Have you considered,

5/16/2015 11:56:13 PM	Have you considered,
purplerider1200 South Bend, IN 61, joined Aug. 2011	That you may not find another mate that you'd like to be with? Did you make a alternate contingency plan for such an occurrence? Or do you plan to lower your standards for the sake of just having someone around? Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
5/17/2015 4:08:33 AM	Have you considered,
cavie59 Enid, OK 58, joined Feb. 2010	That you may not find another mate that you'd like to be with? Yes I have. Did you make a alternate contingency plan for such an occurrence? No I have not. Or do you plan to lower your standards for the sake of just having someone around? I will not lower my standards.
5/17/2015 6:13:28 AM	Have you considered,
debyduh Hamburg, PA 54, joined May. 2014	Yes. I just live my life on my own. I would not lower my standards.
5/17/2015 9:35:09 AM	Have you considered,
jrbogie1949 Ventura, CA 68, joined Mar. 2009	being happy on my own is my contingency plan.
5/17/2015 11:38:50 AM	Have you considered,
pdforone Litchfield, OH 65, joined Jul. 2010	Once I had my dog I was fine with throwing the wife out!
5/17/2015 3:15:27 PM	Have you considered,
widow59 Twinsburg, OH 68, joined Mar. 2008	I'm really not looking if it happens it happens.
5/19/2015 7:05:01 AM	Have you considered,
ladybugruth58 Patton, PA 58, joined Feb. 2014	my contingency plan was being happy with me... and dating till I found a compatible man... and I dated and now I am engaged... marriage is a whole other thread.. im content with engaged and living together.
5/20/2015 12:23:15 AM	Have you considered,
pickygirl72 Pinon Hills, CA 46, joined Sep. 2011	I will NEVER lower my standards. Be alone is fine with me.
5/20/2015 7:11:34 PM	Have you considered,
purplerider1200 South Bend, IN 61, joined Aug. 2011	Quote from pickygirl72: I will NEVER lower my standards. Be alone is fine with me. Agreed. I may find the right one, but not sell out my values just to avoid being alone.
6/7/2015 8:04:08 AM	Have you considered,
mary_e0612 Kalamazoo, MI 59, joined Nov. 2014	I have recently accepted this may be the new me. Single and alone, I don't like it, and didn't want it, but I can and will do it. I will NEVER lower my standards nor myself. I know what I need in life and deserve. If it happens so be it. If it doesn't, that's ok too.
6/7/2015 9:38:33 AM	Have you considered,
avengingangel19 Exton, PA 58, joined Dec. 2014	Quote from mary_e0612: I have recently accepted this may be the new me. Single and alone, I don't like it, and didn't want it, but I can and will do it. I will NEVER lower my standards nor myself. I know what I need in life and deserve. If it happens so be it. If it doesn't, that's ok too. You are absolutely spot on. Tired of the head gamers and liars on this site. The men complain about the women they just as bad if not worse.
6/7/2015 11:40:17 AM	Have you considered,
mary_e0612 Kalamazoo, MI 59, joined Nov. 2014	Quote from avengingangel19: You are absolutely spot on. Tired of the head gamers and liars on this site. The men complain about the women they just as bad if not worse. The 1 I've met. WORSE. I was expected to pay for everything I,done ALL the driving across state, I bought all the groceries, I bought it all. And Steve wanted nothing but a free ride and pleasure toy, while boo hooing about how sick he was. When the lies was thrown back in his face oh buddy the crap hit the fan. East Lansing Michigan area. Bad News.
6/7/2015 1:49:38 PM	Have you considered,
avengingangel19 Exton, PA 58, joined Dec. 2014	Quote from mary_e0612: The 1 I've met. WORSE. I was expected to pay for everything I,done ALL the driving across state, I bought all the groceries, I bought it all. And Steve wanted nothing but a free ride and pleasure toy, while boo hooing about how sick he was. When the lies was thrown back in his face oh buddy the crap hit the fan. East Lansing Michigan area. Bad News. Mid to SE PA bad news. Con artists and head gamers galore.
6/7/2015 2:33:17 PM	Have you considered,
avengingangel19 Exton, PA 58, joined Dec. 2014	Don't list your income. I hid mine in profile. I think this is a magnet for the scammers.
6/7/2015 2:50:57 PM	Have you considered,
oneneednlove Youngstown, FL 45, joined Jan. 2012	I will never lower my standards for any reason. If I'm alone, then so be it. I have my boys who I raise alone with no help. Would I like to have another mate? Who doesn't? But remember, once you've had one that stole your heart away when they left, you will never find it again. You have to get over that loss somehow before you can truly be happy. Whether it's alone or with someone else. We all have the same problem, we all compare to the last, best one we had.
6/8/2015 8:36:35 AM	Have you considered,
tomphoenix53 Huntsville, AL 64, joined Apr. 2015	Looking and Waiting?
6/8/2015 5:25:11 PM	Have you considered,
purplerider1200 South Bend, IN 61, joined Aug. 2011	Quote from tomphoenix53: Looking and Waiting? Yup. But I'm not standing still. I've got no time to sob in my beer. One must depend on one's self.
