OP u are so damn right. Where are all the real men at. What happened to old fashion date go to dinner movie or a coffee and just chat without sex coming into play. Men these days just want to get a womans pants. To hell with just going on a date and chatting over a coffee.

My, you're quite the rude, judgmental young woman, OP. Perhaps you should try not jumping in telling people off and try being a little introspective and see how you contribute to your own drama.

First, there is no such thing as "REAL MEN" or real women. Everyone is real, they just are not all what it is you want. What you need to determine is what you want in a man, and in a relationship, and then figure out what you need to do in order to attract what you want.

Too many people feel that "REAL" means that people have to do what they want them to do when they want them to do it or they're not "REAL". That's bs. People are not puppets dancing on your string. They get to be who they are and you figure out if that works for you. If not, then find someone who does.

But like someone else said, if all you're finding is one thing, then it's not all of them, it's you, and what you're doing. So do some self-analysis. You want something specific--you have a goal in mind. Figure out the steps to that goal and make the changes you need to.

Wow... The blatant racism by the op is astounding....

Surprised no one seems to even mind/care. Guess I know what some white women are thinking now when you talk to them.

And they say racism is dead.

The things I've read in this thread said by the original poster have been unwarranted baseless attacks purely said on the ethnicity of a poster. The vileness, vulgarity, and down right rudeness of the original poster while being oblivious to just how rude and vile she is being....

Just wow....

You make your fiancé feel real good right?? Then what are you doing on a dating site? If you were secure in your relationship you wouldn't need to be here. And I am not looking for a Prince Charming , nor a step dad as a matter of fact I take care of myself and my son on my own just fine. It is called seeking a companion. I don't know what dump you crawled out of but where ever it is needs to burn. People like you show that on your side of the world there is no hope for humanity.
Also before you jump to conclusions my second reply wasn't to you, peel your lips from the window and actually pay attention to what is being said and stop making assumptions.

I really want to win lottery this friday, i think i deserve that.

I would never give you the time of day. And I'm sure you wouldn't know anything of raising a child on your own, if you are actually raising your child right. But knowing your type you don't raise children you have them and collect on them as I said before.
Your work is why you're on here? I couldn't imagine what kind of job that might be, maybe you should worry more about fixing yourself then "dissing" other folks who actually do everything on their own without government assistance.
You are so

I did, in one form or another. But in there threads it was always against black women. You have my absolute permission to head back through my posts and find them.

Also bee, I wanted to read this entire thread but stopped when I saw how she was trailing the first poster. It made me very angry. I'll go back to reading it all and get onto her about her unladylike attitude.

To be honest I'm a real man. I like to take ladies out on dates, hold doors, and try to show as much chivalry as possible. Problem is that there are so many geehaws out there trying to send ladies pictures of their junk or saying off beat things hoping to score that a simple " hi I'm Matt" is overlooked. I work, raise two children on my own, own a home, and have many good qualities...but in this digital world none of that matters. You want a real man? Stop only replying to the profiles with the best pictures or highest salary. Or heck idk.....go to church.

Where are the men that ask you to dinner, treat women like ladies, aren't just after sex, when they say they want a relationship they really mean it. An attractive man who wants to actually devote himself to ONE woman...... The men who are romantic, charming, honest.......
I understand there are women out there that make men ask the same but NOT ALL attractive women are like that!!!
I'm hoping I'm not old and wrinkly by the time a man actually puts in the effort to steal my heart and protect it as if it were his own beating in his chest.......

What happened to REAL WOMEN? Is the any?that are good.