Dealing with perverts

2/19/2015 4:07:10 AM	Dealing with perverts
happylauren Crown Point, IN 53, joined May. 2013 online now!	I'm finding that the average guy on a dating site is not looking for a relationship. The average guy is looking for sex. I have met guys that I thought were really nice only to find out really quickly that they were looking for sex. One date and they think they have the right to text you disgusting sex stuff. I am not sure but I am thinking men want a relationship to start with sex, and a woman wants to start as friends and have it lead to a relationship and then to intimacy. The older guys are worse than the younger guys. I am guessing that they have something to prove to themselves. Tell me guys does the immediate sex approach work for you? Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
2/19/2015 4:08:43 AM	Dealing with perverts
mattywhoa Casa Grande, AZ 29, joined Dec. 2013	Have you ever been in a relationship without sex? Boooorrring!!
2/19/2015 4:13:09 AM	Dealing with perverts
bumblebee7 Fort Payne, AL 59, joined Apr. 2011 online now!	Well, I always thought I was above average...but for the record most women I dated by no longer than the second date were in their own way initiating it on their own. So......
2/19/2015 4:13:10 AM	Dealing with perverts
ltlwing Williamsburg, OH 51, joined Oct. 2013	Quote from mattywhoa: Have you ever been in a relationship without sex? Boooorrring!! Have you put up with what she is saying?...I have....boring!
2/19/2015 4:13:39 AM	Dealing with perverts
d__u__b Athens, GA 50, joined Jul. 2012	i think it's just adorable that you equate sex with being perverted. it's such a good thing that you have your painted and outfit matched animals to keep you so firmly grounded.
2/19/2015 4:13:47 AM	Dealing with perverts
naturebiy Mc Kenzie, TN 39, joined Jul. 2011	Hey Lauren Sorry that you are going through this..hold your head up and that someone special will stumble into you're life. As far as approach and immediate sex.. I never had that approach. I just try to be nice and polite and see where it goes. I have attracted some lonely people in the past that needed positive attention and good loving..which in return turned into fast sexual escapades. But it was unintentional on my part
2/19/2015 4:14:02 AM	Dealing with perverts
spaceface79 Des Moines, IA 35, joined Mar. 2014 online now!	Quote from mattywhoa: Have you ever been in a relationship without sex? Boooorrring!! Actually, the tension can be quite erotic. Op, just ignore these fools.
2/19/2015 4:14:27 AM	Dealing with perverts
dan9787_3 Laval, QC 51, joined Jul. 2014	I don't do what you're complaining about at all, and I know I'm not the only older guy like that. You must not be picking well?
2/19/2015 4:17:35 AM	Dealing with perverts
bumblebee7 Fort Payne, AL 59, joined Apr. 2011 online now!	Lauren....the older guys are worse than the younger guys... how young a guys have you been dating?? Sorry..just kidding. [Edited 2/19/2015 4:20:05 AM ]
2/19/2015 4:18:14 AM	Dealing with perverts
happylauren Crown Point, IN 53, joined May. 2013 online now!	I am not a prude. The guys pushing for sex never even asked my last name. How safe is it to have sex with a stranger ? There is a time and place for sex and it is not on the first or second date. Come on you really should get to know a person. How about STD's ? I like to make sure they aren't suffering from mental illness too. In life it is better to be safe than sorry.
2/19/2015 4:19:51 AM	Dealing with perverts
happylauren Crown Point, IN 53, joined May. 2013 online now!	Quote from mattywhoa: Have you ever been in a relationship without sex? Boooorrring!! Do you think you can have a relationship on the first date with a stranger ?