6/9/2015 2:32:38 PM	Have you considered,
ladybugruth58 Patton, PA 58, joined Feb. 2014	I am considering the temptations being offered.. I don't think I like being engaged..
6/11/2015 1:36:07 AM	Have you considered,
pickygirl72 Pinon Hills, CA 46, joined Sep. 2011	Contingency plan? To live happily ever after in what ever comes my way. I am not thinking too far ahead. I am in school now and that means new opportunities in my future. Who knows whats on my horizon in the future.
6/22/2015 8:50:07 PM	Have you considered,
gentlebear1949 Apple Creek, OH 67, joined Jul. 2008
6/22/2015 10:13:24 PM	Have you considered,
purplerider1200 South Bend, IN 61, joined Aug. 2011	I just got that one on a facebook post.
8/7/2015 4:55:04 PM	Have you considered,
cathyc2012 Philadelphia, PA 46, joined Sep. 2012	Like many others I will not lower my standards....I believe he is out there and I'm ok with waiting for him...in the mean time my life is filled with blessings and I am happy.
8/24/2015 8:39:22 PM	Have you considered,
fixingme New Iberia, LA 62, joined Aug. 2010	I just read a lot of posts about lowering ones standards. What about choosing someone who ranks above any standards you may have? Would you recognize that in a person?
10/1/2015 7:54:34 PM	Have you considered,
cuileann San Antonio, TX 50, joined Aug. 2015	I wouldn't lower my standards. And those standards have to do with the type of person he is.
10/2/2015 8:24:00 AM	Have you considered,
waki_1 Suwanee, GA 51, joined Sep. 2014	I haven't made any kind of plans ... still working on myself ..i I'll probably just go with the flow .. to love someone the way I did my husband will be a challenge..and I'd probably tell my manfriend/lover that and hope he's mature enough to accept me for my fears and give me time to trust him..
10/13/2015 6:41:41 PM	Have you considered,
mtnboy70 Villa Rica, GA 46, joined Oct. 2011	I don't buy into the standards thing. I mean on the face of it, yeah. But you meet someone who is not checking off the things on your list and you fall anyway. The spark rules attraction. I can say I won't date a red headed woman with three kids and works in fast food. Then around the corner she comes. And I am smitten. And my standards and checklist goes out the window. I believe you can't control who you are attracted to. I don't have a plan to find the one. Or a plan if I don't. I just live life. Be happy. Do stuff you like. And you run into folks. New friends to be had. The spark has its own schedule.
10/14/2015 12:22:25 AM	Have you considered,
idliketotalk Punxsutawney, PA 54, joined Oct. 2013	Nope, I've never considered it.
11/5/2015 2:29:30 PM	Have you considered,
giss7 New Orleans, LA 58, joined Nov. 2014	8 Got divorced and raised my standards beyond what I Wenger imagined was possible. I learned that "league" didn't really exist and found a wide I could never have dreamed of. The facts are that here in dh, you do 3 points worse than you can do in real life in the US because of the man/woman ratio. Then if you go over seas. ...ANYWHERE you can find smarter, more educated, younger, more beautiful, more honest, more sincere women than you can in the US. If any one is curious about finding an educated woman up to 20 years younger than you are, drop me a pm. I can explain how to do it step by step.
11/6/2015 4:42:36 PM	Have you considered,
good_dr Spokane, WA 53, joined Dec. 2011	Have thought about it, but not considered it. Get to thinking. Would I really want to put up with that headache? Granted there are some that the lower head says Oh yeah, but the master brain kicks in and says. Oh No you don't. Besides you have to consider more than just yourself now days. Honestly though. I'll always view the menu's, but that doesn't mean that I'm going to order from them. I don't know if it's actually standards, but more of requirements of quality now days.
11/6/2015 6:45:00 PM	Have you considered,
purplerider1200 South Bend, IN 61, joined Aug. 2011	^^^^^ I've always considered the big picture. I won't stop looking, but I refuse to sell my values for anyone. Some, simply can't be without, and will stop at nothing in order to have a lifemate. Consider battered women for a moment. Some will allow themselves to be abused just to stay with another person. That's not a reason, in my book.
11/6/2015 8:54:36 PM	Have you considered,
jrbogie1949 Ventura, CA 68, joined Mar. 2009	i could be abused.
11/7/2015 5:41:52 PM	Have you considered,
wsprs0nthewind Powell, TN 52, joined Mar. 2009	Quote from purplerider1200: That you may not find another mate that you'd like to be with? Did you make a alternate contingency plan for such an occurrence? Or do you plan to lower your standards for the sake of just having someone around? Being single is not a death sentence so it's not the end of the world if it don't happen.
11/7/2015 6:08:02 PM	Have you considered,
purplerider1200 South Bend, IN 61, joined Aug. 2011	Quote from wsprs0nthewind: Being single is not a death sentence so it's not the end of the world if it don't happen. Some think so, but I don't. It's just something that people should ponder on, but don't.

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