can survive
I can keep you alive
I'm not above going through it again
I'm not above being cool for a while
If you're cruel to me I'll understand
Some people run from a possible fight
Some people figure they can never win
And although this is a fight I can lose
The accused is an innocent man
Oh yes I am
An innocent man
You know you only hurt yourself out of spite
I guess you'd rather be a martyr tonight
That's your decision
But I'm not below
Anybody I know
If there's a chance of resurrecting a love
I'm not above going back to the start
To find out where the heartache began
Some people hope for a miracle cure
Some people just accept the world as it is
But I'm not willing to lay down and die
Because I am an innocent man
I am an innocent man
Oh yes I am
An innocent man
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2/25/2015 5:05:45 PM |
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NerdsR2Cute
Victorville, CA
45, joined Oct. 2014
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"An Innocent Man"
Some people stay far away from the door
If there's a chance of it opening up
They hear a voice in the hall outside
And hope that it just passes by
Some people live with the fear of a touch
And the anger of having been a fool
They will not listen to anyone
So nobody tells them a lie
I know you're only protecting yourself
I know you're thinking of somebody else
Someone who hurt you
But I'm not above
Making up for the love
You've been denying you could ever feel
I'm not above doing anything
To restore your faith if I can
Some people see through the eyes of the old
Before they ever get a look at the young
I'm only willing to hear you cry
Because I am an innocent man
Oh yes I am
Some people say they will never believe
Another promise they hear in the dark
Because they only remember too well
They heard somebody tell them before
Some people sleep all alone every night
Instead of taking a lover to bed
Some people find that's it's easier to hate
Than to wait anymore
I know you don't want to hear what I say
I know you're gonna keep turning away
But I've been there and if I can survive
I can keep you alive
I'm not above going through it again
I'm not above being cool for a while
If you're cruel to me I'll understand
Some people run from a possible fight
Some people figure they can never win
And although this is a fight I can lose
The accused is an innocent man
Oh yes I am
An innocent man
You know you only hurt yourself out of spite
I guess you'd rather be a martyr tonight
That's your decision
But I'm not below
Anybody I know
If there's a chance of resurrecting a love
I'm not above going back to the start
To find out where the heartache began
Some people hope for a miracle cure
Some people just accept the world as it is
But I'm not willing to lay down and die
Because I am an innocent man
I am an innocent man
Oh yes I am
An innocent man
THANK YOU!!! For the words. I hope a lot of women read them. Then think about it.
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2/25/2015 8:57:07 PM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
64, joined Aug. 2008
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THANK YOU!!! For the words. I hope a lot of women read them. Then think about it.
Bur as I said...somebody should compose "An Innocent woman". See, take a ride to Man Land and read all those posts where men display their bitterness against women; some are so horrible as to make other male posters to feel annoyed. In fact, a male poster started a thread on the subject.
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2/26/2015 6:10:01 AM |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
61, joined Apr. 2006
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When reading this song, it should make all woman and men aware you have to heal first,and leave it in the past.
There are some wonderful people to meet, that may be on the same page for looking for love again.
Love is not rushed or demanded,takes a wise person to listen,and a great person to let things mature as seen fit by both parties.
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3/1/2015 5:26:03 PM |
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NerdsR2Cute
Victorville, CA
45, joined Oct. 2014
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I feel the same about working on yourself and making sure you take accountability for your part of the failing relationship, learn from it and know to not repeat the same mistake again. If you drive constantly looking in your rear view mirror you WILL crash and that is not good. You need to look forward and know you are ready for whatever they have to throw at you. That is why when I get into a new relationship, I first give myself time to reflect and heal then I will give the next person a "blank slate", he will not be paying for the wrongs of the person before that is never fair to anybody. When I heard that song "Innocent Man", that is when it really hit me and got me to thinking a lot. Too bad there are still those who choose not to learn from their mistakes and move on from there, to me that spells insanity. Since I been with my BF these past almost 3 years (it will be 3 years on April 4th), I never made him suffer for what my ex-husband did, and I did what I had to be a sane partner for him. I feel blessed for meeting him when I did. He came at a time I was most ready to be with somebody. I was single for over 12 years, giving up some of my independence was tough at first. Now we are very much
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3/3/2015 4:50:36 AM |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
61, joined Apr. 2006
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Op so nice to hear you found happiness with a clear slate.Our years single does pay off,it gave you more time to understand yourself more.
I have always said it takes 2 to break up,but both are the blame for unraveling.Usually it's a chain reaction.
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3/7/2015 6:39:53 PM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
64, joined Aug. 2008
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A little bit of humor...
Ladies and Gentle man the man song!
(He's the man, He's the man)
(Crew Laughs)
I don't take no crap from anyone else but you,
I wear the pants around here when im finished with your laundry,
Cause I'm a guy you don't wanna fight,
When I say jump you say, "Yeah Right!"
Im the man of this house until you get home
(He's the man, He's the man)
What I say goes around here right out the window,
And I don't want to hear alot of whining so I'll shut up,
The sooner you learn whos boss around here
The sooner you can give me my orders dear,
Cause I'm head huncho around here but its all in my heeeeaaaadddd!!
(He's the man, He's the man)
And I can have sex any time that you want,
Cause I'm a man who has needs but they're not that important,
And don't expect any flowers from me cause if im not mistaken you perfer jewlery,
I'm the king of my castle when your not around,
(He's the man, He's the man)
And I'll drink and watch sports whenever I want to get in trouble,
And I'll come home when I'm good and ready, to sleep on the couch,
Cause a MAN's gotta do what a MAN's gotta do,
and I'm gonna do what you tell me to,
Because I'm top dog around here but I've been nutered!!
(He's the man, He's the man)
You da man!
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