2/19/2015 4:20:39 AM	Dealing with perverts
Champaree Australian Capital Australia 84, joined Jan. 2015	Are you saying all men are perverts? Cause every man wants sex and ultimately I want sex also
2/19/2015 4:21:50 AM	Dealing with perverts
bumblebee7 Fort Payne, AL 59, joined Apr. 2011 online now!	Hey I agree, I'd rather get to know them better too....besides without sexual compatibility, its not going to be good anyway. But, some of these women just try to push things to fast. Sigh!!! [Edited 2/19/2015 4:22:01 AM ]
2/19/2015 4:22:03 AM	Dealing with perverts
dan9787_3 Laval, QC 51, joined Jul. 2014	Agree with all that. I just wonder why you don't find a decent one more easily? @lauren [Edited 2/19/2015 4:22:40 AM ]
2/19/2015 4:23:43 AM	Dealing with perverts
happylauren Crown Point, IN 53, joined May. 2013 online now!	Quote from bumblebee7: Lauren....the older guys are worse than the younger guys... how young a guys have you been dating?? Sorry..just kidding. The guys have been from 50-62. The older ones are more pushy and disgusting than the younger ones. And no I am not calling men who want sex perverts. I am saying there is something wrong with a complete stranger wanting sex on the first date.
2/19/2015 4:24:30 AM	Dealing with perverts
bumblebee7 Fort Payne, AL 59, joined Apr. 2011 online now!	Quote from Champaree: Are you saying all men are perverts? Cause every man wants sex and ultimately I want sex also Well you said ultimately. That doesn't mean right away. She's talking about too soon...and then with that, they may be gone and weren't interested in anything else. I'd say that fits the average person on this site. I guess I wouldn't that being a perv....more like just out for quick sex. [Edited 2/19/2015 4:25:16 AM ]
2/19/2015 4:25:35 AM	Dealing with perverts
Champaree Australian Capital Australia 84, joined Jan. 2015	True Bee
2/19/2015 4:28:14 AM	Dealing with perverts
bumblebee7 Fort Payne, AL 59, joined Apr. 2011 online now!	The thing is in enough of these question....women don't get to see the side we men do. I wasn't joking or bragging in my comment up there. Of course I tend to chat and talk on the phone a while before I meet could have something to do with it. Either way, it is what it is.
2/19/2015 4:29:16 AM	Dealing with perverts
happylauren Crown Point, IN 53, joined May. 2013 online now!	Quote from dan9787_3: Agree with all that. I just wonder why you don't find a decent one more easily? @lauren One guy 58 was an educated, intelligent, Dutch farmer that went to church every Sunday. Hw had 4 kids and grandchildren. He was a hard working, self made man. I admired him and thought he would be someone I would be interested in getting to know. The guy tells me ,"I bet you are delicious." That would be fine in a relationship. A comet like that is not so cool long from a complete stranger. Do guys ever think that they are making women uncomfortable being pushy ?
2/19/2015 4:32:50 AM	Dealing with perverts
txrose64 Pearland, TX 51, joined Jan. 2013	I hear you gal, sometimes when I was dating, I'd just get so disgusted, I'd take a lil break. Recoup, regroup..and figure out how not to get freaking pawed at by a perve octopus. I asked Sweetie about this when you and I talked about it earlier...he said ideally a man picks up on the green light by the woman but there's some poor bastards out there that just aren't good at reading women, or don't care (the creeps/pervs).. but some feel pressure if they don't "go there" us wimmens will think there's something wrong with them, or that they're not attracted..a "damned if you do and damned if you don't" scenario when women have gotten angry because he didn't make any advances Then factor in the inept, there's are just basic bumbling adolescents and haven't upped their game since High School. (my ex hubby was that way, foreplay was a honk at the boob and make a b line for the next tweak down south and let's f*&^&, the couples therapist had to give him tapes, yeah great give a sex/porn addict "how to" sex videos..great I'll never see him..good!) yuck! Hang in there and stay strong gal!!
2/19/2015 4:33:27 AM	Dealing with perverts
Champaree Australian Capital Australia 84, joined Jan. 2015	I want to get to know what kind of person a man is before we get to the nitty grittiest, not sure if that is meant by being friends first? I cal it getting to know you/them.............. but then again I had a one night stand with a guy that lasted till the day the Angels toook him ti live with them. I even married him. So I don't know [Edited 2/19/2015 4:36:17 AM ]
2/19/2015 4:33:45 AM	Dealing with perverts
bumblebee7 Fort Payne, AL 59, joined Apr. 2011 online now!	Lauren, I don't know what to say. I've never been the pushy type, things just fell into place. But the image of women with porn and everything else, and how some view what a dating site might be under the table. Could have something to do with this. I don't know.
