How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?

3/26/2015 4:14:09 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 48, joined Jun. 2014 online now!	How many times you heard, "I want a man who KNOWS how to treat of woman?" Imma show you how got damn backwards and confused women who say this are and why. There is no "across the board" definition of this term. Why? Bcuz women are different in this regard. Whats "right" to some is "wrong" to others. So there is a million different versions (at least) of what "knowing how to treat a woman" is. So when a woman says this to a man, how the fu€k is he suppose to know what YOU mean if there's NO across the board definition and he don't know YOU personally? How dammit? There's only ONE definition that could explain and give this term legitimacy.... "Do WHAT THE FU€K I SAY DO YOU WELL TRAINED, OBEDIENT, BOOT LICKING DOG!" This would HAVE to be what you ladies mean. Bcuz if I know you NOT then I know NOT how you "want to be treated" So the only way to treat you in that fashion IS to do what you say. If treating you how "I" like isn't what you want then I'M NOT treating YOU how YOU want to BE treated. See how got damn confusing women make shit when they come in with their got damn feeljngs and emotions instead of good "old fashion" rules and standards? Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
3/26/2015 4:16:42 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
bumblebee7 Fort Payne, AL 60, joined Apr. 2011 online now!	Well...to me the way it should be with either gender is....you treat the other person like how you want to be treated....and you should get the same back. but.......... . .
3/26/2015 4:24:17 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
ibeenseenitall Boca Raton, FL 34, joined Jul. 2014	Just go with the flow that she gives off. If it's to much for you to handle it. Let someone else do it. Some ladies will mislead you down an unforgiving road if you choose to follow them. Groups of people do it as well. Gotta cut ties and calculate better options. Sure love, lust and feeling you're doing the right thing comes into play but when your brain clearly see that terrible ending. You have to be a true idiot to keep holding on
3/26/2015 4:26:58 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
inknpink Castle Rock, CO 29, joined Feb. 2015	I think a woman should be treated according to how she conducts herself. Nobody is entitled to special treatment based solely on gender. Respect is earned!
3/26/2015 4:32:31 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
ibeenseenitall Boca Raton, FL 34, joined Jul. 2014	Quote from inknpink: I think a woman should be treated according to how she conducts herself. Nobody is entitled to special treatment based solely on gender. Respect is earned! You can subtract respect to
3/26/2015 4:37:29 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
bumblebee7 Fort Payne, AL 60, joined Apr. 2011 online now!	Doc...this thread reminds me...I still want to give you that hypothesis I have. I've just been so busy lately. but I'll get around to it. I think it might answer some questions.
3/26/2015 4:54:47 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 48, joined Jun. 2014 online now!	Quote from bumblebee7: Well...to me the way it should be with either gender is....you treat the other person like how you want to be treated....and you should get the same back. but.......... . . Yeah we've been sahing that for years as individuals. But again, how you want to be treated ISN'T an "across the board" thing either. So what if thats different from what that particular woman wants? It still come back to the confusion I'm speaking on.
3/26/2015 4:57:16 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
bumblebee7 Fort Payne, AL 60, joined Apr. 2011 online now!	If that's the case...then the two in question likely aren't compatible.
3/26/2015 5:02:50 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 48, joined Jun. 2014 online now!	@ ibeenseenitall: PERSONALLY I'm not confused on what to think or how to handle it. I'm merely bringing it to the forefront. On how women keep men in a constant state of confusion with attempted manipulation. Thats all.
3/26/2015 5:18:33 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 48, joined Jun. 2014 online now!	Quote from inknpink: I think a woman should be treated according to how she conducts herself. Respect is earned! But in accordance to who's perspective? Yours right? Bcuz according to his you MAY NOT have earned the respect and I'M SURE you wouldn't agree to that. Right? So AGAIN, it all comes back to YOU. What you want, what you say do. So how can you want a man who "knows how to treat to treat a woman" if there's NOTHING he could know prior to dating you except...... JUST DO AS YOU SAY LIME A GOOD LITTLE BOY?
