I just received the following email:

"Hi,
I have come across your profile,
I am from Australia, visiting family, who wants to move to Boca shortly,at present I am in residing Miami Beach.
If your religion is Jewish as mine, I would like to correspond with you.
I am looking just as you for a best friend and partner and I love the teaching of Abraham Hicks etc..
Regards,
Belle

Interesting? Scary! Lol...I've met some great people on here as well as learned some good lessons. I enjoy dates that actually get off the usual path of dinner and drinks! A hike, beach walk, kayak or boat ride...maybe even Zipline. How is everyone else's path on here going?

How is everyone else's path on here going?

Interesting? Scary! Lol...I've met some great people on here as well as learned some good lessons. I enjoy dates that actually get off the usual path of dinner and drinks! A hike, beach walk, kayak or boat ride...maybe even Zipline. How is everyone else's path on here going?

me either ..but had a fun day with my friend and her father 2 great people she says she has a crush on me I say I'm not ready he's a nice man love the guy she's so cute I'm a idiot always was always will be the lady just scares me a bit help me what do I do she's only 49 yrs old ....although that is ok for me the younger the better lol...idk know anymore in this world I need counseling on dating .I just don't know Help ..probably asking the wrong people on here..thats why youre all here ....whatever .already know what I'm gonna do

Online dating only works for attractive people. It's a beauty contest; what really matters is your pic. If a woman doesn't like your main pic, she's not going to bother to read the rest. A while back, I got in "trouble" for putting a fake main pic up. I went from getting perved once a month (at best) to about 20 pervs in one day. Some woman was so incensed that she was mislead to looking at an ogre's profile that she flagged me. But my point was proven.

If a woman tells me she's all about personality over looks, I consider her a liar, either to me or to herself. I can't trust her, because let's say she does think that way...what happens when some "hot" guy with personality comes along and shows interest in her? I'm S.O.L, and she's gone with the wind. A woman tells me that, it's "Adios". No sense wasting the time and/or money.

My profile on a different site is 711 words long...nearly 4000 characters including spaces. It describes me. It describes who I would like to meet. It describes my ideal relationship.

So today I get an email that says, "Hey, there. " With all that material to write about, the best she could come up with is Hey, there.

Rejection.
Women fear and/or hate rejection as much as men.

This fear kept me from meeting many men.
We would exchange messages, phone calls, current pictures...all that stuff.
However, when it came time for the actual meet I would get scared.
I was afraid of seeing that look in his eyes when he first met me. The look that said I didn't measure up. I was afraid of being tongue tied and coming across as an idiot.
I was afraid of him suddenly remembering he had to be somewhere and leaving and never hearing from him again.
Low self-esteem? Most likely.

If you come across someone you are truly interested in...be patient.
If she/he is not ready to meet, give her/him time.
Hey, I'm not saying not to keep looking. Just be patient.
She/he just might be well worth it in the long run.

You never know what demons some people might be facing.

I think my latest profile was a good attempt at being "positive", but I'm thinking that something about it still screams "LOSER!!!!", other than my face.

Anyone's thoughts?

However, to know your Self in this way requires you to really look within. You have to examine your life and see what makes you happy and what does not. You need to look at your life as a spiritual path and where things have worked well for you that is where you were on the right track. The universe will always help you when you are working towards completing your missions here on Earth. When you are working against your mission, the universe will throw up obstacles which tell you that you are on the wrong path. All experiences can be used as learning opportunities. If we learn the lesson that the experience is there to teach then we advance spiritually. The more we advance spiritually the more we know who we really are and of what we are capable. The more we know our real Selves the more we realize how wonderful we all really are. It is difficult not to love yourself when you gain this realization. Not only do you love yourself but you realisze that we are all one and you learn to love everyone else too.

This is how I feel about myself. Dating comes easy for me....

Mehhh I have met lots of people on here, some as friends some as more.

I have no expectations this is just free fun and a way to extend your social circle


ohhhh and get laid

Lou: I think your profile is good. A bit long but an interesting read.
One thing bothers me (that probably wouldn't bother anyone else in the world) and that is that you use a comma and "and" at the same time.
It's one or the other.
Good luck.

Well get to digging then. That there Gold ain't gonner dig itself up.

You would be surprised how little appearance matter to MOST women.
At my age I would much rather have honesty, kindness, attentiveness, affection, someone who LISTENS, compassion, thoughtfulness...
Anyone who possesses those traits looks good to me.

Yes...I realize I may come across as shallow because I prefer taller men. That is a preference. I catch hell for that. Damn, I'm almost 5'11. I don't think that is unreasonable of me. Just like some prefer a certain race or a certain weight and so forth. We all have preferences...never means the right person can't change that.
My preferences are not carved in stone.

You would be surprised how little appearance matter to MOST women.
At my age I would much rather have honesty, kindness, attentiveness, affection, someone who LISTENS, compassion, thoughtfulness...
Anyone who possesses those traits looks good to me.

Yes...I realize I may come across as shallow because I prefer taller men. That is a preference. I catch hell for that. Damn, I'm almost 5'11. I don't think that is unreasonable of me. Just like some prefer a certain race or a certain weight and so forth. We all have preferences...never means the right person can't change that.
My preferences are not carved in stone.

She expressed her opinion, just as you did. Your belief isn't fact. Why are you posting as if it is?

I think the reason you are single has more to do with your blatant hostility and negativity than your looks.