2/19/2015 4:38:04 AM	Dealing with perverts
happylauren Crown Point, IN 53, joined May. 2013 online now!	Quote from Champaree: I want to get to know what kind of person a man is before we get to the nitty grittiest, not sure if that is meant by being friends first? I cal it getting to know you/them.............. but then again I had a one night stand with a guy that lasted till the day the Angels toook him ti live with them. I even married him. So I don't know I am so sorry for your loss. You have your head on straight. I am convinced that somethings are just meant to be. It was meant for you to find love at first sight.
2/19/2015 4:40:31 AM	Dealing with perverts
naturebiy Mc Kenzie, TN 39, joined Jul. 2011	I have honestly been on dates with some perverted women... But I have to honestly say that I was in that mind frame at that time in my life... I was a devil And of course, that was what I was attracting... little devils. Now that I am a bit older..the mind frame I am in now.. I do not attract much lol
2/19/2015 4:40:41 AM	Dealing with perverts
d__u__b Athens, GA 50, joined Jul. 2012	Quote from happylauren: One guy 58 was an educated, intelligent, Dutch farmer that went to church every Sunday. Hw had 4 kids and grandchildren. He was a hard working, self made man. I admired him and thought he would be someone I would be interested in getting to know. The guy tells me ,"I bet you are delicious." That would be fine in a relationship. A comet like that is not so cool long from a complete stranger. Do guys ever think that they are making women uncomfortable being pushy ? did it ever occur to you that an intelligent man of 58 simply doesn't feel like wasting time getting involved in a relationship only to discover that his intended has a different attitude towards a relationship than does he? maybe he felt has already spent too much time in his life missing out on an aspect of relationships that he finds important, and doesn't care to let any more valuable time slip away. maybe his comment was intended to be a reasonably polite way of broaching the subject between mature adults. to characterize that particular incident as perverted is quite a stretch, in my humble opinion.
2/19/2015 4:42:34 AM	Dealing with perverts
dan9787_3 Laval, QC 51, joined Jul. 2014	Quote from happylauren: One guy 58 was an educated, intelligent, Dutch farmer that went to church every Sunday. Hw had 4 kids and grandchildren. He was a hard working, self made man. I admired him and thought he would be someone I would be interested in getting to know. The guy tells me ,"I bet you are delicious." That would be fine in a relationship. A comet like that is not so cool long from a complete stranger. Do guys ever think that they are making women uncomfortable being pushy ? Ok. I agree with how you feel about this. Either he's lacking boundaries, or hadn't had any in a long time, or is just a pig... There must be better ones unless you live in a poorly populated area...making it more difficult. Have you dated many? Or got info on many?
2/19/2015 4:42:43 AM	Dealing with perverts
txrose64 Pearland, TX 51, joined Jan. 2013	depends on what witty sexy banter is going on if that "I'll bet you are delicious" is a fun thing or a ewwwwww "too soon" or "not ever" type deal
2/19/2015 4:44:44 AM	Dealing with perverts
a4umposter San Antonio, TX 47, joined Dec. 2014	Quote from mattywhoa: Have you ever been in a relationship without sex? Boooorrring!! She's not talking about a relationship without sex.
