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10/1/2008 6:15:08 PM |
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topher1498
Saint Petersburg, FL
age: 48
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Hey man I think your confusing dropping your gaurd with changing how you act dont mx up the two
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10/1/2008 6:15:37 PM |
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got_fever
Dallas, TX
age: 29
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when should a person ,"drop their guard"..
seems like , everytime i drop my guard...
something stupid happens....
i'll usually do it, when i feel comfortable
around the person.....but, that hasn't worked out..
things get stolen, lies,etc.....
cruise427
Then you're with the wrong type of person. Be more selective, don't settle for just anyone. Aim higher with the women you choose, you'll see it makes a difference. You're worth it, go for it.
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10/1/2008 6:17:51 PM |
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deedee22801
Harrisonburg, VA
age: 36
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How does that poem go... "Love like you have never been hurt". You really can't judge everyone by past relationships. Each person is different. Sometimes you attract what you are most afraid of.
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10/1/2008 6:24:03 PM |
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got_fever
Dallas, TX
age: 29
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How does that poem go... "Love like you have never been hurt". You really can't judge everyone by past relationships. Each person is different. Sometimes you attract what you are most afraid of.
Well said deedee
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10/1/2008 6:46:06 PM |
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etad52
Aurora, CO
age: 48
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Dang where did my box of crayons go!
I'll admint to keeping my guard up way to long. It is very hard not to do. I have lost some nice people because of it. Sometimes we are just to comfortable in our own world, because that is the one thing we can control.
I believe that we will know when to let our guard down. More than likely,IMO, you will not even notice it when it does happen.
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10/1/2008 7:15:31 PM |
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cruise427
Los Angeles, CA
age: 40
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never drop ya guard
i know what you mean...
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10/1/2008 7:22:03 PM |
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bryneyes174
Loves Park, IL
age: 34
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I understand what you are saying, I am very afraid to drop my guard with anyone. Every time that I have dropped it even for a minute, they do something awful to me.
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10/1/2008 7:23:18 PM |
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cruise427
Los Angeles, CA
age: 40
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I have to agree to certain extent about NOT dropping your guards while dating....but then again you have to be careful while in relationship/marriage. It's depends on a person you're with.......but cruise if you are a magnet for such people maybe you need to re-evaluate yourself (no offense, honestly....I tend to nurture and people takes advantage of my generosity so I stopped by creating my protective boundaries until the good ones are allowed to cross it). Good luck. R
hello..rlds,
sometimes i do seem attract,... theives and liars
just sux, when somebody you like...takes your
"kindness for weakness"........
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10/1/2008 7:30:44 PM |
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cruise427
Los Angeles, CA
age: 40
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My first impression, OP, is to tell you to stop dating thieves, but then again, I have had dates where they took things from me, too. Just be you and take the other person on a day to day basis. No falling in love within 24 hours or any of that stuff. Relax and have a good time. Life is too short to be thinking that the "next one" might be THE ONE. Let them prove it to you first.
JMHO
in the beginning they don't tell me they're a theif....
and they will swear up and down... they didn't take anything...
i takes things pretty slow...
livin' life from experience to experience
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10/1/2008 7:47:19 PM |
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winesong
Bend, OR
age: 88
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I have never lived in fear..
or with my guard up...
how foreign that would be to me.
I believe I have been a good judge of character,
perhaps from my real estate selling background
for many years. In my 20's, I learned to qualify people,
before I drove them around in my car, showing
property endlessly.
Those skills have prepared me for the interaction,
with my choices on a personal level.
Believe that you deserve the best, that life has to offer,
and that you will have the Universe deliver good people to you...
Yes, it is possible. Hang out in places where other good
people hang out..avoid the known trouble spots...
Be Well, and warm your heart to receiving success in
all your relationships.
Wine
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10/1/2008 7:55:16 PM |
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cruise427
Los Angeles, CA
age: 40
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I have never lived in fear..
or with my guard up...
how foreign that would be to me.
I believe I have been a good judge of character,
perhaps from my real estate selling background
for many years. In my 20's, I learned to qualify people,
before I drove them around in my car, showing
property endlessly.
Those skills have prepared me for the interaction,
with my choices on a personal level.
Believe that you deserve the best, that life has to offer,
and that you will have the Universe deliver good people to you...
Yes, it is possible. Hang out in places where other good
people hang out..avoid the known trouble spots...
Be Well, and warm your heart to receiving success in
all your relationships.
Wine
Hello ..Winesong...
i always love reading your posts
... interesting perspective...
Thank You...
Cruise427 ..
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10/1/2008 8:08:26 PM |
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cruise427
Los Angeles, CA
age: 40
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Always 'on gaurd'....
i usually am..... but , sometimes
i do let my guard slip...
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10/1/2008 8:20:10 PM |
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cruise427
Los Angeles, CA
age: 40
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You are far to good of a person to have anything less than the best.Always remember that.
Thank You....
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10/1/2008 8:22:38 PM |
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cruise427
Los Angeles, CA
age: 40
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I only drop it to throw a jab or hook.
i can relate to that....
left hook, always was my favorite...
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10/2/2008 5:26:36 AM |
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bunnyfastard
Craig, CO
age: 49
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After my divorce I had a strong guard up. About a year ago I let it down only for a moment and what do you know? I had the best relationship I ever had. Unfortunately it didn't last but I never would have had that if my guard had been up. I'm starting to let it down again. I may get hurt again but, what the hell, you've got to take chances.
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