3/26/2015 5:27:20 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
ibeenseenitall Boca Raton, FL 34, joined Jul. 2014	I'm not confused it's mainly nonsense but if you choose to play along remember its not how you win the game. Its how you play it. You're find better results being just plain stupid about everything when you're out dating a self in titled control freak. Irrational as ever but a enjoyable experience. Just don't go over board because she doesn't care if you drowned lusting over her. [Edited 3/26/2015 5:27:56 PM ]
3/26/2015 5:44:48 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 48, joined Jun. 2014 online now!	@ Bee: Yeah send me that. When you get a chance.
3/26/2015 5:48:59 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
inknpink Castle Rock, CO 29, joined Feb. 2015	I agree he may not feel I earned it. As adults I would think his reasons would be conveyed. If he feels he can't or I refuse to listen to him then like was said, we aren't compatible. Just as the other gentleman said, treat people how you want to be treated. Many many people of both sexes have no clue what that's means sadly! People act like a lady/gentleman you will be treated as such. Act like a B***** you will be treated like one. Act like a ho you will be treated like one.
3/26/2015 5:50:56 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
ibeenseenitall Boca Raton, FL 34, joined Jul. 2014	We as men must withhold information and gifts of kindness from them. Constant questioning their every thoughts, moves, etc...
3/26/2015 6:03:45 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 48, joined Jun. 2014 online now!	Quote from bumblebee7: If that's the case...then the two in question likely aren't compatible. Not necessarily. Only time and a proper courtship will determine that anyway. I'm simply talking about this preconceived notion that we're suppose to know when a woman use that term. In other woeds. Ask yourself this..... This a woman says treat her how a woman is suppose to be treated, TELL ME WHAT THAT MEANS?
3/26/2015 6:07:22 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
inknpink Castle Rock, CO 29, joined Feb. 2015	In my opinion any woman that just throws a statement out there like that is a naive imbecile.
3/26/2015 6:07:41 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 48, joined Jun. 2014 online now!	Quote from ibeenseenitall: I'm not confused it's mainly nonsense but if you choose to play along remember its not how you win the game. Its how you play it. You're find better results being just plain stupid about everything when you're out dating a self in titled control freak. Irrational as ever but a enjoyable experience. Just don't go over board because she doesn't care if you drowned lusting over her. Yes You do understand.
3/26/2015 6:17:18 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
ibeenseenitall Boca Raton, FL 34, joined Jul. 2014	People's minds change at a moment notices. I would expect nothing less actually. Willingly, rebelling, a little bit of both one night is more than enough for me. Forget what that crazy talk was about I'll do my best women
3/26/2015 6:19:37 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
missamicable Orlando, FL 55, joined Jul. 2014	If he has to ask then he is not a MAN.
3/26/2015 10:20:51 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
driver406 Saint Paul, MN 63, joined Oct. 2009	A zillion times better than she is treating you I am sure.
3/26/2015 10:24:40 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
b2cold Bark River, MI 22, joined Mar. 2014	I treat em good. Get used. Ina start being more blunt. No more being a chump
3/26/2015 10:55:15 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
cupocheer Assumption, IL 66, joined May. 2010	The same way you would want to be treated, OP ... And with respect.
3/27/2015 10:36:31 AM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 48, joined Jun. 2014 online now!	Quote from inknpink: In my opinion any woman that just throws a statement out there like that is a naive imbecile. I couldn't agree with you more. If that statement had ONE meaning that everyong could relate to is logical. But to request something that has a million different reason is plain stupid.
3/27/2015 10:41:38 AM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 48, joined Jun. 2014 online now!	Quote from ibeenseenitall: People's minds change at a moment notices. I would expect nothing less actually. Willingly, rebelling, a little bit of both one night is more than enough for me. Forget what that crazy talk was about I'll do my best women There is no such term as "I want a woman who knows how to treat a man" but if it was. It would have ONE basic meaning that would apply to all men. It would be..... Give me some food, give me some sex and give me some peace"
3/27/2015 12:07:27 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
inknpink Castle Rock, CO 29, joined Feb. 2015	Quote from dr_i_got_answer: I couldn't agree with you more. If that statement had ONE meaning that everyong could relate to is logical. But to request something that has a million different reason is plain stupid. I agree! Nobody has a right to certain treatment based on being an ADULT (age)male/female. We deserve to be treaded based on our actions. I won't give the same respect to a woman that neglects her children and responsibilities as I would a woman that does. I'm not entitled to special treatment because I have a vagina and am 18+. The same goes for a man!