2/19/2015 4:46:14 AM	Dealing with perverts
dan9787_3 Laval, QC 51, joined Jul. 2014	Quote from txrose64: depends on what witty sexy banter is going on if that "I'll bet you are delicious" is a fun thing or a ewwwwww "too soon" or "not ever" type deal
2/19/2015 4:50:32 AM	Dealing with perverts
bumblebee7 Fort Payne, AL 59, joined Apr. 2011 online now!	Champ has a point. I read about all women talk about this like you have here op. But, if I think back thru my life at every experience and those of who I saw, and heard about. and keeping in mind women think about and like sex as much as men. I think the main thing holding a woman back who's with a guy she is attracted to, and connects with and having fun with on the first or second date is some beliefs and fear of that's all he'll want. But, I think back to the days before I was married, the ones who would have sex with a guy like the above paragraph sooner than most...just came to terms with themselves that its okay, because they need to have a relation to have sex, but on the same token they won't do just anyone...Some called that being a whre back then....but really a whre does anyone....and these days that's called being liberated in a sense. I understand the op's point was pushing it or coming off pervy like...which isn't the scenario above...but I just wanted to throw that in. But here's the thing...lets say a couple meets and he isn't that way...and they get along well over the course of 3 or 4 dates....but obviously its really too soon for real feelings or a relation. So why is it if they have sex at that point, soon afterwards, she is either calling it or acting like its a relation now? and then if he discovers he doesn't have those kinda feelings or see's things in her now, that isn't what he wants in a woman in a relation and decides to move on. Automatically he is labeled a player. What I'm saying here is...there can be too sides to every situation or more....where either gender wasn't being right. [Edited 2/19/2015 4:51:46 AM ]
2/19/2015 4:55:15 AM	Dealing with perverts
happylauren Crown Point, IN 53, joined May. 2013 online now!	I feel I have a lot to offer. I care about people. I am giving, loving, and compassionate.I am loyal and true blue. I will fight for the under dog till the day I die. I am not going to allow complete stranger to have sex with me. I am normal with intimacy in a relationship. I guess I should give my X a blue ribbon for not being pushy. Maybe times are changing ? I don't think I am a prude for not wanting sex with a complete stranger. I don't even know any of their last names. Let's talk about the disease's that are out there. How about safety?. A young woman in my area had sex with a guy she met on the internet. She is dead now and was victim number 7 for this guy. It turns out he was a serial killer. The man is in our county jail and mile away from where I live.
2/19/2015 4:58:46 AM	Dealing with perverts
mrxriley Oakland, CA 24, joined Sep. 2014	Safety comes first
2/19/2015 5:02:11 AM	Dealing with perverts
1sirens Champaign, IL 30, joined Aug. 2014	Quote from happylauren: The guys have been from 50-62. The older ones are more pushy and disgusting than the younger ones. And no I am not calling men who want sex perverts. I am saying there is something wrong with a complete stranger wanting sex on the first date.
2/19/2015 5:04:19 AM	Dealing with perverts
txrose64 Pearland, TX 51, joined Jan. 2013	you hear about them more and more on the news Lauren, there was one this last weekend, "online date she had over to her house" yeah those "hang out" first dates can end up with you dead.
2/19/2015 5:05:19 AM	Dealing with perverts
dan9787_3 Laval, QC 51, joined Jul. 2014	You do well to be safe. The 58 year old guy, by the way, might have an odd sense of humor, made an awkward joke...he could also be a bit too sexual. As in would he be faithful? Perhaps not limit yourself to your area (unless you already do that)?
2/19/2015 5:05:27 AM	Dealing with perverts
bumblebee7 Fort Payne, AL 59, joined Apr. 2011 online now!	Yikes....that is scary Lauren. That's the problem with the system....people like that need the rope, not jail time...do that and the numbers decline drastically thru fear. I agree with your and procedures, I just wanted to post the other sides of things...not advocating you change anything. Because there are men on any dating site who's not like that. and I stand by chatting and talking on the phone a couple of weeks before a meet for someone seeking a relation. Most players or guys out for quick sex won't hang that long without meeting...and in that time, if they do press meeting....that's a clue, and they might say things that give you certain indications you won't get from just a few days talking. Or sometimes you find out they have issue chatting that long. [Edited 2/19/2015 5:06:08 AM ]
2/19/2015 5:08:03 AM	Dealing with perverts
d__u__b Athens, GA 50, joined Jul. 2012	Quote from happylauren: I feel I have a lot to offer. I care about people. I am giving, loving, and compassionate.I am loyal and true blue. I will fight for the under dog till the day I die. I am not going to allow complete stranger to have sex with me. I am normal with intimacy in a relationship. I guess I should give my X a blue ribbon for not being pushy. Maybe times are changing ? I don't think I am a prude for not wanting sex with a complete stranger. I don't even know any of their last names. Let's talk about the disease's that are out there. How about safety?. A young woman in my area had sex with a guy she met on the internet. She is dead now and was victim number 7 for this guy. It turns out he was a serial killer. The man is in our county jail and mile away from where I live. not wanting sex with a "stranger" (as you have defined stranger) is perfectly within your rights, and perfectly respectable in peoples eyes. it's also not the issue as defined in your OP. you suggested that simply being desirous of sex on a different timeline than you have for yourself in and of itself makes them a pervert. you have now ambled around to disease, and the rather unusual phenomenon of serial killing, to validate your timeline when no such validation is needed other than your own comfort zone. i don't find that you are making a strong case for your original assertion. [Edited 2/19/2015 5:09:15 AM ]
2/19/2015 5:15:56 AM	Dealing with perverts
dan9787_3 Laval, QC 51, joined Jul. 2014	Quote from d__u__b: you suggested that simply being desirous of sex on a different timeline than you have for yourself in and of itself makes them a pervert. That's not what she's trying to say. More that they seem to want sex more than a relationship. It's probably true, too.
