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superbx2k
Yonkers, NY
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Him: Hey, why don't you come over for dinner tonight
Her: Why do i have to come over, why can't you take me out on a real date. Stop being so cheap.
Him: Rent $1200. Netflix $10. Dinner $32. Electricity $80. Internet $40. wine $18. Have to say, doesn't sound so cheap to me.
This was something i came across. What are your thoughts? Are dinner dates at home not that interesting to woman anymore? I remember a time where if a man cooked dinner for you, that was something rare and amazing. Is it really now all about the money and how much you can spend on a woman?
Thoughts?
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stanleyzee
Dayton, OH
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New wave...
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| 7/29/2015 10:51:50 AM |
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pdforone
Litchfield, OH
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 Dinner dates at home? No added motel costs! 
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jer3552
Vale, OR
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going bonkers in yonkers...buy her a pretzel
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rocky_dennis
Bethany Beach, DE
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The few times I have offered that, it was accepted with a smile. I don't just invite anyone to my home and there's a comfort level already built.
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| 7/29/2015 10:55:04 AM |
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kawkasian
Beverly Hills, CA
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Him: Rent $1200. Netflix $10. Dinner $32. Electricity $80. Internet $40. wine $18. Have to say, doesn't sound so cheap to me.
Well rent you'd have to pay regardless, as you probably would your electric, internet and netflix subscription.
That leave the $18 bottle of wine....cheap.
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| 7/29/2015 10:55:30 AM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
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Have these 2 ppl been dating for a while ? And how long ?
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| 7/29/2015 10:59:02 AM |
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sandycrabs
Land O Lakes, WI
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I'd rather dine-in with the twins ^.  
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stanleyzee
Dayton, OH
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Some women might think... Home dinner is a trap for sex
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| 7/29/2015 11:00:17 AM |
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fishnthec
Mesquite, TX
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Because she already has a guy to hang out with at his house whenever she wants.
You're the guy she chooses to buy her dinner and a movie!
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sandycrabs
Land O Lakes, WI
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Some women might think... Home dinner is a trap for sex
It is. 
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
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Him: Rent $1200. Netflix $10. Dinner $32. Electricity $80. Internet $40. wine $18. Have to say, doesn't sound so cheap to me.
Well rent you'd have to pay regardless, as you probably would your electric, internet and netflix subscription.
That leave the $18 bottle of wine....cheap.
Sandy...you wld take me out wldnt you ?
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stanleyzee
Dayton, OH
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Crabs... dive in
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sandycrabs
Land O Lakes, WI
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Cleavage I would take anywhere you wanted ! 
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stanleyzee
Dayton, OH
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Crabs & Deuce 
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dixie_dancer
Kansas City, KS
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Him: Rent $1200. Netflix $10. Dinner $32. Electricity $80. Internet $40. wine $18. Have to say, doesn't sound so cheap to me.
Well rent you'd have to pay regardless, as you probably would your electric, internet and netflix subscription.
That leave the $18 bottle of wine....cheap.
Exactly. So an $18 bottle of wine and $32 on groceries - half of that is probably staples that really don't count for the whole cost of the meal. You had to buy a brick of butter but only used one tablespoon. Don't squeak in the cost of the whole brick.
Some women might think... Home dinner is a trap for sex
Then there's this.
Unless you're already at the level of being exclusive and sex is already a part of the relationship.
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
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Cleavage I would take anywhere you wanted !
I know you wld....but I also know....you wld take about 300 others anywhere they wanted...
Z
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helmholtzwatson
Raleigh, NC
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Him: Hey, if I serve you 25 bucks worth of spaghetti & bad wine while you stare at my crappy apartment.....will that make you want to sleep with me?
Her: *face palm*
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rightguyforu92
Naperville, IL
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^^^ Dixie has all the answers folks
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
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Helm
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| 7/29/2015 11:11:23 AM |
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jlyinc
Bemidji, MN
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You sound cheap.
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playingindirt
Eugene, OR
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go over to a mans house that i don't know by myself?
no. I won't do that.
If you're can't afford to go out to dinner do something inexpensive. do something like bike riding in the park. carry something to drink.
there are lots of ways to get know people. If money is an issue find someone that understands that. why would you want someone that just wants to be around you when you have cash on you?
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lilod
Rochelle, IL
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Several things, OP:
-It's either disingenuous or downright stupid to try to pretend that costs like rent and Netflix are costs of a date...unless you were living under a bridge and got an apartment and hooked up Netflix just for your date.
-The vast majority of men whose profiles I see on sites like this and who I encounter in real life bill themselves as "that rare man who can cook and loves to cook for you" or something similar.
-It's a matter of personal preferences, but I don't particularly like other people cooking for me, on dates or otherwise.
-Also a matter of personal preference, but many women aren't interested in going to man's house until there's some history.
-Money has nothing to do with any of this.
