| 9/23/2008 12:44:55 PM |
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missmmeoftheday
Brooklyn, NY
age: 42
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here is a bandage for your injured DH nose, arkansas....
and chemistry is all about attraction... and looks are a very big part of that. They are not the whole equation, tho, I will give you that...
if you're hot as hell but dumb as dirt, I personally have no interest in that.
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| 9/23/2008 12:51:53 PM |
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arkansasnman
Fayetteville, AR
age: 45 online now!
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I'm not making judgments about what people should or should not be attracted to.
I am making judgements on the process, though.
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| 9/23/2008 12:55:10 PM |
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atfarm
Murfreesboro, TN
age: 57
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Looks ARE important, but who looks good to you, may not look (be attractive) to someone else.
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| 9/23/2008 12:57:50 PM |
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arkansasnman
Fayetteville, AR
age: 45 online now!
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I'm sorry.
That doesn't have much to do with what we were talking about.
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| 9/23/2008 12:59:02 PM |
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kitise
Greenwood, SC
age: 30
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chemistry is.........ummmmmmmmm..er..............ummmmmmmm
forget it!!!!
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| 9/23/2008 1:03:19 PM |
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whynotme4you
Rainelle, WV
age: 50
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Chemistry is a connection, an attraction, between two people.....it's undeniable.... a force...like a magnet....I like your posts though....you are seemingly intelligent....that's a turn on....
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| 9/23/2008 1:04:10 PM |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35
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I'm waiting for the punch line....
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| 9/23/2008 1:09:11 PM |
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countrysweet77
Bordelonville, LA
age: 47
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its just when two people get along on so many different levels...sex is just one of them
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| 9/23/2008 1:24:55 PM |
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arkansasnman
Fayetteville, AR
age: 45 online now!
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its just when two people get along on so many different levels...sex is just one of them
Hmmmmm.....so why is the "no chemistry" phenomenon only brought up at first face-to-face meetings (read the threads....99% of the time, that is when the term is used)?
People get along fine and have wonderful chemisrty until they see each other?
Feels like a contradiction to me.
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| 9/23/2008 1:29:26 PM |
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bubba19682007
Indianapolis, IN
age: 40 online now!
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Chemistry is a connection, an attraction, between two people.....it's undeniable.... a force...like a magnet....I like your posts though....you are seemingly intelligent....that's a turn on....
If women want chemistry so much then why wont they give guys the chance to make a connection? Espeacialy if they are not a "Pretty boy"
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| 9/23/2008 1:40:30 PM |
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whynotme4you
Rainelle, WV
age: 50
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Are you talking to me, Bubba????I'm confused if you are...cause I don't think you've ever said hello to me or anything.....
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| 9/23/2008 1:48:23 PM |
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bubba19682007
Indianapolis, IN
age: 40 online now!
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was talking in general hun,,,wasnt directed right at you. your right Ive never talked to you before, im irritated because I send out nice emails to women and just want to try to make a connection. when I look at the sent ones, they are just deleted and neer hear a thing back, not even a sorry Im not interested. it gets frustrating sometimes,,,your post was just a jumping point for my comment. sorry if you thought I was talkingdirectly to you. not the intention
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| 9/23/2008 2:22:10 PM |
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arkansasnman
Fayetteville, AR
age: 45 online now!
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"If women want chemistry so much then why wont they give guys the chance to make a connection? Espeacialy if they are not a "Pretty boy" "
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I'm thinking that most people have it in their minds that chemistry is an involuntary thing.......something they have no control over........
This fits well into the concience-salve theory.
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| 9/23/2008 2:42:51 PM |
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bubba19682007
Indianapolis, IN
age: 40 online now!
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thing is though, I still give a chance to women that dont attract me at first,,,its not until I'm able to talk to them a bit do I find that connection. My point is if women dont give you a chance to make the connection, then how do they know that your not someone they might be attracted to but just passed up.
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| 9/23/2008 2:56:26 PM |
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sparks60
Marion, OH
age: 60
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You would be surprised how many people tell themselves that "looks don't matter that much" but down deep part of their self worth is in how attractive a potential partner is to their peers. Nobody really wants to show up with the ugly duckling and introduce them to their friends. If they can bring "prince charming" to the ball then they feel that everyone must think they are more worthy because they have landed a prize catch.
How sad that people of that type miss out on so much available happiness. How many times have you seen a particularly good looking person with someone rather plain and thought "gee, what did they see in him/her"? What you saw was at least one person who truly didn't care about "looks". Or see two rather palin people together who are obviously very happy with each other? Now you ahve seen two people who don't care about looks.
And yes, the older most people get, the less things of that nature matter. I say most because there are always some people who are vain regardless of how old they get. They will never mature emotionally.
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