2/19/2015 5:19:35 AM	Dealing with perverts
happylauren Crown Point, IN 53, joined May. 2013 online now!	I have a guy buddy who thinks that there are a lot of sex addicts trying to use dating sites as sex sites. He says they don't want to pay for a membership on a sex site. He also said they are too cheap to go to a prostitute. So a sex addict looks on a dating site and thinks of each woman as a sex partner only. He feels entitled to approach women and proposition them as a sex business deal.
2/19/2015 5:19:49 AM	Dealing with perverts
beautifulfire08 Antioch, TN 56, joined Aug. 2013	Lauren, you don't have to justify your actions to these numbnuts. So many men think they're entitled. Nowadays, if a man buys one drink at a bar, he thinks he owns you. If a woman decides she wants to have a one night stand, I wouldn't judge her for that, except she should know the risks involved. But if she does, it's HER choice. It isn't the fact that men want instant sex. We all know we are so irresistible to men and that many of them are totally incapable of controlling their urges and just blurt out the most asinine comments at the most inappropriate times. It's all about timing and approach. Guys, if all youre looking for is a cumdumpster, go downtown and buy yourself a whre, or go see a skank stripper and Jack off until your dck falls off. But do not feign interest in a woman if all you're looking for is sex. It's immature as hell. [Edited 2/19/2015 5:20:57 AM ]
2/19/2015 5:23:31 AM	Dealing with perverts
d__u__b Athens, GA 50, joined Jul. 2012	not being an expert at determining what others might be trying to say, i often respond to what they actually say. if they then want to try to communicate their thought more succinctly, they have the opportunity to do so. trying to validate poorly constructed thoughts with obtuse arguments does not seem to make for a winning strategy. [Edited 2/19/2015 5:25:02 AM ]
2/19/2015 5:27:12 AM	Dealing with perverts
mrxriley Oakland, CA 24, joined Sep. 2014	Quote from beautifulfire08: Lauren, you don't have to justify your actions to these numbnuts. So many men think they're entitled. Nowadays, if a man buys one drink at a bar, he thinks he owns you. If a woman decides she wants to have a one night stand, I wouldn't judge her for that, except she should know the risks involved. But if she does, it's HER choice. It isn't the fact that men want instant sex. We all know we are so irresistible to men and that many of them are totally incapable of controlling their urges and just blurt out the most asinine comments at the most inappropriate times. It's all about timing and approach. Guys, if all youre looking for is a cumdumpster, go downtown and buy yourself a whre, or go see a skank stripper and Jack off until your dck falls off. But do not feign interest in a woman if all you're looking for is sex. It's immature as hell. I love when someone uses the word "Asinine" in a sentence. Just makes me grin every time.
2/19/2015 5:31:15 AM	Dealing with perverts
viper1e Jeannette, PA 56, joined Dec. 2013	Quote from happylauren: I'm finding that the average guy on a dating site is not looking for a relationship. The average guy is looking for sex. I have met guys that I thought were really nice only to find out really quickly that they were looking for sex. One date and they think they have the right to text you disgusting sex stuff. I am not sure but I am thinking men want a relationship to start with sex, and a woman wants to start as friends and have it lead to a relationship and then to intimacy. The older guys are worse than the younger guys. I am guessing that they have something to prove to themselves. Tell me guys does the immediate sex approach work for you? Works on a lot of women.. I don't date nuns. People that want a celibate lifestyle should probably join ChristianMingle, a cloister, or the priesthood.