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stanleyzee
Dayton, OH
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Deuce ...u be busting folks
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| 7/29/2015 11:16:32 AM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
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I am waiting to see how long this hypothetical cpl has been dating...
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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My thoughts???
after reading too many whine threads from enough, but not all black men. I'm beginning to think whining is an in born trait or something, Or Jessie and the rest conditioned you to whine so much, it carried over into everything else.
for real...
Dude, on a first date, most women are not going to some strangers house.
After things get rolling, its nice to go out sometimes, nice to eat at home.
If you have a keeper, you take each other out at times.
And each treat each other to a home cooked meal.
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| 7/29/2015 11:21:51 AM |
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soulflight
Baltimore, MD
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My thoughts???
Dude, on a first date, most women are not going to some strangers house.
After things get rolling, its nice to go out sometimes, nice to eat at home.
If you have a keeper, you take each other out at times.
And each treat each other to a home cooked meal.
this.
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| 7/29/2015 11:22:48 AM |
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nyythawk
Denver, CO
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Fisrt, telling her all your business is tacky... besides, she probably doesn't care.
If she refuses to come to your home for a meal, she likely doesn't trust you, doesn't feel comfortable alone with you etc.. Rapist comes to mind.
Granted, there are people out here that are all about using you, spending money and so on. They want to be wined and dined... but out in public where people can see them. Several names for them but the most common I think is "gold-digger."
What I think is
1. The only time a woman won't come to your home for a meal or anything thing else is if she doesn't trust you/doesn't want to be alone with you.
2. People want to go out SOMETIME. If you've been seeing her for a while and have NEVER eaten out, her b*tch is legit and understandable. You have to look at your dating history/circumstances with her... not just one instance.
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mustangwriter
Boerne, TX
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I don't see why other than the math equivolent everyone is jumping on this man's case.
Not so many steps from the dining room to the bedroom.
If I'm entertaining at home... there's clean the house spotless, clean linens EVERYWHERE, and nice intimate table setting with candles.
Much easier: Dinner at a nice restaurant and later apologize about the messy house. Heck...how did I know I was gonna get lucky?
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| 7/29/2015 11:30:44 AM |
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kawkasian
Beverly Hills, CA
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I don't see why other than the math equivolent everyone is jumping on this man's case.
Because he was implying it wasn't a cheap move...when compared to going out, it is.
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| 7/29/2015 11:32:29 AM |
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pike45
Omaha, NE
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Some women might think... Home dinner is a trap for sex
Bingo
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| 7/29/2015 11:33:49 AM |
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jer3552
Vale, OR
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My thoughts???
after reading too many whine threads from enough, but not all black men. I'm beginning to think whining is an in born trait or something, Or Jessie and the rest conditioned you to whine so much, it carried over into everything else.
for real...
Dude, on a first date, most women are not going to some strangers house.
After things get rolling, its nice to go out sometimes, nice to eat at home.
If you have a keeper, you take each other out at times.
And each treat each other to a home cooked meal.
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| 7/29/2015 11:36:35 AM |
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stanleyzee
Dayton, OH
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Hi pike
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widow59
Twinsburg, OH
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Fine dining or dinner at home I enjoy both!
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| 7/29/2015 12:14:55 PM |
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holly_z
San Antonio, TX
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It's not all about the money to me. If I know him, dinner & a movie in is fine. But if I don't know him yet, I won't be going over to his place.
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| 7/29/2015 12:15:16 PM |
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mrfckinpetey
Orlando, FL
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When girls i date start pushing to be taken out more, i do so. I kindly show them the door to go out. Cya.
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| 7/29/2015 12:47:51 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
60, joined Apr. 2011
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...I never even noticed OP was black....why is that always an issue with u
Read his site name....what does it say?
Dah????
and can I help it if more than 3/4's of the black men's threads are con jobs or lame or whine threads????
Seems to me...that's their problem and issue.
I flame anyone that's not kosher or lame or whiners....no matter what the gender, color or age.
You can see that by going all thru my history of responses....go ahead and look....read it all too.
and no, I'm not going to give black men special consideration, just because they are black.
Again, if more than 3/4's of them post lame shit.
that's where the blame lies.
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| 7/29/2015 12:50:51 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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and Jer....why didn't you question "them" when several made this barrage of attacks on innocent whites here, after the shooting????...that lasted for weeks.
Surely you couldn't have missed that.
Afraid to tarnish this fake image you have on here???
Afraid to show something with substance, that might rock the boat?
well?
If I see 3/4's whining all the time.
bet your ass, I'm going to notice it...and say something.
Maybe if more did, they wouldn't whine so much.
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stanleyzee
Dayton, OH
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Coney dog... .89cts 
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lunaglider
Edwards, CO
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Some women might think... Home dinner is a trap for sex
That is the exact reason why I invite men to my house for dinner....