3/27/2015 12:08:27 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
kawkasian Houston, TX 47, joined Sep. 2014	A woman should be treated to a good spanking regularly.
3/27/2015 12:14:36 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
synergyomatic Long Beach, WA 37, joined Jul. 2014	^^^ i can support that
3/27/2015 12:17:14 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
a4umposter San Antonio, TX 47, joined Dec. 2014	Quote from bumblebee7: Well...to me the way it should be with either gender is....you treat the other person like how you want to be treated....and you should get the same back. but.......... . . With kindness & respect & doing for each other.
3/27/2015 12:39:05 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 48, joined Jun. 2014 online now!	Quote from missamicable: If he has to ask then he is not a MAN. Ok then YOU give us the meaning as it applies to ALL WOMEN. Tell us the meaning that exempts a man from being one if he don't know it? I have feeling I won't get the answer to my question.
3/27/2015 12:40:15 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 48, joined Jun. 2014 online now!	Quote from driver406: A zillion times better than she is treating you I am sure. Yeah thats right!
3/27/2015 12:45:04 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
goodwomanlost Jacksonville, FL 52, joined Feb. 2013	The old "Do unto others " comes to mind. Just treat us the way you liked to be treated.
3/27/2015 12:45:20 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
pickygirl72 Phelan, CA 44, joined Sep. 2011	Usually those women have married or dated men that treated them like shyt. So they think by saying that phrase the men will treat them better. These women need to gain confidence and self esteem to stay away from sweet talking jerks.
3/27/2015 5:47:53 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
packersbabe920 Green Bay, WI 50, joined Jul. 2013	Treat them like lady, in my temptations voice
3/27/2015 7:40:35 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
lucky_1million Pewaukee, WI 48, joined Jun. 2013	Well... I think telling a someone that she (or he) is fat, ugly and calling them various derogatory names... is NOT the right way to treat a person. Not that every man (or woman) does this. I have known a couple to resort to this anytime they didn't get their way or just because they had a general negative viewpoint towards the opposite sex. I think if you just stay away from anti-social behavior, don't exhibit signs of a borderline personality disorder, and treat the opposite sex as though they are a potential friend (not an enemy) that is good enough.
3/27/2015 8:10:51 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
Offcell Seattle, WA 21, joined Feb. 2015 online now!	With the same respect, support, and lovethat she should give you. That is my definition of a simple healthy and balanced relationship. [Edited 3/27/2015 8:13:17 PM ]
3/28/2015 7:10:23 AM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
gamerman17 New York, NY 27, joined Apr. 2010	Quote from dr_i_got_answer: How many times you heard, "I want a man who KNOWS how to treat of woman?" Imma show you how got damn backwards and confused women who say this are and why. There is no "across the board" definition of this term. Why? Bcuz women are different in this regard. Whats "right" to some is "wrong" to others. So there is a million different versions (at least) of what "knowing how to treat a woman" is. So when a woman says this to a man, how the fu€k is he suppose to know what YOU mean if there's NO across the board definition and he don't know YOU personally? How dammit? There's only ONE definition that could explain and give this term legitimacy.... "Do WHAT THE FU€K I SAY DO YOU WELL TRAINED, OBEDIENT, BOOT LICKING DOG!" This would HAVE to be what you ladies mean. Bcuz if I know you NOT then I know NOT how you "want to be treated" So the only way to treat you in that fashion IS to do what you say. If treating you how "I" like isn't what you want then I'M NOT treating YOU how YOU want to BE treated. See how got damn confusing women make shit when they come in with their got damn feeljngs and emotions instead of good "old fashion" rules and standards? Truthfully, you are right about this with certain types of women, as I have seen some friends of mine talk about this to me personally most of the time we are out. That being said, I do treat women with respect until you show me or give me a reason for her to give me nothing to respect or cherish. I will go out of my way to make sure that she is wined and dined but she has to prove to me both personality and character wise that she is even worthy of receiving it to begin with. My friends going through this situation fail to realize that you have to have a woman of value and uniqueness to be treated in a way that makes her differet, not do it because you eagerly seek love. You set yourself up for turmoil that could be avoided. Just my two cents......gamer
3/28/2015 8:58:50 AM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
ilovepoodles55 Munster, IN 53, joined Feb. 2015 online now!	Women should be treated the way a man should be treated in one word. RESPECT
3/28/2015 10:51:34 AM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 48, joined Jun. 2014 online now!	Quote from cupocheer: The same way you would want to be treated, OP ... And with respect. The same way I want to be treated? THE SAME WAY I WANT TO BE TREATED? Are you sure??? Bcuz I NEVER wanted to be treated like a woman. NOW..... So would please just stop repeating cliches and give this some ORIGINAL THOUGHT! I never wanted to be treated like a woman.
