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BeeBuzz
ParisParis
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Poor SOB been married for over 20 yrs, no kids and yesterday it became final she gets the house in a buy out and he has to get his shit out in 30 days. So much for marriage...
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| 3/6/2015 5:12:12 PM |
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im2thexy
Belleville, ON
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He obviously was bought out and has money to find another place to live...so what's the problem?...A house is just a house...a home is so much better....
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| 3/6/2015 5:13:04 PM |
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1sirens
Champaign, IL
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| 3/6/2015 5:14:24 PM |
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im2thexy
Belleville, ON
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Cheers star.... 
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| 3/6/2015 5:15:15 PM |
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1sirens
Champaign, IL
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| 3/6/2015 5:19:51 PM |
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pdforone
Litchfield, OH
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 Now you know a chick with house you can chase?
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| 3/6/2015 5:20:42 PM |
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im2thexy
Belleville, ON
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He's probably already living there...
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| 3/6/2015 5:34:33 PM |
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BeeBuzz
ParisParis
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Now you know a chick with house you can chase?
I met her but no I would not bang his ex since we are long time friends.
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| 3/6/2015 5:36:05 PM |
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Elisa78
GhurianAlmería
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If he lose the house is for a reason.
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| 3/6/2015 5:44:58 PM |
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txrose64
Pearland, TX
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oh he did something REALLY bad then
customarily who ever gets the house has to pay out the other in "equity" ..if they're up to their eye teeth in payments..she got a big mortgage (as was my case) which was worse than nothing.
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| 3/6/2015 5:49:50 PM |
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Champaree
Australian Capital
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Poor SOB been married for over 20 yrs, no kids and yesterday it became final she gets the house in a buy out and he has to get his shit out in 30 days. So much for marriage...
Chit happens all the time .... she bought him out... the house is hers now and he has to move
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| 3/6/2015 5:53:19 PM |
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walt_hallow
Lexington, KY
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I bought the ex out, glad to do it!
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| 3/6/2015 5:54:09 PM |
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xray6
Fort Stewart, GA
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Rule number 1 in the X-ray hand book is to always protect yourself
That would never be allowed to happen in my world
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Elisa78
GhurianAlmería
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Rule number 1 in the X-ray hand book is to always protect yourself
That would never be allowed to happen in my world
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| 3/6/2015 5:55:51 PM |
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1sirens
Champaign, IL
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from walt_hallow:I bought the ex out, glad to do it!
Spook
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| 3/6/2015 5:55:57 PM |
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walt_hallow
Lexington, KY
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Don't be so sure ole wise one
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| 3/6/2015 5:56:19 PM |
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casheyesblond
Belmont, NC
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Poor SOB been married for over 20 yrs, no kids and yesterday it became final she gets the house in a buy out and he has to get his shit out in 30 days. So much for marriage...
she gets the house in a buy out
it wasn't given to her
she had to buy him out
what's the problem ?
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| 3/6/2015 5:58:17 PM |
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Champaree
Australian Capital
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she gets the house in a buy out
it wasn't given to her
she had to buy him out
what's the problem ?
What I said.. them the breaks...
Haggy, sounds like a bit of a whiny thread..
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txrose64
Pearland, TX
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best damn 80k I ever spent
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| 3/6/2015 6:02:46 PM |
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amusicluvr
Salem, OR
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OP - The problem was not the marriage. It was the way the fool bought the house, and also probably the way he cheated on his wife, abused her, etc. If you ever get married, set up a corporation before the marriage...before you even meet your bride to be...buy a house, car, etc, in the corporation's name, let the corporation own the house, car, furniture, etc, and rent them to you on a monthly basis. If you then meet someone, and marry, and she divorces you, she can't get the house, car, etc, because they never belonged to you. The corporation is legally a third person. Since your ex did not marry the corporation, she gets no share of what it owns. Then, too, treat your wife nicely, and she won't be so apt to want to divorce you.
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| 3/6/2015 6:08:25 PM |
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BeeBuzz
ParisParis
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Been through one myself I know the way it works. I bought her out.
My friend moved out his wife stayed in the house and there was a lot of marital debt. House was paid for so equity was there to divvy up but the debt has to be satisfied. He though he could pull a fast one but judge has seen it all.
He has a GF with grown kids that he is banging. Kids still in her life as he helped her son move. Oh well to each his own.
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| 3/6/2015 6:09:17 PM |
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txrose64
Pearland, TX
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OP - The problem was not the marriage. It was the way the fool bought the house, and also probably the way he cheated on his wife, abused her, etc. If you ever get married, set up a corporation before the marriage...before you even meet your bride to be...buy a house, car, etc, in the corporation's name, let the corporation own the house, car, furniture, etc, and rent them to you on a monthly basis. If you then meet someone, and marry, and she divorces you, she can't get the house, car, etc, because they never belonged to you. The corporation is legally a third person. Since your ex did not marry the corporation, she gets no share of what it owns. Then, too, treat your wife nicely, and she won't be so apt to want to divorce you.
Trusts work too.
