I do date black men and I have no problem saying that at all.
I was simply making a point on your first assumption.

Does stroking an insecure negroes ego ever get tiring??? Why would a woman give such a weak man her ear?

I was explaining my thoughts, what I was feeling. If you had any reading comprehension you would understand that.

Is it wrong for me to be having thoughts about other women when there is absolutely nothing wrong with my marriage?

We have a few minor arguments and disagreements about the kids' future but nothing serious.

Just that after 14 years....really, 16 years, when counting the 2 years of friendship before we got really serious.

Just that now, we have became more like best-friends with independent minds that knows each others like a book.

We live more like "partners" in a responsible-sense....as far as raising our boys, and doing our parts to keep the family in good spirit. I really can't complain right now at all. And neither can she.

We click. We gelled. It's all good with us. I love my gal.


Even still, I keep sensing something amiss. I don't know why. I don't pay attention to it much but it's "there."

For some reason, I want an older White Woman.


I dont know why. I just do. Is it wrong for me to be feeling this?

By older, I mean age, 40 to 55. And they have "look" older...with the appeal of a womanhood that has blossomed and matured.

That's the stuff on my mind and I don't know why? I keep thinking I might be at a stage I want to fetish an older White Women but then I see a future with an older White Woman and drifting off on the minutia details of day-to-day life with an older White Woman.

The difference from me and an interracial black Woman, I would give the right one a chance and would close them out of my life.

But that's the problem again, Black women are not spontaneous like that. They're not open like White and Latina women.

They're extremely judgemental, selfish-nature, evil, mean-spirited. And that's a general conduct with them.... a cultural attitude that they all adhere to.

Then don't question me no more, dummy. Take your advice and STFU, too.


.....common sense, right, Joan of Arc?

I thought we agree here for you to STFU, you Orc?

@Cashey,

Curiosity just stroke me. When it comes to topics like this it's usually involve black women, black men, and white men. White women for the most part really have no dog in this race/ fight or whatever. I'm not certain if any black woman or any other woman wants a white woman speaking on behalf of her. It sort of make it seem as you're saying that black women do not have their own voice. Some white women try so hard to make themselves relevant and really don't know shit. Sometimes it's best not to speak than be a fake a** crusader. Just my opinion.

Agreed.


I get that sense to. She act like she can waltz her butt around some dominant-personality Black Woman and act like she got some sort of "clout" to be in their presence.

Cashey, you are a White Woman, girl. You knows NOTHING about Black culture.

Nothing.


Don't mistake have some Interracial Black Women friends as being part of the Black culture.

Even those interracial Black Women fears the dominant-personality Black Woman that's down for her Race and Black Men.


They would look at you up and down and say:

"Who is this b*tch? Do you know her?"

And if any Black person say, "No".....awww girl!





They will BEAT....YOUR.....ASS.


Yes ma'am!

...it's still my thoughts.

It pops up in my mind time to time and I try to give it some consideration to put things in perspective why that is. The thing is, I have no intention of breaking up my marriage but the thoughts persist.


You have to understand, I didn't go to a regular all Black school as a kid. My early development had me around White teachers....mostly females. I also had a Latina teacher in my 3rd grade....Mrs..Hernandez.

I'll never forgot that woman. I had a silly crush on her, too.


I didn't start dealing with Black teachers fully until highshool, and even with that, I still had better White Female Teachers that I looked up to.

And they're the ones that steered me into college and even laid out the different colleges that would suit me based on my academics.

My Mother was supportive but she didn't know anything about a Higher Learning Institution and could only just support whatever decision I made.

So, I'm looking at that....the love from White Women...and they were older women. I don't know.


The difference from me and an interracial black Woman, I would give the right one a chance and would close them out of my life.

But that's the problem again, Black women are not spontaneous like that. They're not open like White and Latina women.

They're extremely judgemental, selfish-nature, evil, mean-spirited. And that's a general conduct with them.... a cultural attitude that they all adhere to.

You can see it everyday. Even before this interracial trend got heavy, White Boys said the same stuff...that, they don't know how to approach a Black Woman because they always seem angry and ready to cop an attitude.

Well, I see the same stuff even today. They act the same way.

Some Black women call that "running from them."

I don't fear Black Women
...I don't know then that deep to fear anything about them. I normally feel they are beneath me, intellectually and that can be where they put up an attitude when I easily subject them and put them.in their place and they feel black "boy" should be getting that smart over Black Women


I guess. .....



So, that's that.

Be_

Why do you continually insist upon the superiority of blacks, but then encourage this ratchet behavior.

Are you f**king serious? You've generalized black women as women that have attitudes and are beneath you yet you wonder why some of us stay clear of black men because of generalization. They're right. You are a hypocrite.

And none of us mind if white women speak up for us as well. They see right through your bulls it as well. Black culture. Don't make me laugh. You've soiled the views on black culture with your egotistical god-complex that makes you look no better than trash.

Ghetto culture is also not something we should have representing our people. I'm from a bad part of cleveland so I know first hand how bad it can get. The moment somebody sees somebody else doing better they grab them by the ankle and pull them back down to their level. That's not a good view point for the majority of this culture.

That is true. I see that too. I'm not apart of it. Cashey act like she's around these people 24/7 when she's far remove from that.

She would get hurt if the think she can waltz among them and talk like she's down with them.