3/28/2015 10:57:41 AM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 48, joined Jun. 2014 online now!	Quote from inknpink: I agree! Nobody has a right to certain treatment based on being an ADULT (age)male/female. We deserve to be treaded based on our actions. I won't give the same respect to a woman that neglects her children and responsibilities as I would a woman that does. I'm not entitled to special treatment because I have a vagina and am 18+. The same goes for a man! I agree but even before that point. Lets say a woman is respectable, a lady and deserve respect? Thats not exclusive just to women. Anyone who deserves and earns respect should have it. But it still doesn't explain what "knows how to treat a woman" means.
3/28/2015 11:03:27 AM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
latinqt24 Zacatecas Mexico 31, joined Jan. 2015	Hmm great question...I say go slow n get to know her ,don't give to much at the beginning but just enough to keep her interested . polite n friendly is a must.but if she's a b*tch,treat her like one.
3/28/2015 2:22:21 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
wildfir Albany, IN 43, joined Sep. 2013 online now!	A woman should be treated how she treats others. If she treats people like dogs then she will get the same treatment back. But if she treats people kindly she will be treated kindly. Karma can be a B*TCH at times.
3/28/2015 2:35:12 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
gavinnall Bear Creek, NC 31, joined Oct. 2014	Well these days.,,,like wild animals possessed with deamonds.
3/28/2015 4:50:07 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
doublethree Germantown, TN 38, joined Oct. 2013 online now!	She is supposed to be treated equally, thus hit if she hits you.
3/28/2015 5:01:44 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 48, joined Jun. 2014 online now!	Quote from wildfir: A woman should be treated how she treats others. If she treats people like dogs then she will get the same treatment back. But if she treats people kindly she will be treated kindly. Karma can be a B*TCH at times. Everything you said is true and I agree. But if a woman say to me "I want a man who knows how to treat a woman" and I'm just meeting her.... how am I suppose to know coming in how she treats others? That saying is suppose to be a qualifier.
3/28/2015 5:14:16 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 48, joined Jun. 2014 online now!	Quote from pickygirl72: Usually those women have married or dated men that treated them like shyt. So they think by saying that phrase the men will treat them better. These women need to gain confidence and self esteem to stay away from sweet talking jerks. Also true but I'm still looking for a specific meaning of "Know how to treat a woman" It has to be sometbing specific for women and not men since its being asked of men to do this for women. And it must be something women "in general" agree on and not a million different meanings based on how THAT woman just happen to "feel" at THAT moment.
3/29/2015 2:05:25 AM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
cavie59 Enid, OK 55, joined Feb. 2010	I know how I treat women I am with, the problem is they do not return the same. That is one reason I have given up on ever finding a woman to be with.
3/29/2015 9:31:48 AM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
a4umposter San Antonio, TX 47, joined Dec. 2014	^^^That's a shame...that you treated them well but they didn't do so for you.
3/29/2015 9:41:48 AM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 48, joined Jun. 2014 online now!	Quote from gavinnall: Well these days.,,,like wild animals possessed with deamonds. Wow!
3/29/2015 9:43:10 AM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 48, joined Jun. 2014 online now!	Quote from doublethree: She is supposed to be treated equally, thus hit if she hits you. Well thats true too.