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| 3/6/2015 6:09:44 PM |
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Champaree
Australian Capital
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Been through one myself I know the way it works. I bought her out.
My friend moved out his wife stayed in the house and there was a lot of marital debt. House was paid for so equity was there to divvy up but the debt has to be satisfied. He though he could pull a fast one but judge has seen it all.
He has a GF with grown kids that he is banging. Kids still in her life as he helped her son move. Oh well to each his own.
oh well all is good then, by the sounds of it.
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| 3/6/2015 6:11:22 PM |
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BeeBuzz
ParisParis
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OP - The problem was not the marriage. It was the way the fool bought the house, and also probably the way he cheated on his wife, abused her, etc. If you ever get married, set up a corporation before the marriage...before you even meet your bride to be...buy a house, car, etc, in the corporation's name, let the corporation own the house, car, furniture, etc, and rent them to you on a monthly basis. If you then meet someone, and marry, and she divorces you, she can't get the house, car, etc, because they never belonged to you. The corporation is legally a third person. Since your ex did not marry the corporation, she gets no share of what it owns. Then, too, treat your wife nicely, and she won't be so apt to want to divorce you.
That shit you describe don't work
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| 3/6/2015 6:13:33 PM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
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sad,,but the woman near allways gets it all,an has ben that way for a long time,, so sad.
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| 3/6/2015 6:16:53 PM |
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mindya
Vancouver, BC
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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casheyesblond
Belmont, NC
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Let me know if the lady needs a cleaner haggy...I'm good at mopping up the mess you create... 
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BeeBuzz
ParisParis
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sad,,but the woman near allways gets it all,an has ben that way for a long time,, so sad.
If there are kids then she keeps the house till they are legal age plus may get child support. Gets complicated with kids that why I don want women with baggage
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casheyesblond
Belmont, NC
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If there are kids then she keeps the house till they are legal age plus may get child support. Gets complicated with kids that why I don want women with baggage
your'e in your sixties so it probably won't be an issue
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im2thexy
Belleville, ON
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Let me know if the lady needs a cleaner haggy...I'm good at mopping up the mess you create...
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| 3/6/2015 6:21:34 PM |
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1sirens
Champaign, IL
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Looks like baggage is the word of the day
Seen it about 10 times tonight
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| 3/6/2015 6:22:13 PM |
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im2thexy
Belleville, ON
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Kewlllllll i only have one suitcase.....
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| 3/6/2015 6:22:43 PM |
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stumppy
Wind Gap, PA
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Yep, some women do get it, most guys do not. Nor do they learn.
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| 3/6/2015 6:23:27 PM |
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1sirens
Champaign, IL
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Flirtay
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| 3/6/2015 6:25:08 PM |
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playingindirt
Eugene, OR
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I gave everything i had up except my conversion van,my 12 guage,and some clothing when i left my first ex.
leaving everything to the ex was a lot less pain,headaches,and additional heartache.
I value my peace of mind much much more.
people tend to look down on a woman having not much more than her peace of mind.
your friend will survive. I did.
so much for whiners.
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| 3/6/2015 6:26:02 PM |
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BeeBuzz
ParisParis
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Mindya is spamming my posts so I put him on time out. He is a Canadian janitor at a power plant. Him and Casheyes play a tag team on these threads.
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| 3/6/2015 6:28:22 PM |
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giss7
New Orleans, LA
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Poor SOB been married for over 20 yrs, no kids and yesterday it became final she gets the house in a buy out and he has to get his shit out in 30 days. So much for marriage...
He paid for it and she lived there no doubt, but in the end is all about stealing all the shit they can. It's never worth marrying an American girl.
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| 3/6/2015 6:28:34 PM |
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im2thexy
Belleville, ON
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So...i dont care what he does...it's damn funny....and so is cash...so dont come cryin to me...
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| 3/6/2015 6:31:11 PM |
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BeeBuzz
ParisParis
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The same guy's brother married a woman with 2 kids and they had 2 of their own in the marriage. She started running around so they divorced with him keeping the house. BUT he had to pay her alimony and child support which took away most of his paycheck. Talking about bitter you should meet this guy!
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| 3/6/2015 6:56:54 PM |
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Champaree
Australian Capital
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The same guy's brother married a woman with 2 kids and they had 2 of their own in the marriage. She started running around so they divorced with him keeping the house. BUT he had to pay her alimony and child support which took away most of his paycheck. Talking about bitter you should meet this guy!
Its a huge shame, I had never heard of alimony till i started on the internet, It isn't something that happens in Australia even now, just the really rich seem to do it... even then it is usually split up but to ask for alimony, I am totally against it.
Alimony seems to be an American thing.
I never received ANYTHING. If we had bought a house then we sold it and split the proceeds in two, even. I never even got child support when the courts decided that the 'child' (set up a bank account) was supposed to get $60 per week.. and even that only once was $60 deposited...
The kids and I managed quite well. It was hard going but I worked.
Why would any women but herself down so much as to ask for support and be dependent to her 'EX". Boo!
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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Its your fault haggy..
if you hadn't been having that gay relation with him, he wouldn't have gotten caught..