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| 7/29/2015 1:22:55 PM |
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stanleyzee
Dayton, OH
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Glide...it's ur twatty
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| 7/29/2015 1:26:22 PM |
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txrose64
Pearland, TX
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going over to a stranger's house for a first date? NOT happening.
here's my thoughts..when you're an US that's fine..after a couple dates..in the beginning, take her on a proper date.
we've all got living expenses and that's NOT what dating is about....at ALL.
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| 7/29/2015 1:33:53 PM |
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settee_m
Dallas, TX
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If I read the op correctly, there was no time frame as in first date or fifth date.
Is eating at home a cheap date? Not if it's done right. The dinner at home can far exceed the expense of a dinner for two at Appleby's.
I've always appreciated those intimate moments with him cooking for me at his home.  In fact, what does it say about a man you're dating who doesn't invite you into his home to cook for you?
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| 7/29/2015 1:35:56 PM |
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gothygoogoo
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he's
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charcoal???
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| 7/29/2015 1:39:04 PM |
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stanleyzee
Dayton, OH
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going over to a stranger's house for a first date? NOT happening.
here's my thoughts..when you're an US that's fine..after a couple dates..in the beginning, take her on a proper date.
we've all got living expenses and that's NOT what dating is about....at ALL.
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| 7/29/2015 2:00:32 PM |
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txrose64
Pearland, TX
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^^well if it become that way Zee...here's your supper cheap b@stard
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| 7/29/2015 2:03:10 PM |
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twining
Anderson, SC
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A dinner date at home is very intimate. It usually means the lights are gonna get turned down and there will be "dessert".
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| 7/29/2015 4:42:37 PM |
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no_einstein
Beaver Falls, PA
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Netflix helping people get laid since 1997
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| 7/29/2015 4:46:15 PM |
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stanleyzee
Dayton, OH
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^^well if it become that way Zee...here's your supper cheap b@stard
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| 7/29/2015 4:50:44 PM |
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browneyz
San Diego, CA
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Some women might think... Home dinner is a trap for sex
They would be right.
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| 7/29/2015 5:11:10 PM |
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masterweber
Baton Rouge, LA
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Him: Hey, why don't you come over for dinner tonight
Her: Why do i have to come over, why can't you take me out on a real date. Stop being so cheap.
Him: Rent $1200. Netflix $10. Dinner $32. Electricity $80. Internet $40. wine $18. Have to say, doesn't sound so cheap to me.
This was something i came across. What are your thoughts? Are dinner dates at home not that interesting to woman anymore? I remember a time where if a man cooked dinner for you, that was something rare and amazing. Is it really now all about the money and how much you can spend on a woman?
Thoughts?
Your electrical bill 80$ ,,wow!!!your internet bill 40$,, extra wow. Netflix I don't believe because mine is 7.99..
I wish my light bill was 80$ ..
Tell that hoe,,it cheaper to cook dinner and plus you can buy three meals with the money you about to spend...
Looking like a duck after you take her out for dinner and the next day you don't have any money and nothing to eat..
Them hoes don't give two shit about you and they everywhere..
A virgin woman could act like a hoe too,, because they follow hoes bad action..
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| 7/29/2015 5:12:19 PM |
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nomorecatast
El Cajon, CA
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My Netflix is 9.99
More devices and accounts.
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| 7/29/2015 5:15:06 PM |
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masterweber
Baton Rouge, LA
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More what???
You don't have a account with netflix???
Just put in your email and password..
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| 7/29/2015 5:24:18 PM |
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masterweber
Baton Rouge, LA
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I see you have to tell lies just to have a conversation,,I going to have too stop talking to you...
I see why they would want a dinner date out in pubic with you...
You have to stop that shit..
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| 7/29/2015 5:26:25 PM |
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nomorecatast
El Cajon, CA
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You can upgrade your Netflix account so you can attach more devices.
I have 4 user accounts and 12 different devices attached to my Netflix
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| 7/29/2015 5:38:34 PM |
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masterweber
Baton Rouge, LA
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You can upgrade your Netflix account so you can attach more devices.
I have 4 user accounts and 12 different devices attached to my Netflix
I have one user account with netflix and 9 different devices with the same user account and password of netflix..
And shit don't be on netflix..
I can go to YouTube and watch real movie..
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| 7/29/2015 5:39:44 PM |
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nomorecatast
El Cajon, CA
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Just checked my plan...I pay 11.99 not 9.99
I was wrong about that part.
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| 7/29/2015 5:43:17 PM |
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masterweber
Baton Rouge, LA
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Back on this meal paid hoes..
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| 7/29/2015 5:52:51 PM |
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stobil
Gallatin, TN
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Your electric bill is only $80?
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| 7/29/2015 5:53:33 PM |
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no_einstein
Beaver Falls, PA
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I'm going to have block you if you keep being coherent
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