3/29/2015 10:22:57 AM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
stamina1975 Madison Heights, VA 39, joined Apr. 2012	Treated like a Woman putting up the toilet seat after they finished a tinkle or crap! Considered with respect and not taken for granted.
3/29/2015 10:24:15 AM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
inknpink Castle Rock, CO 29, joined Feb. 2015	I never strive to be equal to a man. That would mean I lack ambition Relax guys, it was a joke!! [Edited 3/29/2015 10:26:12 AM ]
3/29/2015 10:59:14 AM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
josfsd06 Sioux Falls, SD 56, joined Mar. 2014 online now!	What an idiotic question! Women, like men, are SUPPOSED to be treated with civility until they prove that is something they aren't entitled to. Do you live under a rock? You're 49 years old and haven't figured this out yet? Are you intellectually challenged?
3/29/2015 11:32:35 AM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
twining Anderson, SC 23, joined Jun. 2014 online now!	With respect and as an equal. If you find that a woman who asks for this makes the relationship complicated then she's obviously not for you. It's not about an argument or a competition to see who can do things better. It's about knowing what you want and not looking for it where it can't be found.
3/29/2015 12:08:45 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
josfsd06 Sioux Falls, SD 56, joined Mar. 2014 online now!	I went back and read the original post. You need not answer my question regarding intellect, opie. The answer is obvious.
3/29/2015 12:54:46 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
ms_holland Danville, AL 51, joined Mar. 2014	@Dr. you know, I understand the confusion here. Think about it, each woman is raised differently in how she was taught about how a man should treat her. Some women, you go to open a door for her and she glares at you and says, "I am capable of getting the door myself". I personally think that is a rude thing to say to a man who is trying to be thoughtful and considerate of you. I believe a man that does that for me is showing me honor not disrespect. He is saying to me, "I think enough of you to do this for you not because I think you are helpless but because you are special to me." On the other hand, if I am out somewhere and a man is a few steps behind me when I open a door to a store, I will hold it open for him. I am not going to be rude to him and let the door slam on his face. Now down south, when I do that, most men really look surprised that I do that for them. Then they practically trip over their feet to grab the door for me by reaching over my head to hold it for me. See ladies, chivalry is not dead. There are some really good men out there. Dr. I would just go out with ladies who are on the same page as you about how she thinks she should be treated. My fella, is the most kind and generous man I have ever been around. He opens doors for me, holds my hand when we go to stores, makes sure I am not too cold or too hot, etc. He is thoughtful of everything I need. I am the same with him. I look for things he needs from me and do it for him. You see when you truly love someone, you will do everything for them. It is how it is suppose to work.
3/29/2015 4:22:45 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
Offcell Seattle, WA 21, joined Feb. 2015 online now!	Quote from dr_i_got_answer: Everything you said is true and I agree. But if a woman say to me "I want a man who knows how to treat a woman" and I'm just meeting her.... how am I suppose to know coming in how she treats others? That saying is suppose to be a qualifier. That is why you get to know her to see the kind of person she is.
