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She sounds like she has some emotional problems pushed you away and then asks to pay the rent Not normal. You don't have to pay anything she is not your wife. Stop spoiling this girl she needs therapy for her problems not a sugar daddy. Op just move on last I checked more women in this world than men.

I don't believe her story, reeks of woe is me at this point. Call her bluff and stop contacting her. You'll find that once you no longer have to deal with her, why you dealt with her in the first place.

I definitely understand your position on a geographical standpoint on dh. Either people are from NYC or Stamford...not much in between.

In all of this I have one question:
Are you truly ready to be over this girl or keep trying to make something that really looks like nothing

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4 months is not years while I don't know shes not getting anything else out of me.

My bad. I hought you said its been a few yrs. Thanks for correcting me.

As for shorty? Go hit her girlfriend, sister or coworker (once she start working).

4 days, 4 mos, 4 yrs....it dont matter how long a person knows another person u still deserve respect. Sorry, I havent read all the replies but besides $ and sex, does she do anything for you? Is she there for u when u need her? 4 months, I think, should be enough time for her to kno u and kno ur not the same as the ex...or shed be gone, right?... I think she is using u somewhat but for the most part, no. U deserve to grow in a relationship. I want long term so why go out with a no comitment? It will never grow into what im looking for. Maybe ur to nice. I woman wants a man with balls too not just nice. Id have a heart to heart with her and then decide what to do. A ques for u though........Are u trying to Buy her? Do u not see ur worth? Remb...$ cant buy u love!!! Good Luck

Which I'm sure why she had a attitude yesterday but would not admit to it.. come on I know you all too well now.

Long and windy...

Cliff notes.

not going to dump until after the trip.. would you pay $ 850 and get nothing out of it? It's the Dominican Republic

I know I want to do it within her view I know her too well to know two things will happen.. she will question me.. or tell me she don't care. . Or she will make some BS excuse on why she's no good..

Damn that made three lol

Shes digging her hole! lol

I wanted to say this to get it off my chest.. So some friend she is.. OK so she owes me $100 so I owe her mom $135 for a trip next month.. so she says in a text instead of giving me the money she will give her mom the money because no offense she rather owe her mom then me

Shes mad about this morning because I went to go sit out in my car to listen to music and charge my phone, she kept asking why and trying to pick why.. So later in the day she calls me just to instigate again why I went out to the car, I had another phone call come in and I rushed her off the phone she never likes that.. So the text is just her little way of trying to get back.. it's so damn childish.

Oh so I got a flat tire today and I guess her friend told her and she was like haha that's what you get, IMHO it works out in the end for me because of two things..

She's digging her own hole
She needs me more then I need her..

If you could see all these stupid texts..

not going to dump until after the trip.. would you pay $ 850 and get nothing out of it? It's the Dominican Republic

Oh she is very honest with me before it would bother me when she went away each night but she does it because her roommate is going to have another kid (shes older then her and still no stable father in her 2 other kids lifes) and her roommate is driving her nuts to the fact she does not want to spend the night at her own house. so because her roomate does not know where she goes at night she asked her if she was screwing around, and she said no! and she told me after she got off the phone what she was asking and all. She is a person who is very strong willed so she would never come out and say she is afraid and I know never to expect it.

As far as eating and shopping, she eats a lot.. yes she is a little on the overweight side but she understands that and is working at going to the gym (she texed me a few min ago asking me to take her to the gym) she says shopping calms her down when shes mad or if she goes to a party she always has to have something new, she never hardly puts the same outfit on twice.

it's very frustrating to me because of all the work I've put into it.. I mean I got my male friends laughing at me for sticking with her this long and her not doing much of anything, I don't know how her exes where but I'm guessing the one she keeps bring up was the one she was with had a baby by another girl without telling her and she was hurt (she told me that one twice so that must of been the one)

My mom has seen how much I have poured out, shes like any girl in her right mind would love to have a guy like you.. I mean I just came back from a 1 night stay in a hotel in NYC for $402 a night so we could just hang out..

Also she does not mind a night in and a movie