10/1/2008 7:13:28 AM |
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cruise427
Los Angeles, CA
age: 40
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when should a person ,"drop their guard"..
seems like , everytime i drop my guard...
something stupid happens....
i'll usually do it, when i feel comfortable
around the person.....but, that hasn't worked out..
things get stolen, lies,etc.....
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10/1/2008 7:16:17 AM |
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1redneck4u
Fredericksburg, VA
age: 37
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never drop ya guard
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10/1/2008 7:17:41 AM |
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dancinglynx64
Reedsburg, WI
age: 44
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when should a person ,"drop their guard"..
seems like , everytime i drop my guard...
something stupid happens....
i'll usually do it, when i feel comfortable
around the person.....but, that hasn't worked out..
things get stolen, lies,etc.....
I hear that. Everytime I drop my guard I get hurt or used or something like that. I just don't get why some people have to do that kind of crap to others.
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10/1/2008 7:17:47 AM |
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susansheart839
Port Saint Lucie, FL
age: 60
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My first impression, OP, is to tell you to stop dating thieves, but then again, I have had dates where they took things from me, too. Just be you and take the other person on a day to day basis. No falling in love within 24 hours or any of that stuff. Relax and have a good time. Life is too short to be thinking that the "next one" might be THE ONE. Let them prove it to you first.
JMHO
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10/1/2008 7:41:00 AM |
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angelleyess
Middleboro, MA
age: 35
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always keep some kind of gaurd up!!!!
live and learn my dear, live and learn.. God knows I have
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10/1/2008 7:44:54 AM |
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rlds
Ogden, UT
age: 49
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I have to agree to certain extent about NOT dropping your guards while dating....but then again you have to be careful while in relationship/marriage. It's depends on a person you're with.......but cruise if you are a magnet for such people maybe you need to re-evaluate yourself (no offense, honestly....I tend to nurture and people takes advantage of my generosity so I stopped by creating my protective boundaries until the good ones are allowed to cross it). Good luck. R
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10/1/2008 9:56:08 AM |
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goddess4no1
Belleville, NJ
age: 41
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Always 'on gaurd'....
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10/1/2008 11:13:48 AM |
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dbestyet
Rio Linda, CA
age: 50 online now!
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You are far to good of a person to have anything less than the best.Always remember that.
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10/1/2008 5:30:07 PM |
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sharolas
Elk Grove Village, IL
age: 38 online now!
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never drop ya guard
Right on Never drop your guard
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10/1/2008 5:31:00 PM |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35 online now!
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I only drop it to throw a jab or hook.
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10/1/2008 5:52:15 PM |
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massagegal4u
Scottsdale, AZ
age: 43
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sorry but I disagree totally......open your heart and let down those guards.....live life with passion and love freely......the problem seems to be that people are so consumed with fear of pain and rejection that they rarely let others get close to them.....what if we all started treating each other the way that kids do before they are contaminated with all the "Crap".......remember in kindergarten when we all played side by side.....sharing our crayons and just going up to each other and giving a hug to a friend for no reason at all? Sure dont set yourself up to be preyed upon but open up again......you will reap the rewards........
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10/1/2008 5:56:36 PM |
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bunnyfastard
Craig, CO
age: 49
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That's why everyone here is single. If you dropped your guard once in a while may-be you could get to know a person better. And may-be even fall in love. Sometimes you have to take a chance.
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10/1/2008 5:57:44 PM |
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massagegal4u
Scottsdale, AZ
age: 43
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my thoughts exactly......now share your crayons everyone! lol
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10/1/2008 6:13:04 PM |
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julie_wildrose
Round Rock, TX
age: 47
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I havent gotten any where near dropping my guard simply because I havent found anyone, but I know that it will not be easy to keep my guard up when I do
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10/1/2008 6:14:22 PM |
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indoubt
Beaumont, CA
age: 33 online now!
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I would love to drop my guard. Its gettin pretty heavy
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