3/29/2015 4:31:31 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
on2wh33ls Davenport, IA 61, joined Jan. 2013 online now!	I often will skip by a blog with excessive expletives but I have to admit that in context you made your point OP. But why so enraged? A woman is being up front in telling you she will not put up with being abused in saying "I want a man who knows how to treat a lady". If you have trouble understanding this then it might be a good idea to read up on etiquette. Lots of great comments on this post and to many to re-quote but I'll try to make my point that seems to be missed in previous comments. It's communication, one of the most significant and most abused element in a relationship. She communicates something you don't agree with in her profile, you either communicate in a way that she can explain in more detail that you might (if your open minded) better understand. If she can't convince you that what she means is what you need to do, then positive communication has been made and you simply move on. As you put it OP, there is no standard across the board with women or men and how they want to be treated. If you have some manners and ability to communicate, good chance she will help you understand better what it means to her explicitly. To shut the door on a comment made, especially one that you have no definite definition, is presumptuous and careless as it could cause you to shut the door on what could be the love of your life. just sayin
3/29/2015 5:25:34 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
credo1970 Morton, MS 44, joined May. 2013 online now!	It's simple really... Stop overusing 'words'. Say fewer of them, and take it less literally when others use them. Language is a very linear 'learned' thing. The brain can fire off billions of neurons in a fraction of a second and process all sorts of stimuli and emotions all at once, but words can only convey one thought or idea at a time. It's very difficult for people to express themselves with words. Stop trying to answer those questions that have no answers and tame your girl! Before people get all ticked at my using the word 'tame', allow me to point out that I don't mean women are horses or dogs to be tamed and taken as prizes. What I do mean is that there is a big difference in taming and breaking, and words are more often used to 'break' people in a relationship than to 'tame' them. If you intend to tame a fox, you simply get where it can see you in a non threatening situation, respect its boundaries, and wait for it to come check you out. You observe it, and it observes you. You don't have to say or hear a single friggin WORD to learn more about each other and your intentions towards one another after only few moments of sharing some 'space'. When a woman says she's looking for a man that 'knows how to treat her', that's essentially what she means. "RESPECT MY BOUNDARIES!" "DON'T TRY TO BREAK ME OR CATCH ME! TAME ME!" "I DON'T HAVE TO EXPLAIN MYSELF TO YOU!" "I'M NOT LISTENING TO YOUR WORDS AS MUCH AS I'M OBSERVING, SENSING YOUR INTENTIONS (body language, tone, and yes, subconsciously, even the way you smell)." "IF YOU SNIFF UNDER MY TAIL WHEN IT'S CLEARLY NOT RAISED TO INVITE YOU, I'LL BITE YOU!" "TAKE THE TIME TO LEARN MY SIGNALS, TONES, AND SMELLS TOO. I don't expect you to know this overnight...just offer me the courtesy of TIME to learn them." "IF YOU SNIFF ME, I GET TO SNIFF YOU BACK!" "IF YOU TOUCH ME, I GET TO TOUCH YOU BACK!" "YOU GET TO STOP SMILING ALL THE TIME? WELL SO DO I!" "EARN MY TRUST!" "STAY OUT OF MY TERRITORY UNLESS I INVITE YOU! RESPECT IT WHEN I DO!" "INVITE ME INTO YOUR TERRITORY, BUT UNDERSTAND I'M GOING TO BE SKITTISH AND SELF AWARE THERE! HOW YOU HANDLE ME WHEN I FEEL VULNERABLE MEANS EVERYTHING!" "I AM ENTITLED TO DEFEND MYSELF OR RUN!" "IF I DO LET YOU TOUCH ME, AND YOU STOP HONORING THE CYCLE WE WORKED SO HARD TO ESTABLISH, I WILL MISS YOU! IT WILL HURT! DON'T BE SURPRISED IF I DON'T LET YOU TOUCH ME AGAIN WITHOUT STARTING OVER!" A man who knows how to treat a woman simply uses who and what he his to tame the people in his life...so that his looks, tones, and smells, whatever they might be fires off in the brain as something POSITIVE to be around. Opening a car door or bringing pretty presents for a woman isn't enough. She can literally SMELL IT if you're not sincere in the action. Men can see and smell and hear and taste as well, so all this works both ways. Both men and women, tend to avoid the sights and sounds and smells and tastes that were painful. They covet the ones that were pleasing, or at least felt non threatening. In short...get your heart, and your priorities for wanting in a woman's space straight, and she will SMELL IT, come check you out, or start sending signals that it's OK for you come just a little bit closer.
3/29/2015 6:52:10 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 48, joined Jun. 2014 online now!	Quote from a4umposter: ^^^That's a shame...that you treated them well but they didn't do so for you. Yeah but thats normal for a woman to be that way. If you notice EVERY WOMAN claims to be the exception if you never dated them before or know of their history to know better. But if you believe her story and date her you'll find NO difference in her and all the others.
3/29/2015 6:59:51 PM	How Is A Woman "Suppose To Be Treated?"?
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 48, joined Jun. 2014 online now!	Quote from stamina1975: Considered with respect and not taken for granted. If this is the definition FINE! But what its saying is MEN SHOULD BE TAKEN FOR GRANTED and TREATED WITH NO RESPECT right? It would habe to if this is how "women" specifically are suppose to be treated.

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