| 10/30/2007 5:41:21 PM |
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bubbadt
Kennedy, NY
age: 65
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Im glad you said that, I was beginning
to feel like the biggest male slut alive
Bubba
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| 10/30/2007 5:44:07 PM |
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peachess
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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I'd like something long term not just casual. 
xoxoPeaches.
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| 10/30/2007 5:48:24 PM |
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harrychronicjr
Phoenix, AZ
age: 27
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i dont think most girls want somthing casual unless they are sluts... ha look on craigslist NSA
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| 10/30/2007 6:12:47 PM |
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kissmenow
Maywood, IL
age: 44
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well I have had not probs at all with any
women...infact I cannot forget one in particular
she invited me over to her place on the very first
date and opened the door to me totally naked....
obviously we had the most satisfying sex ever....
and she made it very clear to me that she would be
monogamous with me as long as I wanted it, but all
she wanted whenever we met was sex sex sex and sex....
and we two had the most wonderful time for more than
1 year!! now that is what I have not found till date
in chicago....not one woman....anyone listenning!!
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| 10/30/2007 6:18:38 PM |
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falcon77
Eugene, OR
age: 42
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Cajun. It's interesting, I had this conversation today with an older friend of mine and I agree with you on this. Sex to me is consummation of love emotions and physical attraction. I just would not sleep around with just anyone.
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| 10/31/2007 4:47:17 AM |
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stellablue
Saint Louis, MO
age: 49
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I'm deciding what I want... good sex, communication is at the top of the list. Those two require an emotional investment by both. I've never had a good "one night" stand. You don't know the person, how can you connect with them or them know what you want?
To me, awesome sex is with someone I care alot about, who has my back, is willing to take what life throws and stick by me in bizarre situations that I don't want to face. To laugh through kisses, watch sunsets while lost, climb to the top of the world in the dark. He challenges me, makes me think AND is as into me as I am him.
Realistically, that isn't going to happen every time I want sex, so I'm trying to figure it out..lol. Got to have a plan to go for it! 
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| 10/31/2007 4:50:55 AM |
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samwise
Bremerton, WA
age: 25
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Id appreciate a woman who comes right out and says "Im in real need of yours or any COK right now" instead of who denies their needs. Its a turn on for me anyway.
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| 10/31/2007 4:53:48 AM |
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sensual_lovr
Great Falls, MT
age: 31
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We do say it men don't listen until their senses are turned on. Sorry fellas its true. Listen closer and you will hear it.
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| 10/31/2007 4:58:21 AM |
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bad_kitty_liz
Omaha, NE
age: 48
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I think most women do not say what they want because they know they will be crucified. Just look at the post about "young girls are too slutty" or something like that. I mean, sheesh, AS IF. Besides that old double standard applies anyway. Men can sex as many women as there d*ck can get hard for, but let a woman try it. She is a wh*re, slut, freak, and the list goes on. Maybe some women do just want a casual relationship without strings attached. There is nothing wrong with that. I have met so many older, mature women like that in my company. They make six figures, have pretty much everything they need or could want, and simply want to have sex from time to time. A few of them travel extensively and do not have time for relationships, so they don't waste their time. I admire women like that. I mean, they have their shit together, do not take any shit, and could give a shit what people have to say about them. Nice!
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| 10/31/2007 6:54:23 AM |
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stellablue
Saint Louis, MO
age: 49
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bad kitty... EXACTLY! My kinda woman. I think we need to be older, wise enough to figure out what we want.
I just went 1700 miles to meet someone I'd talked to for two weeks. Everyone who knows/loves me freaked! I knew what I wanted, made sure I could handle the risks, secured my safety. I thanked them for their concern and went.
Had the time of my life! No matter what the future holds, those moments I will treasure always.
I accomplished many things, got over fears and had it confired that when I plan, I can make things happen...still.
At 49, I'm still learning about who I am and what will work in my life now. Bothers me how the double standard is still so obvious here and in the "real" world. Burning our bras years ago hasn't changed much... 
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| 10/31/2007 7:01:07 AM |
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gator59
Las Vegas, NV
age: 48 online now!
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Kity I like a woman that says whats on her mind. To hell with what society dictates be yourself. If you want it ask. Only way to change a double standard. Oh and btw not all men want sex right then 
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| 10/31/2007 7:12:47 AM |
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eroticartist
West Harrison, NY
age: 48
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I think that the younger guys might think that about a woman. I know that as I've grown older I want to know everything that is on a woman's mind and would love to have a woman that's sexually aggressive like me. I know I express myself alot more easly now
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| 10/31/2007 7:26:28 AM |
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inorbit
Seneca, MO
age: 55
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If sex is what you want then go after it. The hell with what other people think. You don't live your life for them
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| 10/31/2007 7:56:56 AM |
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stellablue
Saint Louis, MO
age: 49
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Sex isn't ALL I want, but I have to be able to talk openly about it.
Sex as "just sex" is easy enough to get. That's not what I'm looking for.
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| 10/31/2007 8:28:21 AM |
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bad_kitty_liz
Omaha, NE
age: 48
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Thanks Stella and Gator!
I may be 26, but I too have my shit together. Sometimes, Ms. Kitty just needs to be stroked without all the drama that comes from a relationship. Do I go out to bars and randomly pick up men?? HELL NO, but I do have one or two ex's that share a mutual understanding of what we both need.
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