2/19/2015 5:31:54 AM	Dealing with perverts
happylauren Crown Point, IN 53, joined May. 2013 online now!	Quote from beautifulfire08: Lauren, you don't have to justify your actions to these numbnuts. So many men think they're entitled. Nowadays, if a man buys one drink at a bar, he thinks he owns you. If a woman decides she wants to have a one night stand, I wouldn't judge her for that, except she should know the risks involved. But if she does, it's HER choice. It isn't the fact that men want instant sex. We all know we are so irresistible to men and that many of them are totally incapable of controlling their urges and just blurt out the most asinine comments at the most inappropriate times. It's all about timing and approach. Guys, if all youre looking for is a cumdumpster, go downtown and buy yourself a whre, or go see a skank stripper and Jack off until your dck falls off. But do not feign interest in a woman if all you're looking for is sex. It's immature as hell. Thank you, I think you said what I am thinking and I love it. You are awesome !
2/19/2015 5:33:51 AM	Dealing with perverts
bumblebee7 Fort Payne, AL 59, joined Apr. 2011 online now!	Quote from happylauren: I have a guy buddy who thinks that there are a lot of sex addicts trying to use dating sites as sex sites. He says they don't want to pay for a membership on a sex site. He also said they are too cheap to go to a prostitute. So a sex addict looks on a dating site and thinks of each woman as a sex partner only. He feels entitled to approach women and proposition them as a sex business deal. I think that could be true with a few. but I think the ones who come on right away are just playing the odds game...one out of 35 will say yes. and some actually assume there's enough women on dating sites that will quickly jump in the sack with nearly anyone. That's why you get those lame wanna F**k threads over in sex and dating....then after some flaming from the responders...if they didn't get butt hurt...many realize this isn't how it is here and that's not going to work...some even say that in the thread...after they hear from the crowd. [Edited 2/19/2015 5:34:05 AM ]
2/19/2015 5:33:51 AM	Dealing with perverts
wench_doctor789 Atlanta, GA 38, joined Nov. 2014	What a perv What's his number?
2/19/2015 5:34:12 AM	Dealing with perverts
txrose64 Pearland, TX 51, joined Jan. 2013	she's right, hell they don't even pay for your drink and feel entitled..I leave those alone. They can have each other for all I care. remember you set the tone! and you have...if they start pawing I'd leave, every first (and sometimes second date) my car's in the parking lot..bye!!
2/19/2015 5:38:30 AM	Dealing with perverts
beautifulfire08 Antioch, TN 56, joined Aug. 2013	Quote from happylauren: Thank you, I think you said what I am thinking and I love it. You are awesome ! Thanks, but you said it very well yourself. You're awesome too, thank you!
2/19/2015 5:41:38 AM	Dealing with perverts
beautifulfire08 Antioch, TN 56, joined Aug. 2013	Quote from viper1e: Works on a lot of women.. I don't date nuns. People that want a celibate lifestyle should probably join ChristianMingle, a cloister, or the priesthood. You think that because a woman doesn't want to f**k a complete stranger that makes her a nun? And that it makes her celibate? What a moron.
2/19/2015 5:41:50 AM	Dealing with perverts
viper1e Jeannette, PA 56, joined Dec. 2013	Quote from happylauren: I am not a prude. The guys pushing for sex never even asked my last name. How safe is it to have sex with a stranger ? There is a time and place for sex and it is not on the first or second date. Come on you really should get to know a person. How about STD's ? I like to make sure they aren't suffering from mental illness too. In life it is better to be safe than sorry. Ahha! It's the classic "get to know you" line! One of the biggest myths on the Internet. She says: "we shouldn't, I want to get to know you". He says: "okay, what would you like to know?" She says: "I don't know..." He says: "okay my shoe size is 10, my favorite color is blue, I have a dog named Spot, I have a cat named Purr, I own a green car, and I like Star Trek. Is that enough information for you?" She says: "almost, but I want to get to know you." He says: "okay what else would you like to know?" She says: "I don't know." He says: "dammit! I knew I should've called Sharon!" Quote from beautifulfire08: Thanks, but you said it very well yourself. You're awesome too, thank you! I said nothing about "Strangers". Especially in today's world, by the time you see someone face-to-face, you've emailed them no less than 500 times, text messaged them no less than 1000 times, talked on the phone no less than 300 times. At what point you stop being a "stranger"? [Edited 2/19/2015 5:44:53 AM ]
2/19/2015 5:42:50 AM	Dealing with perverts
a4umposter San Antonio, TX 47, joined Dec. 2014	@ beautifulfire...Seems many men think a similar way. [Edited 2/19/2015 5:43:21 AM ]
2/19/2015 5:43:18 AM	Dealing with perverts
pj_penn Bakersfield, CA 31, joined Dec. 2014	They're not perving you op..Their perving that hideous pink unicorn [Edited 2/19/2015 5:43:43 AM ]
2/19/2015 5:44:05 AM	Dealing with perverts
mrxriley Oakland, CA 24, joined Sep. 2014	Quote from beautifulfire08: You think that because a woman doesn't want to fk a complete stranger that makes her a nun? And that it makes her celibate? What a moron. What do you call a man who doesn't want to fk a complete stranger?