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im2thexy
Belleville, ON
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| 3/6/2015 7:10:51 PM |
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BeeBuzz
ParisParis
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Its called GREED
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be_great
Houston, TX
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I don't know how they bought the house but if you're saying he bought this house before he met her, and then she got the judge to give her the house by buying him out ----- that couldn't be me.
My Lawyers better make it where we sell the house or something and get equal payout or something.
And they had no kids??
That's one of the factors that Women gets everything when kids are involved because they need a roof over their head and a Mother more so than a Father ... (Liberal courts opinions )
In this dude case, they had no kids and she still got the house, too.
Smgdh.....
.....couldn't be me. 
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truckerdaddy915
El Paso, TX
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Six short months we went together
Decided it should be forever
Two paychecks are better than one
A diamond ring and it was done
Bought her a house like I said I would
In sub-divided neighborhood
The fuse got short and the nights got long
It was over long gone
Before I knew
Where I was headed to
I'm goin' through the big D
And don't mean Dallas
I can't believe what the judge had to tell us
I got the Jeep she got the palace
I'm goin' through the big D
And don't mean Dallas
Things like this are never final
I'm still payin' on the vinyl
Flooring in the laundry room
It's multi-colored and waterproof
It's a little bit tough to face my friends
The ones that said I jumped in
The river of love a little too soon
That was August
This is June and it's a different tune
I'm goin' through the big D
And don't mean Dallas
I can't believe what the judge had to tell us
I got the Jeep she got the palace
I'm goin' through the big D
And don't mean Dallas
I'm goin' through the big D
And don't mean Dallas
I can't believe what the judge had to tell us
I got the Jeep she got the two bedroom
Mortgage is due
Siding light blue palace
I'm goin' through the big D
And don't mean Dallas
I'm goin' through the big D
And don't mean Dallas
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| 3/6/2015 7:23:29 PM |
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norwegianwood64
Huntsville, AL
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I would blow all my money at the casino, burn the house down, and then get drunk. She can b*tch all she wants but there is nothing left to get out of me......I would rather go to prison.
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| 3/6/2015 7:29:29 PM |
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BeeBuzz
ParisParis
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Some people have a hard time dealing with a divorce.
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| 3/6/2015 7:31:06 PM |
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Champaree
Australian Capital
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Some people have a hard time dealing with a divorce.
Did you?
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| 3/6/2015 7:35:46 PM |
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amusicluvr
Salem, OR
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That shit you describe don't work
It does work. It has worked for centuries.
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| 3/6/2015 7:41:47 PM |
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BeeBuzz
ParisParis
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It does work. It has worked for centuries.
I will remind you that a person can say anything on the web but it doesn't make it true.
Prove it citing your sources
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| 3/6/2015 7:46:13 PM |
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_bear_claws_
Chandler, AZ
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Hey , things aint so bad ..... could be a lot worse , at least he gets to keep all his shit AND maybe a little cash....
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| 3/6/2015 7:47:49 PM |
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BeeBuzz
ParisParis
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Did you?
I handled my divorce well since there was no kids involved just a house and assets. Her lawyer dragged it out to get his billing hours up for over 2 yrs. We paid for our own legal fees. Once we separated I got a GF and had a good time. The GF started to pressure for marriage right off the bat. Damn women fall in love so easy...
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| 3/6/2015 7:53:26 PM |
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idliketotalk
Punxsutawney, PA
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divorce can be a real drag. i lost a house too. the good news is i did not loose both houses and the farm!
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| 3/6/2015 7:54:59 PM |
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kartusch
Logan, UT
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$ wise my ex made out like a bandit
I worked two jobs putting him thru school to MBA level, he took all the stuff in the house, the car...
I got the house and still had to buy him out I got no alimony and I'm suppose to get child support based off of his college salary which was super low while he's off making 100g somewhere...
He doesn't pay anyway nor do I even know where he is.
So your friend getting a buy out and losing the house?
Ya so did my ex. It's not the entire story either. I'm still the one who $ wise got screwed over. But the loss of him? Totally worth it
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| 3/6/2015 8:04:14 PM |
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hardcorepawnbit
New York, NY
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Totally Undatable
When the moment you know something about him just doesn't feel right.
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| 3/6/2015 8:05:08 PM |
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likescareses
Eugene, OR
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I'm sure your friend likes you blabbing about his private affairs jerk
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| 3/6/2015 8:05:19 PM |
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hardcorepawnbit
New York, NY
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Hey Op, was his ex blonde?
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| 3/6/2015 8:06:30 PM |
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BeeBuzz
ParisParis
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@kartuch
Each case is different but you can pursue the child support interstate if you want to. IRS has his return based on SS#. Google the process and the law will do it for you free.
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| 3/6/2015 8:07:03 PM |
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BeeBuzz
ParisParis
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I'm sure your friend likes you blabbing about his private affairs jerk
You are a nasty troll
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| 3/6/2015 8:09:14 PM |
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mr_imperfect
Philadelphia, PA
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Now you know a chick with house you can chase?
He'd much rather chase the homeless dude I'm sure as much as he b*tches and moans about how evil women are.
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