stamina1975
Madison Heights, VA
39, joined Apr. 2012
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If I approach you, introduce myself, ask if you're involved or obligated to someone, ask if we can exchange numbers.... ITS NOT JUST TO SPEND MY MONEY ON YOU AND GO HOME LIKE WE NEVER MET. BE REAL FOR GOD'S SAKE!
Thats means I'm attracted to you phyzically / sexually. When we do go out its to see WHATEVER ELSE you have to offer. Truth is after hearing some of the shit that comes outta a womans mouth, we determine the only thing you're good for iz sex.
Bcuz women don't do the things that real men need for them to do anymore. You crying and WHINNING when they don't find you attractive or want sex THEN you b*tching and complaining when they do.
You talk about old fashion values in a man but all we get from women is THE LIBERATED WOMEN who don't need a man. Always challenging him and filling his life with drama. So stop the madness.
I Agree.
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ibeenseenitall
Boca Raton, FL
34, joined Jul. 2014
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Staying real to yourself is more important. In time I'm sure everyone will get what's coming.  I do miss blindly running amuck while dating. Aww the good and bad moments. Maybe I'll step out just one more time to see what happens 
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
63, joined Oct. 2009
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Out there looking for real women who have something more to bring to the table besides p*ssy and problems..
Very well said! Unfortunately that's about all most of them have to bring to the table no matter what race they are.
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legaleye
Columbus, OH
63, joined Mar. 2008
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As I said in another thread, I have no expectations when I go on a date. I consider myself to be an actual living and breathing human, and therefore, "real." I was raised in a different era, having had meaningful interaction with relatives born in the nineteenth century (1800s for those who cant remember) and have a father who was born before World War 1 (not 2, 1).
So I was raised with kindness, chivalry and respect for others. So I read these threads and what I often hear is "I want" without any part of the "what I have to offer" being a part of the conversation. Over the years I have met some very nice people, but alas, often they are too busy or too far away to make things work at the time we meet.
As I am sure women do, men get jaded after a while. I am much more polite and patient than a lot of people but at some point I have to see there is a viable opportunity for my part of the equation to be just as important as her's.
I also think there is a distinct "what we got here is a failure to communicate" issue that people would rather not face. Bluntly put, people are very poor at discussing their actual needs and wants, as opposed to the polite lists people put on websites. An interesting question for the ladies to ponder.... at what point should people be discussing sexuality and sensuality when dating? I tend to be polite and wait and see where we go... i.e. does she drop hints that the topic is open? But after a while, either there is a discussion followed by action (no, not a first or second date thing) or its time to move on. Does it offend anyone to suggest that after 4-5 dates there should be some movement toward establishing the rules of intimacy?
Just some thoughts. Your mileage, of course, may vary.
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