2/19/2015 5:47:54 AM	Dealing with perverts
renee398 Chilhowie, VA 36, joined Jan. 2015	Quote from happylauren: The guys have been from 50-62. The older ones are more pushy and disgusting than the younger ones. And no I am not calling men who want sex perverts. I am saying there is something wrong with a complete stranger wanting sex on the first date. . You mean men that age still act like that!! I thought after they got so old they calmed down.
2/19/2015 5:50:49 AM	Dealing with perverts
txrose64 Pearland, TX 51, joined Jan. 2013	^^no they do..they never left Junior High/HS..it's sad and pathetic. Been there done that.
2/19/2015 5:50:55 AM	Dealing with perverts
beautifulfire08 Antioch, TN 56, joined Aug. 2013	Viper, simply exchanging biographical information isn't enough. Maybe if you got past your entitlement attitude you'd understand. The point at which you stop being a stranger and get to the point you want to have sex with the guy varies from one woman to the next. I can't speak for all women, but I know I speak for many when I say that your attitude toward women is a complete turnoff and that you're your own personal little cckblocker. Either that or all you can get are whres.
2/19/2015 5:51:52 AM	Dealing with perverts
beautifulfire08 Antioch, TN 56, joined Aug. 2013	Quote from mrxriley: What do you call a man who doesn't want to f**k a complete stranger? Mature and potentially desirable.
2/19/2015 5:51:57 AM	Dealing with perverts
mortara Pittsburgh, PA 61, joined Feb. 2014	Quote from happylauren: I'm finding that the average guy on a dating site is not looking for a relationship. The average guy is looking for sex. I have met guys that I thought were really nice only to find out really quickly that they were looking for sex. One date and they think they have the right to text you disgusting sex stuff. I am not sure but I am thinking men want a relationship to start with sex, and a woman wants to start as friends and have it lead to a relationship and then to intimacy. The older guys are worse than the younger guys. I am guessing that they have something to prove to themselves. Tell me guys does the immediate sex approach work for you? Well it does get down to business real fast. Although I must be careful as I have ED. So actually friends first, middle, and last really works for me. I try to work the 1 year rule.
2/19/2015 5:53:14 AM	Dealing with perverts
jester0011 Lake Waccamaw, NC 47, joined Jun. 2014	tx I think this thread had u in mind
2/19/2015 5:54:08 AM	Dealing with perverts
idliketotalk Punxsutawney, PA 52, joined Oct. 2013	It's all about the couple and the situation. I've had sex with gals the first time we've met before, always because we both wanted it. Some of these girls I first met online, and some just while living life out here in the "real" world. I certainly don't think if an adult finds another adult attractive and wishes to have sex with them that it makes them a pervert. That actually makes me laugh. Now if he gets his c*ck out and starts waving it at you before being introduced then perhaps he is a bit off. The guy who made the delicious statement went over the line with you, another woman might have loved it. He didn't read the situation right and therefore it's his loss. In my experience having sex on the first date hasn't been an indicater of how long a relationship will last. There are many variables that come into play. The immediate sex approach has usually worked for me but it was after a lot of correspondence and learning each others wishes or there was alcohol involved.

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